April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T16:27:27Z

@1, good thinking with the hastag spam for developing interest groups.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T16:41:53Z

Does the feature work across instances, or only on this instance?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T16:46:42Z

@1 Thanks! My own experimenting seems to confirm that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2017-04-05T17:55:14Z

@Latkes - I'm informed that hashtag searches work across the whole federation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T18:05:12Z

@1 That would be a Content Warning (the cw button)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T18:07:34Z
Testing the cw function...

Did it work?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T18:08:29Z

@1 Yep!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T22:51:54Z

Last Friday we got a case of bananas. We now have lots of fruit leather, three jars of dried bananas, and about 1/4 case of bananas. Next: some kind of shelf stable banana bread?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-05T22:52:57Z

Anyone tried making a shelf-stable dehydrated banana bread/biscuit/whatever?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2017-04-05T22:58:24Z

@Talyaa if we save some, I may eventually rehydrate them for banana bread. But probably we'll just eat them, because they taste like candy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-08T16:56:27Z

Following everyone else who has used the or tags. All three of you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2017-04-08T17:00:38Z

Ah! A search for "bike" reveals a few more people. (oh hey, I should try that one too)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-11-30T06:49:52Z

@Nerdfest The tool you want is a "Crank Puller" (commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Fil). It screws into those threads on the inside of the crank arm, and then you turn the handle (or on cheaper/compact models use a wrench to turn the central bolt-like part) and it presses against the spindle and eventually pops the crank off. Do make sure to thread the puller ALL THE WAY into the threads on the inside of the crank or it will strip out.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-06T04:32:47Z

@ianames I'm late here, but... while mid-drives have a gearing advantage for hills, hub motors can (though most don't) have the benefit of regenerative braking. I have the GRIN All-Axle hub motor on a DIY cargo recumbent delta trike and it has saved me so many brake pads. I only use mechanical brakes in a panic stop or to kill the last little bit of momentum when coasting to a stop. I can set a speed limit and just relax on a long descent instead of white-knuckling the brakes. On hilly terrain it sometimes recovers 20% of power from regen. Also, it doesn't cause any extra chain wear and provides fully redundant power and brake systems. I occasionally take it up a few miles of 10-20% grade, so it can handle a bit of steepness. Er... I didn't set out to write such a glowing endorsement, but it turns out I have thoughts on this subject. I hear mid-drives are good too! I have considered switching to mid because they're usually lighter for a given torque.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-07T18:30:30Z

@ianames I am in California, which is a lot closer to Grin Tech (they are in Vancouver). I order directly from them; they are small enough that I don't think they work with many retailers. They do a lot of international shipping, though: ebikes.ca/shop/support/shippin

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-07T21:52:21Z

After a year of wearing out my first pair of DIY bike tire sandals, I recently made a pair of shoes from old bike tires that I am pretty pleased with! I put some notes online (darinwick.com/tire-shoes.html) but still need a better way to remove the knobs from the tires - cutting them off with scissors or a knife takes a long time! Any suggestions?

A shoe made from cut, folded, and sewn bike tire on a foot wearing a stripy sock.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-07T22:44:34Z

@michelle Fantastic book! Felt like a bit of a slow start to me, but absolutely worth it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-08T01:54:03Z
@wendypalmer@mastodon.au @bookstodon@a.gup.pe Maybe Isabel Allende's City of the Beasts and sequels? YA fantasy/mystery with male and female leads.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-08T06:56:11Z

I learned about the tag today and am posting an old photo to celebrate! It looks like I probably towed that kayak at least 15 miles (round trip) that day. (This is not the longest rig I have ridden - that would be the time we pulled a 16 foot canoe behind a recumbent tandem.)

Person sitting on a recumbent bicycle with a yellow two-seat kayak strapped to the trailer behind it.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-08T17:33:25Z

@CathyTuttle Cool! I used to work at the GoByBike bicycle valet and it was a really fun job. Glad to see they are branching out!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-09T23:23:17Z
@geekaren@mstdn.social @bookstodon@a.gup.pe There are so many books I would like to see on screen, but right now I think Travelers Along the Way by Aminah Mae Safi.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-10T01:09:13Z

@derwinmcgeary I wince/cringe when I can tell my bicycle needs some kind of maintenance. Sometimes it is anticipation of the problem I am exacerbating... and other times it just feels wrong and uncomfortable, which is maybe more what you mean?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-10T05:17:10Z

I have been riding my electric for over a year now, so it is probably time to write something about it on the internet. What questions/topics do y'all think I ought to cover?

Viewed from above: Two recumbent delta tricycles.  The one on the left has a full red cargo box and is towing a trailer with a solar panel on it.  The one on the right has a solar panel mounted above it, several bins piled on the back, and is towing a trailer with several more bins stacked on it.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-10T08:34:51Z

@pqqq Haven't watched any of them yet, but I just came across this video ranking several: youtube.com/watch?v=0iQCANJY-V

(At first I thought you were looking for books, in which case I can personally recommend Under a Falling Star by Jae. She has also edited a few holiday anthologies.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-10T20:46:57Z
I just finished _Witchmark_ by C. L. Polk, and really loved it! Misc. thoughts w/ vague spoilers below.

representation

I rate this a Platinum-Level Bicycle Friendly Book!

I so enjoy reading something where the main character and the general populace all travel by . There was even a bike chase scene! The book did end with the frustratingly common "Oh no, we need to get somewhere fast, better use one of those new automobiles to get there in time" trope... but it turns out the power source for the cars (and other new tech) is horrifically unethical, so at least cars are acknowledged as problematic.

Occasionally I encounter a book with cyclist characters who just "ride their bike" and it feels one-dimensional. The characters in Witchmark, on the other hand, get winded climbing hills, carry stuff in bike baskets, use bike locks, notice - in detail - the quality of other characters' bikes, and have to be cognizant of road rules & conventions for riding with crowds of other cyclists. It felt real, and like @clpolk put some serious thought into it.

Collective nouns

  • "a competence of nurses"
  • "a draft of cyclists"
  • "a curiosity of reporters"

Brilliant! I kept highlighting these as I read. I love entertainingly appropriate collective nouns.

Baker Thief & Witchmark: Our new batteries are made from...

(I am really trying to be vague about spoilers, but it will probably become obvious now.)

Ok, so within a few chapters I was saying to myself "Is aether power really...?" Partly because foreshadowing, but I think also because I read Baker Thief by Claudie Arseneault (@ClH2OArs) a few weeks ago and the premise is similar.

If this is becoming a trope, I think I like it. We need more people saying that high-energy-density technologies are problematic. Electrification and "green power" cannot save us if we do not also reduce our power consumption. Plenty of folks are saying this directly, which is good. But stories shape the way we think, so putting the idea out there metaphorically in fiction is just as important.


@bookstodon

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-11T07:15:09Z

@ClH2OArs

Oh, wow! I meant to check the publication dates and then forgot.

I am glad Witchmark got me thinking of Baker Thief, because I remembered to ask my local library for more of your books. (-: Folks writing and/or characters have my attention and appreciation!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-11T07:16:53Z

@clpolk

I wondered if you were a transportation cyclist, but didn't want to assume. It felt like a level of detail that would come from reflection on personal experience. Anyway, thank you for the lovely depiction of cycling! I was so happy reading it. I described the book to my partner (also a bike person) and then told her you were a cyclist and she said "it shows."

re: automobiles are evil: I guess I picked up on that a little. The discomfort of mages traveling in aether-powered cars mostly had me thinking of carsickness. It's a different mechanism, but I ride in cars so rarely that I find it viscerally unpleasant. Maybe the cars-are-evil clues would be more apparent to people who don't already associate cars with discomfort. (-: Tying it in to cars-as-conspicuous-consumption was a nice touch.

Ok, going to read more of Stormsong now! (Global warming concerns mentioned in a fantasy novel? Yes!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-11T07:19:00Z

@clpolk

I have heard good things about search.marginalia.nu/. They say "Where this search engine really shines is finding small, old and obscure websites about some given topic"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-13T20:12:32Z

@sonyah

Trikes are great for carrying stuff! My partner and I both ride cargo trikes as our primary vehicles. (-:

Obligatory PSA from your friendly internet bike mechanic: Most bicycles sold by big box stores like Walmart are poorly assembled with low-quality components. They are not built to last, and when they do break down they are usually difficult to repair. It's often better to get a quality secondhand bike and have it tuned up by a reputable shop. Depending on where you are, you may be able to find good trikes on Craigslist, at a community bike shop (bikecollectives.org/wiki/Commu), or similar. (End PSA)

Oh, and if you do ever want a shorter bike (not trike), check out folding bikes. The seat usually adjusts much shorter than a regular bike. There are some really nice folding bikes!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-14T19:47:10Z

@kidagreen@mastodon.lol

That Inevitable Victorian Thing by E.K. Johnston

They appear in Soulstar by C. L. Polk (third book in the Kingston Cycle) but are not a major focus.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-18T01:01:06Z

@JeanTangerine@sfba.social

Congratulations!

Are you looking for suggestions for an ebike (or a type of ebike) to get? If so, what is your use case? Will you be hauling groceries? Hauling bigger stuff? Taking it on transit? Carrying it up stairs? How much assist do you want - just enough for the big hills, or enough to keep you going faster everywhere? How far do you want to ride between charges?

Definitely look into cycling safety training if you do not have experience riding for transportation. If you don't have a friend who can help you with this, the League of American Bicyclists trains and certifies instructors. Odds are good you can find an LAB-certified class most places in the US. Check with city & county transportation departments, local bike advocacy groups, and public libraries for bike maps of your region. The best bike route is often not obvious or direct. )-: Local bike organizations (advocacy groups or community bikes shops: bikecollectives.org/wiki/Commu) are a good place to make cycling friends!

If your main reason for going electric is to climb a single big hill, a low-power mid-drive system with a small battery and a throttle could be perfect: Ride it like a normal bike 90% of the time, and use the throttle on the hill. Some systems also allow you to use both throttle and pedal assist (that's what I have). Most also have a speed limit that you may be able to customize - I usually keep mine at ~16mph because I consider that a safe & reasonable top speed for cycling. With the pedal-assist on a low setting, I often don't even go that fast.

Anyway, I hope you find an ebike you enjoy!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-18T07:34:23Z

@sinituulia Any chance you can ID the fabric of my partner's favorite skirt? We have tried a variety of other wool fabrics attempting to replicate it, but most are coarser-weave and less durable.

Photo of a pen (for scale) sitting on a piece of brown plaid fabric.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-18T08:59:53Z

@dariohudon I believe the Rotary Unsmartphone is going to be sold as a kit: skysedge.com/unsmartphones/RUS I am hoping she will get around to posting the parts list, etc. one of these days - right now there is some rough info in the FAQ.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-19T01:23:03Z

@Annalee Wow! Thank you for sharing. This is so much fun to see and is just the inspiration I need, since I have several vest/waistcoat projects in the to-sew pile.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-19T02:13:59Z

@sinituulia Thank you! I realized this evening I could probably also figure it out with measuring and math and research... and it seems to be around 7oz/yd² (220g/m²) and 25-30tpi (10-12 threads per cm) in both directions, which I guess means a threadcount of 50-60? So I think "light" is correct, but the suiting I see all has a threadcount of 100 or more. Now I just have to figure out what that's called and where to buy it. (-: We mostly use whatever secondhand/discarded fabric we can pick up. Trying to buy new fabric with specific properties is a learning experience.

Anyway, thank you! Your post reminded me of this project that has been on the back burner for a while, and it's good to make progress on it again.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-19T05:29:08Z

What pattern would you embroider around these stains to make them look more intentional?

They're on the upper left sleeve of a hoodie made from a very pleasant woven linen/cotton blend. Right now my best idea is a generic outline or starburst pattern, but there must be something more creative! (USB plug for scale)

Woven off-white fabric with a few bright blue stains.  The main one is round and about as wide as a USB-A plug (pictured for scale).  The stain has wicked out a little to make a lighter blue halo around the central dot.  There is a smaller dot above it.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-19T06:04:08Z

@clew I like the beetles idea! Could probably do flowers as well.

I should probably have though more about orientation when taking that photo. My wrist is to the left & my shoulder is to the right. The small dot is pretty much centered in the bend of my left elbow and the larger dot is a little toward the outside of the elbow. The other, fainter splashes of color also lie on a ring around the elbow, so I might be able to do something with that.

Also tempted to try turning the large & small dots into the wheels of a pennyfarthing bicycle, but the sizes & distance between them are the wrong ratio.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-19T19:07:48Z

@sarah Thank you so much!

Most of the time my relationship to the website is "ugh I need to update it more" and it's a nice change to hear an internet stranger say that it is cool. (-:

Mastodon has been good for the website - there is more incentive to post when I have somewhere to share the posts. It feels less like shouting into the void. Currently working on one about solar power for ebikes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-19T22:17:38Z

@FabOnABike@mastodon.lol There are some groups via a.gup.pe like @fedibikes and @mastobikes; I see a lot of posts in what I think is German on those groups, but I think you can filter your home feed by language.

For hashtags, and both get used often. I personally enjoy .

My partner and I snagged @bicycle back when this whole thing was much newer and we occasionally boost & post relevant things there.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-20T00:57:11Z

@sarah Nice! I have so many questions. Do you ride deltas, then? When you say grid-beam, are you thinking N55/XYZcargo-style or one of the industrial systems like T-slot? What sort of solar panels are you planning to use?

Hey, in just two years I have achieved iron-age-level shoe technology with modern materials! (-: I am actually pretty pleased to learn that; thanks for sharing. What kinds of shoes do you make?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-20T01:37:29Z

@sarah Oh, that grid beam! I had seen that and forgotten about it. I was thinking of N55 XYZ Spaceframe n55.dk/MANUALS/SPACEFRAMEVEHIC, which I now realize looks very much like a derivative of gridbeam. I would love to see your build & process!

Looked up shoe photos, iron age ghillies look really neat!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-20T01:59:27Z

@sarah We have been using a 170 watt SunPower flexible panel for each trike. When it's not too cloudy, that is a pretty reasonable amount of power for me and maybe not quite enough for my partner - I go lighter on the assist b/c I am more willing to mess with the controls and my knees are in better shape. I think I average a bit less than 15Wh/mi? It seems like the maximum output voltage is *almost* low enough to give the MPPT charger room to boost the voltage to the 36V batteries' lowest voltage but not quite, because when the batteries are completely dead I have to bypass the charger to get them jump-started. I suspect that would not be an issue with these panels feeding 52 or 48V batteries. (I could be wrong about why it requires the jump-start thing, though, it is just a guess.) So the panels are pretty good electrically!

Physically, the flex panels are a nuisance to design for. They are meant to be mounted on the solid surface of a campervan or boat, not on a frame. I build wooden frames with slight curvature for ours, sacrificing a little bit of optimal sun exposure to get a better stiffness-to-weight ratio. I have also seen people use coroplast or aluminum sheets with holes drilled out to back the panels. My ideal panel would be something like the LightLeaf (lightleafsolar.com/) panels that are stiff but weigh about the same as flex panels. They are pricey, though! I don't currently know of anyone else making a stiff lightweight panel except really dedicated DIYers - most stiff panels seem to be the heavy glass-fronted ones for stationary use.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-20T02:02:35Z

@sarah Soldering & electronics is nice to know. I still remember a lot of misc bits from getting my Ham license but about the only parts I use for solar ebike stuff are Ohm's law and the power equation (power=voltage*current). All our ebike stuff uses crimp connectors, so the only soldering I do on them is occasional custom lights and accessories like wiring in a USB charging port.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-20T02:18:15Z

@kidagreen@mastodon.lol I kept skipping this series because the descriptions sounded a little too violent for my taste and... it was, but it was absolutely worth it for El's 'militant decency'. Thank you for the recommendation!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2022-12-20T02:28:37Z

@sarah Oh, cool! Snowshoe-style trailers sound like a fantastic idea. Are there photos?

I think the only concern there is that the more the panels flex, the more likely they are to wind up with tiny fractures in the cells that will reduce their efficiency. Mark Havran (currently going around the world on a solar recumbent he has been building for 15 years and which looks like something a professional design company would create) lectured me on the subject when we ran into him biking through LA. Apparently he knows a few people who have run into that problem with insufficiently-supported panels - some to the point that they had to order new panels mid-tour. Ours have a little flex and seem to be doing ok, but I worry about it sometimes.

I love the concept of intentional flexibility in bike design generally, though! I have spent a lot of time contemplating tensegrity structures, but snowshoes are a new one to me. Going to have to think about that more.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-21T01:53:52Z

@nerdybutcute@mastodon.lol Sounds like everyone needs a

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2022-12-21T17:17:11Z

@rose_alibi I am the same; it can be a real problem! Someone in our neighborhood set up a little free craft box (like a little free library but for craft supplies) and it has been pretty helpful. BuyNothing (buynothingproject.org/) has also worked well because (at least where I used to live) there was a culture of people saying what they planned to use the thing for in their request. A a SCRAP store (scrapcreativereuse.org/) or similar is great too if you can get to one.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-06T19:56:58Z

@VE2UWY @mediaarchaeologylab Reduce your skin resistance by 10% to click and 15% to scroll. "I'm too stressed to scroll through more political news right now, but if I breathe deeply for a minute maybe I can click over to cute animal pictures."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-07T02:55:39Z
long introduction

:

I for transportation and am especially passionate about bikes that are unconventional due to their function - , , , , , etc. I view bicycles (broadly and inclusively defined) and other car-alternatives as vehicles for social, environmental, and economic change. I also think they're a lot of fun!

(That said, I try not to shame anyone for driving and don't like to see others do so either. We live in a severely broken world and I can't fault anyone too much for adapting to it in the ways that work for them.)

usually feel like home to me. I don't currently work or volunteer for one, but co-organizing the Bike!Bike! Everywhere! virtual conference has helped me stay involved in that community.

There are a lot of things I know just enough about to get myself in trouble: , , , , , , , . I like approaching things through the lens of and whenever possible.

I read a lot of fiction. Mostly SF/F, YA, and Sapphic Romance, but I will venture into pretty much any genre except Horror. I try to post most of the things I read on BookWyrm: @kg6gfq@bookrastinating.com

I've had a license for over 20 years but rarely use it.

Sometimes I go by "D. April Wick"; the "D" stands for Darin. I don't consider it a deadname; it just isn't the part of my name I go by these days. Call me April. (-:

Gender nuance: transfeminine & genderfluid (usually somewhere in the fem to agender range). 🏳️‍⚧️
Pronouns: she/her

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-07T03:12:07Z

@MLE_online @North When I joined in 2017 it seemed like people thumbing their noses at twitter? Apparently there was some notable controversy over the twitter checkmarks around that time: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twitter_

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-07T23:54:37Z

@amateurradioinclusivitypledge Thanks for the reminder! I think I managed to get EchoLink set up properly on the computer; hopefully I'll be able to join tonight.

(I feel odd about connecting via the computer when I have a functional HT, but I didn't find any active EchoLink repeaters near me and it looks like the PrideNet IRLP node is down? status.irlp.net/index.php?node)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-08T18:15:47Z

@brian_gettler Yes! Places like this are an amazing resource.

For people NOT in Toronto, there are similar organizations in a lot of other places. The most comprehensive list I know of is: bikecollectives.org/wiki/Commu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-09T00:39:53Z

@knittingsquirrel

TriSled posts some neat custom recumbent, cargo, and adaptive bike builds on YouTube (youtube.com/@TriSled) and their blog (trisled.com.au/blog/)

Looks like the Bikeyface webcomic is no longer updated, but it is a good read (bikeyface.com/)

I occasionally post videos about unusual bikes on YouTube (youtube.com/channel/UCn9DkGHAT)

I have been co-organizing the Bike!Bike! Everywhere! online conference for a couple of years now and we post videos of most workshops to archive.org/details/@bikebikee Not all of them are interesting to the general public, but here are a few highlights:

Wheelchair Maintenance Workshop: archive.org/details/bbe-2021.1

RADS - a queer feminist collective in Vienna: archive.org/details/bbe-2021.2

Creative Reuse in the bike shop: archive.org/details/video18622

What to do about Built-to-Fail Budget bicycles: archive.org/details/BBE2021.18
(and a followup the next year: archive.org/details/2022.16-en)

Bici Fanzine & Playas Ride - a grassroots feminist advocacy initiative in Tijuana: archive.org/details/2022.7-en

There are Spanish-language recordings available for most workshops as well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-09T18:20:38Z

@sabogato Same and same. I can keep up with my home feed now, but it feels too much like being in a bubble.

Yesterday I learned that it is possible to hide boosts from specific people, but haven't yet worked up the enthusiasm to go through all my follows and evaluate who is boosting things I want to see but not boosting so many things I can't keep up.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-09T18:32:14Z

@asha@mastodon.lol My default is a heavy calf-length wool half-circle skirt over pants/leggings, and if it is cold enough a long coat tailored to imply that I have a waist.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-09T19:24:20Z

@sabogato A separate feed for boosts would be perfect!

Seems like the main Mastodon dev team is slow to implement feature requests, but I am going to file an issue with the glitch-soc fork since that is what my instance uses and they may be quicker to implement new features.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-09T19:29:11Z
re: fediblock meta, mention of bigotry

@sabogato Huh. I guess I don't follow people who are boosting fediblock posts. That sounds like it would be a lot to take in.

Would filtering help? fedi.tips/staying-safe-on-mast

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-09T21:22:05Z

@sabogato Feature requested github.com/glitch-soc/mastodon

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-11T01:10:56Z

@amateurradioinclusivitypledge @salad_bar_breath There are private mail receiving/forwarding/scanning services that allow many recipients at the same address. I have used physicaladdress.com and it looks like they offer "unlimited recipients."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-11T20:40:33Z

@aBirdieOnaWire @rooster @HannahSometimes@ohai.social

"They quietly sit and take in the conversation."

That's me! Generally in life (see also: social anxiety) and specifically in that I have a lot of gender stuff to figure out and following along with conversations about it is helpful right now.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-11T20:48:01Z

@kidagreen@mastodon.lol The Steerswoman books by Rosemary Kirstein.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-12T04:12:57Z

@kidagreen@mastodon.lol Also, now I'm starting This is How You Lose the Time War, because the last time you recommended something that was on my to-be-read list (Scholomance) it was excellent. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-12T05:25:09Z

24 hours ago: I did a crown braid! it worked! I was even able to weave the ends back in so it holds together without pins or elastic!

2 minutes ago: Time to unbraid, just gotta find the ends... um... where did they go?

I'm sure I'll be able to undo this eventually.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-13T17:11:59Z

@uxmark Glad someone has written about this; thanks for the link!

"every bike event involved alcohol" / “'I stopped drinking, and the phone stopped ringing'”

I don't drink*. I once dropped out of a local advocacy group because it only ever met in bars. I haven't connected with a lot of bike people who could have been friends because every time they socialized it was at a bar, or at the shop with beers.

In the Community Bike Shop and Bike Advocacy worlds I still hear people talking about bringing beers to volunteer board meetings like it is totally fine and normal. (Right! Unless one of your volunteers doesn't feel comfortable around alcohol and/or drunk people. Oh, you would stop the beer-at-meetings thing if they told you? Ok... but consider that they might not feel comfortable opening up and telling you all about that, especially when they routinely see you with a beer in your bottle cage. Also, recreational drugs and nonprofit administration are maybe not a wining combination.)

I get pretty frustrated about this sometimes.

* mastodon.social/@katrinbretsch

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-14T00:25:04Z

@hack 👍​ I was just using a multitool on a sewing project last night myself!

The clips are clever; I am going to try to remember that...

What is the material?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-14T00:47:43Z

@billyjoebowers @jeremy_ai@masto.ai Bike lanes on side streets help with safety, but most of my destinations are on the main streets so wayfinding is a constant challenge if I don't know the area well. Which cross-street is closest to the store? Does it have a safe crossing to the side of the street the store is on? Will this bikeway continue to run parallel to the main street I am following, or will it suddenly end and dump me into a deathtrap of an intersection with no warning? Does it connect to another bikeway eventually? (Saw a lot of this in PDX)

My partner and I put full-size orange&reflective "slow moving vehicle" triangles on the backs of our recumbent trikes before our last long trip, and those seem to make a difference. Not that we should need them! Cars, car-centric infrastructure, and the mindset that prioritizes car convenience over everything else is the problem. But the triangles seem to trigger a "slow down" response in some drivers instead of the common "ugh, a bike, zoom past it" response.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-14T00:50:06Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai @billyjoebowers Recent post w/ link to study confirming that no, a line of paint really doesn't work: mastodon.online/@BrentToderian

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-14T16:30:56Z

@civicDetroitDan Oh, that's a neat program!

I found it interesting that the org's advocacy and communications director said that "bike-powering Christmas tree removal helps the city tackle important sustainability goals like cutting down car emissions."

I usually think of it the other way around - sustainability goals help us tackle problems like car-centric design and under-investment in transit and bike infrastructure. His framing is probably a lot more relatable for non-cyclists, though!

I will have to remember that for future advocacy communications. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-14T17:12:24Z

@salad_bar_breath Nice! What might the petition outline & research list look like?

I don't know much about the best way to structure a petition, but a little brainstorming for the research list:
- Sources to cite on how much doxxing harms people and how much it is a deterrent to people wanting to join things that will share their public info
- Sources to cite on why allowing people to use a preferred name is beneficial and people are more likely to join things if they can use their preferred name
- Quotes from ARRL (and other voices commonly understood to speak for ham radio) saying they value inclusivity and want to make the hobby accessible to more people
- Something about how involving a more diverse population increases technical innovation (somebody must have studied this in other fields, right?) and technical innovation is one of the purposes ham radio is supposed to serve

I guess I am assuming that the basic argument of the petition is "Hey FCC, you should do these things. They are consistent with your stated goals for ham radio and lots of hams agree that they will benefit the hobby. Hams, you should sign this petition because these things will be good for the hobby and for you as an individual ham, and for all those cool people out there who might want to become hams." Does that sound right?

I figure if we can break it down into smaller tasks, we can split them up among everyone who is interested?

Er, should something like this go in the git repo somewhere?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-14T22:17:00Z

@salad_bar_breath Excellent. I just made a pull request with the same basic content as that post but organized a bit differently. Everything in () needs research/citations. I do not expect to have time to work on it more this weekend; hopefully other folks will pitch in.

I do plan to be on the net tonight, yes! Looking forward to it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-14T23:49:58Z

@faithisleaping Cute! Looks pretty well-constructed, too. I may be experiencing some bag envy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-15T03:29:52Z

@rooster YES.

Related and slightly stranger tip: My partner and I got a pet around the time we started encountering more nonbinary people in our social groups, and we used they/them pronouns for the pet. We adapted to using they/them REAL fast, and when we got the pet's pronouns wrong it was no big deal. Plus it is a low-consequence way to introduce nonbinary pronouns to other people and gently pressure them to practice.

Now that I'm considering different pronouns for myself IRL I am very glad we already laid some of that groundwork with our friends and family.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-15T18:31:24Z

@benjancewicz "How much public space we've surrendered to cars (Swedish artist Karl Jilg)"

- Drawing of the intersection of two city streets. The buildings and sidewalks are normal, but instead of the streets where cars would drive there are deep cement-sided chasms. People walk alongside them and someone is crossing the gulf on a wood-plank bridge at the corner. In the foreground, a child runs close to the edge of the dropoff while a parent holds their hand. In the background several people wait near the edge for a light to turn so they can cross another plank bridge.

Drawing of the intersection of two city streets. The buildings and sidewalks are normal, but instead of the streets where cars would drive there are deep cement-sided chasms. People walk alongside them and someone is crossing the gulf on a wood-plank bridge at the corner. In the foreground, a child runs close to the edge of the dropoff while a parent holds their hand.  In the background several people wait near the edge for a light to turn so they can cross another plank bridge.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-15T22:11:01Z

@rune I will be watching this for other suggestions!

For now... digs through ereader

  • That Inevitable Victorian Thing by E.K. Johnston is steampunkish alt-history, kinda tense at times but a quick read and positive overall and very queer
  • The Heartbreak Bakery by A. R. Capetta is a sweet YA novel about baking magic and trying to save the local queer coffeeshop
  • The Perks of Loving a Wallflower by Erica Ridley is Regency?-era historical fiction with a lot of adventure hijinx and a genderfluid protagonist (part of a series, but I read it before the prequels and it was fine as a standalone)

...plus a ton of sapphic romance/romcom, but I don't even know which to recommend, except that my favorite authors for lighter ones right now are Jae, Meryl Wilsner, and Ashley Herring Blake.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-16T00:15:31Z

@rune Most welcome! I enjoy telling people about the books I like. (-:

Just requested from the library those two romcoms you mentioned and noticed they are both fake dating... To anyone who wants more of that, I recommend Jae's Just for Show and The Roommate Arrangement (preferably in that order because they share some characters) and Adiba Jaigirdar's YA novel Hani and Ishu's Guide to Fake Dating.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-16T02:40:29Z
re: acespec-musing, imposter syndrome

@salad_bar_breath "Does it matter since this label more just functions as a way to communicate how my sexuality exists in a psychosocial way?"

That's about where I'm at with greyace. I could probably find a few microlabels that would be more precise, but (1) usually all I want to communicate is that I don't match common societal/allo expectations and (2) hardly anyone would recognize the microlabels anyway.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-16T04:04:23Z
re: acespec-musing, discussion of compulsory (hetero)sexuality

@bri_seven @salad_bar_breath Eh... I don't know what is normal/average/common. I am maybe not the best person to try to explain anything about this, since I mostly relate to it in terms of "my level of interest in sexual attraction has never matched that expressed by most of my peers."

That said, societal expectations from the perspective of someone socialized male in a social context where heterosexuality is the presumed "default"...

I heard a lot of "the male brain thinks about sex every 7 seconds"-type nonsense, even pretty progressive parts of the US West Coast in the last few decades. Assumptions that any mixed-gender friendship has a sexual attraction component, at least on the male side. Expectation that guys are always interested in sex and would always respond positively if propositioned.

It seems to me like the above is exaggerated from what most people actually experience, but... the gist of it seems to be that sexual attraction is kind of an everpresent factor for a lot of people, that seeing someone and being sexually attracted to them is a common thing people experience. Also that many/most people just have net-positive mental associations with sex. (aceness is certainly not the only explanation for having net-negative associations with sex, of course)

It's been a while since I read anything on the topic, so mostly I remember it in terms of reading Ace by Angela Chen and reacting with "Oh, so all that weirdness is called Compulsory Sexuality? And allosexual is the term for people who think it's perfectly reasonable? Ok, well, that isn't me."

Compulsory sexuality is definitely also a thing for women and nonbinary folks, and definitely exists outside the context of compulsory *hetero*sexuality, but I have far less personal experience with those aspects and didn't think they would apply to me back when I was reading up on it.

phew, that was longer than I anticipated. Er, if you want more start with Ace if you haven't read it? I think Angela Chen explains things way better than I do, she probably cites actual data and research, and she definitely covers perspectives besides hetero-cis-male.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-16T05:58:59Z

@Kleen Ugh, lap-puddles. And generally puddles anywhere there's a fold in the raincoat. And then it soaks through the zipper and starts dripping...

We got really into wool outer layers when we lived in PDX. (thick coarse army surplus wool pants and old overcoats, not fancy thin stuff) They eventually soak through if it pours on you long enough, but at least they stay warm.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-16T20:03:04Z

@cedar Darn Tough (the wool socks with a warranty!). I try to keep an eye out for better-quality work/hiking boots at thrifts stores & in free piles, they are usually a mix of leather and canvas and can be waxed.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-17T19:12:23Z

horse project is successful! I am a bit pleased to discover that I can still fold kinda complex designs, but most of the credit belongs to the amazingly well-thought-out pattern/instructions ("Horse" by Hideo Komatsu). So many times I braced myself for a challenging fold only to discover that it was thoroughly pre-creased and fell right into place. (Blue horse was practice, black is final)

A black origami horse in the foreground and a blue one in the background, both standing on a sheet of flower-patterned paper.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-17T21:32:01Z

@pixelpaperyarn Wow, that was brilliant! Talk about taking advantage of the digital medium...

Perfect timing (hah!) too, since I was halfway through the book when I saw this recommendation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-17T22:59:17Z

@rooster Yesterday I jokingly said to myself "I'm KonMari-ing my gender." The epiphany came later: That is precisely what I'm doing - embracing the parts that I enjoy and letting the rest go.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-20T16:56:45Z

@ohmrun@mastodon.social Electrical tape might work in a pinch. Double-layer masking tape does too. Narrow duct/gorilla tape is the best I have found, though - pretty much equal to proper rim tape. Good luck with the wheel build!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-21T02:50:50Z

has apparently decided (again) that walking/biking through a small tent city is more dangerous than walking/biking on a high-traffic 35mph road, so they closed one of our major off-street paths. Anyone have actual statistics comparing the two? Because I owe my county Supervisors a letter, and I'd like to give it some punch.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-21T02:57:05Z

Because I know I can pull together citations for "a 35mph road with worn-out paint on the bike lane is really dangerous" and also "trying to clear encampments is costly and ineffective and above all REALLY HARMFUL to people who need support." Got those two arguments pretty well covered.

But I am relying entirely on gut feeling and personal experience for "walking through a tent city is not particularly dangerous," and I would like to preempt the rampant NIMBYism and fear-of-homelessness around here.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-21T18:27:24Z

@lioracle Of course! It's like how ~15% of all "Dead End" and "No Outlet" signs are missing the second sign underneath that says "for cars".

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-21T18:38:40Z

@benfulton Thanks! It's a good start, at least.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-22T02:20:25Z

@lioracle Oh, I wish! (I was thinking specifically of "dead end" streets that connect to paths or have bike/ped cut-throughs to other streets. I've seen a lot of those in some cities, but relatively few where I live right now. *sigh*)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-22T15:53:56Z

@errbufferoverfl Sounds like a good book!

Further inspiration, if needed: have you seen the Department of Unauthorized Forestry (youtube.com/watch?v=vvtqKMxZ95)?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-22T16:33:32Z

@bike Oh... it took a few readings to parse what you were saying. You mean I've shifted your idea of what a "complex" bike looks like so much that this one looks perfectly ordinary? Because I guess I can take credit for that. (-:
@davewalker

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-23T03:26:06Z

/ project: I am attempting to draft a vest pattern per the Keystone Jacket and Dress Cutter (a women's tailoring guide from the late 1800s). Made it a little past the halfway point and there are two problems: First, I think my underarm measurement is wrong. Second, I don't have sufficient bust/waist differential to justify the darts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-23T03:28:01Z

The Keystone guide is on archive.org: archive.org/details/keystoneja

Inspiration for this project, perhaps unsurprisingly, came from a Bernadette Banner video on YouTube: youtube.com/watch?v=THzNFKwrIO

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-23T03:32:01Z

Options for going forward:
1) Continue the vest as-is. Combine the two darts into one, and hope the underarm measurement works out.
2) Re-measure and plan to pad the bust (even more than it would be padded by the pockets I'm going to put there).
3) Divert from this project and work on something corset-ish instead so I actually have a bust/waist differential to work with.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-23T07:09:28Z

Ok, time to call it a night but I got back to roughly where I was before with a more reasonable under-arm measurement this time and I think I can add enough in the bust to justify darts.

Also just noticed about the basic Keystone pattern: Collar dimensions are apparently proportional to the bust measurement. Why?

Grid-line sewing pattern paper with two partial rough vest patterns drawn on it. On top of the paper rest a notebook, calculator, and flexible measuring tape.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-23T16:41:20Z

@clew Yeah, I get that it should be proportional to something, I just expected it to be proportional to a measurement of the neck or shoulders. I guess maybe this is good enough as a rough starting point, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-23T19:37:34Z

@ellie @JohnnyCiocca I have only cycled in below-freezing weather a few times, but when I did it was with pogies and light gloves. They worked surprisingly well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-24T21:31:33Z

people: We are starting a weekly Language Exchange for the bike community to learn from each other and build bilingual skills. You are invited!

Practice English or Spanish and help other learners in a friendly atmosphere. Participants speak half the time in English and half in Spanish. Beginners welcome.

Wednesdays
@ 4pm Pacific / 5pm Mountain / 6pm Central / 7pm Eastern / 9pm Chile

Sign up: forms.gle/CmPeahjASHGmVdvF7

(en español: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1097463)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-24T21:32:27Z

- Estamos iniciando un Intercambio de Idiomas semanal para la communidad ciclista con ganas de aprender unxs de otrxs y mejorar nuestra competencia bilingüe. ¡Te invitamos!

Practique inglés o español y ayude a lxs demás que están aprendiendo en un ambiente amable. Lxs participantes hablan la mitad del tiempo en inglés y la otra en español. Están bienvenidxs lxs principiantes.

Miercoles
@ 4pm Pacific / 5pm Mountain / 6pm Central / 7pm Eastern / 9pm Chile

Inscríbete: forms.gle/CmPeahjASHGmVdvF7

(English post: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1097463)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-26T21:49:24Z

moments: Wearing baggy shorts, but bringing a skirt & leggings. Just in case.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-27T22:23:55Z

@alpinejoe Yes to all of the above.

Also, the cars mostly just say "HOOONK!" and "vrooom." Homeless folks (like other path users) are much more likely to say "Hey, cool bike!" or even just "'sup." It is so much more pleasant.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-28T00:14:45Z

@angry_hagfish Sounds like a good deal to me... I got a secondhand wheel several years ago from a yarn & spinning shop for $50 US, but it needed a number of small repairs. Never did spin much with it and never got it 100% fixed, but it was fun!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-28T16:32:07Z

@angry_hagfish Congratulations! You have won today's award for "Best Secondhand Find." Your prize has already been delivered, we hope you enjoy it! (-:

Really, though, that's so neat! Glad it worked out well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-28T22:04:39Z

/ project continues: Got the Keystone-based vest pattern transferred to fabric and sewn together. It fits pretty well! Next steps will probably be figuring out the collar and attaching a zipper.

I didn't pay any attention to the stripes on the fabric when laying out the pattern, hence the noticeable asymmetry on the back. (-:

Front view of a person wearing a mockup of a snug vest cut from white/yellow/green striped fabric. The vest is held together in front with pins, and the collar is unfinished. Also a grid-patterned skirt.Back view (in mirror) of someone wearing a mockup of a vest cut from white/yellow/green striped fabric. One side has bolder green stripes diagonally from shoulder to center of waist; the other side has more muted yellow diagonal stripes.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-30T05:54:24Z

@alienghic @glightly @JasonAller GRIN Tech also has some good articles in the "Learn" section of their website (ebikes.ca/learn.html) and they are pretty friendly about customer support. If there's a possibility you might buy anything from them you could probably email and ask for advice.

I learned a lot of basic electronics studying for a license. Some of the study guides can be pretty test-oriented, but I bet a few of them have good basic electronics sections. Maybe a more recent licensee can recommend something specific?

If you're thinking about solar for e-bike charging, Mark Havran has the best guide I know of and covers the electrical aspects in some detail: solare.bike/technical-stuff/ (does assume some basic electronics knowledge)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-30T06:11:04Z

Patched a bunch of old tubes today, and this was my favorite puncture. X marks the spot!

An inflated bicycle inner tube, with text printed on saying "20 x 1.75/2.25 A".  There is a small red dot drawn on the photo on one arm of the x, labelled "The hole"
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-30T06:52:47Z

@smellsofbikes A little tube for a big 'bent!

Two recumbent cargo tricycles. Both are delta trikes (one wheel in front, two in back) with cargo boxes between the rear wheels. Both have small "roofs" mounted over them, held up inverted crutches and other aluminum tubes. (It isn't apparent from this photo, but there are solar panels on the roofs. The trike in the foreground is shorter and has a red/black color scheme, the one in the background is more yellow/orange, is longer, and has more stuff piled on top of the cargo box.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-30T18:04:17Z

@smellsofbikes The one in front is a FlevoTrike but it's pretty heavily modded in this photo. Since then we moved the solar roof to a trailer (it was too top-heavy) and switched back to the smaller stock trunk. The one in back is entirely DIY; it is my attempt to improve on the Flevo design, though it uses Python Lowracer steering geometry.

The steering/tilting is really fun once you get the hang of it. There are two pivot points in the frame. One allows everything forward of the seat (that is, the front wheel & cranks) to swing side-to-side for steering, so you steer with your legs. The other allows the seat and everything forward of it to tilt (handlebars do not tilt, so you have control of the tilting and can hold yourself upright when stopped). Tilting is great for high-speed turns, and also for riding on crowned&cambered roads - you can stay upright even when the surface under you is slanted.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-31T21:16:39Z

@dr_a @jasonw22 @loriemerson I can confirm that this occurs in volunteer settings as well; hence the need for Volunteer Responsibility Amnesty Day (created by @brainwane).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-01-31T21:19:43Z

@dr_a It is! I'm not yet very good at celebrating it. 😅​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-01-31T21:31:11Z

"The recycle bin has turned into a puzzle game and needs to be taken out before someone loses."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-01T01:09:56Z

@ansate Please tag me too!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-02T04:49:23Z

Tuvimos nuestrx primer intercambio de idiomas para la comunidad ciclista hoy, y ¡nos divertimos mucho! Hablamos de nuestxs bicis favoritas, viajes en bici, y como es montar en bici en los lugares donde vivimos. Ivonne (instagram.com/bizi_fanzine__ro) nos informó sobre el Foro Mundial de la Bicicleta y la rodada pre-Foro en Tijuana que ocurrirá el 5 de Febrero. Espero que más personas llegarán para el intercambio el miercoles que viene a las [4pm Pacific / 5pm Mountain / 6pm Central / 7pm Eastern / 9pm Chile].

Inscríbete: forms.gle/63WbicKbC82du3uV6
o simplemente únete con nosotrxs en Zoom el miercoles: us02web.zoom.us/j/85675444594?

Texto en español: 
HABLEMOS DE BICICLETAS / encuentro virtual
INTERCAMBIO DE IDIOMAS
Miercoles 21hrs (GMT-3)
Inscríbete

Imagen de fondo: Alguien andando en bici con mapas de las americas al lado

Text in English:
LET'S TALK ABOUT BIKES / virtual meeting
LANGUAGE EXCHANGE
Wednesday 16:00 (PST/GMT-8)
Sign up

Background image: Someone riding a bike with maps of the Americas to the sides
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-02T04:51:17Z

We had our first bicycle community language exchange today, and we had a lot of fun! We talked about our favorite bikes, bike trips we've taken, and what it is like to ride in the places where we live. Ivonne (instagram.com/bizi_fanzine__ro) updated us on the World Bike Forum and the pre-Forum ride in Tijuana that's happening Feb. 5. I hope more people will come for next Wednesday's language exchange at [4pm Pacific / 5pm Mountain / 6pm Central / 7pm Eastern / 9pm Chile].

Sign up: forms.gle/63WbicKbC82du3uV6
or just join us on Zoom on Wednesday: us02web.zoom.us/j/85675444594?

Text in English:
LET'S TALK ABOUT BIKES / virtual meeting
LANGUAGE EXCHANGE
Wednesday 16:00 (PST/GMT-8)
Sign up

Background image: Someone riding a bike with maps of the Americas to the sides

Texto en español: 
HABLEMOS DE BICICLETAS / encuentro virtual
INTERCAMBIO DE IDIOMAS
Miercoles 21hrs (GMT-3)
Inscríbete

Imagen de fondo: Alguien andando en bici con mapas de las americas al lado
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-02T05:59:11Z

@faithisleaping @Impossible_PhD @assumptionprime Oof. Thanks for the links. I'll just go ponder some of that...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-03T02:20:42Z
re: Bumble - Vegan shitposting

@salad_bar_breath Well, people routinely assume that I'm vegan even though I'm not (quite).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-03T02:40:18Z
re: Bumble - Vegan shitposting, drug mention

@salad_bar_breath Nah; just ride a bicycle, look a little scruffy, and live on the West Coast. Bonus points for looking gender-nonconforming and/or wearing clothing made from natural fibers. (This strategy is also effective for making people ask if you have some weed they can buy.) :eyeroll:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-03T16:47:11Z

@sous_mon_masque Congratulations!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-04T00:51:47Z

@astranoir If you know anyone with a dog/cat that sheds heavily, I hear "cheingora" and "chatgora" are very warm, though they may be difficult to spin unless blended with something longer-staple and/or grippier. Maybe with cotton or linen? I have only spun very short samples of it myself.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-05T00:00:39Z
re: demand avoidance, cptsd recovery, hoisting yourself out of the pit

@forestine Thank you for posting that link! Good to know there is a name for the thing I've been fighting for years.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-05T17:13:22Z

@asha@mastodon.lol That's pretty much where I am at right now. I'm AMAB but my internal sense of gender seems to range from feminine to agender.

On agender days I feel like it's all a bit much and I ought to just get on with life - I've done just fine that way for 30+ years. On feminine days the idea of social and hormonal transition sounds like something that would bring me so much joy, how could I not go through with it?

It's hard for me, too, to know whether the agender days are driven by actually feeling differently about gender or by imposter syndrome ("I don't have that much dysphoria") and fear of the social consequences.

A few days ago I started tracking my feelings about gender identity in a nightly journal entry in the hope of having some perspective, since I have a hard time connecting with the emotional state re:gender I was in on a previous day.

I'll second Symptoms of Being Human as an excellent book, though I had difficulty relating to it because the main character has way more apparent dysphoria than I do. I know it gets linked a lot and is more general, but genderdysphoria.fyi/ was immensely helpful for me to read.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-06T03:34:28Z
re: Fiberuary, spinning

@living_largely_liminally That is my favorite spinning book! I love Franquemont's writing.

Also, your winding-on looks very tidy. (I find that impressive; I don't know that mine has ever been that nice even with the aid of a Turkish spindle.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-07T21:46:25Z

@TechNews Glad to see they linked to something about Mark Havran at the bottom of the article. His "Technical Stuff" page (solare.bike/technical-stuff/) is the best resource I know of for anyone wanting to DIY their own solar e-bike.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-07T22:52:47Z

@Impossible_PhD An hour ago I would have said Fern, after my paternal grandmother, was the runner up and I just preferred April by such a wide margin. I would have added it as a middle name and, following a tradition started by my grandfather "H. Ward Wick" who hated his first name, gone by "D. April Ward Wick", which is a pretty amusing set of initials!

Then my partner woke up from a nap and said "I realized while I was dreaming that the problem with April is it sounds so similar to my own name that it's one of the two other names I have learned to respond to because people sometimes call me by it. Not that you can't be April if you want, but keep that in mind."

Back to the drawing board...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-07T23:17:16Z

@Impossible_PhD Ha! Yes, my partner is very supportive will cope just fine if that's the way it ends up. Still going to spend some time considering other names though! (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-08T08:38:33Z

@Fawn@ohai.social I skipped car ownership and went directly from a Learner's Permit to cycling for transportation. No regrets, but some... caveats, maybe. Is that a perspective you'd be interested in hearing more on?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-10T06:30:02Z

@Fawn@ohai.social 🎉 Congratulations! 🚲

I hope you enjoy car-freedom. (-:

(I've tried and failed twice now to write a proper reply in the carfree-regrets thread. Maybe that in itself says something...)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-11T19:05:39Z

@pixelpaperyarn I have had good experiences with buttondown.email; their pricing doesn't quite fit your specifications but they offer good discounts if you have nonprofit status.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-12T17:07:11Z

The password for our building's wifi got changed and I made a point of not saving the new one. Downside: less interacting with all you wonderful internet people. Upside: getting more stuff done IRL. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-12T19:07:14Z

@DrTCombs The bodyshaming aspect of that kind of comment is something I hadn't considered before, and you are spot on. Thanks for pointing it out. Yet another way transportation advocacy can improve at intersectionality.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-13T00:56:05Z

@Fawn@ohai.social I am not Deaf but was researching this recently. The two things I took note of were:

- William Vicars's asluniversity.com/ (lessons are available online for free, but are also intended for use as a curriculum for people teaching courses)
- queerasl.com/ (intended for queer folks and allies)

Both seemed well-recommended and I believe both are run by Deaf folks. Looking forward to seeing other recommendations!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-15T22:00:57Z

@imdat@tau-ceti.space @Terra@chaosfem.tw @faithisleaping I would happily be awkwardly silent with you all in-person, same as I usually am here! (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-16T01:48:49Z

@angry_hagfish I've been getting that one a lot lately.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-16T17:08:38Z

@sabogato I've been wondering about that. I think depends on which fork of Mastodon your instance uses. Do you have the little dropdown below the compose box that lets you choose "Plain text", "HTML", or "Markdown"? For me it's between the post privacy dropdown and the CW button.

Maybe I can link to more information...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-16T17:39:42Z

@KC1PRD Or at least allow people to specify the name that is listed, because not everyone wants to be referred to by their legally recognized name.

@salad_bar_breath started a github repo to do some collaborative drafting of a petition to the FCC on this subject (github.com/rynyday/ryn-ham-wrl).

I started outlining some arguments (github.com/rynyday/ryn-ham-wrl) a while back.

Anyone else want to pitch in?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-16T22:31:49Z

@Impossible_PhD Oh, that was fantastic. I laughed and I cried (but less than at your other posts, as is perhaps desirable for academia). And now I feel like I have a new perspective on comics. Than you for sharing it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-16T22:33:38Z

@ian_tk I used to work at Pedal Bike Tours. Don't know what they're like these days, but it was a pretty good shop back then.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-18T05:43:30Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai Ooh, tough to pick just one. A few top candidates:
- Chickens (in bucket panniers)
- Multiple sheet cakes (bikes@work trailer)
- 16 foot canoe towed behind a 10 foot recumbent tandem (bikes@work trailer again)
- several large windows and a french door

Best I've seen was probably the leader of the PaddlePalooza ride in PDX who wedged a small sailboat into his cargo trike.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-19T02:19:17Z

@cedar It would be cute enough just being a tiny basket, but it also has tiny cat ears!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-19T05:57:09Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai It actually went quite well! They settle down pretty well once they're in a dark, enclosed space.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-20T04:36:02Z

@UrbanistMom @getalifemike Yes. I ride a heavy cargo trike and mostly use pedal-assist, but throttle is really helpful for intersections and short hills where I don't want to turn up the assist and immediately have to turn it down again.

Regulators in the US seem to think my trike is therefore less safe on shared paths than a throttle-less with a 20mph assist limit... while I keep my assist limited to 16mph and regenerative braking actively prevents me from going much faster.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-20T05:22:02Z

@stgm possible places to donate: bikecollectives.org/wiki/Commu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-25T23:17:53Z

Partner: What are you ?
Me: Finally finishing up these leg warmers I started making for you a year or two ago.
Partner: Great! When you're done we can go for that walk we were talking about and I can wear them.
Me: Umm... It's probably going to take an hour or two to finish.
Partner: Ok.
Me: *stares*
Partner: *stares*
Me: *knits furiously*

(I'm not complaining: I got a couple hours of cozy knitting and now my DPNs are free for another project.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-25T23:53:39Z

systems are pretty great, but may not be suitable for all weather conditions.

Photo of a bike trailer with a solar panel on it that is covered in snow. In the background is a snow-covered forest. In the foreground is an orange-and-reflective flag.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-26T02:39:39Z

@KJ7OMO Web transceiver doesn't think I have a microphone. I'll try to troubleshoot, but I think that might be it for me for tonight. (-: Thanks & 73!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-26T02:47:13Z

@KJ7OMO Still no dice with the microphone. Maybe next time!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-26T02:48:59Z

@KJ7OMO Unfortunately, it doesn't seem to be asking the browser for mic permissions. Maybe I'll try a different browser.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-26T04:23:06Z

@miriamrobern Thanks for the knitted knockers link! For some reason falsies have never appealed to me, but apparently turning it into a DIY project makes it something fun I can work on.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-26T21:00:02Z

@sparkledragon5@chaosfem.tw That's about where I'm at. The tension between wanting it and being scared of it can get really tough.

I'm sitting here wearing a skirt and feeling so pleased about it while fretting over imposter syndrome and the logistics of being trans in this world and... just being so afraid that it will somehow not work out. That I don't have "enough" dysphoria to justify it. (I know, that's nonsense.) That I won't actually like it. That I won't be able to cope with being trans.

And then I re-read genderdysphoria.fyi, or posts by transfem folks here, and remember that yes, so much of that sounds like me, and yes, presenting and being read as feminine feels right. And it's still hard!

Anyway... Hi! Me too. I hope you get to a place that feels right for you. Faith is spot on - if a woman is who you want to be, then you can be a woman.

@faithisleaping I had been wondering why it was easier for me to identify with "girl" than with "woman" and I think that's part of it. Maybe also because I've been identifying as feminine for less than a year, and people generally have to do that for a lot longer before they get called a "woman." Maybe also because "girl" is a diminutive; it doesn't feel like such a big, unreachable thing. Just talked to my partner about this, and about discomfort re: calling adult women "girls" because it is a diminutive and... oof. Complicated territory.

Oh yeah, I spent several years identifying (quietly) as genderfluid. It... was what I needed at the time, I think, to be able to explore my gender identity more and figure some things out.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-02-26T21:27:55Z
gender identity, mention of anxiety

A few months ago I half-jokingly told my partner I was going to try a "novel" therapy technique: reading fiction with genderfluid/nonbinary and ace characters, in hopes that it would help me process my own gender and sexuality. I thought it was not particularly effective until I looked back through my journal the other day and found...

"I just read Kiss Her Once For Me by Alison Cochrun. The main character has an anxiety disorder and too many of her decisions are based on fear. I related to that a lot more than I would like. There are probably some questions I should ask myself."

NEXT ENTRY, ONE WEEK LATER:

"I finally read some of genderdysphoria.fyi and... I think my gender identity ranges from 'feminine' to 'that would require too much effort'. It's kind of scary to realize."

So I guess it worked pretty well after all.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-26T21:28:27Z
re: gender identity, mention of anxiety

The funny thing is, I didn't intend for that particular book to be therapy - I expected it to be a light sapphic romance. Which it mostly is! There's fake dating and a love quadrangle and silly family traditions and all that jazz. It just happened to also be about facing fear and working through anxiety, and it was precisely what I needed to hear.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-27T23:57:23Z

@jenf Any episode with Jett Reno is my favorite episode.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-28T21:19:41Z

@wavesculptor I have a Grin hub with regen on my cargo trike and it is SO VERY worth it. Ordinary things like being able to enable a speed limit and not white-knuckle the brakes going down long hills, but also... Today one of my brake levers snapped off in an odd situation, and I made the trip home with a single brake lever that controlled both a drum brake and the regen. Between those two, I had plenty of braking power. Regen provides a redundant system for braking, and redundancy can be very worthwhile!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-02-28T22:49:39Z

@wavesculptor Yep, relied heavily on Justin's analysis of data from that Sun Trip when designing our solar trikes.

I have long wanted to do a boat-commute; shopping by kayak sounds so cool!

I have several regen controls, a couple of them only available in the latest alpha firmware from Grin:
- Speed limiting to ~16mph
- Brake levers trigger low-level regen that can be increased with the throttle
- Clicking the assist level to below zero engages regen, with several steps available
- Backpedal regen - turn the pedals back far enough and regen engages, keep turning for stronger regen. It's like a high-tech coaster brake.

I wish someone would build a proportional-regen brake lever.

Here's a photo of my trike from a recent trip, taken during one of the few sunny breaks in a 70-mile day that was otherwise characterized by lots of rain and snow. (-:

Solar recumbent cargo tricycle: A delta trike (one wheel in front, two in back) constructed from rectangular aluminum tubing. Behind the seat is a low, 4-foot-long cargo box built around the rear wheels, made from scavenged plastic and orange-painted plywood. There is a grey plastic tote strapped on top of the cargo box, and strapped to the back of the trike is a folding chair, a couple of sleeping pads, and a spare tire. Mounted above the seat and cargo box is a flexible solar panel on a yellow-painted plywood frame, supported by old crutches at the rear and two smaller aluminum tubes at the front.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-01T23:39:44Z

Yesterday I called a few places from a list of local trans-affirming therapists. Today one called back and basically said "I can't take your insurance yet, but if you want I will email your name and phone # to a bunch of other therapists and maybe one of them will call you." Apparently that is a thing this group of therapists does.

It was just so nice to experience a segment of the healthcare system where people are proactive about connecting patients with affordable care, even in the face of misanthropic bureaucracy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-02T03:11:09Z

@yonabee@eldritch.cafe @Patrickstewart I just got off a zoom call where we spent the last 30 minutes chatting with someone who studies bicycle community groups (advocacy & DIY repair, mostly) about this. How it can intersect with socioeconomic class - scaling a little grassroots org into a big upper-class lobbying group. Also how it can leach the fun from things, when a small passion project can lose vitality or a sense of community as it grows.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-04T17:17:18Z

@crankyfacedknitter Oh, that's wonderful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-04T17:24:02Z
re: bicycle

@Julia_Schmeer@chaos.social Here's a list of places that may take donated bikes: bikecollectives.org/wiki/Commu

Also your local FreeCycle, BuyNothing, or Craigslist.

(Short story about a bicycle? I want to read that!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-07T20:26:03Z
re: MH; darkness

@SleepyCatten You bring SO MUCH joy and positivity and supportiveness to the fediverse.

A single person can only do so much, and I know how hard that can be... But I can't count the number of times one of your posts has brought a smile to my face, and I know I'm not the only one. And that positivity and support ripples outward - it means everyone you interact with is a little more able to help/support others. Even the people you can't reach directly, you're helping them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-08T06:17:06Z

@smellsofbikes @attoparsec In our old neighborhood I would occasionally see someone zooming by on a scooter with a dog harnessed in beside it. At first I thought it was an electric scooter, but no... it was designed to be a dog-powered scooter. (That dog looked so, so happy.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-10T07:43:18Z

for Adults: A pilot project in Los Angeles is coordinating groups of bike commuters to ride together for safety in numbers. cibic.bike/

The safety and mentorship aspect is such a good idea... and it just sounds like fun! I really hope this grows to include more locations.

(Learned about it from an acquaintance in Buenos Aires, apparently they're doing it there as well, though I don't see info online.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-11T04:34:46Z

@AlwaysAutumn Can you get things secondhand? About half my current fem wardrobe came from a recent $2 sale at the local thrift store. If I outgrow them, it's not a big loss.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-11T04:38:39Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai @piecemama

I hated driving practice - never felt like I could safely operate the car (xkcd.com/1990/ sums it up nicely). Then I went to Davis, California for university... where there are more bikes than humans, and bicycle modeshare is dramatically higher than anywhere else in the US. Davis was a very effective demonstration that you can live car-free, and it has been one of the basic premises for all my life-planning since then.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-11T04:45:54Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai I ride this cargo trike, my partner rides something similar, and we have a Bikes@Work trailer - 8' long and rated for 300lbs.

People on Craigslist say "must have pickup truck." So far, we've managed to prove them all wrong.

Solar recumbent cargo tricycle: A delta trike (one wheel in front, two in back) constructed from rectangular aluminum tubing. Behind the seat is a low, 4-foot-long cargo box built around the rear wheels, made from scavenged plastic and orange-painted plywood. There is a grey plastic tote strapped on top of the cargo box, and strapped to the back of the trike is a folding chair, a couple of sleeping pads, and a spare tire. Mounted above the seat and cargo box is a flexible solar panel on a yellow-painted plywood frame, supported by old crutches at the rear and two smaller aluminum tubes at the front.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-11T04:50:15Z

@ascentale I don't have any personal experience with this or with school Bike Buses, but it definitely seems like there would be some overlap in functionality.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-11T06:42:49Z
TransVoiceFriday, singing, vintage satire about economic recession & the US govt giving free money to rich people

Transcript:
I've been alpha-testing some different names this week with my partner's help, and now one of my favorite old anticapitalist satire songs is stuck in my head because it happens to be about changing one's name. So for I'm going to try to get it stuck in your head too!

*ahem*
Oh, the price of gold is rising out of sight
and the dollar is in sorry shape tonight.
What a dollar used to get us
now won't get a head of lettuce,
no, the economic forecast isn't bright.
But amidst the clouds I've glimpsed a shining ray -
I begin to see a new and better way!
I've devised a plan of action,
worked it down to the last fraction,
and I'm going into action here today...

I'm changing my name to Chrysler!
I'm heading down to Washington DC.
I will tell some power broker,
"What you did for Iacocca
would be perfectly acceptable to me."
I'm changing my name to Chrysler!
I'm leaving for that great receiving line.
When they hand a million grand out
I'll be standing with my hand out,
oh yes I'll get mine!

Transcript:
I've been alpha-testing some different names this week with my partner's help, and now one of my favorite old anticapitalist satire songs is stuck in my head because it happens to be about changing one's name. So for #TransVoiceFirday I'm going to try to get it stuck in your head too!

*ahem*
Oh, the price of gold is rising out of sight 
and the dollar is in sorry shape tonight. 
What a dollar used to get us 
now won't get a head of lettuce, 
no, the economic forecast isn't bright. 
But amidst the clouds I've glimpsed a shining ray - 
I begin to see a new and better way! 
I've devised a plan of action, 
worked it down to the last fraction, 
and I'm going into action here today...

I'm changing my name to Chrysler! 
I'm heading down to Washington DC. 
I will tell some power broker, 
"What you did for Iacocca 
would be perfectly acceptable to me." 
I'm changing my name to Chrysler! 
I'm leaving for that great receiving line. 
When they hand a million grand out 
I'll be standing with my hand out, 
oh yes I'll get mine!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-11T07:08:08Z

@faithisleaping Ooh, that's very cute. I would almost certainly feel dysphoric trying to wear it as-is, but with a slightly higher neckline... I'm gonna bookmark this for when the pile of sewing projects is a little smaller.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-11T21:07:04Z

@emily Wow. I already thought the Travoy was a clever trailer design, but I did not realize its full capacity! That's impressive.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-11T22:21:57Z

I never cared much about Daylight Savings until I started coordinating international events that span multiple time zones, where some of them observe DST and others don't, and still others observe it on different days. 😩

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-11T23:15:36Z

@pixouls I have a Boox and really like it (though I get the impression Onyx doesn't have much regard for user privacy,which... ugh). Libby works fine but I avoid using it because the Boox reader app is so much smoother. It's also a nice lightweight android tablet with a battery that lasts all week and excellent stylus support.

The Open Book looks cool! I'm excited that there seems to be more going on with eink recently.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-11T23:34:54Z

@pixouls Yeah. I think I've read about people installing 3rd-party apps that allow fine control of IP traffic to prevent them from "phoning home", but I haven't tried it myself.

The handwriting & drawing functionality is phenomenal, though most 3rd party apps have very limited support for it, e.g. they rarely recognize pressure input or the eraser. The builtin notes app is great, and you can make it auto-export to PDF or connect it to MS OneNote for sync. I think they may have some support in Evernote, too? I just keep all my notes on the Boox and back up PDF copies occasionally via USB or SyncThing.

It is simultaneously an amazing piece of tech and disappointingly limited in terms of interoperability. 🙁​

Oh, and 3rd party apps often require some tweaking of the eink settings so you can see the buttons if they don't have adequate color-contrast when converted to greyscale.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-12T01:07:59Z

@SRLevine May I ask what you use for a non-smart phone? We've found fewer and fewer options as older networks are shut down.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-12T01:24:49Z

@SRLevine Ah, ok. I really like the idea ofthe Lightphone, but can't justify spending 2-3x what an old ios or android device costs. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-12T03:58:28Z

Thank you, @TheLetterTen, for the excellent jokes. We were low on motivation this afternoon, so I read a bunch of them to my partner and it was just the thing. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-12T22:42:46Z

@AlwaysAutumn My partner and I both say yes. My partner wants me to add that she recommends fabric headbands, not plastic ones - apparently the plastic ones hurt.

I usually wear barrettes and a braid; I think multiple hair retention methods is pretty common.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-13T05:07:55Z

@faithisleaping As one of my oldest friends said when I came out to her, "girl clothes are just more fun."

That is some cool fabric, very well tailored, and it looks fantastic!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-13T05:15:41Z

Walked by a basket of sidewalk chalk this afternoon and my partner stopped to draw three hearts - one pink, one white, one blue. :heart_trans:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-18T03:41:55Z

@MLE_online I feel your pain - we just harvested (probably) the last avocados from the tree next to our building and will have to make a bunch of guac in a few days when they ripen. No other choice. 😞 😁

(Ok, I inflicted some avocados on the neighbors, too - share the burden, right?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-18T03:45:22Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai I rode a Python Lowracer recumbent, which has a very strange steering geometry - took me several months to learn how to ride it, the only person I met who could stay on for more than a few meters was a unicyclist. Rarely locked it, and nobody stole it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-19T18:47:23Z

@The_Bard_sRc @faithisleaping My current glasses are kinda-fem (red acrylic frames) from when I was still at "a little genderfluid, I guess." Now I'm really looking forward to getting a new pair in a few months. I remember ruling out a bunch because they were too fem for my comfort zone at the time, but now... maybe not so much.

The current ones do apparently read as feminine, though - my mom cited them as a reason she wasn't too surprised when I came out to my parents.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-20T07:40:10Z

@taedryn I guess I'll say 20s, but it was a long, slow slide.

I have identified as different/weird for about as long as I can remember and have vague memories of teen and possibly pre-teen gender-swap daydreams, I think? Started growing out hair and occasionally wearing skirts around age 20, but... "No, it isn't a kilt. No, I'm not crossdressing. Gendered clothing is silly and I'll wear skirts if I want to."

Started identifying as genderfluid in my mid-to-late 20s, but "wasn't really trans because I didn't have dysphoria." Finally read genderdysphoria.fyi a couple months ago (early 30s) and, well... hoping to have an endo appointment scheduled by the end of this week. (-:

Anyway, I think the space between those last two paragraphs - somewhere in my 20s - is when I really started wishing for the magic gender-swap button.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-20T17:04:56Z

@markchandler@mstdn.social 😆

We get a lot of people looking at our big solar cargo trikes and asking "How far are you traveling?"

We've taken a few long trips, but most often the answer is "to the grocery store."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-20T23:00:18Z

@robotdiver I usually listen to music.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-21T00:19:13Z
selfies, eye contact

Cycling mode (hi-vis & jeans) vs. walking mode (skirt)

Photo of a white person wearing a bright orange coat over a navy vest and jeans. Dark blond hair braided with a blue ribbon. Wearing glasses and an N95 mask.Photo of a white person wearing a bright orange coat over a navy vest and matching skirt with a light-blue long-sleeve knit shirt. Dark blond hair braided with a blue ribbon. Wearing glasses and an N95 mask.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-21T16:12:02Z

@twistylittlepassages Thank you! My partner and I made the vest/skirt combo several years ago and it continues to be one of my favorite outfits.

I really like pockets. I have a whole pile of vests & jackets with similar four-pocket layouts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-22T21:21:32Z

@taedryn We get 2222 characters and 8 poll options here on octodon (glitch-soc fork of Mastodon). I don't know that it's "very trans" but our admin is... nonbinary, I believe? and pretty adamant about being trans-friendly, anti-racist, etc. It's a larger, older, instance and a little quirky, but it has been fine for me so far and I'm not aware of major defederations. I think registration is closed, but I believe I can generate invite links if somebody wants one.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-22T21:41:16Z

@glightly Cool! My first thought on seeing this was, "When I lived in Davis, that was just 'Larry's place'." and sure enough... Larry Fisher is one of the co-founders. He used to talk about establishing something more formal, so I'm glad to see it's getting off the ground!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-23T00:30:11Z

@hack Nice! I've been thinking about adding a dedicated mask pocket to some of my vests, instead of cramming it in wherever it fits or putting it in a bag.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-23T01:02:14Z

@glightly Yeah, there are so many odd little community resources that get underutilized because they're informal word-of-mouth things.

At that time (10+ years ago) it was an informal "most of the dumpster divers and co-op people are acquainted with each other and Larry's the one with the most storage space" sort of thing; I was vaguely connected to that community via the bike collective.

I don't know what the path was from there to Community Mercantile, but I'm glad it'll be more generally accessible.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-23T02:22:02Z

@smellsofbikes Can I recommend starting with a bike or trike and building upon it until it becomes unmissable?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-23T04:07:42Z

@smellsofbikes Ah, yeah. You have to look extremely un-bike-like to get that kind of benefit.

My partner and I have had pretty good success with our cargo trikes in this regard. I think in part because they don't look at all like conventional bikes from behind. Partly also having the best ANSI-rated slow moving vehicle triangles we can get on the back - my partner's theory is that the triangles make people think "slow" not "bike", and so they slow down instead of initiating pass-the-bicycle protocols.

We don't have the mass of an NEV and we're narrow enough to fit down a bike path, but... the back of my cargo box is 2' wide and the solar roof is 3' wide, and I think it's enough that most drivers register it as "not bike" and behave accordingly when passing. (Doesn't work on everyone, of course. *sigh*)

That effect might be reduced by repeat exposure on a commute route, I guess.

I hope you find something that works for you.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-23T19:07:52Z

@wren@chaosfem.tw I'll second that. (says someone who recently told her parents, "Oh, and I'm starting to use a new name & pronouns. Bye, see you next week!")

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-23T21:36:42Z

@wren@chaosfem.tw Ok, I *had* told them several weeks before that I was questioning my gender and considering names.

I'm kinda enjoying the hypothetical scenario in which it was a complete surprise, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-26T06:07:10Z

@AlwaysAutumn Late to the thread, I guess, but... doing surprisingly well. I'm exhausted, but in the satisfying way that comes from cycling all day, and I am about to go sleep anyway. Also positive: Spent all day very intentionally in boymode, and it unexpectedly knocked my imposter syndrome down a notch.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-28T00:33:30Z

@MLE_online This sounds like the setup for a heist and/or hidden treasure storyline.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-03-28T05:41:20Z

@dantheshive Oh, hey! One of my favorite webcomic people is posting on Mastodon! Hello!

fedi.tips/ is a pretty good how-to if you want one.

Anyway, welcome! 👋

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-03-31T21:36:43Z
Trans Day of Visibility selfie, eye contact

Got a little carried away dressing up for , maybe, but I'm pleased with the result.

Trans woman wearing a pink coat over a blue shirt and white-ish pants, with pink, white, and blue ribbons braided into blonde hair, carrying a hi-vis orange jacket over one arm and wearing an N95 mask.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-01T04:32:27Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai - Saddle sores? Oh yeah, I remember those... from back in the days before I rode a recumbent!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-01T20:29:10Z

@toady Rocket.chat? It's self-hostable FOSS that's similar to Slack... which is basically Discord wearing business attire. (I haven't used it beyond a brief test, though.)

I'm in a similar situation and curious about other answers...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-02T07:03:01Z

@faithisleaping I'm making a note of this, because I'm still very much at the "it's a desire" stage and cannot imagine feeling like it's a need. Now I'm really curious to know how me-in-a-few-years feels. Thanks for the perspective.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-03T16:15:55Z

@b0rk Docker has one, but I haven't used it (yet) docker.com/play-with-docker/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-04T22:57:47Z

@Brodyberg Sadly, yes. I haven't seen any recently, but for several months I was picking them up around the neighborhood here and recycling them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-05T22:50:12Z

Wanted: A site where I can enter multiple cities and get detailed ≥10-day forecasts for all of them, stacked vertically. It would be quite nice for planning around the movement of storms during medium-length trips, without having to pull up three different tabs of forecasts and cross-reference them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-05T23:36:46Z

@uep Thanks! Windy.com is pretty nice, and I use it sometimes, mostly for air quality & wind. I hadn't seen the meteogram, that looks like it could be useful. It doesn't show multiple locations over multiple days at the same time, though, which is what I'd really like. I find watching the map while scrubbing back and forth through the time slider on windy more difficult to process than just looking at data for several locations and mentally interpolating.

The ideal interface would be a 3D chart, I suppose, but that may be a bit much to ask. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-11T07:48:52Z
gender thoughts

I was writing a convoluted analogy about gender and bicycle repair diagnostics, and I looked back at the sentence "There isn't anywhere I can look to see my gender, but I can feel the secondary indications if I pay attention." and realized...

Obviously. Gender is a social construct. It is made entirely of "secondary indications."

I *knew* that, but if I had thought about it more earlier I could maybe have skipped a few months or years of feeling like I was not *really* trans because I didn't have a deep, intense, intrinsic sense of my gender. (I guess some people may have that, but I don't.)

So maybe that is my epiphany for today: Gender is a construct, and may not be identifiable except by identifying its component parts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-12T04:50:18Z

@alfajet I have a kickstand made by Ursus that looks like it would fit, if the measurements match. Seems like a useful search term might be "2 bolt direct mount kickstand".

If all else fails, you could make an adapter to fit a standard kickstand by drilling holes in some thick aluminum angle stock - that's how the kickstand on my FlevoTrike is attached.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-13T05:11:43Z
bureaucracy failing at gender

Submitted my name change paperwork today, and it was only a small adventure.

First I showed up at the wrong courthouse and looked lost until the security person offered help.

Then I found the correct courthouse and got a great person in the legal self-help office who ensured everything was in order, whited-out some errors, put little tags on all the signature lines, and even made copies!

Then I went to submit everything to the clerk, and the person there claimed that because I wasn't also changing the gender marker on my official paperwork it wasn't a gender-related name change, so I'd have to fill out different forms and publish it in the newspaper.

I was pretty sure that was wrong and the person in the self-help office agreed with me, so the clerk finally accepted my paperwork and promised to file it in the morning when a supervisor was available, or call if it was an issue.

I guess tomorrow either the paperwork gets filed or I engage in (bureaucratic) battle with the local Superior Court. That would be a... somewhat bigger adventure.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-13T16:02:29Z

@SRLevine Nice find!

And yes... I have acquired a whole lot of mismatched gloves over the years, several bike lights, and assorted other things.

My partner sometimes points out wrenches or bolts or what-have-you and I pass them up because they're car tools/parts that aren't useful for bicycles. (As opposed to car tools/parts that *are* useful for bicycles, which I compulsively acquire and hoard.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-14T03:15:16Z

@hollie @valthonis Yeah. I tried to find other things worth watching on there after catching up on Picard a few weeks ago... and wound up re-watching Discovery. 🤷

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-14T04:20:35Z

@Apiary @rose_alibi Oh, hey! My maternal grandmother sometimes referred to "the whole fam-damily".

I have carried on her tradition of saying I'm "filled to my gillyfeathers" when I am very full, and now my partner uses it sometimes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-14T18:01:14Z

@angry_hagfish Oooh, what kind of loom are you going to build?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-14T21:06:24Z

@angry_hagfish Cool! That sounds like so much fun. I hope it goes well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-15T02:18:54Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai Dream bicycle? I've tried a few times now, and it turns out there's always things I want to improve in the next iteration. The current wishlist is:
1) Semi-recumbent (reclined enough to be comfy, but not so much that it makes wearing a skirt impractical)
2) Front wheel drive / moving bottom bracket (so I can steer with my feet)
3) Tilting trike with active tilt control
4) Full suspension
5) Hand- and foot-powered (I think handcycling is the only way I'll ever build significant upper body strength)
6) Folds to a compact size
7) Able to carry a lot of cargo
8) E-assist and solar charging system
9) Ideally, the e-assist would be removable, geared, clutchless, and independent of the human-power drivetrain.

I currently have a recumbent with 2, 3, 7, and 8 .

A previous build had 2, almost 4, and 6. (And it was a tilting trike, but without proper active tilt control, just a tilt-lock that never worked very well.)

Pretty sure I can do most of this, but 3 & 5 are difficult to combine, as are 6 & 7, and I know theoretically how to do 9 but don't know how to source the motor and controller.

Why yes, I am considering going back to school for engineering so I can build more interesting bikes, why do you ask? (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-15T20:05:09Z

@IPEdmonton Nice! The Dutch make some really excellent bikes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-15T22:39:13Z

Walking home from the tool library this morning a driver nearly cut me off in the crosswalk, but stopped... probably when they saw I was carrying a digging bar (six feet of solid steel with a big chisel tip on the end) over my shoulder.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-16T22:27:35Z

@AnnaUK Ha! Reminds me of people saying "do a wheelie!" when I'm riding a recumbent.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-19T01:51:00Z

@The_Bard_sRc Is it me? That sounds like something I might do.

(My partner would be looking over my shoulder and saying the color doesn't matter that much and I should just go with it. She and I are very different sewists.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-19T02:04:57Z
trans thoughts: gender and sexuality

My partner pointed out the other day that I've been way more willing to accept expressions of attraction from her since I started transitioning. I used to deflect or just be visibly uncomfortable with e.g. compliments about my appearance.

Me: "Well, yes, I actually feel like I'm attractive now."

Put another tally-mark in the "transitioning is a good idea" column...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-19T02:28:02Z

@The_Bard_sRc Oh, yeah, that would make a difference.

May I ask what the costume is?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-19T02:36:35Z

@hollie Thanks! It really is. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-19T05:15:25Z

@nerdybutcute 🎵 I'm changing my name to Chrysler... 🎵 ?

(youtube.com/watch?v=w8uo6cfG4J)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-19T20:34:56Z

@JoscelynTransient "Before we wore off the rack, fashion was designed to create the silhouette"

Can I add a note that this includes padding?

I used to feel significant dysphoria seeing my flat chest in most feminine-styled shirts/blouses. Last month I made a pair of Knitted Knockers (knittedknockers.org/) based on a recommendation from @miriamrobern, and that dysphoria instantly turned into euphoria.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-19T21:10:11Z

@salad_bar_breath
5. Hides most of the stubble/shadow that I'd otherwise feel dysphoric about.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-19T21:19:26Z

Went to pick up a popcorn popper off craigslist yesterday.

The bike path we normally take in that direction was closed. (because the county apparently thinks it's *dangerous* to have homeless folks camping next to the bike path. you think that's dangerous? no, county parks department, pickup trucks are dangerous. so are housing shortages and encampment sweeps. argh. ok, getting back on topic.)

The second-best bike path (requires a bit more riding on major roads to connect with anywhere useful) was closed for maintenance.

Instead, we took the unpaved path that parallels the second-best path on the other side of the creek.

This is how critical public infrastructure *should* work: multiple levels of redundancy.

If only more bike, transit, and pedestrian infrastructure *did* work like that...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-20T00:44:53Z

@salad_bar_breath What's the emoji for aww-I'm-touched-and-feeling-awkward-about-it? I'm usually around, just quiet most of the time. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-20T01:17:15Z

@salad_bar_breath Hah! Ok. :blobhaj_heartslove:​ (I'm about 2 decades behind the curve on emoji; maybe I'll get caught up someday.)

Probably not going to be on the net this weekend... I'll be out of town visiting a friend*, but I might try to check in if the timing works out and I can hit a repeater with IRLP or something.

* that is to say, camping in a tent in friend's back yard, because... *points at top of thread*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-20T23:09:53Z

@sjs Bucket panniers. There are several ways to make them, but this tutorial is pretty good: crazyguyonabike.com/doc/?doc_i

- waterproof
- capacious
- won't sag or squish things
- the tops of the buckets provide a big flat area where you can pile oversized items & strap them down
- upcycling!
- the hardware is remarkably cheap & can be reused on new buckets when the old ones eventually fail

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-20T23:37:45Z

I'm going to visit Davis this weekend!

Friday: Ride 100+ miles down to the bay and then back up to Davis on the solar trike.

Saturday & Sunday: Visit w/ an old friend and maybe drop in for a shift at the Davis Bike Collective.*

Monday: Ride 100+ miles home.

I'm considering bringing a second battery just in case I don't get enough solar to beat the headwind that's forecast for the second leg of the return trip. It'll be overkill (2kWh of battery + a 170W solar panel, when I usually draw less than 15Wh/mile) but carrying just a single battery might leave me a little short.

I am SO EXCITED!

* and spend lots of time wearing an N95 mask, of course

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-21T02:50:15Z

@TicklishHoneyBee Ooh, that's clever!

Looks like you're doing solar ebike charging too?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-21T03:11:38Z

@dr_a When I lived in PDX, I got tired of worn-out plastic-y rain pants and switched to secondhand wool pants from an army surplus-ish store. They repel light rain, and even when soaked are still reasonably warm.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-21T04:50:31Z

@TicklishHoneyBee Neat! I don't think I've seen it done that way before, with separate batteries in the trailer. (I charge the bike battery directly from solar.) How is it working out for you?

I love the tarp lean-to and all the integrated accessories! All of my lights and device chargers have been haphazard add-ons.

Is that a 100W solar panel?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-21T13:26:21Z

I'm off like a herd of turtles!

*pedalpedalpedalpedal*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-04-22T18:33:57Z

Made it to Davis last night after riding 139 miles in 14 hours. I didn't even need the backup battery!

Maybe in a day or three I'll post some highlights from the trip and get back to chatting with the fediverse; this afternoon I'm going to go see if they'll still let me volunteer at the Bike Collective after being gone for 10 years. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-04-23T03:37:14Z

@salad_bar_breath Forgot to bring the radio out&about with me and missed the net... maybe next week.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-03T06:57:48Z

@Impossible_PhD I would hope that someone in the publishing process could connect you with a good sensitivity reader?

If not, I was going to suggest checking other authors' acknowledgements or asking bookstodon for recommendations. But then I told my partner what I was typing about and she said "There's a database for that!" and it looks like it is probably writingdiversely.com/directory

Also, I very much want to read this book when it comes out!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-03T18:06:57Z

Setting up my electrical system with universal connectors (powerpole-type) is real handy... except when I accidentally plug my laptop (20v) into the ebike battery (40v) for the second time and fry it properly.

So (1) I'm using the dinky old tablet with cracks covering 1/4 of the screen until next week and (2) I need to make the connectors for different voltages non-compatible. Right now I think I might just slot a third plastic connector-housing thingy in between the two actual connectors for lower-voltage lines. Seems like a waste of the plastic thingies, except I've messed up enough crimps by now that I might have sufficient spares.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-03T20:11:51Z

@W1CDN Oh, I think that would work! Thanks.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-03T22:08:24Z

@Impossible_PhD Oof, yeah. It'd be nice if the right thing to do wasn't also more expensive and logistically challenging.

I hope things go well with the partial submission!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-05T22:40:23Z

@TheLetterTen Are you feeling amped about becoming a member?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-05T23:38:22Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai I've got a cargo bike and a trailer and an e-assist for heavy loads and long distances, but no trans-oceanic solution that I like.

"Learn to sail" has been on the to-do list for a while now, but I don't really want to own a boat and I think it's hard to find crew gigs for a couple with a dog, so that's still kinda uncertain. Seems like some of the up-and-coming sail cargo companies are offering passenger berths, so that could be cool!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-05T23:42:28Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai Toolkit. I wouldn't get far without it, some days. (-:

Possible new contender just came in the mail, though: A Sena pi helmet intercom, which should make it possible for Partner and I to ride together without shouting "WHAT DID YOU SAY?" back and forth over traffic noise all the time.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-05T23:51:34Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai I think I've said this during before, but... Davis, California.

I went back for a visit recently and re-discovered how nice it is to ride through a city that doesn't feel like a hostile maze. You can just turn wherever and... maybe it isn't the absolute best street to ride on, but it's almost never terrifying or extremely dangerous. (yikes, now that I've written it out it seems like such a low bar, but still...) They have cut-throughs that make bike and pedestrian routes MORE direct than car routes, instead of forcing you to zig-zag all over the place like you do in other "bike-friendly" cities like PDX.

Plus Davis has a critical mass - I think it's the only city in the USA with a bike commute modeshare over 10%, and the behavior of other road users reflects that they expect to see cyclists on the road, and that many of them do ride bikes at least some of the time.

Davis is where I originally went car-free, and it continues to remind me that safe, fun, comfortable urban cycling is 100% possible if we collectively put in the effort.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-06T02:09:30Z

@DuncanWatson@calckey.social 🚲 Hello! 🚲

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-06T04:08:49Z

@DuncanWatson@calckey.social Yep! And I see a velo in your profile header - what model is that?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-07T18:04:19Z

Transition: Because my sewing/tailoring projects weren't complicated enough yet.

On second thought... I've been attempting to imply curves that didn't exist for years now. It might be easier when I have actual curves to work with.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-08T21:16:27Z

@TheLetterTen A couple of skirts my partner and I made years ago - one in soft, slightly felted purple wool that's very cozy and one in navy blue wool that looks a little more formal. They're both half-circle skirts that fall to mid-calf and have belt-like closures where I can attach a multitool holster. They're comfy and rain-resistant and swish very nicely and are some of the feminine-coded clothes that I've had the longest.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-09T17:21:07Z

@ascentale You're on the right track with system design - most solar ebikers I know of use >100W of panel and MPPT converters.

Mark Havran has been developing solar ebike systems for over a decade now and I think his website is probably the best resource I know of: solare.bike/technical-stuff/

I've been riding a solar ebike for over a year, and what you propose sounds entirely doable if it's sunny enough. My partner and I rode to the Mexican border and back last summer, and the only time we had serious difficulty maintaining a charge was between Monterey and San Francisco. Otherwise, it worked pretty well: we were riding heavy cargo trikes, often ~40 miles/day for several consecutive days, with 1kWh batteries and 150W solar panels.

I'd say touring in areas where you don't have access to external power is probably the only good application for a solar ebike right now. xkcd got it right with this flow chart: xkcd.com/1924/. Your situation sounds like an edge case - you would probably be fine with two spare batteries, which are a lot easier to carry around, but solar would work too. Or you could do a combined approach: a spare battery to bump your range to 40 miles and a folding solar panel to recharge at your destination.

Actually mounting the solar panel is a challenge that has been solved in a bunch of interesting ways and you can find examples online, but some preliminary advice: If you can get your hands on a lightweight rigid panel (e.g. LightLeaf) it should be pretty straightforward. I also met someone who had a cheaper-looking rigid 100W panel that seemed to use coroplast backing. We went with flex panels because they're pretty light and way cheaper per watt than LightLeaf, but then sacrificed some weight (and put in a lot of time+effort) building a frame to support them. It's important to give them enough support that they aren't constantly bending/wobbling. Mounting a panel on a trailer is usually easier from a construction standpoint and easier to leave at home when you aren't using it... but then you have to wrangle a loaded cargo bike with a trailer when parking, navigating tight spots, etc. and you have increased weight and rolling resistance.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-09T17:21:54Z

@ascentale I can go on about this all day; let me know if you have any more specific questions. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-09T17:30:46Z

@bikemonterey
(1) I can't imagine anyone who has spent much time in Davis not talking about it when asked about bikes!

(2) I am so glad to hear about a bike organization doing intentional outreach to unhoused folks. I've seen too many bike advocacy groups ignore them or even treat them as a problem, and it is both disappointing and infuriating. I hope you can keep up the good work and serve as an example to other orgs!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-09T18:07:59Z

@ascentale @PedalHoppy Preliminary review of Sena helmet intercom after ~25 miles: They're... pretty ok?

They attached to our helmets without much trouble, though our bulky multi-impact-rated helmets don't have as much strap length as the roadie helmets Sena probably designed them for and it was a bit tricky to get them positioned right in front of our ears.

Noise filtering is excellent - it cuts out almost all car, wind, etc. sound from the mic - but I think it attenuates voice a little too.

Volume control doesn't have much granularity, so it can be tricky to find the sweet spot between "I can't hear you over the traffic" and "ow, my ears!" But at least now we can do the "sorry, I couldn't hear you over that truck, say it again?" routine at normal speaking volume instead of shouting 'till we're hoarse. Plus we can keep talking from two blocks apart, so I don't have to constantly tailgate my partner to stay in hearing range.

UX isn't great - all functions are accessed by pressing the two buttons in different combinations and durations, or you can pair with a phone app and get some of the controls that way.

They pair with a phone as a standard bluetooth headset so you can use them for navigation or music, too. One good bit of UX (haven't tested yet, but read about it) is that intercom interrupts music, and I think navigation or a phone call interrupts both, so you aren't hearing several things at once.

I really like that they don't cover the ears. It makes conversation harder to hear over the other noise, but means I can still hear cars, bike bells, etc..

The one odd downside I didn't expect is that now we have no privacy - no chance of e.g. muttering or humming under your breath without the other person hearing.

Overall, I like them and think they'll be worthwhile for us... but they are definitely not perfect.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-11T05:15:24Z

@WataruTenkawa@vivaldi.net Oof. Sadly, it's the opposite in the US - people were and continue to be incredibly resistant to masking, but helmets are generally worn even where they aren't required.

I'm leery of that comparison between masks and helmets though.
Mask: protects everyone in my vicinity
Helmet: protects me

I wear a helmet, always, and recommend it to others... but I don't like to see people judged for not wearing them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-11T05:25:43Z

@ellie That's fantastic!

I love the "This street is open for play!" signage. My partner has been raging* against "road closed" signs for years on the grounds that you aren't *closing* the road, you're *opening* it to all the non-car uses.

My favorite quote: "20% fewer kids are driven to school when the program is active, with more kids walking and biking"

(Now they just need to expand the hours and the radius until the entire city is like this 24/7.)

*my partner saw this and said "It's not really raging it's more... having conversations with street signs. Ok, maybe a little raging."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-13T03:55:13Z

@WataruTenkawa@vivaldi.net Ah, ok. Yeah, I'd put texting while cycling firmly in the "danger to others" category.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-13T04:11:19Z

@ascentale I'm maybe the wrong person to ask about this. My trike's steering geometry is unusual enough that most people couldn't ride away without crashing every few meters. It's heavy enough that you couldn't get it into a truck without a ramp or several people lifting. I mostly ride with my partner, and usually one of us stays near the trikes. Result: we hardly ever use our locks.

It's easy enough to lock the trike with attached solar panel to a regular bike rack. Someone could probably steal the panel off of it, but nobody has tried yet. A lot of people still don't realize that it *is* a solar panel, since it's mounted as a roof on a recumbent, and I think many people who recognize it don't understand the value of it.

My partner's trailer is harder to lock. We carried a cable for it at one point, but I don't think we ever used it. I find it's generally a nuisance to lock a trailer & bike combo.

Longer-term storage is tough because a cargo trike with a solar panel on it is huge and heavy... I'm lucky to have access to a shed for locking up at night.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-13T04:38:41Z

@jeremy_ai@masto.ai @ascentale We had some success with small stuff when we lived in PDX - calling the city to request repainting in several places, encouraging businesses to request bike racks from the city, etc.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-13T06:01:28Z

@hack Congratulations!

My voice is still far from being consistently heard as feminine, but I'm similarly looking forward to eventually being able to voice a bunch of different characters when reading aloud.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-13T06:13:26Z

@PedalHoppy @jeremy_ai@masto.ai Sailbikes and sailtrikes exist! Only practical in a limited set of circumstances, but I can confirm that when the wind is right they are REALLY FUN.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-13T22:04:05Z

@risingphoenix One of these days I'll organize & de-duplicate all the old files and consolidate them onto a single backup drive... one of these days.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-14T20:50:20Z

@glightly @SRLevine Yeesh. I think 10+ yrs ago Davis Bicycles asked the League to add another level above platinum so Davis would have a goal to aim for instead of resting on its laurels. Doesn't seem like that ever happened.

Davis (both the city and the university) has better bike infrastructure and culture than anywhere else I know of in the US and it's both inspiring (we could do this everywhere!) and extremely disappointing (seriously, this is the best we've got?).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-15T00:15:28Z

@glightly Well, that's appalling.

Disappointed but not surprised that LAB is unwilling to re-evaluate UCD sooner. Glad to hear they're at least willing to listen for the future.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-15T16:49:41Z

@TheLetterTen Yep. Also the sequel, "Recursion: I'm still not ignoring you, I'm just overwhelmed by worry that you might think I was ignoring you when in fact I was just overwhelmed."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-16T00:52:48Z

@arielkroon If you want to go the DIY conversion route, Grin Tech (ebikes.ca/) is based in Vancouver BC. They ship pretty much everywhere and are one of the best sources I know of for high-quality conversion kits (as long as a hub motor works for you; they don't do mid-drive).

They're strictly DIY kits, so you'd have to either install it yourself or find someone else willing to do it, but the folks at Grin have always been really helpful and supportive when I've had questions and issues, and they publish a bunch of resources on their website and on YouTube.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-16T15:32:20Z

@pixouls Ooh, is it one of the old eink nooks? I used those for a while because they were the only cheap andriod eink devices.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-16T18:12:41Z

Can anyone recommend something in between BaseRow/AirTable and "build a webapp from scratch"?

I'm looking for something that will provide a visual interface for storing, querying, and generating reports from a large dataset that's friendly to non-coders. The best thing I can come up with right now is MediaWiki with the Cargo or SemanticMediaWiki plugins and PageForms, but it seems like overkill to build a DB interface on top of a wiki.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-16T19:01:28Z

@pixouls Oh, the GlowLight! I had the previous version w/o a frontlight. They worked pretty well when I could find apps that were compatible with their very old version of android. The only other issue was stuff getting into the little gap around the screen that hides the... light sensors, I think? and causing it to register phantom touch events.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-17T00:35:54Z

@wendypalmer I see why you'd want the second in most situations... but as a potential reader, I apparently find the first description far more compelling.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-18T01:35:37Z

"What are we working on?"

"Finding a good Kanban or to-do system so we can stop asking 'What are we doing' all the time, I think."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-18T01:51:44Z

@rune ahahaha. Been there, failed to do that. I suspect you are a more capable coder than I am, though. I hope you come up with something that works for you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-18T02:16:17Z

@SRLevine @Zumbador It's just like riding a bike... but with the capacity to carry so much more stuff!

Really, any halfway-decently-designed trailer is almost unnoticeable when riding. The ability to just toss stuff in (or pile & strap big stuff on) can be a game-changer for transporting things by bike, especially if you do a lot of Freecycle/Craigslist/BuyNothing pickups or live somewhere with a strong culture of free piles.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-19T00:55:19Z

@psiie My understanding is that many of the identities/labels on the ace spectrum can be in addition to an orientation, if that suits you. Like, I'd say I'm a grey-ace lesbian.

I think someone who is demi and whose attraction doesn't have any relation to sex/gender might say they're demi and bi (or demi and pan) or might just say "demi," though some people would probably assume the latter means demi and straight because heteronormativity.

Also - Welcome to the ace spectrum! I find it really helpful to have descriptors for sexuality beyond just orientation; I hope it's similarly helpful for you.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-19T01:56:20Z

@Impossible_PhD @AnCuRuadh @psiie @Dani I was just about to say that this looks like a solid starting point for a transfem bingo card.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-19T04:02:52Z

@YouShallNotPass @lithisto My people!

*unfolds awl blade; picks dirt from under fingernails*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-20T18:23:01Z

@cargot_robbie @SRLevine You can also fill a bucket or small tub with water. Or fill up the sink. You can't get a whole tube into the water at once, but you can do it in sections.

(I'm about out of patches myself - time to get another 100-pack from Rema and find somewhere that'll sell me an oversize tube of vulcanizing glue. (Seriously, patch kit manufacturers, why do you think I need dozens of tiny plastic boxes and little rectangles of sandpaper?))

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-20T20:12:57Z

@pixouls Oh... yeah, I think so.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-20T21:50:02Z

@Dani Congratulations! Hope you had a good hike! (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-22T21:39:22Z

@quietbrooke That's a significant amount of lumber! You'd BETTER follow through with a thread about it, now that you've piqued everyone's curiosity. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-22T23:20:49Z

Just sitting around in the park, trying to make sense of the Docker config for the Canasta distribution of MediaWiki so I can maybe fix these database connection errors...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-23T01:43:43Z

@lispi314 Well, there's bunnyscience.dozuki.com/Guide/

I considered it a while back, but it seemed too fiddly for daily use when out-and-about. Might be able to adapt some the design to work with a cheaper passive full-face mask, though?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-23T02:54:56Z

@Dani Internal dividers? Nice! I like the style, and also that the strap looks like it might be long enough to wear cross-body.

Excellent repur(se)posing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-23T20:34:58Z

@AlwaysAutumn Just a guess, but I suspect it's got something to do with the way you're always being friendly and supportive and kind to people? (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-23T21:53:10Z

@sparkledragon5@chaosfem.tw It's so nice when it does that!

Lately I've felt like the gender wires in my brain are loose and they connect or disconnect at random, and... yeah. It's more fun when they connect with "girl" than when they don't.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-25T02:46:46Z
sarcasm re: healthcare

@lithisto Consistently rated 10/10 by insurance executives!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-25T03:44:22Z

I'm not yet very far into Planning Perfect by Haley Neil, but I love that the protagonist describes herself as "on the ace spectrum" instead of something more specific or defined.

There are so many ways to be ace, and even the dozens of lesser-known microlabels don't cover them all.

Nothing against characters who are more definite about their sexuality - I just like finding narratives that try to navigate these kinds of gray areas.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-25T17:25:37Z

@zebulonmysterioso My partner wears over-sunglasses from a brand called Cocoons. I've had good experiences with prescription photochromic lenses (the ones that get dark in the sun).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-27T04:05:12Z
transfem hrt excitement, etc.

Got estradiol patches today! I am officially on as of a few hours ago!

Unfortunately, they're only 0.05mg/day, which I am realizing is very low for not being on an antiandrogen.

HOWEVER! The reason they started me on this dose is because insurance will (apparently) accept it without question, so I was able to get it same-day instead of waiting for them to go back and forth justifying it to insurance. Due to scheduling mixups I have two more appointments in the next couple weeks. It seems likely I can get either bica or a higher dose of estradiol (maybe patches, but probably injections) by the time this batch runs out in a month.

I am very excited and a little stressed about making sure the patch doesn't fall off. 😁

Advice/suggestions welcome...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-27T04:45:20Z
re: transfem hrt excitement, etc.

@tuturto Thanks!

I've got Climara patches and have read that they are the most likely to fall off, but hopefully they'll make it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-27T04:51:28Z

@dr2chase Wow, really? I think we had at least one volunteer when we did this with a vintage Schwinn stationary bike.

Also: Bikes@Work trailers are great! Is that a skate wheel or something on the back corner?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-27T05:33:42Z

@psiie Ooh, good term.

My partner alternates between appreciating that I have this skill (when we have to make the place look tidy fast) and hating it (later, when the pile of stuff turns up somewhere less visible). I kind of agree with her.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-27T16:40:12Z

@YouShallNotPass @psiie I had a consult & sample session recently and the pain wasn't bad, but I know it varies from person to person. I guess a full session is probably worse than a quick sample, too?

I tried to focus on the faint lemon-y zing licked-a-battery flavor that you get sometimes when they apply current, which I find oddly pleasant.

The time commitment and the days of not shaving are what I worry about most. I'd probably wind up just wearing a mask or scarf for a year or two and it'd be fine, but... laser is sounding increasingly promising.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-27T19:38:05Z

*boils water to shave*
*gets distracted*

*re-boils water to shave*
*gets distracted*

*re-re-boils water to shave*

But on the bright side, the later in the day I shave, the less shadow I have in the evening!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-29T00:34:50Z

@enobacon I use OsmAnd and set a bunch of intermediate destinations, which is slow to set up but usually works. Occasionally I use the "avoid this road" feature too, but it's hard to predict how that will pan out.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-29T23:08:16Z

Finally got on (kg6gfq@bookrastinating.com)! Now I'd like to follow some people... are YOU on bookwyrm?

And if so, what's your account there so I can follow you?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-29T23:11:33Z

@alrs That's a nice-looking tandem!

@smellsofbikes I've ridden with independent pedaling (and quite liked it) but I'm having a hard time imagining how a mixer freewheel would work... Did each rider have independent shifters, or was it somehow automatic?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-31T00:52:47Z

Me: *wants to write a supportive response to someone talking about a negative experience, because I know a positive interaction can help sometimes*

Also me: Is this supportive enough? Too intense? Will it actually be helpful? What if I change that word? No, it was better the other way. What if it actually makes them feel worse? Is it too long? Is it too short? I'll come back to this in a while and try again. *goes away, comes back* Maybe I should try humor? No, that could read as dismissive; I'll aim for sincerity. Ack, too sincere! A lot of people just send hug or heart emojis, I could try that... No, that's really not my style. Do I say something like "best wishes" or just try to acknowledge and commiserate? Do I really have anything worth saying here? *reads posts by people who seem to be better at this, seeking inspiration* Aaugh I have no idea.

*deletes the toot*

*writes a meta-toot about it*

*sigh*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-31T04:24:52Z

@enobacon I was just talking to someone about this the other day.

My only sticking point with this is that it just says "bicycles" in stead of "bicycles, pedestrians, wheelchair users, skateboards, scooters, and other micromobility vehicles". I'd propose changing it to "for cars" (as in "Dead End For Cars") but then that's making it about the cars, and... argh.

Anyway, I like this! And I like , too. Nice hashtag. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-05-31T04:54:23Z

Wait... When you look at a book's page on , you can see peoples' reviews of it, but not their comments or quotes?

This seems like a flaw. I want to see everybody's favorite quotes!

*checks github*

Ah, somebody already opened an issue for this; looks like implementation is planned.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-05-31T14:40:51Z

@calliope Oh gosh, I can't even imagine. Books have always been there for me, and it breaks my heart a little that they haven't been for you.

I started with the Hardy Boys and never stopped - kept reading everything in sight, shifting to mostly female protagonists "because I wanted to be a better feminist" (true, but...) and recently binge-reading sapphic romance novels "because I can't relate to being attracted to men" (true, but...) until one of those sapphic rom-coms finally got me to confront my gender.

I'm so glad to hear that you found books that speak to you again. I hope they keep quenching that thirst for a long time. 📚

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-01T06:01:48Z
long rant about solar and cars

(edit) NOTICE: I messed up the physics pretty dramatically here and wound up with numbers much higher than they should have been. Am busy now but will edit accordingly later; apologies for the error. See replies for more info.

Sometimes people see the solar panel on my trike and say something about wanting a car. Let me just run the numbers here, just off the top of my head:

My - a big cargo tricycle - weighs a few hundred pounds (including me and whatever I'm carrying) and travels 10-15mph. I can go around 50 miles/day if it's sunny, and maintain a steady charge entirely from solar power.

A car probably weighs about 10x that and travels an average of 4x as fast.

Also, I usually provide around 50% of my trike's power by pedaling, which you don't get in a car.

So you'll need 10x4x2x the amount of solar panels I have on the trike to keep your car going at normal car speeds for 50 miles per day, which means 80x the solar panel area I have on the trike. If you only need to go 25 miles most days, you could get away with 40x the solar panels.

My trike's solar panel is about 3x4 feet (12sqft). Our hypothetical solar car is going to need between 480 and 960sqft of solar panels. At about 6 feet wide for an average car, that means your car needs to be 80 to 160 feet long. The average car is around 15 feet long. Our hypothetical solar car could be half the length of some city blocks.

Carrying enough solar panels to keep a car charged is somewhere between "difficult engineering challenge" and "downright absurd".

This isn't just about the implausibility of solar cars; it's about the absurdity of car design in general. Cars use an enormous amount of power for what they do. Electric cars may be an improvement over gas cars, but they are still incredibly inefficient.

This is (part of) why we need safe and routes, why we need good , why we need all kinds of and .

(I say "part of" because here's a whole other essay to write about the *safety* of a vehicle that's so heavy and so fast, but I'll save it for another day.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-01T17:32:23Z
re: long rant about solar and cars

@gom Oh, right. 🤦‍♀️ Thanks for pointing that out; will edit accordingly later.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-03T17:25:06Z

The local Pride parade is setting up outside our window, and we'd like to (1) put out some extra n95 masks in case anyone needs them, and (2) put up some kind of sign that reads as positive and supportive and possibly humorous.

Any recommendations for what to say?

@plaguepoems

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-07T03:42:53Z

@laurafry@artisan.chat I skimmed this, saw "warp" and "beamed" and briefly thought it was some kind of Star Trek weaving project.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-07T17:29:43Z

@salad_bar_breath 🤨 This must be your trademark sarcasm, because I've seen a few of your selfies on here and they always look fantastic.

Also, do we need to call in the Trans Mafia here? tiktok.com/@danbish99/video/72

Or does past you have it covered? todon.nl/@salad_bar_breath/110

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-08T01:43:56Z

@kaitlynethylia @deersyrup datastring = quipu, also?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quipu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-08T16:37:23Z

@proactivebusybody They've been doing this at cyclists for a while now.

I think someone tried to do it to me once, but they got the timing wrong and it just sounded like they didn't know how to operate their truck.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-09T22:54:49Z

@Bman Any number of wheels is excellent, so long as the vehicle weighs less than what it carries and isn't disproportionately life-threatening.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-10T20:08:47Z

@capntransit Well, that's disappointing.

I guess I'd change "Full Closure" to "No Cars" and "Limited Local Access" to "Limited Car Access - Local Only". It isn't ideal because it's still a negative framing and makes things about cars, but it's at least accurate.

If we had a commonly-recongized term for "everything except cars" I'd flip the framing, but saying "Only bicycles, pedestrians, skaters, wheelchairs & powerchairs, scooters, and other micromobility devices" is way too much.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-10T20:28:56Z

@AlwaysAutumn Oof, yeah. I've been doing that with all things medical because the local clinic is pretty good about using preferred names but I haven't quite figured out which departments/referrals/prescriptions are still going to be associated solely with my paperwork name.

@DelilahTech My partner's feminine-coded English name reads as masculine in Spanish. People occasionally used to think I was part of a gay male couple. Someday soon I expect they'll start assuming I'm a straight cis woman. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-10T20:34:41Z

@Bman @sigrithur We need a little mock-advertising campaign for plastic bollards.

* Easy to drive over!
* Looks like you're protecting vulnerable road users without providing any actual protection!
* Cheaper than real bollards AND lawsuits!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-11T04:39:57Z

@ellie @salad_bar_breath I have been following this conversation with great interest and amusement, and as far as I can tell it hasn't even gotten to the originally intended freezerbag infodump yet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-11T04:55:18Z

It's not Friday but I'm going to tag this with anyway because I meant to do it yesterday and only just got around to it.

3 consecutive clips of me reading the first sentence of Small Miracles by Olivia Atwater. First clip is 4 months ago, second clip is 1 month ago, third clip is tonight.

"Chapter 1: It was eight o'clock on a Wednesday morning when the Fallen Angel of Petty Temptations walked into a quaint café on the north end of Church Street." (repeated 3 times with changes to the sound)
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-11T17:03:28Z

@renegadejade@hachyderm.io Just checked the built-in reader app on my Onyx Boox and it does not seem to have highlighting as a TTS feature.

I suspect modern e-ink devices like the Boox could handle it with a 3rd-party app, but you'd still have the DRM issue. 😞

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-12T04:59:28Z

*turns off flashlight*

*drops flashlight*

Uh-oh, it's too dark to see where the flashlight fell.

*pulls second flashlight out of pocket*

(apparently there is a reason to carry multiple flashlights on one's person)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-12T06:58:51Z

@robotfactory You're in PDX, right? You might want to check whether there's a tool library that covers your neighborhood instead of (or in addition to) getting tools from Harbor Freight. As of a few years ago they covered much of N, NE, and SE and people were talking about starting them on the westside too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-12T07:12:58Z

@jemal@jemal.contact @dr2chase I'd bet the wider BB will do the trick. If your current BB was loose or damaged I'd expect you to feel a clicking or shifting sensation as you alternated pedal strokes any time you were pedaling hard. That photo looks like really tight clearance between the crank and chainstay; I'm not surprised it's a problem. A small amount of flex is normal in bicycle frames, with the amount varying depending on the material and frame design. This BB and crank combination is likely just wrong for the frame. The increased clearance from a longer spindle should more than accommodate any increase in leverage. Though... what's the clearance like on the other side? Is it at least similar?

Also: Bike collectives are my favorite!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-12T16:17:19Z

@suksisauvasekoitin @dr2chase @gerrymcgovern "172-cm-high washer-dryer tower weighing 145 kg"

Eh, I've hauled bigger and heavier things on a Bikes@Work trailer. It'd be slow and would have to be laid down flat, but it is doable. 😁​🚲

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-12T17:18:59Z

Lately when I see vanity license plates that use "HRT" as an abbreviation for "heart" I read them a differently than I used to.

Someone should make shirts or stickers that say something like "I :heart_trans:​HRT:heart_trans: myself."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-12T17:23:54Z

@donaldball

The best helmet mirror I've used is the EVT SafeZone, by a huge margin. However...

I'm pretty sure constantly looking up and to the side exacerbated my astigmatism*, so I recommend handlebar mirrors now. I don't have a particular model to recommend, though.

* There's a definite correlation between getting the mirror and an increase in my astigmatism, the axis lines up, and I've read that looking to the side is at least a hypothesized risk factor for astigmatism.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-15T07:10:23Z

@ingalls Do it!

I hauled a little apartment-size countertop dishwasher 50 miles by cargo trike a couple weeks ago. The people who posted it to Craigslist were... surprised. (-:

If you actually want to haul it but trailer price is an issue, I might be able to connect you with someone in PDX who could lend or rent you a Bikes@Work trailer. That said... If you can get a Bikes@Work trailer for yourself, it's absolutely worthwhile.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-15T18:20:46Z

@categulario Linux command line, I assume? Someone in my timeline was posting about the "units" command recently and I think it will do something like that: linux.die.net/man/1/units

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-16T00:31:41Z

@Dani @faithisleaping That sounds similar to how I feel about makeup. Clothes and hair are fun, but I just don't have any interest in makeup.

Might be influenced by my partner never wearing makeup. Also I think my preferred gender presentation is a mix of "quite femme" and "tomboyish," and I get enough femme from clothing and hair.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-16T00:35:19Z

@Dani @faithisleaping Oh, and I've been thinking lately about a sentence my partner picked up from a friend: "You're female, so anything about you and anything you do is, by definition, feminine."

Sometimes it helps. 🙂

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-16T00:53:12Z

@scrottie @dx I've DIYed the "cat ears" a few times for long descents. They helped me hear passing cars over the wind noise and also kept my ears a little warmer.

If your goal is to actually hear someone else, I wouldn't expect them to make much difference. We finally gave in and got helmet intercoms this year, and those do help if you can get past the hassle of managing a bluetooth device attached to your helmet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-16T03:58:04Z

@dx @scrottie Oh, it might be adequate for someone on the back of the same bike, especially if wind noise is the main issue.

My DIY solution was to wrap cheap knit gloves around my helmet straps, so you could test it that way.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-16T04:01:19Z

@scrottie @dx We tried walkie-talkies and the audio quality was awful. I wish we could hush the cars! For now we're using Sena Pi intercoms, which are not perfect but they're a whole lot better than shouting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-17T01:22:09Z

@forteller Yeah, looks like an Otoscope with... are those dental exam mirror attachments as well? That's a nice kit!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-17T03:03:39Z

What is the state of discourse on comparing the experiences of two marginalized groups?

It would be nice to read an overview of this conversation to date.

We're looking at similarities between the experience of trans folks and folks who walk/bike for transportation with the goal of building solidarity, but I know there's other takes on it, more along the lines of "everyone's experience of suffering/oppression is unique".

Particularly interested in any writing on the topic, but blogs/articles/etc. are good too.

:boostRequest:​ I'd appreciate boosts, replies with tags that might be helpful, et cetera. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-17T03:21:29Z

@VaylLarkinPoet Yes, we're very aware of that and will definitely take it into account & point it out in any resulting materials.

Thanks for the reminder, though! It's an area where the bike community at large has... a lot of room for improvement. 🙁​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-17T03:36:50Z

@salad_bar_breath Well, the reasons we're doing this particular comparison are

(1) we saw a call for paper presentations for a conference session about gender and active transportation, and they were specifically encouraging applicants from outside academia, and

(2) being trans and being a cyclist/pedestrian are kind of the big things in my life right now (and the two areas where I'm notably non-normative / marginalized), and I can't help comparing them so I might as well do something with it, and maybe hopefully it could be the basis for increasing some understanding and empathy and solidarity.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-17T04:48:28Z

@enobacon Are they raw & whole or in some immediately-edible form?

(I guess one could theoretically chomp on whole beets, but I would be disinclined to do so.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-18T07:14:43Z

@ascentale @glightly A6. Anything that assumes bikes have only 2 wheels that are centered about 50" apart, and are only a couple feet wide (and that only at the highest point).

Which didn't quite prevent us from taking a 10' long recumbent tandem on a ferry to San Francisco that one time, but it was a real pain getting it up and down the stairs.

Also the thing where cities put a little channel on the side of a stairway and acting like it's bike infrastructure. (Definitely can't shove a trike up that. Even 2-wheel recumbents have a low wide spot due to the seat and have to lean out at a really awkward angle so they don't bump the wall/handrail. Same with some cargo bikes, and even a conventional bike with wide panniers like the buckets I used to favor is challenging to fit on these things.)

"Walk your bike" zones don't make any sense when you ride a bike that's easier to control when riding than when walking, as is often the case for any recumbent with under-seat steering and the majority of recumbent trikes. I just ride through them slowly and cautiously.

I thing what I'd change for most of these is to require that anyone designing bike infrastructure ride around for a while on a variety of bikes and trikes so they account for that diversity in their designs.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-19T05:34:11Z

@glightly I was really excited to see the GoLo! I feel like it's the most innovative thing FlevoBike has produced since the original flevobike/trike and the early Alleweder velomobile designs. Didn't realize they were involved in designing the Armadillo; that's interesting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-19T20:05:56Z

@dx @enobacon I believe Eco Counter is one of the bigger providers of permanent counters (which is to say, they list 304 counters on their map of installations, including a few in PDX).

Sounds like they do use inductive loops to count wheels and they do a bunch of processing/analysis to determine what gets counted, but the details are unclear. You might be able to ask them... eco-counter.com/produits/cycli

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-20T02:05:28Z
feeling kinda down, dysphoria, etc.

I've been emotionally exhausted the past few days and I don't know exactly why.

Possibilities include:
- I was late swapping out my estrogen patch (but it's such a low dose and I've only been on them for 3 weeks, so that seems unlikely)
- The estrogen might be having some effect and it turns out my body/brain doesn't like estrogen, which is kind of a terrifying possibility for me right now. (again, though, seems improbable)
- My internal sense of gender might have shifted away from feminine for a while, in which case I could have been dysphoric about presenting femme. You'd think I would know which way my genderfeels were going at any given time, but I'm learning that it isn't always obvious.
- I could also have been dysphoric because I didn't feel sufficiently feminine. There were a couple of days w/o shaving in there, which often gets to me.
- Not sleeping enough, which could have caused or been caused by some of the other things on this list.
- Might have used up all my emotional processing capacity writing a letter to my dad and didn't have anything left.

I guess it's probably some combination of the above. Anyway, today's a bit better - going for a jog this morning and listening to music helped, I think.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-20T02:09:48Z

@glightly I saw these on a parked truck recently and was trying to figure out what kind of protective covers I could put on them that would make the most interesting statement. Maybe foam clown noses?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-21T23:09:39Z

@ellie In which the person who gives the fewest fucks wins?

I wrote that as a jokey throwaway comment but I sat with it a little and it sounds like a pretty accurate description of the socioeconomic system prevalent in much of the world today which, like golf, wastes an inordinate amount of resources for the enjoyment of a small percentage of people, most of who are unreasonably weathy and don't appear to care much about others. Huh.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-22T01:42:11Z

@emilyaviva You can follow @KJ7OMO for reminders about the weekly Pride Radio Group Net.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-22T19:04:47Z

@faequeenapril Sounds like a fun trip!

I don't know what the route is like - will you be on paved or unpaved roads?

It might also help for bike recommendations to know what gear you're carrying - are you going with super-ultralight gear or more of a regular bike touring load?

I always recommend that people try recumbent bikes and that goes double for long trips. The difference in terms of comfort is incredible.

If you want to reach more people, you might want to add the BikeTooter tag; it seems like that's what the Mastodon bike community has converged on.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-22T19:42:34Z
mention of death

@bikescape A cyclist here died after hitting a bollard at the entrance to a shared path a few months ago. I think the bollard has since been repainted in a much brighter yellow (it was old and faded).

@enobacon Avoidance lines sound like an excellent idea. I'll have to check and see if those are getting added to the local bollards around here.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-23T07:25:54Z

@faequeenapril Neat!

I don't know what price range you're considering, and that can dramatically impact your options. I'm not really qualified to comment on anything expensive or high-end; my focus is on bikes that are either pretty cheap or extremely weird. (-:

You can tour on anything, though. I've met people who traveled thousands of miles on department-store mountain bikes in such appalling condition I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy. I've made some fairly long trips on old refurbished road and mountain bikes that cost a few hundred USD. I used to maintain a rental fleet that included a couple Jamis Auroras, which seemed like decent lowish-budget touring bikes at slightly under $1000, and I've known a lot of folks who swear by Surly models like the Trucker (~$2000 new). It keeps going up from there, but again that isn't my area of expertise.

There's the whole range of gravel bikes and bikepacking bikes now that... I don't really know much about them; someone else can chime in maybe. They seem to be lighter and more oriented towards off-road riding. The gear-carrying system is based less on racks and panniers and instead uses off-the-seat bags and giant handlebar bags and frame bags. I don't know how people manage with so little gear - I guess either you spend several hundred dollars on an ultralight/ultracompact tent or you make do with a tarp and a mosquito net.

If I were going on a long bike trip and not riding a recumbent (yikes, I've got saddle sores just thinking about it) I would probably go the refurbished MTB route: Take a good quality non-suspension mountain bike from the 80s/90s, overhaul it (or take it to a good shop for an overhaul), and fit it out with semi-slick tires like Schwalbe Marathon Pluses and whatever racks or other gear-carrying systems I wanted. It wouldn't be super-light, but it would be solid and reliable and suitable for on- and off-road use. To give my upper body some variety over the course of the day, I'd probably track down something like trekking/butterfly handlebars or the Jones H-bar, or get creative with clamp-on bar-ends.

Hopefully some of that is helpful! Happy to answer further questions if I can.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-24T04:55:32Z

@ellie I believe Eco Counter is one of the main providers of permanent counters and they use induction loops, same as most intersections. eco-counter.com/produits/cycli (this is the second time I've linked to them from masto in a week?!)

I remember someone in PDX 5+ years ago talking about developing little sensor packs for bike detection that didn't require permanent installation, but don't know if that went anywhere and I can't remember who the person was.

Also I want to know why you're asking about this!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-24T05:25:22Z

@faequeenapril Oh, ok! You've already got it narrowed down pretty tight - two hybrids and a gravel bike? And they all look like decent bikes for the prices.

I will say that the last one may not have Shimano components, but it looks like most of the drivetrain is from Microshift and they seemed to have a pretty good reputation when I was working in shops 5+ yrs ago. So that's not necessarily a mark against it.

The people I knew who rode 650b wheelsets always used to have a harder time finding tires than people who rode 700s; don't know if that's still the case or if there's regional differences but it's something I would consider with the Raleigh.

It is hard to choose! None of them would be my first choice (they are neither secondhand nor weird) but they all look like good bikes. I get the impression that the quality and price both increase together so there isn't an obvious best deal, either.

Do you have an opportunity to test-ride any of them?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-24T23:45:19Z

@SleepyCatten The main one for me was: You don't have to have some intense, innate sense that you're the wrong gender to be trans. You don't have to have clear negative feelings about your gender-assigned-at-birth. It is sufficient to just want to be a different gender. (At the very least, sufficient to merit some serious consideration.)

Also more information about the logistics of medical transition. I had never really thought about it in detail, but so far it's turning out to be a lot more doable than I expected. I know that's not the case for everyone, but I'm fortunate to be in a region where the medical establishment is not very gatekeep-y.

Also also: It's possible to be trans and genderfluid. I mostly had to figure out for myself that being genderfluid didn't necessarily exclude the possibility that transitioning might be worthwhile.

Genderdysphoria.fyi and trans folks on the fediverse covered the first two pretty well, though, so I owe the internet trans community a lot of gratitude. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-25T04:41:45Z

@brass75 @zombierustpunk Same. Posting takes significant effort for me. Replying takes a little less because at least I'm not starting something out of the blue. But a lot of the time I just read.

Trying to ⭐ more things lately as a way of quietly engaging, but sometimes I forget it's an option.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-25T18:03:37Z

@whack @pmcnally I met another bike tourist once who had a full-size US flag on the back of his bike. I believe what he said was "If they don't care about running over a cyclist, they might care about running over the flag."

I'd suggest that there is potential overlap between hi-vis used in hunting, hi-vis used by flaggers, and hi-vis used by cyclists... but some articles have been making the rounds lately about drivers seeing cyclists who wear hi-vis as "less human" so that's maybe a toss-up.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-26T01:25:33Z

@pqqq I like that idea.

My mom draws little flowers on her N95 masks. I'd like to do something similar but I am also very much not artsy.

I've seen some photos of geometric designs on respirators that looked cool; I could probably manage that...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-26T17:51:12Z

@Lucia 😆

Solidarity!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-27T03:12:07Z

@MLE_online @smellsofbikes I can't see much of it in the video, but I would bet this is not vintage since it has a quick-release.

I ❤️ dynohubs.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-27T03:23:08Z

After decades of wearing nothing shorter than knee-length "mens" shorts, I have mixed feelings about wearing higher hemlines. It goes something like:

  1. Sun and air on my legs! So nice!
  2. Can people see up my shorts/skirt? tugs hem down a little
  3. These are pretty cute. 🙂
  4. Aaaaah I feel so exposed.
  5. Start over at step 1.

I'm sure I'll get used to it eventually...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-27T05:02:49Z
re: unsolicited advice, maybe not relevant?

@twistylittlepassages Thanks! I do often wear shorts or cut-off leggings under skirts, which helps some.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-28T02:58:41Z

@aWildThorp Fiction or nonfiction?

If fiction, maybe some of Kim Stanley Robinson's books? Also I've seen Foxhunt by Rem Wigmore described as a solarpunk setting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-30T00:11:26Z

@nerdybutcute Oh, huh.

Umm... Thank you for providing my next journaling topic.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-30T03:49:37Z

@wren@chaosfem.tw Cripes. 😟 I hope you get to rest soon.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-30T06:57:40Z

@wren@chaosfem.tw 🎉 🎉 😴

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-30T13:26:34Z

PSA # 1: Don't leave trash/recycling cans in the bike lane. (Municipalities and trash companies, that includes you! Work with residents to find better solutions.)

PSA # 2: When riding a bicycle, don't try to kick or shove trash/recycling cans closer to the curb. Not even when riding a tricycle.

PSA # 3: Ow. Nothing serious, just a little scraped up. Still... Ow.

(I've done it successfully many times before, but my luck finally ran out.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-30T17:16:59Z

I was reading the archives of "I want to be a cute anime girl" on Webtoons by @AzulCrescent and repeatedly misread the text at the bottom of the page that says "Enjoying the series? Support the creator by becoming a patron."

I kept reading it as "...by becoming a woman"

Yup.

(Also, the comic is really sweet and adorable. How have I not read this before? It's going on the roster of webcomics I check regularly: webtoons.com/en/challenge/i-wa)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-06-30T17:21:20Z

@susannah aaaagh that sounds so frustrating. It's great that you're trying, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-06-30T17:25:35Z

@IzzyOmega Oh gosh, that hits rather close to home.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-01T03:27:32Z

@ascentale @glightly A3. Favorite cycle was probably my old python midracer recumbent, which I built mostly at the UC Davis Craft Center - I think it was the third 'bent I built. It was slightly janky and a few of the welds failed and had to be repaired later, but I still remember rolling to a stop at home and just sitting on the bike in the driveway because it was so comfortable. I let it fall into disrepair for a while and it was stored with my parents when one of the big California fires swept through. All that was left afterwards was some bent and twisted tubing.

Recumbent bicycle leaning against a brick planter bed. The bike is pieced together from parts of several different frames with mismatched paint. The seat is made from rainbow-colored webbing straps.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-01T04:12:05Z

@glightly @ascentale Yes and no. It was disappointing, but by the time it burned I had built something new and didn't know if/when I might come back to it. My attitude toward my DIY bikes is mostly that they are an infinite succession of prototypes, with each one informing the next generations. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-01T04:47:40Z

@ascentale @bikenut@mastodon.social A5. I buy bike stuff (like most other stuff) secondhand wherever possible. My preference is usually to get things from Bike Collectives / Bike Kitchens / Community Bike Shops / whatever the local equivalent is. Partly because they often have good stuff at good prices, partly because I want to support bicycle reuse and bike repair education, and partly because I first learned to work on bikes at a collective and have been involved with them ever since.

I almost always donate bike stuff to the local collective if they want it. (They don't always want it. Keeping a community shop tidy, organized, and functional in the face of endless donations, many of which are cheap bikes not designed for repair, is a thankless task.)

I help maintain the big list of collectives here: bikecollectives.org/wiki/Commu

We're working on making it easier to browse/search/filter/edit the list; I'm hopeful that we'll have a significantly better interface later this year.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-01T05:11:33Z

@faithisleaping That's good to hear! I visited an electrologist who was strongly anti-laser, and then found out laser is what my insurance covers right now.

I was a little concerned after talking to that electrologist, but reading about your and others' experiences with laser has been reassuring.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-01T05:43:13Z

@faithisleaping Thanks! I think that's the most helpful overview/comparison I've seen yet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-02T09:43:48Z

@AlwaysAutumn I'm going to say "yes" because if the answer is no, then I'm doing it wrong.

(Well, "hot" isn't quite my preferred adjective for myself, so I'm considering "cute" or "pretty" to be functionally equivalent for this purpose.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T05:27:57Z

@salad_bar_breath Wait, what's this about convection ovens?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T05:36:26Z

@salad_bar_breath Oooh, now I remember seeing that.

*phew* I was afraid I'd missed out on an important part of Rayne lore.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T17:52:28Z

@RoseRaven If you include books in "media"...

Have you seen the posts from @ClH2OArs? Plus it looks like aroacedatabase.com/ is up again.

When I've got some more time I might be able to recommend a few specific books that I like, but I think Claudie knows what's out there better than pretty much anyone else.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T17:54:23Z

@glightly There used to be one landscaper who got the university to buy him a cargo trike and trailer instead of a gas vehicle. I wonder if he's still around?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T18:39:20Z

@glightly @TheWarOnCars Yeah, that (like most things I know about Davis) is 10 years out of date.

I thought there would be something about it on DavisWiki, but found only the briefest mention. Might have been covered in the Enterprise or Aggie at some point... Ah, yeah. Mike Griffith. Here's an article that mentions him: davisenterprise.com/news/local

And here's a DavisWiki page with a few links (broken but available on archive.org): daviswiki.org/Human_Powered_Ut (Oh, and I used to volunteer at the bike collective with Jason Moore, who apparently worked with Griffith on the project.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T19:08:44Z

@RoseRaven Er... not sure what list you're referring to there.

(I wasn't sure if books would count for this because sometimes it seems like people use "media" to mean just tv and movies.)

Webcomics... I don't think any of the comics I regularly read have strong ace/demi rep. Some of the comics I read less frequently might qualify; I'll ponder that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T19:23:23Z

@audrinabell @wmbr

Listening to this now, it's fun!

Also,

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T19:45:15Z

@RoseRaven Oh, that makes sense. No worries! (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T19:53:20Z

@aWildThorp I just added A Half-Built Garden by Ruthanna Emrys to my to-read list when it showed up in my bookwyrm feed. It seems to be well reviewed and described as solarpunk.

bookrastinating.com/book/47216

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-03T22:55:04Z

@psiie Congratulations! Glad it was not-awful.

Partner and I were talking about awkward positive responses yesterday, and how sometimes people seem really performative about explaining "no, really, I'm supportive and love trans people and hate transphobes" and it goes on and on and... eh.

It's better than the opposite, but often I'd rather hear a simple "awesome, congrats, let me know if you want me to do something besides switching name/pronouns."

@YouShallNotPass

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-05T02:05:04Z

@enobacon Nice! The panel support frame looks great.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-05T04:38:35Z

I haven't yet collected info about my experiences with solar e-bikes anywhere, so here are links to a few of my old posts on the subject in case anyone is curious:

general thoughts on solar e-bikes: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1103398

photo of two solar e-trikes: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1094876

good photo & notes on regenerative braking: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1099448

me rambling about the solar charging system: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1095435

snow can be a problem: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1099280

re-configured to use the solar panel as a trunk lid instead of a roof: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1126526

not by me, but the best resource I know for solar ebike technical info: solare.bike/technical-stuff/

Solar recumbent cargo tricycle: A delta trike (one wheel in front, two in back) constructed from rectangular aluminum tubing. Behind the seat is a low, 4-foot-long cargo box built around the rear wheels, made from scavenged plastic and orange-painted plywood. There is a grey plastic tote strapped on top of the cargo box, and strapped to the back of the trike is a folding chair, a couple of sleeping pads, and a spare tire. Mounted above the seat and cargo box is a flexible solar panel on a yellow-painted plywood frame, supported by old crutches at the rear and two smaller aluminum tubes at the front.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-05T21:54:28Z
sexism

Ooh, I get to check one off the bingo card!

Had a conversation with the fire alarm technician in which he addressed all questions and comments to the other person present (a guy) while I answered all the questions because I'm the one who has been dealing with this round of alarm issues.

I guess my gender presentation is successfully communicating "female".

:eyeroll:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-05T22:14:01Z

...when someone else brushes the dog and then hands you the hair, so you feel compelled to finger-spin a few meters of chiengora.

A small handful of loosely-coiled, thin, beige yarn.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-06T06:13:52Z

@MLE_online Are you looking at front-loaders or longtails? Bakfietsen are pretty bulky, but in my experience longtails are mostly just long and they're easy to DIY given ~1.75 suitable frames.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-06T06:23:06Z

@sous_mon_masque Aww, that's simultaneously sweet and unfortunate.

Also: Welcome to the adding-a-middle-name club! I recently got mine approved; now it's time to go update it everywhere.

I hope things go right for the next try!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-06T06:47:36Z

@salad_bar_breath Aaaaaah! Go sleep so you can be comparatively well-rested for your appointment. I hope it goes well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-06T18:43:47Z

@njeanneburns@mspsocial.net Oh no! I hope you can get plenty of rest and it passes quickly, whatever it is.

(Also: Aaargh, dentists. The last one I went to was nominally "masks required" and yet they didn't do/say anything about the people making out in the corner of the waiting room. I'm not sure they had the air filters turned on either. *sigh*)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-07T04:37:06Z

@YouShallNotPass If they try, they're gonna have to take mine too.

I dropped out of the CompSci program because (among other reasons) I was tired of doing all my homework in basement-level computer labs.

(It's ok, I've read genderdysphoria.fyi a few times now and I'm pretty confident "work in CompSci" is only a strong indicator, not a defining trait.​)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-08T05:22:10Z

@ascentale @glightly A8. "I Got A Bicycle" by Coco Love Alcorn. I haven't found a really clear recording online; this is probably the best: youtube.com/watch?v=ApO491kOh_

There's a sample of the proper recording on her website, complete with bike sounds: cocolovealcorn.com/track/10505

Also, this thread needs the tag!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-08T05:37:34Z

@sofia@toot.site @salad_bar_breath

me, scrolling further down my home feed: "Oh, that's what the mascara thing was about."

Also, the matching screennames are lovely. (maybe if I keep scrolling I'll learn what they're about)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-08T17:28:31Z

@mnl @mekkaokereke I believe someone in PDX did an informal study of this several years back - went and sat at a few intersections and watched traffic. Her finding was that cyclists and drivers break a similar number of traffic laws, but they are different laws (e.g. cyclists rarely speed, but they roll through stops more often; drivers often speed but stop at intersections more consistently).

Drivers perceive cyclists as scofflaws because they are doing the *wrong* wrong things, not the wrong things that drivers consider normal and acceptable.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-08T18:00:10Z

@mnl Oh, absolutely! Most "scofflaw" cyclist behavior is a reaction/adaptation to infrastructure and laws that aren't designed with cycling in mind.

...which is getting a little off the topic of the thread, but maybe I can bring it back around:

As others in the thread have pointed out, cycling - especially for transportation - is, for many otherwise privileged people, a rare experience. It's one of the only times they are non-normative, have their needs unheard and unacknowledged by society at large, find themselves on the receiving end of systemic inequality. It's different from being oppressed in any other way (every kind of oppression is unique in the details) but it is a point of reference that can help build understanding and solidarity. Cyclists aren't inherently inclined to care about others, but they do have a better basis for building empathy.

Someone who experiences the sort of casual disregard from government and society that a cyclist does, and who therefore has to break laws just to exist safely, is maybe a bit more likely than the average person to understand something like "a riot is the language of the unheard" (Martin Luther King Jr.).

(You can make an argument from the other side, too: Among the reasons I bike are concern about environmental impact and traffic fatalities. So people who care about other people may also be more disposed to care about bikes.)

Having said all that... I don't know how it compares to the general population, but I've seen a really stark and disappointing lack of intersectionality in bike advocacy. It's refreshing to hear someone say there's an overlap between biking and empathy, because I don't always see it on a day-to-day basis.

Ok, that got long and ramble-y, going to just post it now before I think of something else to add.

@mekkaokereke

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-08T18:22:18Z

@mnl @mekkaokereke My partner pointed out that it snowballs, too:

Maybe you start cycling, in part, because you care about people
...and that experience gives you a better understanding of what it is to be marginalized
...and then you care more about oppression
...so you look into it more and learn more about systemic inequality, which applies to bike advocacy AND other stuff
...et cetera.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-11T23:27:44Z

@glightly I'll second that. I caught the tail end of recumbents being really unique. My partner had been riding a 'bent longer than I had, so I've heard more about it from her.

Now we have the solar trikes and are once again distinctive enough that lots of people get really excited about them.

(I mostly enjoy when people get excited about the trikes. Occasionally it gets old having people act like I'm a tourist attraction, or getting asked the same three questions every day, but I still respond positively.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-12T00:05:07Z

@glightly Oof.

There was a time when I might have been one of those dudes; I like to think I've learned at least a few things since then.

I feel like my mantra lately has been "bike advocacy has an intersectionality problem." I think I'm going to be repeating that for good long while...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-12T03:08:12Z

@glightly Lack of COVID precautions.

Most of what I'd like to be doing re:climate right now is community-based. Community gardens, bike collectives, advocacy groups, repair cafes... the established ones in my area mostly went from "we are shut or not accepting volunteers during the pandemic" to "the pandemic is over, let's all do stuff together unmasked". I'm not confident about trying to start something new because either we require masking and deal with the associated pushback, or we don't and... nope, not doing that.

I don't want to get covid again and increase the risk of long-term effects, and I *really* don't want to be any more of a vector if I can avoid it. (Really, what ever happened to "my mask keeps you safe, your mask keeps me safe"?)

I think the most impactful things I could do involve working locally with groups of people - it's what I've done a lot in the past, I love doing it, and it seems to really make a difference. It just isn't a viable option right now.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-19T02:25:29Z

@uxmark Wow, I am touched to be included on a recommendation list with a bunch of really awesome people!

@spydergrrl
Do you follow @mediaarchaeologylab, @rose_alibi, and/or @loriemerson? They all tend to post interesting stuff about media and technology history that might be tangentially related to UX.

There are a lot of great people around who talk about cycling & bikes, but one of my favorites who comes to mind right now (and isn't already listed in this thread) is @glightly.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-19T03:03:58Z
re: Rayne AMA, 58

@salad_bar_breath Now I want to know the possessive pronoun that goes with out/law.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-19T03:29:14Z

@scott I just started reading that and am currently LIVID. The Richmon-San Rafael bridge is the most direct* route for me to visit one of my oldest friends, or anyone/anything else in the East Bay or Sacramento Valley.

It sounds like the people to contact if I want to make noise about this are the Bay Area Council? Is anyone else doing advocacy around this?

(The freeway-shoulder route to the bridge is so unpleasant, I instead take a mile or so detour on a bumpy unpaved path to access it.)

* it's the "most direct" in the way that so many bike routes are - an 80-odd mile car trip, but the safe bike route is nearly 150 miles.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-19T03:38:54Z

@scott I was reading the quotes from people in Richmond about pollution, etc. and going "ok, we need to make sure we address this from an intersectional perspective, it's no good to build bike infrastructure that has harmful knock-on effects for a historically Black neighborhood". Bike advocacy needs to do a better job of intersectionality, antiracism, etc.

And then I got to nearly the end of the article and found this tidbit:

"The time it takes to travel through the corridor grew by one minute. There was congestion before and there is congestion now,"

...but now I'm thinking that one minute multiplied by however many cars drive through there is really a lot of additional pollution.

Putting patches on a broken world is rarely easy, I guess.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-19T03:52:03Z

@scott Oooh, got it. I have tabs open for MCBC, Rich City Rides, and RBPAC. (-:

None of them seem to be mentioning this on their websites yet, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-19T04:06:54Z

@scott Right, emailing now. My usual inclination is to spend several hours researching and get burnt out; just sending an email is a much better tactic I think.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-19T04:32:58Z

My favorite, if rather depressing, quote from the email I just wrote to a few advocacy groups:

"normal cyclist levels of fear"

(As opposed to "cyclist on a multi-lane highway levels of fear" or "cyclist on a busy, windy road with no shoulder where cars go 50mph levels of fear". And I consider myself fortunate to live in a place where there exists a "normal" that is better than either of those.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-19T09:06:49Z

@TicklishHoneyBee@strangeobject.space Not quite so dramatic as that, but... We had a guest with a service (albeit not guide) dog in training once, and he used my partner's glasses as a chew toy while she was taking a nap.

The glasses were relatively undamaged so it was fine. He was always trying so hard to be a Good Dog, but he was also still very much a puppy sometimes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-21T05:13:40Z

@ellie 🤣​

"Streaming media? No, no, I said SCREAMING media. You know, like *imitates fax machine noises*"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-21T06:35:46Z

I just re-read Small Miracles by Olivia Atwater for the... fourth time. Or was it the fifth? I've lost count. Anyway...

I love Atwater's prose and humor.

I find the casual fluidity of the angels' gender presentation... aspirational? I think that's the sentiment I'm looking for. I'd like to live in a world where it's not a big deal that "Gadriel had opted to be a man today, in an attempt to shake up his thinking."

I appreciate that Atwater riffs on Good Omens by Gaiman & Pratchett, but scales it down from "save the world!" to "save these few people" because things don't have to be world-ending to be important.

More than anything, though, I like this book for what it says:

About love - "[...] love is something you do. Quite often, it's something you choose."

And about despair and hope - "But creation wasn't made just to despair, Wormwood. There's an awful lot that's still going to happen between now and that last, dreadful moment. There are small lives being lived, and small triumphs being had, and small people enjoying their favorite red velvet cupcakes. And all of those small things still have meaning, even if they someday have to end."

One of these days I'll write a proper review on BookWyrm and post a zillion quotes and then boost the best ones here, but I wanted to post something about it now when it's in my head.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-21T17:19:56Z

Just had a phone call where I needed to give the name "Darin" but decided to speak with my best feminine voice regardless.

The person on the other end misheard my name twice, first as "Carin" and then as "Erin".

I think it might be working.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-21T17:22:20Z

@EnaWasHere Feeding people is an important and valuable role!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-23T03:03:06Z

@suzisteffen I am far from an expert, but I get the impression "not dressing up" is a very Tig Notaro-ish thing to do.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-23T19:17:25Z

Are there any WYSIWYG tools these days that generate clean, responsive, accessible HTML pages?

I just need a static landing page that looks good and a little distinctive.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-24T01:01:49Z

@collinsworth Thanks for the suggestions! Unfortunately...

Webflow doesn't believe I'm human, no matter how many times I press and hold the button. Squarespace assumes that I want to sell something, and has very fixed notions about how the site should be structured.

Looks like either we'll build the page in Wordpress and then make a static copy, or we'll just do it in plain HTML/CSS.

*sigh*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-07-24T17:18:25Z

Can anyone recommend Physical Therapists, other medical professionals, or... I don't know, maybe personal trainers who know how to work with patients who have hypermobility/hEDS/EDS?

And who will do virtual appointments or are located north of the ?

We're especially looking for someone to work through the Muldowney Protocol - we need someone who can help confirm that the exercises are being done correctly.

(requesting this on behalf of someone else, hence the "we")

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-27T05:12:12Z

@quietbrooke Oooh, nice. I like the concept, and those particular phrases as well.

"My gender is a hundred hobbies, none of them mastered." Mine too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-29T19:50:08Z

@pws Grin Tech (ebikes.ca/product-info/grin-pr) makes front hub motors that fit axles up to 20mm, and they supply adapters for several standard axle sizes. They are big, heavy, expensive, and capable of high power, but you can set power limits when configuring the controller. Also, the company is very supportive of hobbyists working on odd DIY projects.

You might be able to get away with motorizing only one front wheel, but it depends on the steering geometry. If the steering geometry is not well-designed, you could end up with it pulling the steering to one side, in which case you would need a motor in each front wheel.

Reading your alt text... Those look like fairly ordinary drum brakes on the rear; not sure why they wouldn't be working. Possibly they need adjustment or re-cabling? It looks like those are the only brakes, which seems to me like a good case for not replacing them with rear hub motors (I don't think anybody makes a hub motor with a built-in drum brake) unless you're up for welding rim or disc brake mounts onto the frame. (It might be a good idea to add more brakes somehow regardless of the motor situation if you're going to ride that a lot; it looks heavy.)

@D5V3 @smellsofbikes I'm curious: Why would a front motor be easier than putting a mid-drive on the left? I don't have much personal experience with mid-drives, but if that's a standard bottom bracket shell I'd expect it to be fairly straightforward.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-29T23:32:59Z
re: trans stuff

@exelia_antonov Not really my experience, no.

I started growing my hair out 15 years ago, and I only started transitioning this year. At some point somebody must have taught me the basics of braiding it, well before I even began to think of myself as possibly genderfluid.

I still mostly wore it in a low ponytail for a long time, until ~5 years ago someone said "I don't understand the point of wearing your hair long if you aren't going to do anything with it." I disagree with the sentiment - you should do whatever you want with your hair! - but it did push me to play with hairstyles more and practice until I was reasonably good at braiding my own hair.

By the time I figured out that my gender skews mostly feminine, my default hairstyle was already "braided with a colorful ribbon tied in a bow at the end". (No signs. Nope. Never.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-30T00:17:20Z
re: trans stuff

@exelia_antonov Thanks! Sometimes it looks good, but I never seem to get photos of it that I like.

It also adds some extra volume to my hair. My hair does not naturally have any volume to speak of.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-07-30T03:43:18Z

@SRLevine Oh, Grocery Outlet, my favorite source of foodstuffs of varying quality!

Maybe I'll start calling it "Grocery Roulette." It rhymes well enough, but it doesn't fit the meter of the standard marketing jingle that always gets stuck in my head. Gonna have to workshop this a bit...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-02T21:15:02Z

@terraboop@tech.lgbt April is my birth month, and I like the association with spring/growth/rebirth (at least in the northern hemisphere). It's also the only name that really felt right, out of a whole long list that I considered.

I added it as a middle name because I don't really dislike the name my parents gave me, and there's a bit of a family tradition of going by one's middle name. Plus it makes paperwork easier while I get everything switched over, and I can boymode if I have to travel through really transphobic places.

Depending on how thorough you want to be, my initials spell "Aw", "Aww", or "Daww". It's a reminder to myself that I don't need to shy away from embracing stereotypically feminine traits like cuteness.

It was at the top of the shortlist for a while before we realized it's actually pretty similar to my partner's name, enough that people sometimes mis-hear her name as April. I spent a few weeks considering and searching for alternatives, but didn't connect with anything else. People (us included) do sometimes mix our names up, but we'll survive.

Later she remembered that several years ago, when I was first thinking that I might be genderfluid, we talked about feminine names for me and she suggested April. I think that's part of why I liked it so much. So she may jokingly gripe sometimes about how I "stole her name", but she can't complain too much because it was probably her fault to begin with. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-02T21:27:13Z

I had my voice therapy initial consult and they said that what I've been doing so far is fine and not damaging my vocal cords! Also now I can get training from an actual human in addition to youtube videos!

I asked them to teach me how to scream really loud & high-pitched for those "a driver didn't see you and is about to run you over" moments, and it sounds like that will be possible.

Also I had to ride 65 miles between 6pm and 9am to make it to the appointment, which was both fun and exhausting. Now I'm taking several days to get home b/c I had to unmask in a room with four doctors and it's probably fine but I want to make sure I'm not bringing home any viruses.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-02T21:35:51Z

@DelilahTech Thank you for posting this. I've had Scatter on my ereader for a while and finally read it the other day because of your recommendation. Turns out I *really* enjoy Bragg's writing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-02T21:49:33Z

@D5V3 No worries! I'm transitioning in the feminine direction, which means my options for changing my voice are surgery (no thanks, not my cup of tea) or training. It's partly to shift pitch and maybe also adjust speech patterns, but most of what I'm working on right now is changing resonance. It's pretty interesting, and I'm hoping I can also leverage the training for fun stuff like doing better character voices when I read aloud.

Yeah... 65 miles at night in the winter would be a bit much even here in California. Not sure I'd want to try that in the UP! I get the impression winters there are serious business.

It wasn't that intense a ride, though. E-assist mostly just offsets the weight of riding a cargo trike full of camping gear, but sometimes I turn it up to flatten the hills or get some extra speed.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-02T22:04:56Z

@DelilahTech Me too!

For a while I was posting on BookWyrm, but the interface is still not quite there and I've been neglecting it lately.

I like your JFR posts but I'm usually way too verbose to do something like that myself.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-02T22:14:29Z

Anyone know the current best-practice timeline for testing after a possible COVID exposure?

Looks like CDC is now saying 5 days after. That sounds long to me; I thought incubation times were generally shorter than that with more recent variants.

I currently have 2 rapid antigen tests on hand and would like to use them in the most effective way. Could get more if needed.

(No particular reason to expect that I was exposed except that it was a higher-statistical-risk situation than I normally put myself in.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-02T22:25:22Z

Ok, the People's CDC seems to agree about waiting 5 days. (peoplescdc.org/2023/06/14/test) If they agree with the official CDC, that gives me some confidence.

Other sources still welcome, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-02T23:13:27Z

@inquiline@union.place Thanks, that's helpful!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-02T23:17:11Z

@fae2535 Thank you! I had just remembered reading the throat swab suggestion elsewhere recently.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-03T20:43:43Z

@wallacewords I remember seeing older students sitting at the major roundabouts on campus the first day of class, watching all the new folks try to figure it out.

People did learn roundabouts, but not in the easiest way!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-03T21:11:47Z

@DelilahTech Oof. Not the way I'd want to develop succinctness.

Also: I finally got around to reading Transistor. I think it's the trans-est book I've ever read.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-04T00:09:37Z

@psiie octodon.social has been pretty good for me (2222 characters; admin who does not tolerate any nonsense) but it's defederated from a few instances where other trans folks reside and so occasionally threads will get broken up b/c I can't see some of the posts.

I've been thinking about moving to blahaj.zone or another FireFish-type instance. Maybe someday I'll get around to it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-04T03:46:50Z

@Jeannho Right, yes, I phrased that poorly. The chart seemed to show maximum accuracy at the 5-day mark.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-04T04:02:59Z

@YouShallNotPass @faithisleaping @psiie @quietbrooke It definitely does for me. A month or two ago my partner pointed out that I wasn't dodging or reacting awkwardly to affection the way I used to, and I said "Well, that's probably because I feel attractive now. ...oh, huh."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-05T05:24:19Z

@rune This, but half the time instead of simply forgetting to reply I'll spend days avoiding it while fretting about the one part I'm not sure how to respond to.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-05T21:01:26Z

@ceruleanarc :blobhaj_hugsmolhaj:​ 🥧

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-06T07:26:01Z

@pqqq Oh, Olivia Waite is good! It's been a while since I read those - pretty sure Hen Fever wasn't out yet. I liked the generally cozy feel and the way the stories connect to each other a bit, so you get to check back in on characters from other books. I think Hellion's Waltz may have been my favorite, but Celestial Mechanics was good too... I have a hard time ranking books.

I was never much of a romance fan until I started reading sapphic romance last year. It was one of the things that helped me figure out my gender - I relate way more to all these lesbian protagonists than I ever did to male romantic leads. Pretty sure I described my sexuality as "sapphic, to the extent that it's anything besides ace" a couple months before I considered that I might actually want to transition.

I've worried some about the risk of filling my mind with these idealized romances - especially at the rate I read them. I think, though, that the main thing I'm getting from them is a sort of concentrated substitute for actual human connection, which I've been lacking the last few years (guess why! 😷​).

For recommendations: My BookWyrm profile (bookrastinating.com/user/kg6gf) is like 95% sapphic. I try to put all the sapphic books I read in a list: bookrastinating.com/list/335/s. Pretty much anything I've posted to there is good enough that I'd recommend it to other readers.

I have been reading and greatly enjoying Molly J. Bragg's books this week, but haven't gotten them up on Bookwyrm yet. (Well, I'm not really into Master of Puppets but the Hearts of Heroes series and Mail Order Bride were fantastic.)

I only started putting things on BookWyrm a few months ago, but I've been trying to backfill some of my older favorites.

If there are tropes/genres/stylistic things/etc. that you particularly like, I might be able to make specific recommendations. I like books and I like sharing them with people!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-07T04:47:20Z

@Lizbon I'm curious which of the PDX tool libraries you're referring to - I staffed one of them for a year or so. That was a really fun job. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-07T17:43:21Z

@Lizbon Oh, ok. I was at the North Portland one. I heard good things about SEPTL, but I'm not sure I ever made it down there when they were open.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-08T00:48:03Z

@pqqq "My sleep schedule's shot on account of the romance novels"

Whoops, sorry. Maybe I should have put a warning label on those recommendations.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-08T18:37:15Z

@quietbrooke Steel-toed boots with a dress is an excellent look!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-08T22:27:42Z
caps; screaming into the void re: covid-denialism, capitalism, motornormativity, transphobia, etc.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUGH

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-11T06:37:03Z

@pqqq Yay! That's great that you've got some covid-supportive and covid-cautious community.

Also I very much agree about thrifting post-transition.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-12T03:50:46Z

@ascentale A7: We had a tandem recumbent for a while. I got it when my partner was away traveling, rode ~1000 miles solo to meet up, and then we rode home together. That was a fun trip!

It had been made by Vision (no longer in business) and was a cheaper introductory model as 'bent tandems go. Features included:
- independent pedaling (really nice!)
- passive suspension (a.k.a. low frame rigidity, which is a mixed blessing)
- not-so-stable steering geometry, which is the main reason we don't have it any more. Captaining required a mix of muscle-memory, strength, and quick reflexes.

Size/awkwardness was another issue - it was 10 feet long and had underseat steering, which made it hard to walk with.

It was tons of fun to ride, though. I took several other people on it as stokers with no problem. Hauled heavy loads both on the stoker seat (when it was unoccupied) and on trailers. Sometimes my stoker would read a book while riding.

Favorite saying about tandems: "It'll take your relationship wherever it's going... faster."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-12T05:32:40Z

@bridget Oooh, DS9 musical would be so good!

Quark solo, or Quark/Odo duet? I assume the Garak/Bashir duet is a foregone conclusion.

I really hope this becomes a Trek Tradition that continues in future series.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-12T05:47:54Z

@TicklishHoneyBee@strangeobject.space 🎉​🎉​🎉

The comments don't stop! It's been over a year now and people still react like that to our solar trikes. Fortunately, they do tend to be mostly positive.

Congratulations on a successful test ride!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-12T23:10:21Z

@FurryBeta @malcircuit Same.

And then someone says to me "Is it really something you want to do? Because if you really wanted to, you would be doing it, right?"

*sigh*

No, much to my dismay, that is not how it works.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-13T00:13:54Z
re: Gender musings

@SleepyCatten Not quite the same as what you're describing, I think, but I'd say I'm transfeminine & genderfluid, so while I almost always present pretty distinctly feminine these days, I don't necessarily always feel that way. Sometimes agender feels more accurate.

Even when my gender feels & presentation are maximally feminine it also skews pretty tomboyish. I'm not into nail polish and makeup, I've got holes in my shoes and scabs on my knees from bike crashes. That's just how I am. 🤷‍♀️

I don't have intense bottom dysphoria either. Lately I'm noticing it more than I did a few months ago, but it's still kinda "eh, whatever."

Thanks for bringing this up! I think it's really valuable to have a lot of different narratives about gender and what it can look like, and to be flexible about labels and definitions so people can find one(s) that approximate what feels right to them and still have scope to adapt and adjust, instead of getting stuck with one of a few "standard" identities. (gee, that last bit sounds familiar from somewhere. like, cishet-normative society, maybe?) It's been on my mind for a while but I haven't quite had the words for it; thanks for starting a conversation!

Also I think @tamsinsays nailed an important point with "Cis women have a breath and depth of expression of their femininity; so do we." Well said!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-13T00:29:07Z

@DelilahTech Congratulations!

Also: Dangit, Del, you're going to make me cry. All of that is so good to hear.

Sounds like an auspicious beginning. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-13T02:25:19Z
EGS:NP (webcomic) spoilers

Does anyone else around here read El Goonish Shive?

I had been wondering for a while if George was Totally Cis, Though™️. Seems like maybe he is.

egscomics.com/egsnp/wie-165

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-13T05:41:55Z

@DelilahTech Oh, right... my partner was negative amounts of surprised by the time I finally started to consider that I might be trans, but you and your wife get to do all the joint processing at once. I can see how that would be a lot.

Best wishes to both of you for the upcoming discussions.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-13T05:49:17Z
re: EGS:NP (webcomic) spoilers

@DelilahTech

Hmm. Your explanation is plausible, but I don't know... "That would be so cool! *blushes* [...] I just think it's a great disguise." looks suspicious to me. Guess I'll have to keep an eye on George next time I go back through the archives.

I liked the gaming arc too! Which surprises me, in retrospect, because I think I've only ever played one TTRPG and it was meh.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-13T16:38:16Z
re: EGS:NP (webcomic) spoilers

@DelilahTech That's one of the things I appreciate about EGS and some of the other long-running webcomics. A new character shows up, seems stereotype-y or like a one-off gag, and then they turn into a fully-developed recurring member of the cast with hints of an unexpected backstory.

Huh. Now that I say that, it reminds me of the saying "everybody's got a story".

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-13T16:40:40Z

@scottsthoughts In some places, local government may install racks if businesses request them. If that's the case where you are, you can just encourage the business to put in a request, which is a lot easier for the business.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-13T20:42:37Z

@DelilahTech Hah! I was thinking of QC when I wrote that. Jeph has been leaning into the quirkiness lately, it's true.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-13T20:59:04Z
re: EGS:NP (webcomic) spoilers

@sous_mon_masque

I think it's where I learned the term "genderfluid" as well! I'm pretty sure Grace said it first, in the card tournament arc that @faaln linked to...

*clicks NEXT several dozen times*

Yep! Here's the comic: egscomics.com/comic/2014-07-01

I initially related more to Elliot's "gender casual" framing, but over the years started to favor genderfluid for myself.

I am so grateful for EGS, both because I enjoy it immensely and because it's been a major factor in figuring out my gender identity.

@DelilahTech

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-13T20:59:41Z

@EnaWasHere The option that allows you to celebrate more is usually correct.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-13T22:08:47Z

@DelilahTech Bubbles, definitely. Also May, the entire Augustus family, Liz, and probably a few other characters I'm not remembering right now.

You're right, though. Liz is the only one of those who was introduced recently.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-14T00:11:51Z

Found these odd tweezers a while back and I don't know what they are for. Can anyone identify them?

Update: They have been identified as "rat tooth" tweezers/forceps or "dissecting thumb forceps." Based on the search results, it looks like they are probably dissection and/or surgical tools designed for grabbing and holding soft tissues?

The tips of a pair of tweezers. Looked at from the end they would make a circle when closed, with a < shape cut into it. When open, the left side is a circle with a < cut out of it, and the right half has the remaining wedge.A pair of tweezers with inward-pointing wedges at the ends. They are slightly shorter than the width of the pair of glasses sitting next to them.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-14T00:33:18Z

@petes_bread_eqn_xls@mastodo.neoliber.al Looks like that's it, yes. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-14T01:21:40Z

@JohnLMacFarlane As a recumbent rider, I can confirm that connecting multiple cheaper chains works fine. I think one of my old bikes required more than three standard chains.

@pws

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-15T20:49:46Z

@taedryn Wait, really? That's good to know! Maybe I'll do mine soon, then.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-15T21:47:22Z
re: Seeking reassurance

@SleepyCatten I have you filed in my head as "pillar of the community," "extremely helpful," and "routinely says positive, uplifting things without prompting."

In case a specific example is helpful, I'll quote myself replying to a post you made the other day: "I think it's really valuable to have a lot of different narratives about gender and what it can look like. [...] It's been on my mind for a while but I haven't quite had the words for it; thanks for starting a conversation!"

You're always doing stuff like that - initiating important conversations, sharing resources, offering assistance, and spreading love/joy.

I hope the brain worms leave you be.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-17T04:40:13Z

Just realized that overwhelm is part of the reason I don't post/reply on Mastodon as much as I might like.

Usually I can just about keep one single conversation going IRL.

My home timeline, even with boosts off, contains dozens of (potential) conversations in the last hour.

If I post or reply on here, it's because I've either:
(1) had the time and focus to sit down and figure out exactly what I want to say or
(2) come up with a post/reply fast enough that my inner critic didn't have time to latch onto it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-17T05:17:48Z

1) Attempted "buildering" (bouldering but on buildings) with neither training nor safety equipment.
2) Bought a tandem recumbent bike off craigslist and rode it solo ~1000 miles to pick someone up, then we rode home together. (I arrived for the pick-up precisely when I said I would, too!)
3) Built a recumbent cargo trike using a drill press, a jigsaw, and some hand tools, then rode ~800 miles on it. Later added e-assist and solar charging to it and took it on a ~2000 mile round-trip.
4) Rode aforementioned trike 150 miles in ~14hrs, then did it again to get home a couple days later.
5) Painted a house rainbow and lived in it (and that was before I realized I was trans or any other variety of queer).

Apparently more than half the "wild" things I do involve building or buying weird bikes and riding them long distances (there are two other examples that didn't make the cut).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-19T22:44:30Z

Ok, I really have to make a new pair of shoes now.

The old pair were already full of holes but then yesterday on the ride home we stopped by the river and apparently while I was dozing one of my shoes fell in the river and floated (or maybe sank?) away.

Fortunately, I already cut the knobs off an old discarded 29" tire. That's the time-consuming-but-brainless part. Now I have to cut, fold, and stitch a pair of shoes with it. Oughta take less time, but lots more attention.

I wonder what kind of music is optimal for shoemaking?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-19T22:48:31Z

Really, the biggest problem with losing the one shoe is that I no longer have a matching set of buckles. I don't have an extra expired helmet to source a replacement from right now, either.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-20T02:04:10Z

@TicklishHoneyBee@strangeobject.space That's usually when I indulge in a brief fantasy of rebuilding the whole thing with better access (modular boxes! drawers! extra doors!) before remembering that it would increase the weight and I don't want to invest that much work in something when I'm already planning how to build its replacement.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-20T04:12:45Z

@terraboop@tech.lgbt That's very good advice.

When I started social transition I scheduled an appointment to "talk about maybe starting HRT at some point." Between referrals and doctors being out sick it took a couple of months and I was well past ready for them to just write a prescription.

@DelilahTech @elaine@mstdn.celestia.social

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-20T04:24:21Z

@morgan "Today’s tricycle riders may end up cutting the Bay Skyway’s ribbon."

As a tricycle rider, I really hope I get to cut that ribbon soon! (yes, I know that's not what they meant)

(Also, glad to read that elevators were considered and discarded for access to the bridge. Even when they are fully functional, "bike elevators" rarely have room for my cargo trike. Or a tandem. Or a... you get the idea.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-20T05:24:06Z

@glightly That's cool!

I'm tempted to submit some routes around PDX and the SFBA, but the requirement to plot them in Ride with GPS, using a feature that's only available in the paid version, doesn't sit well with me.

Consistent with my general experience of ACA - I always come away with mixed feelings about them. I guess it's better than nothing, at least, and good to know about!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-20T16:10:22Z

@chpietsch @wonka @YimbyEarth @osthessen_zecke

If you enjoyed this, may I suggest the Bogotá traffic mimes, and the associated 👍/👎 cards for peer-review of traffic behavior?

beautifultrouble.org/toolbox/t

"Mockus fired 3,200 traffic cops from a notoriously corrupt police force and then offered them the option to be retrained and hired back — as mimes. "

"saw traffic fatalities drop by over 50 percent."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-21T03:37:46Z
re: hospital

@pqqq Yikes. Glad you're going to be ok, and I hope you can get out of there soon!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-21T03:50:54Z

@enobacon This has been on my mind...

Per a recent thread about covid (mastodon.nz/@pezmico/110890448) pointing a portable HEPA filter at your face probably isn't effective. 😦

An N95 with an outflow valve is maybe not terrible for sweat?

PAPR systems should be pretty sweat-free, I think, but they're complicated and expensive.

Sometimes I wonder if I should look into getting a velomobile that has a head cover and put a portable HEPA filter in it. Might even be able to get the same effect with just a front fairing; I don't know how much of an air bubble that creates behind it...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-21T04:29:49Z

@enobacon Huh, that's a good point. That would be neat if it worked!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-22T00:09:51Z

@cyclingeu My impression was that it could be tightened incrementally to eliminate any play that develops over time, but I'm not sure if that's correct.

Park's documentation (parktool.com/assets/doc/produc) refers to it as a "Ball Plunger" and it looks like it keys into a channel that runs around the inside shaft and keeps it from sliding in or out.

@pws, this seems like something you might know more about?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-23T02:53:32Z

@LadyDragonfly Hi! I'm April. No cat; I just have weird bicycles and other projects. (The dog is nominally my partner's, but they are cat-sized and sometimes catlike.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-23T02:55:03Z

@Karstan And if you're on a tight budget, get a secondhand bike that's been well-maintained or recently tuned up.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T04:59:58Z

@zombierustpunk @quietbrooke see also: hcommons.social/@jtheseamstres

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T08:13:26Z

@taedryn Wait, what's the biplane project? (Whatever it is, that looks like very tidy and precise work!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T18:07:47Z

I would just like to congratulate myself on repairing the trailer towbar now, instead of waiting 'till it broke and scrambling to make a roadside repair. 🎉

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T18:38:41Z

@taedryn Oh, wow! That's an amazing project.

Pretty sure I wouldn't have the patience for it, so I'm doubly impressed.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T18:42:25Z

@lioracle I love picking stuff up from lumber stores by bike; they're always so baffled and skeptical and then impressed when you ride away.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T18:46:33Z

@zombierustpunk Do webcomics count? If so, there's Elliot/Cheerleedra in El Goonish Shive.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T18:51:55Z

@kamikat We travel by bicycle. We try not to stay in crowded campgrounds, mask any time we're around large groups, and pretty much only go indoors (masked, of course) for groceries.

@brainwane has some travel guidelines at harihareswara.net/posts/2023/m

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T18:53:47Z

@markchandler@mstdn.social Oh no, what are they doing now?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T19:33:27Z

@markchandler@mstdn.social :eyeroll:​

Well, there's a reason to be glad I'm not working in a shop these days. I can keep on pretending the only wheel sizes are 20" and 26".

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-24T19:37:42Z

@zombierustpunk Ah, ok. Makes sense!

If you're not familiar with the comic, I feel obligated to say that the early comics need a cw for characters expressing misogyny and transphobia in a way that's pretty cringe-inducing for me now. Later it gets extremely queer and feminist.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-27T06:23:00Z

@enobacon I don't think so? pretty sure the ebrake inputs on the CycleAnalyst are just looking at on/off, and then it can be configured to take input from the throttle to vary the braking force when the brake is applied.

However, I believe I read in one of the manuals about a hidden wire somewhere (it exists but isn't hooked to a pin in the connector) for analog ebrake input which could probably be connected to a throttle. I don't remember if it's on the CA or if you have to connect it directly on the motor controller.

I wanted this feature for a while, but I've been using the latest beta firmware on my CA that enables backpedal regen and really liking it as an alternative.

@Karstan

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-27T06:51:33Z

@enobacon
I... don't think so? If I'm reading the CA manual right, that 3rd wire on the ebrake connector is providing 5V for ebrakes that use a powered hall sensor. (that's still just an on/off sensor, though)

I'm looking at the PhaseRunner manual and I think you would have to set this up on the motor controller. What controller do you have?

@Karstan

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-27T07:21:52Z

@enobacon You're right, they clearly did this for the dirtsurfer conversion and they said they would do another video about programming the controller... but it looks like they haven't gotten around to it yet. )-:

It does look like they're doing it directly in the BaseRunner motor controller, since they don't have a CA on that build at all.

Have you asked the folks at Grin about it yet? They are usually pretty helpful with this sort of thing, though it can take them a bit to reply.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-27T07:35:03Z

@20000lbs_of_Cheese@tech.lgbt @DeliaChristina Seconding that they're often extremely gross. But sometimes my alternatives are (1) bike several miles to a known-good toilet or (2) walk into random businesses and hope they have a toilet and don't have a strict "customers only" policy. Oftentimes, neither of those is a good bet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-27T07:51:29Z

I remember a recent post about eBikes possibly being excluded from the new California Right to Repair bill, but apparently I didn't bookmark it. Can anyone point me to more info?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-27T19:00:05Z

@glightly The only person I'm acquainted with who does something like this is also in academia, I think in a program that involves collaboration between universities on both continents. I could be wrong, but I assume the schools are covering some of it since much of the travel is for conferences.

I doubt that's the case for everyone, though... good question!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-28T02:24:59Z

@forestine I have no interest in monster movies but I'm not muting it because I enjoy the no-context commentary that shows up in my feed. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-28T16:36:42Z

@beecycling ...you have to buy the containers from them?

That seems very strange to me - around here (US west coast) it's common to bring your own containers to a store that sells bulk foods. You make a note of the weight of the container so they can subtract that to figure out how much product you're buying.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-28T18:56:09Z

@enobacon Maybe I'll say this next time someone asks if 'bents are as good as uprights.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-29T03:09:21Z

@enobacon Snack!

Suggestions for other options:
- transfem in-joke and/or indicator that you're on spironolactone
- fascinating fermentation project
- way to deal with the overflowing garden

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-29T05:25:16Z

@quietbrooke ahahahaha yep.

Me, pre-transition: I'm reading lots of fiction by/about women because I'm trying to be a better feminist and understand perspectives besides my own.

Me, post-transition: Oh.

(Also, thanks for the book recommendations! I'm going to have to check some of these out.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-30T03:46:51Z

Has anyone done a trans retelling of Beauty and the Beast?

I'm thinking the Beast gets gender-swapped and instead of being "ugly" has to deal with dysphoria. What would Belle's story be?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-30T17:50:56Z

@twistylittlepassages The orientation of the mat in this photo implies that these are instructions for leaving the house, which seems inadvisable.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-30T19:53:10Z

Shoulda painted it hi-vis, really.

@ellie @enobacon

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-08-30T21:26:09Z

@foone "simple and powerful and cheap" in this context is something that I've seen before and it always seems strange to me because it is only simple and cheap as a result of enormously complex industrial supply chains, power and communications infrastructure, and the assumption of disposability.

It's simple because so much of the complexity is hidden, and it's cheap because the costs are externalized. And it's powerful because of the hidden complexity and externalized costs.

Er, that came out sounding more critical that I intended; I really enjoyed this thread and agree with most everything else you said. I think what I'm going for here is:

The problem with this paradigm - devices that are all just smartphones inside - isn't just that it's boring (though I agree that it is boring). I think the bigger problem is that this paradigm is effectively lying to us about the cost and complexity of things. It encourages undervaluation of these devices that seem cheap and simple but are actually pretty resource-intensive. It also discourages retention of the engineering, repair, and fabrication skills necessary to work with application-specific devices, which sometimes have significant benefits.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-30T23:12:03Z

@Lucia Oof. I had to do that recently and was lucky to find a spot outside where I could see the "who's next" screen through a window. Wishing you the cleanest drafts of air...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-31T02:12:04Z

@angry_hagfish Oh, I like that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-08-31T05:14:51Z
mention of homophobia, and generally depressing

@DelilahTech @Tweetfiction That, depressing though it is, sounds about right. It's variable - some days the memory works better, some days it's worse - and it interacts differently with peoples' personalities. I suspect some people might go back into the closet as a defense mechanism and others might lose whatever had kept them in the closet when they were younger. Seems like somebody ought to be doing research on this...

Whatever way it goes, I guess that's another entry for my list of reasons I really don't want Alzheimer's.

I was thinking about this earlier today, too. I read/saw something about an assisted living facility for queer folks (so they don't have to go back into the closet to avoid repercussions from homophobic caregivers and/or other residents) and wondered what best-practice looks like for memory care for trans people.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-02T01:27:12Z

@ascentale @marcprecipice A7: I've got off-brand batteries which is suboptimal, but (1) they're Lithium Iron Phosphate (LiFePO4), which I understand to be less fire-prone than the more common variety of lithium ion battery and (2) I set both the solar charger and the regenerative braking to less than the maximum charge voltage (which should also increase the lifespan of the battery).

Since I mostly use solar charging, I almost never charge the batteries indoors or overnight. My solar setup is small enough that I'm rarely charging at the maximum rate, as well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-02T01:45:17Z

@ascentale @glightly A6: I don't know how impactful it would be, but lately I've been thinking about the role of personal experience. I think I'm a lot more mindful of inaccessible infrastructure since I started riding trikes.

In PDX there is/was a group that invited people (regardless of ability) to try riding handcycles around a racetrack. I wonder what would happen if they broadened that and got the local bike advocates & traffic planners out riding through the city on trikes, handcycles, etc.?

It shouldn't be necessary, but I think sometimes people understand a problem differently when they've experienced it firsthand.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-02T02:12:26Z

@ascentale @inliuofjoan

Front Wheel Drive / Moving Bottom Bracket (FWD/MBB) recumbents can be steered entirely with the legs. FlevoBike built a few trikes for people without arms, and FastFWD built one for a kid. Photos & more info: flevofan.ligfiets.net/?doc=ch4

Trisled's custom builds include a number of adaptive bikes/trikes/quads - sociable tandem 'bents and an e-assist trike with automatic shifting & a remote brake cutoff are among the more distinctive. trisled.com.au/blog/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-02T02:16:37Z

@glightly @ascentale Oh, right, thanks for pointing that out! I've heard it in other contexts but hadn't made the connection here.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T00:14:40Z

@glightly Don't know about the other options, but I'm pretty sure you could xtracycle a mixte or step-thru.

Internet confirms: xtracyclegallery.com/2008/10/9; xtracyclegallery.com/2009/04/3

...but that second link does mention that older mixte frames may be too weak and flexible.

(Now that I think of it, that tracks with my experience building a tandem by welding two vintage Raleigh mixtes end-to-end. It had a lot of... passive suspension. And felt uncomfortably twisty at times.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T00:38:10Z

@glightly Oh, huh. Yeah, even just a step-thru for a 6' rider could be tough to find. Drat.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T00:47:09Z

@glightly No kidding! I learned just barely enough to make do at the UCD craft center, but never got very good while I was there and haven't had a suitable space or the right equipment since.

I occasionally try to do a bit of framebuilding without welding, but it tends to be a huge project regardless of the method.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T00:50:48Z

@hollie I don't know anything about this issue, but want to note that "In all other ways the timeline seems to be acting normally" sounds extremely sci-fi when taken out of context.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T00:53:58Z

@glightly 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T01:17:28Z
re: Trans coming out to people poll

@EveOfTheFuture It Depends!

Close friend who has multiple trans/enby friends and coworkers: Told almost as soon as I started questioning.

Mom (who is a Very Supportive Person and with whom I have discussed trans issues in the contest of friends transitioning) & Dad (often fails to correctly use they/them pronouns for our dog, but I think just out of ignorance): Averaged the two and told them when I got serious into it and knew transitioning was a likely outcome.

Catholic Uncle: We don't really talk anyway; I let my mom break the news at her convenience. 🤷

I guess the only guideline I can extract from that is: Having general conversations about gender & trans issues may help gauge where people are at and maybe give you some idea how supportive people will be if you tell them you're questioning. (Referring to your pet with they/them or neopronouns works too, though that's not why we did it to start with.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T01:18:36Z

@zombierustpunk Good luck, lots of it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-03T02:15:12Z
breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

I guess I just finished a thing for ! It's a pair of Knitted Knockers (breast prostheses) that I started maybe a month ago.

This is my second pair and I'm really excited because
(1) now I have two pairs I can trade out, which will make airing/washing much easier
(2) the old ones were wool and had to be wrapped in other fabric so they wouldn't get scratchy, and
(3) !

This pair is made with cotton yarn from a secondhand store and stuffed with fabric scraps.

I haven't been able to get a good photo of me wearing them, so these will have to do. (-:

Edit:
Pattern is the Bottoms-up Knockers for Double Point Needles from knittedknockers.org/downloads/.

They're a fun project, but if you want to get a pair without knitting them yourself there's an org that provides them for free: knittedknockers.org/product/re

Two knitted breast prostheses on a wood floor. They are white, each a rounded triangle shape with raised lines curling in toward the center-top. Two breast prostheses knitted from white yarn. Both are rounded triangle shapes. One is upside-down, showing the flatter back and the cinched-closed drawstring opening at the center where stuffing was inserted. The other is rightside-up, it's a rounded pyramid with lines of raised stitching curling in from the three corners to the point at the center-top.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T02:17:26Z
re: breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

@twistylittlepassages 🤣

Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-03T02:37:16Z
re: breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

@skye Oooh yeah, I think I've seen something about those before! Neat!

I was thinking about adding TransKnitting as a hashtag, but it really ought to be crochet-inclusive.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-03T02:39:40Z
re: breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

@cpep Yeah, I really like the design! When I made my first pair I was surprised by how much they were just nice-looking objects, regardless of their function.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-03T03:04:51Z
re: breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

@rune Yeah, that sounds like a great application for these.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T03:15:17Z
re: breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

Oh! I never really talked about this when I made the first pair, but they were great when I was initially thinking I might transition. Not just because they were easily removable (once I put them on I didn't want to ever take them off, anyway), or even because they were cheap, but because they were a DIY project.

I love DIY projects. Turning part of my transition into a project made it so much easier than if I'd had to buy a thing (I don't much like buying stuff).

So I owe several rounds of thanks to @miriamrobern for mentioning these. Thank you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-03T06:41:47Z
re: breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

@consumableJoy@artisan.chat Oh, thanks! Perhaps I should have read the guidelines... 🙄​ 😄

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-03T06:44:15Z

@TicklishHoneyBee@strangeobject.space Ah, the joys traveling by bike: Adventure! Excitement! Camping in unexpected places!

(Also, wishing you the best of luck getting replacement tires! Being stuck is no fun.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-03T08:08:22Z

@DelilahTech

*peers into closet at all the colors*
*thinks back to a stack of identical plain grey pants*
I hadn't really taken note of it, but... Yep, same here.

I don't experience much dysphoria either and am very familiar with that variety of imposter syndrome. Not sure if it's disheartening or reassuring, but my experience indicates that @Impossible_PhD's recent article on layers of dysphoria (stainedglasswoman.substack.com) applies to us low-dyspho folks too. The more time I give it, the more things I notice - it's just that they're usually subtle, quiet suggestions of "hey, how do you actually feel about ____?" instead of the intense epiphanies that many people describe. Or they're things that seem tangential to gender, like wanting to wear color or (one of the first I noticed) having better posture.

I try to keep a list of "things affirming that I'm trans" on paper and in my head, because every so often I have to pull it out and smack the imposter syndrome with it.

Anyway, congrats on finding that answer! :transgender_flag:​ 🌈 :lesbian_flag_:​ 🎉 😄 :heart_trans:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-04T02:06:59Z
re: breast prostheses that do not look like actual breasts, they are made of yarn

@eyrea Oh, thanks for the info and link! the KK website is very light on historical details - I had no idea there was a lawsuit involved.

They've definitely changed the pattern and clarified the instructions, but they seem to have lost some interesting tips along the way, like including a weight and tacking through the center to make the back concave.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-04T02:24:31Z

@pqqq Oooh, that's a good one!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-04T02:42:35Z

@pqqq A+, Excellent Tropes, 💯 Would Read.

(actually, being ace-spectrum I consider the second one less critical but it's fine I guess :- )

I've thought about trying to write fiction again lately. Maybe if I feel so inclined when November/NaNoWriMo comes around... that's the only way I've ever written sizeable quantities of fiction.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-04T04:42:22Z

@sloths It's a good effort, but SDOT really ought to make their ramps wider. It looks too narrow for most trailers, trikes, etc.

😁

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@kg6gfq
2023-09-04T16:19:09Z

@NZStever@mastodon.nz When I lived in a very rainy place I coated my shoes (usually hiking or work boots) with either SnoSeal or a homemade blend of wax & linseed oil for water resistance.

In a pinch, I've also worn plastic bags over my socks. It can get sweaty after a while, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-04T21:11:34Z

@exelia_antonov Oh, those are really cute!

I think 2020 is about when I was getting really into Historical Costuming videos on YouTube, which is mostly women making corsets and big swishy dresses and things. In retrospect, that was more than "maybe a little genderfluid."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-04T21:57:19Z

@exelia_antonov Nice! I'd probably be doing that with historybounding stuff, but you mostly have to make it yourself and it takes a lot of time and skill so... maybe eventually.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-04T21:58:45Z

@enobacon I won't say it's my favorite machining technique, but it is the one I use most often these days.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-05T17:10:28Z

@enobacon I would expect it to be perceptible in the workstand, assuming 5mph is enough to get over the minimum speed threshold and it's sending enough brake signal. It's been a while since I did any regen config, so I don't have many helpful troubleshooting thoughts except...

- Make sure it is registering the brake input. (CA primary display mode should show little moving brake lever icon in the bottom left.)
- When regen is working, the primary display mode should also show a negative number for Watts.
- You should be able to see the voltage of the throttle signal being sent to the baserunner on one of the CA display modes - I think it's one or two to the left of the primary one - and that way you can check whether it's in the correct range for braking.

Unfortunately, the CA + motor controller arrangement leaves a lot of places for things to be misconfigured. It could be CA regen settings, or the input-output mapping in the baserunner config (that graph that kinda goes \ /) or battery limit settings or just some checkbox that's the wrong state, or a wiring issue, or... As with so many things, being highly configurable is both a blessing and a curse of the Grin kits.

Er... Wish I could help more. Good luck!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T00:09:19Z

@uxmark @glightly @ascentale I think the reasoning I've heard is that "cyclist" is, for many people, strongly associated with lycra, drop bars, racing, and all that.

First article I've found at a glance that seems to reflect on that in detail: bicycling.com/culture/a3446306

Seems to me like there is (perhaps unavoidable) tension between avoiding the term "cyclist" because it can come off as elitist and exclusionary vs. reclaiming it for all types of cycling. 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T00:18:22Z

@ascentale I guess I'm late for submitting questions this week... so maybe I can be really early for next week!? I've got two:

I'm collaborating on a presentation about how it's important for the people designing bike/ped infrastructure to actually *use* that infrastructure. We have no trouble coming up with infrastructure fails, but... Can you name any examples of bike (or pedestrian) infrastructure that could have been designed really badly, but someone involved in the process fixed it because they had experience as a cyclist/pedestrian?

-AND-

I've noticed posts tagged "WeirdCarMastodon" and I'd really love to see some . What are the most unique, distinctive, or downright strange bikes you've seen? Got photos to share?

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T00:23:46Z

@ascentale @forpeterssake A8. You know that saying about how the cobbler's children go barefoot? Well, I used to work as a mechanic, and... yeah.

I might clean my chain a few times in a good year. I did it more often when living in PDX; the wet weather certainly makes it gross faster.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T01:10:24Z

@ascentale @TicklishHoneyBee@strangeobject.space A5. I briefly tried lycra and bike shorts when I was first getting into longer rides, but then I started riding recumbents and there was no point. I just wear regular clothes, usually from thrift stores and free piles. There are a few exceptions...

While living in PDX, I started wearing a lot of wool, especially wool pants from the army surplus store. They stay warm even when damp, they're more breathable than plastic-y rain gear, and they were really cheap. Wool has the extra advantage of not getting as smelly as most other fabrics, even if you spend all week sweating into it while touring.

I don't wear skirts or dresses much because on a recumbent it's an excellent way to end up with a horizontal version of the Marilyn-Monroe-subway-grate photo. (I've been thinking about building a crank-forward/semi-recumbent for several reasons, and this is one of them.)

I do, however, always bring a long loose skirt on longer rides (and often did even before I started presenting feminine full-time) because it works pretty well as a portable changing tent. It's also a good bonus layer to throw on over shorts when you stop riding and suddenly cool off.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T01:29:56Z

@glightly @SRLevine @Daveography @ascentale I got into the habit of saying MUP or Mixed Use Path when I was interacting with advocacy and transportation planning people more.

Now I'm trying to switch my brain to "car-free path", because it's more descriptive and less jargon-y. Nobody outside the cycling & planning world knows what I'm talking about when I say "I was out on a MUP the other day, and..." but they usually get it when I talk about a "car-free path"

The only things I dislike about "car-free" are that it's a negative framing (describes what the thing isn't instead of what it is) and it defines things in reference to cars. But at least "free" has positive connotations.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T01:36:36Z

@glightly @ascentale Thanks for the reminder about "cycle" vs. "bike" - I've noticed you doing that and appreciated it as a trike rider, even though I often refer to my trike as a "bike" for convenience.

Making a mental note to try and shift my speaking habits...

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T01:48:12Z

@glightly @ascentale @xtaran Mesh recumbent seats are wonderful. Currently I'm stuck with hardshell-style seats, which are usually fiberglass or carbon fiber (or sometimes wood) shaped to cup the rider's body with a breathable pad on top. They're often lighter but usually less adjustable.

I'll add to Megan's description that some mesh or semi-mesh seats (semi-mesh is like a super-wide cruiser saddle with a mesh back) allow you to adjust the angle of the seat back and seat base independently, and some have a bit of scope for moving the seat base up or down so you can get a slightly different angle relative to the pedals (equivalent to how the rails on an upright cycle's saddle allow you to slide it forward and backward).

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@kg6gfq
2023-09-09T02:07:20Z

I ❤️ casual representation in media.

I was a third of the way through this book by Lily Seabrooke before one of the romantic leads mentioned she was trans, and it was no big deal. It came up naturally and that was pretty much the extent of the conversation. The other romantic lead took it as an indication of trust and connection. The antagonist didn't even try to use it against her.

Of course, I also like books where being trans is a bigger deal and a bigger part of the plot, and books that address the difficulties of being trans, but we need casual representation too. We need stories that just happen to have trans characters (and BIPOC characters and disabled characters and... everyone) in them, because we all exist in the world and we all need to see each other in the stories we tell ourselves.

(book title in a cw'd reply if you want it, but I don't want to spoil it and anyway I'd recommend every Lily Seabrooke book I've read so far to anyone who enjoys sapphic romance, just read them all and you'll find this one eventually 😁 )

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T02:08:44Z
title of the book for which the previous post in this thread is a minor spoiler

Fake It
by Lily Seabrooke

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-09T06:47:32Z

@enobacon Ooooh, yeah. I heard "You lost someone!" so many times when soloing a tandem. I'd be tempted to start shouting it at drivers, but they wouldn't get it...

Maybe if/when we've got a tandem again some driver will shout it at me and I can come back with "You lost four people and a truck-load of stuff!"

Now I'm wishing I was good enough at drawing to turn this into a little comic.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-09T18:45:55Z

@Rch Nice colors. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-11T03:09:27Z

@emi @calotriton This also has some info on hormone testing: transfemscience.org/articles/t

I believe @SleepyCatten is knowledgeable about DIY HRT and may have more links; you could check this thread of resources: cultofshiv.wtf/@SleepyCatten/1

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@kg6gfq
2023-09-11T20:03:01Z
vague frustration about internet arguments (and, incidentally, romance novels)

I really dislike internet arguments.

I'm conflict-averse to begin with, but watching people make unwarranted assumptions about others and then dig in and argue harder based on those assumptions is just so frustrating to watch.

It's like the worst bit in a romance novel when you just want to grab one (or both) of the characters and tell them to *communicate* already.

(and I am fully aware that sometimes I'm the one at fault in this type of situation, but it's still frustrating)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T02:18:32Z

@salad_bar_breath Nice!

Do you post your writing somewhere? I'd be interested to read it.

I remember writing that much in a day back when I did NaNoWriMo. It was mostly silly and not very well-written, but it was still fun when it flowed.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T02:59:44Z

@salad_bar_breath NaNoWriMo = National Novel Writing Month. Write 50k words (or another goal of your choosing) in November. The idea is to write a whole bunch without letting yourself care how awful it is. That way instead of fretting about each sentence you can just write freely. Then you can revise it later, unless you procrastinate on revisions because they're hard and then get distracted by a new idea the next Novemb... uh, ok, that's not quite how it's supposed to go. 😁

It can be a lot of fun, though, and it's how I got myself to actually write stuff sometimes instead of agonizing forever over each word. It's been ~15 years since I last tried, but I'm thinking about doing it again.

I missed The Speaker back when you posted it; thanks for the link! Now you've got me pondering the disparities in animal/human medical care (among other things).

Good luck with the publisher submissions!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-13T03:15:23Z
exercise question

What's your favorite way of making upper-body exercise fun, exciting, and/or part of another necessary daily routine?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T03:17:27Z
exercise answer

The best I've got right now is...

1. Install chin-up bar in doorway
2. Do chin-ups when you walk through the doorway until you get bored and stop using it
3. Put a hip-high barricade across the doorway so you can't walk through it anymore
4. Take flying leaps to grab the chin-up bar and swing through the doorway like a kid on the monkey bars.

Actual chin-ups probably build more strength... but not if I don't do them.

(This is viable because there is an alternate walkable path, swinging through the blocked doorway is just more direct. And more fun.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T03:18:58Z
re: exercise answer

My other idea right now is to cobble together a handcycle or rowbike, but I don't know when I'll get around to it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T03:22:04Z
re: exercise question

@clew Oh, yeah! That might even be a thing I get to do soonish. Weed-whacking by hand works well too, though again might have issues like RSI.

I've probably got enough arm muscle for it right now; just need to make sure I keep it.

Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T03:31:47Z

@majesty I am reminded of that Einstein quote... *searches internet* ...oh, yeah: "Do not worry about your difficulties with mathematics. I can assure you mine are still greater."

I thought I had it bad because I have to run "xrandr -o normal" every few times I open the laptop, but you've got me beat.

So... I hope you get to un-jank your computing soon?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T05:10:56Z

@salad_bar_breath @sofia@toot.site That's awesome!

I will let you know - it's a lot more fun to do it with friends. Makes for good commiseration, and competing over wordcount helps with motivation.

I simultaneously reacted to that first paragraph or so with, "Oh yeah veterinary medicine can be remarkably limited in scope" and "I *wish* my doctor would consider dietary interventions sometimes instead of jumping directly to pharmaceuticals." Broken systems on all sides.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T16:00:22Z

@EverBeyondReach

🔘 all of the above

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@kg6gfq
2023-09-13T16:28:42Z

Anybody got good resources to share on
- intersectionality
- conflict resolution
- practices of forgiveness, reconciliation, and rebuilding trust
?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T16:33:31Z

I'll start with "The Intersectional Wound": guerrillamedia.coop/en/the-int

A preview: "Sometimes, this tendency to throw around oppressed positions in order to catch people out is a consequence of the intersectional wound, of being identified as an oppressor and made to feel that your suffering is not recognised. It is in moments like this that people weaponise their own suffering and end up causing injury to someone else’s identity. This is why I think it is important to break these trends by keeping care in mind when identifying privileges. Suffering needs to be able to act as a bridge towards empathy, not as a wall that separates us from one another."

"The Intersectional Wound" is an excerpt from “Interseccionalidad: Desigualdades, lugares y emociones” by Maria Rodó Zárate, translated by Alex Minshall and published online by the Guerilla Media Collective.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T17:34:14Z

@simon Looks like cleanairstars.com/ is trying to maintain a directory of places with outdoor seating or indoor filtration/ventilation, but they don't have much of anything in SFBA yet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-13T17:38:16Z

@thegiddystitcher@artisan.chat Haven't done that one (yet), but I did get halfway through the day before realizing I was wearing trans flag colors at least once recently.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-13T21:01:19Z

@TheBird Thanks! That looks like a fantastic resource.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-14T04:51:10Z

@esther@strangeobject.space This is very relatable. I hope you get to sleep soon!

(and I'm curious what you're thinking about trailer hitches, that sounds interesting. but lower-priority than sleep, probably.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-14T05:07:33Z

@esther@strangeobject.space Whoop, found an earlier thread and now I maybe have some notion about the trailer hitch and also understand why it's in the same thought process as Brompton bag mounts. Neat!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-17T16:03:51Z

@Fiona Best of luck to you; I hope it goes well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-17T22:45:33Z

☢️ 🍎

Three red apple quarters arranged in a small dish such that they resemble the standard symbol for an ionizing radiation hazard.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-17T23:06:16Z
re: Gender trouble, just like JB said

@EnaWasHere Ugh, yes. I don't know who JB is, but that sounds a lot like my experience.

Sometimes when I'm feeling less enthusiastic about transitioning it's like: Am I currently experiencing (1) dysphoria, (2) imposter syndrome, (3) a more masc/agender day, or (4) frustration re: the difficulty of transitioning? Yes, probably at least one of those! How long is this going to last before I return to "skirt-go-spinny!" mode? Dunno!

My conclusion for now is I'm going to be a trans woman who sometimes presents very tomboyish. We'll see how that goes...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-17T23:28:38Z
re: Gender trouble, just like JB said

@EnaWasHere Ah, Judith Butler, ok. I should probably read more Butler.

I mean, I spent about five years thinking of myself as "cis guy, but maybe a little genderfluid" before I flipped to "trans woman, but maybe a little genderfluid". In some other universe I might be a lot more varied with my presentation, but I have limited patience for dealing with societal preconceptions about gender.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-18T00:23:22Z

@enobacon Augh, I did the absurd quiz. Why did I do the absurd quiz when you already did it and pointed out all the absurdity?

I think this nonsense is pretty consistent with PfB's style, but I expect better from LAB.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-18T17:29:48Z

@esther@strangeobject.space and then, much like an eepy cat, it is surprisingly heavy

@anglemaece

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-18T17:37:55Z

@enobacon Oh, is that the latest Kristen Dirksen? Haven't seen that one yet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-18T17:40:37Z

@psiie 💯 counts

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@kg6gfq
2023-09-19T00:26:52Z

I'm collaborating on a presentation about how it's important for the people designing bike/ped infrastructure to actually *use* that infrastructure. We have no trouble coming up with infrastructure fails, but...

Can you name any examples of bike or pedestrian infrastructure that could have been designed really badly, but someone involved in the process fixed it because they had experience as a cyclist/pedestrian?

Edited to add: Ideally, we're looking for specific locations and as much related info as you can provide so we can pull photos from satellite or street view, track down documents from the planning/design process, etc.. (And if we use an example, we're happy to credit you if/how you like.)

:boost_request:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T00:47:39Z

@varve Nice! Community engagement is definitely one of the strategies we're going to recommend.

We're trying to track down good visual examples to include in the presentation. Would you be willing to share the location of the intersection and/or other info about the design changes if you have it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-19T03:43:58Z

Finding old posts on Mastodon is challenging...

...but it turns out, if I've bookmarked them I can export a CSV of my bookmarks, import them into LibreOffice, filter by username, use the WebService() function to query the Mastodon API, and then I just have to parse the JSON with regular spreadsheet functions.

(Parsing JSON is proving moderately challenging, since LibreOffice has no built-in capacity for it and I'm just chaining Find(), Right(), and Left() functions.)

This is one of those times when I know just enough to make a huge mess of things, isn't it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T03:52:35Z

@YouShallNotPass I've read multiple sapphic romances recently where "carpenter-dyke" perfectly describes one of the main characters, so you're in good company.

Also: leatherman & steel-toed boots 💯

@terraboops

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T03:55:16Z

Oh, maybe I don't have to parse JSON after all; once I've pulled it into the spreadsheet I can just use the "find" dialog or filters. It's ugly but it seems to work.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T04:16:28Z

@YouShallNotPass Oh, yeah! I hadn't even thought of that one. That's a good book...

@terraboops

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T04:20:00Z

@glightly I am very amused to see that you're the only person to have boosted this so far, because I'm actually searching for some of your old posts that I had bookmarked. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T04:25:54Z

@YouShallNotPass "Greatsword lesbian" sounds like an excellent starting point for a character. I would read a book if I saw that in the blurb. (Ok, I'll try reading pretty much anything with "lesbian" in the blurb, but still...)

Pretty sure I've already got a preemptive hold request at the local library for the next Baldree book.

@terraboops

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T04:32:09Z

@glightly Yeah, I'm getting increasingly frustrated with the lack of search on Mastodon.

On the plus side, I found a link I hadn't seen before that was very relevant to the current project while scrolling your post history before I decided to try the janky spreadsheet approach.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T04:55:17Z

@YouShallNotPass I haven't tried those yet because they sound a little dark/violent for my tastes, but might have to re-evaluate.

You don't have to use the sword; just stand around holding it and looking impressive. 😄

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-19T04:59:09Z

@ai6yr Sooo... Is the route "flatter" on average because it contains the same hill but also more flat distance to balance it?

Also: Wow, 17.8% is pretty serious climbing!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-20T00:35:58Z

@YouShallNotPass Eh, I'll try it! Worst case scenario for me is I don't like it and stop reading halfway through. (Or maybe the worst case scenario is I like it lots and don't get enough sleep until I finish the series?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-20T00:57:08Z

@YouShallNotPass Thanks for the warning! I'm usually fine jumping into a book with no prior knowledge, but I still *like* to know what to expect.

I didn't used to be able to drop books. A few years of virtually infinite library ebooks seems to have finally retrained my brain to believe that it can, in fact, be satisfied by reading something else instead.

Ok, got the ebook on hold. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-20T01:02:56Z

@YouShallNotPass I read something a little while ago about high-waisted styles being more common in feminine-coded clothing. That's definitely skewed me toward wearing things closer to my natural waist instead of around my hipbones.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-20T01:09:52Z

@benfulton Yeah. I'd swear I bookmarked that post... until I find it and discover that I didn't.

Oh well. Sometimes I find unexpected useful things while digging for old threads. Silver lining, I guess?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-20T01:11:41Z

@glent Oh, nice! I wish our state government put that kind of effort into cycle route mapping. Thanks for the link!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-20T02:59:33Z

@YouShallNotPass Hadn't occurred to me before, but same/same.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-21T01:59:31Z

@derwinmcgeary My partner once sewed a new cloth cover over a headphone like that. It was a pretty rough "wrap some soft scrap fabric over it and stitch until it stays" approach, but it worked well for years. I'd take a photo, but we gave them away a move or two ago.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-21T02:10:46Z

@ukuku That almost looks like a unicycle seat, but still a little narrower at the front than any uni seats I've seen.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-21T02:14:40Z

@terraboops That's awesome!

Reminds me a bit of the 2014 film "Pride", which I think is based on an actual instance of a queer community supporting folks who needed it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-21T03:11:42Z

@greene I haven't been in that exact situation, but I knew someone for a while who preferred no pronouns. Definitely agree that talking around pronouns without sounding awkward/stilted is an effective brain workout.

It's the same kind of creative circumlocution one does when conversing in a language one isn't fluent in, but instead of doing it for occasional unfamiliar words it's for one of the most common parts of speech!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-21T03:23:53Z

@kzodasnowman Oh, wow! Glad you were there to catch it.

Hopefully it would have gotten fixed somewhere along the way... but I know of at least one instance where the wrong version of a striping plan made it all the way to the construction crew and almost onto the road. A local advocate ended up lying down in front of the re-striping equipment while calling the mayor (also a cyclist) to bring the updated plans to the crew because it was the only way to keep them from putting the bike lane in the wrong place and/or making it way too narrow.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T01:28:06Z

@dgar
3) Those of us who are sure we'll be able to remember the page number later.

3.5) The people who actually DO remember the page number later. (truly, it is an incredible feat of memorization)

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T21:27:15Z

@ascentale Spreadsheets are the best!

I sent this in a couple weeks ago, but I think it might have gotten lost in the shuffle:

I've seen some photos on here tagged "WeirdCarMastodon", now I want to see . What's your favorite unique, distinctive, or strange bicycle?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T23:14:53Z

@ascentale A1. Hello! Checking in from Northern California; been riding with an n95 mask even more than usual lately with smoke blowing down from the north.

The solar trikes continue to be an endless repair project - this morning I had to fix a couple of bad electrical connections on a charging cable before our grocery run, and I need to order replacement spokes for one of the hub motor wheels before it collapses underneath me.

I'm collaborating on a presentation for a symposium on transportation design, which should be interesting. It's about the importance of transportation infrastructure designers&maintainers actually using bike infrastructure, and we're still looking for relevant anecdotes if anyone has 'em: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1110889

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T23:24:37Z

@glightly Oh yeah, I saw your trip photos and it looks like you passed near my neck of the woods - we ride past that apple vendor pretty often.

I hope the strength- & stamina-building goes well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T23:29:10Z

@glightly It's a pretty nice area and there are some lovely cycle routes (including the car-free path that goes by that apple stand!), and definitely a matter of luck that I can live here right now. A move to somewhere slightly more affordable is probably upcoming.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T23:41:16Z

@ascentale @Cutterpillow A2: I don't ride clipless, so when I lived in PDX I got in the habit of treating my favorite boots with SnoSeal to make them water-resistant. Now I use a homemade blend of beeswax and linseed oil. It's the same thing I use for finishing wood.

Seconding @glightly on the Darn Tough socks; I've been wearing them for years now. (That reminds me, I need to send another batch in for warranty...)

For eyes, I've never found anything I like to wear over my prescription glasses but I do make giant helmet visors out of old coroplast lawn signs and they help keep some of the rain off. I often carry a spare pair of cheap knit gloves in my pocket and use them as "windshield wipers" when my glasses get too much rain on them.

(So far the visors have all been made out of signs from realtors or hiring agencies, but I keep saying I'll make one out of a campaign sign so I can call it a "Political Ad Visor".)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T23:48:49Z

@ascentale @glightly A4. I don't remember for sure my first time on a 'bent...

It might have been a friend's SWB (twitchy, but I got used to it), or it might have been an old LWB frame someone had welded together out of old Schwinn Varsities that I rebuilt with a 3-speed hub and rode for a while (heavy, steered like a barge).

What I do remember is the first time I went for a long ride on an upright again after mostly riding 'bents for a while. I came home aching and sore in all kinds of places I'd never noticed before and said "Never Again" and I've been riding recumbents ever since (with some exceptions for fun or for short rides).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T23:55:26Z

@glightly @Heyweldon That variety is one of my favorite things about recumbents - there is so much scope for ingenuity and innovation.

Jumping is tricky, but I have seen video of someone hopping up a curb on a FlevoBike via clever manipulation of the suspension.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-22T23:58:15Z

@glightly @Heyweldon Oh, wow! I actually run into Bill around here sometimes; he volunteers at the community bike shop. Maybe I'll ask him for tips...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T00:22:41Z

@ascentale One of my favorite non-recumbent weird things is Retro-Direct Drive. I've put together a few of these over the years; here's a couple photos of my first one.

Can you figure out what it does, and how? I'll reply to this with the answer behind a cw.

Photo of a bicycle; looking from the seat tube back toward the rear wheel. From right to left there is the stays and dropout, a chain running over a smaller single-speed freewheel, a chain running over a larger single-speed freewheel, and the hub and spokes. Photo of a bicycle drivetrain. The chainline is unusual. Chain runs from the top of the front chainring back over a small single-speed freewheel on the rear hub, then forward to a tensioner pulley mounted behind and below the chainring. The chain wraps around the tensioner and turns back to the rear hub, where it goes around a larger single-speed freewheel and runs from the top of that freewheel to the bottom of the front chainring. It wraps around the chainring, and we're back at the start. 

The tensioner pulley is made from pieces of an old rear derailer.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T00:33:05Z
How does the RetroDirect work?

@ascentale This is a 2-speed drivetrain. Pedal forward, and you go forward in a high gear. Pedal backwards, and you go backwards in a low gear.

When I rode this bike around town, people would stare in befuddlement as I pedaled backwards up hills and away from stop signs. 😎

How? The key is mounting two single-speed freewheels on the same hub*. Pedaling forward engages one freewheel while the other "coasts" backwards. Pedaling backward engages the other freewheel, and the first one "coasts".

* This is usually done by using at least one freewheel that has threads all the way through. You screw it onto the hub, then screw an old bottom bracket cup (the left-side/floating/normal-threaded one) into the remaining threads of the freewheel, and then you screw another freewheel onto the protruding threads of the bottom bracket cup. They are, conveniently, the same threading.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T00:34:52Z

@ascentale Oh, that one in the photo has an eccentric wheel! Those are so much fun to bounce around on.

They're also the trademark design of Peter Wagner / WhymCycles from Davis: localwiki.org/davis/WhymCycles

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T00:37:27Z

@dx That would be awesome!

I've spent a lot of time contemplating bike campers. Camper functionality was one of my goals for the solar trikes, but didn't make it into this iteration.

I'd love to hear more about your potential camper trailer design!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-23T00:38:57Z

@rowmyboat Oh, wow! That is a neat story and a very sleek-looking bike.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-23T00:42:01Z

@rowmyboat Nice! I've always thought cycle truck forks sounded like fun.

Also, glad to know we're not the only ones who go bike glamping - carrying more than a basic touring load feels so luxurious when you're not used to car camping!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T01:22:52Z

@nothingfuture @Daveography @ascentale What's that oval thing in front of the top of the... er, what would be the seat tube on something more conventional?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T02:47:53Z

@2_Wheeled_Wolf Oh, neat! That looks like one of the XYZ Cargo trikes; those are fantastic designs.

I'm curious, if you don't mind me asking... any idea why it worked so well for you? Something about the frame geometry, or it being a trike, or something else?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-23T16:21:07Z

I'd like to read some memoirs/blogs/essays about being immune compromised - both generally and in the context of COVID.

Got any recommendations?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T18:21:33Z

@glightly @glightly Augh, yes, that whole "am I going to run into impassable infrastructure halfway to my destination" thing is bad enough even as a physically abled person with a large, heavy bike.

I think that particular route should be passable with a quad. I was out that way on the trike in the spring of 2022 and it was fine. My trike is about 30" wide which is narrow for a trike/quad, but I don't remember any really tight spots. There are lots of places where it would be hard to turn around, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-23T18:41:58Z

@enobacon Someone pointed out to me recently that sidewalks aren't pedestrian infrastructure, they're car infrastructure.

It took me a minute, but... yep. Sidewalks exist to keep pedestrians out of the way of cars. *sigh*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-23T18:45:45Z
re: food, asking for advice

@pqqq The only advice I have is the (I think) common suggestion to butter the outside of the bread before putting your sandwich in the pan so it fries nicely.

(Just the other night I read The Princess and the Grilled Cheese Sandwich, a sapphic romance graphic novel that is very topical for this question.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T01:21:15Z

@tillybridges @Catarina Seems like there's a riff to be made here on the RBG "when there are nine" quote, but I'm not quite sure how to set it up.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T02:30:22Z

@xtaran Oh, it's possible there have been posts with the tag and I haven't seen them because my instance limits some large instances including mastodon.social so I don't see posts from them unless they are by (or boosted by) someone I follow.

I've always wanted to try a Pedersen, they look so cool!

I got a FlevoTrike years ago, and then my partner decided she liked it and now it's hers. They're awesome trikes! I've also built and ridden several Pythons; my current trike has Python steering geometry and the same tilt mechanism as a FlevoTrike.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T05:30:32Z

@xtaran Oh, those Wike convertible stroller-bikes look really cool! Seems like they might be kinda heavy strollers though; I wonder how that works out?

And I'm glad you posted about Flevos in this thread! I like them quite a lot and think they deserve more attention than they usually get.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T05:40:59Z

@miriamrobern @Rch I'm afraid I also have to disagree, both on general principle (I like girls and would like the world to contain more of them) and specifically in your case (you should get to be who you want to be).

And, um... I'm sorry there's people who don't want you to be a girl. That's no good. I hope they learn the error of their ways.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-24T07:28:39Z

I just re-read _Perfect Rhythm_ by Jae for... probably the third or fourth time in about a year. It's a pretty unremarkable book in many ways, but it means a lot to me.

This is the book that got me started binge-reading sapphic romance - first Jae's entire bibliography and then anything else I could find - and binging sapphic romance led pretty directly to me eventually transitioning.

Re-reading this as a lesbian instead of as a "slightly-genderfulid straight guy" hits a little differently - I relate more directly to the characters, I think. That, more than most things, really hammered home for me how much has changed in the past year about the way I see myself and the way I relate to the rest of society.

It's also the first book I can remember reading that has an asexual main character, and certainly the first to showcase a healthy ace/allo romantic relationship. I feel so seen and understood every time I read it. (I'm pretty sure Jae is not even ace. She just saw there was a dearth of ace characters, especially in sapphic romance, and I think between research and sensitivity readers she's done a pretty good job of representation.)

Now that my emotions are starting to (re)activate due to some combination of HRT and social transition, I cried a lot more than on previous reads. Mostly at the consideration Leo shows Holly - the way she puts in extra effort to educate herself and communicate, and makes it abundantly clear that there's never any pressure or expectation of sex in their relationship. It's just so sweet and heartwarming.

I'm not at the same point on the ace spectrum as Holly. Between social transition and HRT, I'm not even at the same point I was a year ago. But I do still think I'm somewhere on that spectrum, and I see myself in this book in a way that I rarely do in romance novels.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-24T21:23:35Z

Weird bicycles (and other cycles) and cycle repair
Compost toilets
Sapphic romance novels (and other genres of fiction)

Seriously, please ask! I love discussing bikes and books, and have some experience with compost toilets that I rarely get to talk about.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T21:31:42Z

@salad_bar_breath Well, I said I'd let you know, so: Yeah, I'm doing NaNoWriMo.

@sofia@toot.site

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T21:33:46Z

@IPEdmonton I do, and very much enjoy it! In fact, I was just looking back at a question about weird bikes I submitted last week and saw your response about your old ICE trike.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T21:41:27Z

@IPEdmonton Yeah, I've seen ICE trikes in the wild occasionally and they seem really nice. It's sad when a good bike gets stolen. :blobsad:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T21:44:06Z

@salad_bar_breath Awesome! I'll probably post some loud public "hey, who's doing NaNo; what are you writing?" things in a day or so.

@sofia@toot.site

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T21:48:57Z
re: Blahaj shitpost; implicit animal death

@EveOfTheFuture 🤣

Congratulations on completing the first step of the initiation!

Next step: learn taxidermy.

[Caveat: I do not have a shark of my own; take my advice with a grain of salt.]

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-24T21:49:45Z

@inherentlee@strangeobject.space You might be on a rollercoaster?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-24T22:02:41Z

@inherentlee@strangeobject.space Dangit, I'm dangerously close to failing at wrong.

Could it have been a boat instead?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T22:10:49Z

@terraboops This is excellent advice.

And it's yet another reason I'm grateful for my partner. I mean, she usually brings me random bouquets of whatever was growing into the sidewalk, but that's more my style anyway. 💐​ (editing to clarify: she did this long before either of us suspected I might transition)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T22:11:53Z

@salad_bar_breath Aaaah no I can just @ you when I post it I don't want to make your computer go beep too much! Especially since I seem to be on an unusually high-volume posting spree today.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T22:17:34Z

@IPEdmonton Oh gosh, and it was custom? Yikes.

Yeah, I always try to assume the couple of bikes I've had stolen ended up in good homes where they were loved and maintained and ridden frequently by people who really needed them.

Bromptons are great! I had one for a while and really enjoyed it. And apparently someone made recumbent conversion kits for them for a while?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T22:56:47Z

@salad_bar_breath Oh, I'm not usually posting much late at night. I just meant I've made like 11 posts (including replies) today, which is rather a lot for me.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-24T23:06:28Z

@salad_bar_breath Chatting with lovely fediverse people when I should be arranging slides for an upcoming presentation.

Right, I should get back to those slides...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-25T00:02:31Z

@audrey I try to maintain a list of sapphic novels, which are pretty much all written by queer folks, on Bookwyrm (bookrastinating.com/list/335/s) but don't always manage to keep up with my own reading. The list is open for other people to contribute too, but I don't think anyone has yet.

Several of my favorite authors are trans or nonbinary: Lily Seabrook (romance), April Daniels (superheros), Charlie Jane Anders (SFF), C. L. Polk (historical-ish urban fantasy?), Molly J. Bragg (SFF & superheros).

I too spend a lot of time with my nose in an ereader. It's full of books! 📚

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-25T00:12:29Z

@inliuofjoan I can't hit the ⭐ button hard enough. Nicely done!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-25T03:58:31Z

@milesizdead Yep! Or at least partially indoor. It's based pretty heavily on the designs from the Humanure Handbook by Joseph Jenkins.

The one I worked on/with had an indoor "collection chamber" (read: bucket in a nice wooden box with a toilet seat on top, and some carbon matter to cover deposits) that got regularly emptied into a large "composting chamber" (~ 3x3 meter container with vent pipes running through it). Any time buckets were emptied into the composter the contents were covered with lots more carbon matter.

The indoor component of the system is about the size of a flush toilet, possibly smaller. The major downside of this system is you need to swap the buckets out once or twice per person per week, though I hear you can reduce that with urine diversion. Also someone has to empty them into the composter regularly.

Other than that it works well, and is a lot more effective than the little "self-contained" units because you've got a much bigger compost pile, and once it's full you can switch to another compost chamber and leave it to decompose for a year.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-25T04:09:31Z

@milesizdead I'm happy to share some other resources - including some of the documentation we used to get approval from the city - upon request.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-26T03:17:01Z

@eldang But how else are we supposed to grow renewable energy?!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-26T03:32:15Z

@eldang [conspiracy theorist voice] "Call before you dig is just a scam to keep you from running underground wires from DIY solar, wind, and hydro generators."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-26T03:33:37Z

@eldang So... grid-tied solar? I guess that makes sense.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-26T06:30:18Z

Finally got a bluetooth keyboard to go with the ereader/tablet. I think this is going to be the on-the-go writing & notetaking setup I've been wanting for a long time now:

- long battery life
- eink screen for visibility in sunlight & for decreased eyestrain
- compact & lightweight
- few distractions (it's an Android eink device; not ideal for e.g. web browsing or watching videos) (ok it does have ebooks, those are a major distraction I guess)

And it's just in time for . What a way to break in a new keyboard!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-26T16:12:26Z

@audrey Typing's ok for me on an Onyx Boox device from 2020. The screen lags very slightly behind the keyboard, but I didn't even notice until you asked this and I went back to check.

I don't always look at the screen when typing anyway; I am very much a touch typist. Someone else might have more difficulty with it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-26T16:35:47Z

@stripey I've looked into this a couple times over the years and never quite gotten it working to my satisfaction, but I think the suggestions in this forum thread (mostly further down) were the most helpful I found: forum.freecad.org/viewtopic.ph

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-26T20:38:29Z

@ukuku Swingbike! For when you can't decide if you want to be a single-track vehicle or a multi-track vehicle. 🙃

Gonna add the tag here because I want it to catch on. 🙂​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-26T20:56:45Z

Me, yesterday: "...just in time for ."

Me, this morning: "Wait... next month is October. NaNo isn't for another month."

Well, more time for research and planning!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-27T23:42:27Z

@quinnanya Nice! Very "magic schoolbus goes to college."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-27T23:50:16Z

Just got back from my first laser session! Now I'm wondering...

We've got the term "EwwPhoria" for those experiences that are simultaneously gross/unpleasant and .

Is there an equivalent term for when something is painful but you're busy going "hooray this is so exciting!"?

Oww-Phoria?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-27T23:58:22Z

@inherentlee@strangeobject.space That looks really neat!

@alephnaught2tog Good call. I would read that book.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-28T03:33:21Z

@daisy *thinks of the Transgender Mafia tiktok videos that made the rounds a while back* Yeah, I can see that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-28T03:43:23Z

@glightly Yes!

I've had people look at my trike and tell me I need a flag... and then I point out that the trike is taller than their car. :eyeroll:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-28T03:53:26Z

@glightly Oh, yeah. The trucks where I'm eye-level with the bottom of the grille are absolutely a design (and legislation) problem.

I know we've got some potholes, but you don't need *that* much suspension for any legal driving you can do within city limits.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-29T05:13:30Z

@IPEdmonton It looks like you could *almost* take the printer out, fold up the Brompton, and put it in the box.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-29T05:25:13Z
re: Sex, sexuality, questioning

@tattie I don't know what it is, but I'm not dissimilar.

I still refer to myself as ace-spectrum because the amount of sexual desire I experience is variable. I think it's increasing on average due to HRT and self-acceptance, but I'm pretty sure I am nowhere near what many people experience.

And I definitely relate to that third paragraph. Pretty much all of it.

There might be some ace-spec microlabel that fits? I haven't looked through them recently.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-29T06:27:26Z

Finally fixed my website so it has my correct name!

And I updated DNS records so aprilwick.com points to it directly instead of being a redirect!

And then remembered I need to set up an SSL certificate for it. That might be a project for another day...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-29T20:59:35Z

@glightly Yay! Glad you found the sock. Also, nice graphic!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-29T21:04:54Z

@Karstan Yes, please! Me too!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-29T21:09:32Z

I didn't expect it, but this new bluetooth keyboard might be an assistive device too.

Today I realized that when it's hard for me to verbalize what's on my mind - usually in tense/intense moments - I can hand my partner the tablet and type my half of the conversation.

It worked remarkably well, at least this first time.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-29T21:10:04Z

@enobacon Hurry up and stop!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-30T00:14:40Z

@IPEdmonton I resemble that remark!

@ascentale @glightly

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-30T00:22:41Z

@glightly @xtaran Seems like there's a trend of software people, especially FLOSS/Linux people, coming out as trans these days, so I'm waiting for the day when the stereotypical recumbent rider switches from "nerdy guy" to "nerdy trans woman."

Then the two major contingents in my Mastodon timeline will converge!

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-30T00:29:26Z

@ascentale @daihard A7: On a recumbent, I'm often eye-level with other peoples' blinding strobe lights and I do not like it, no thank you, it kills my night vision and distracts me from the road. Not just the taillights, but also the headlights blinking at my rear-view mirror.

That said, I understand why people use them and don't fault anyone for it. (Ok, I do fault the motornormative hegemony that makes them necessary, but that's a little different.)

I'll use a pulse setting if the light offers it, since that's less intense but the variation may help catch a driver's eye. Also it might save some battery.

I'm pretty sure they're legal here in California. Often encouraged, even.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-30T01:03:37Z
thinking about gender and sexism

A while back I was getting off of the solar trike when a couple of kids walked by. They asked a few questions about the trike. The feminine-presenting one asked "Did you build that?" and I said, "yes" and she just stared in awe for a moment. It's not a new experience, exactly, but back when I presented masculine I nearly always had that interaction with masc-presenting kids. That's when it really hit me that I'm a Woman In STEM (or at least in STEM-adjacent hobbies) now.

My first response was to be pleased/excited. I've tried to be a feminist in STEM-adjacent hobbies for years prior to realizing I was trans, and it felt like something clicked during that interaction. I was so pleased at the idea that this kid might be able to see in me a possible future for herself that is generally underrepresented.

(Thinking back on it, I probably admired women in these male-dominated fields I was interested in because that's who I wanted to be... just not in the way this kid might. Gender envy, much? 🙃)

It's complicated, though. I have to remind myself that I got 30 years of engaging in STEM stuff as a (presumed) straight cis white male. From the time I was born, people practically shoved me into lego kits, erector sets, math & science classes, hobbies like ham radio, anything related to computers, bicycle repair... People assuming I was competent and capable in these realms, often without any supporting evidence. And this kid seeing me in the park doesn't know that, has no way of knowing that if she tries to follow in my footsteps she'll face so many challenges that I didn't.

I'm not yet quite sure where to go with this, except to continue supporting equitable access to all types of learning and opportunity and try to counter bias and discrimination. To push back against patriarchy and racism and classism and ableism and colonialism, and, and, and... because it's never done.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-30T01:29:00Z

@RavynWitch Self-directed? Skilled at managing people and processes?

Too responsible/competent for my own good? 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-30T02:42:39Z

@hollie Oof. Best wishes for mild symptoms, a swift recovery, and no aftereffects, for you and Greg both. I hope you can get lots of rest.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-09-30T04:55:13Z
re: thinking about gender and sexism

@caroline Oh, that's a fantastic story; I love it! Thanks for sharing!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-30T21:37:36Z

@rowmyboat Woo! Cool bike and excellent pick-up strategy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-09-30T22:48:51Z
re: plumbing unpleasantness (gross (seriously))

@pqqq Aaah no! I hope they get it fixed soon!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T00:04:06Z

@glightly Ugh, that's a frustrating place to be. Does it have a torque sensor?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T00:19:05Z

@glightly Augh, that's awful behavior on the part of the company.

I'd really be surprised if it had a torque sensor - they're usually built into a custom bottom bracket and I know the Patterson already uses its own custom bottom bracket. Asked anyway because there are a few other ways to do it; they're just rare. Pedal sensors and throttles are both cheaper and simpler to install.

I've got both torque sensing and a throttle on my trike, mostly because the throttle was a cheap add-on and it helps control regen, but it's still useful sometimes.

Even with torque sensing, I still sometimes find myself in that situation where I can't get the right assist level. (Usually it's because I'm trying to match my partner's speed.)

I wish I had something helpful to suggest. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T00:23:13Z

@psiie That sounds very interesting and I'm slightly disappointed that I don't quite have the skills to do something useful with it.

It'd be real nice to listen to audiobooks without (1) being online or (2) relying on their app.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T00:23:56Z

@glightly Yeah, makes sense. Good luck!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T00:24:40Z

@MarthaCrimson Oh, nice! I like the little dog-porthole on that one.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T00:33:50Z

@psiie !!!

Hyperfocus vs. The Enshittification: round ???

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T20:20:49Z

@EveOfTheFuture Got genre preferences? Not that I'm any good at generating prompts, but I'll try and I hope you go for it!

I think we might have @salad_bar_breath onboard already. We could have an entire contingent here!

(I'll make a proper big "who's writing, and what?" post sometime soon. Was going to do it last week but that was when I forgot about the existence of October and thought NaNo was starting in like 7 days.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T21:14:58Z

@EveOfTheFuture Hmm. I like reading magical realism; not sure what to do for prompts though. I'll ponder that...

That was you doing the Star Trek CYOA thing with polls a while back, right? That was some good writing!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-01T21:19:32Z

@EveOfTheFuture Oh! No pressure; I assumed I'd just missed a round of "poll ended" notifications and lost track of it during a time when I wasn't online much.

It's a really clever concept, too!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-02T02:38:13Z

@Axiom I hope you will forgive this, but... If you switched from crochet to knitting, didn't you become unhooked?

Anyway... Hi! Nice to meet you! I enjoy knitting and spinning but do them irregularly and infrequently. Occasionally I remember to post about them.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-02T17:10:59Z

@HayiWena Oh gosh. This whole thing is appalling.

I thought I was a patient person, but you've got a lot more patience than I do.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-03T01:39:52Z

@enobacon Ugh. Yep! Every time I delve into US tax stuff I come away from it furious about the credits available for electric vehicles. Where by vehicles they mean cars and motorcycles.

It's only distantly related to your topic, but I think this article mentions a proposed California tax credit for households with less than 1 car per adult (it didn't pass, of course): cal.streetsblog.org/2023/09/07

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-03T01:46:37Z

@psiie Oh, wow! That's awesome!

Sorry to hear about the cold. 😦 I hope you are getting plenty of rest.

Yeah, I can see how you wouldn't want that associated with a main public account. 🏴‍☠️ 😇

Linux (Ubuntu). I've poked at nodeJS a few times, I think mostly for TiddlyWiki tinkering that never went anywhere. I can usually figure things out given sufficient documentation/clues.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-03T06:19:31Z

@enobacon I don't think so, but we once set up a film projector and watched my grandparents' old home movies.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-03T18:12:20Z

@glightly I think GNUHealth has a local/personal component that might do this, but I fear installing the software is likely a challenge. Have not yet tried it myself.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-03T22:06:45Z

@ai6yr One of my favorite quotes from the excellent Catfishing on CatNet by Naomi Kritzer: "humans are under the thoroughly mistaken impression that they're good at driving cars."

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-04T04:09:40Z

@HayiWena On the one hand, hooray for a remote option!

And on the other hand, mixed messaging much? If they want to encourage something, they shouldn't put it in the fine print. 🙄​

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-06T23:06:11Z

@HayiWena 🤦‍♀️

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-07T00:15:34Z

@ascentale @BikeEastBay A6.I love paper maps when I can get good ones, especially well-designed bike maps. I really appreciate having an overview of a region instead of just getting shoved along whatever route an app/website recommends.

My favorite route-specific paper map is probably one of the Oregon Coast bike route maps - I think it's an older edition that just had a really clean and usable panel layout; similar to Adventure Cycling but with more detail on surrounding areas and alternate routes.

Favorite regional paper map was probably the BikeThere! map of the Portland metro region. Extensive, detailed, and printed on nice waterproof paper.

When using digital maps I often prefer OSMAnd, which uses OpenStreetMap data, but I've been hearing good things about OrganicMaps and will probably try it soon.

I'll use a smartphone to get directions from an app sometimes, but for planning while traveling (and backup in case of dead phone battery) I also have map apps on my e-ink tablet/reader. It's a little harder to use because the screen is greyscale and there's no GPS, but the bigger screen is still useful for planning long trips if I don't have paper maps or a computer.

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@kg6gfq
2023-10-07T00:16:58Z

@sam Are there any resources or guides you would recommend for someone who wants to learn to edit cycle routes on OSM?

@ascentale @BikeEastBay

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-07T00:29:03Z

@ascentale A2. I haven't been in a car in about 3 years (there was a round-trip on a bus in there somewhere; otherwise cycling & walking), and only drove myself - on a learner's permit - for a year or so about 15 years ago. It would be challenging, and probably a learning experience, for me to do a week *with* driving.

Week Without Driving seems like a really great initiative, though! I learned about it recently from a post on here, just in time to reference it in a (remote) presentation for a symposium on active transportation in Glasgow. The gist of our presentation was basically "If you want better infrastructure, then the people funding, designing, and installing the infrastructure should use active transportation" and Week Without Driving is both (1) an excellent start on making that a reality and (2) a great source of pull quotes supporting our point.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-07T00:40:04Z

@ascentale @pronounshe A5. Probably Y-socket wrenches. They're simple, compact, (relatively) ergonomic, and effective.

Also my trike frame is assembled almost entirely with M6 bolts. I spent a lot of quality time with 10mm socket wrenches putting it together!

That said, I tend to carry a small shop's worth of tools and spare parts. Just in case.

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@kg6gfq
2023-10-07T00:46:32Z

@sam Thanks! I guess I should just go for it. One of these days...

@ascentale @BikeEastBay

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@kg6gfq
2023-10-07T02:09:44Z

@e_er1n Hello, past self! I didn't know you were a meme.

Don't worry, in the future you can destroy *different* gender norms!

@terraboops

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T01:08:14Z

@EnaWasHere I switched from CS to a different major halfway through so it doesn't count, right?

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T01:15:10Z

@tattie At first glance I was going to say "Yes (estrogenic HRT)" because I'm more prone to crying and other emotional displays, but what you described re:bugs, socks, etc. sounds like me since forever, so I don't know?

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T11:37:05Z

@cestfleuve If it fell on the derailleur and then started making a clicking sound, my first guess would be a bent derailleur hanger (that darker black part connecting the derailleur to the frame in your third photo, in case you aren't familiar with it). Depending on the severity of the bend you might be able to see it by looking at the derailleur from behind, but it really should be checked with a derailleur hanger alignment gauge.

That said, there's several other things that could also result in clicking when pedaling (old cables and mis-adjustments being most likely alternatives if it's definitely coming from the rear wheel) and I wouldn't feel confident giving a diagnosis from photos.

Questions that might (maybe) help diagnose: Is it clicking when you pedal in all gears, or just some? Is it shifting as easily and consistently as it did before? Are there any specific gears that it doesn't like to shift into?

Wear on your cassette doesn't look too bad, and the derailleur itself doesn't look like it's beyond normal levels of scraped up, so I think it's mostly in ok shape.

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T11:50:33Z

@cestfleuve From what I can see here, I'd guess that it's probably find to ride for a bit as long as you make sure that when you shift into the lowest gear, it isn't going to (1) throw the chain off the inside of the largest cog and/or (2) push the derailleur into the spokes.

(1) is a likely outcome from a slightly bent derailleur hanger and a nuisance to undo, but usually not too much of a problem, especially since you have a spoke protector.

(2) usually only happens with a severely bent hanger and I'd be very surprised if that were the case here. But if it does happen it'll usually put an end to your ride and cost you a new derailleur and maybe some spokes.

If I were going to check to be absolutely certain, I'd do it by putting the bike in a stand or turning it upside down and pedaling very gently as you shift into the lowest gear, watching where the chain is going and keeping an eye on the clearance between the spokes and the derailleur.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-09T12:00:20Z

@esther@strangeobject.space Yikes. Glad you're not injured.

Drivers and motornormative society just... argh. I wish situations like this were surprising, but you're right. It happens every day, and it's awful every time.

*sends wishes for mindful and courteous drivers your way*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T17:05:24Z

@cestfleuve Sounds like it's pretty ok, then.

Clicking in all gears and sometimes slow to shift likely means either a slightly bent derailleur hanger (most likely, especially if it's clicking in the highest and lowest gears too) or a cable that's a little too tight or a little too loose (not uncommon on a new bike; cables and housing often stretch and settle when they're new).

In either case, you might be able to get away with adjusting the cable tension a little. The easiest way to do that is with the barrel adjuster - the little black twisty knob thing where the cable enters the derailleur.

I'm happy to write up some instructions and answer questions if it helps, but you can probably find a good tutorial online in written and/or video format if you need to.

If it is a bent derailleur hanger and you want to do things the 100% correct best practice way and/or adjusting cable tension isn't sufficient, you should be able to order a new hanger online or through a bike shop, and replacing it is just a matter of taking the wheel off and undoing a few allen bolts.

Modern aluminum derailleur hangers are designed as a disposable part - they bend or break first so your derailleur or frame won't, and it's much cheaper to replace the hanger.

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@kg6gfq
2023-10-09T18:11:10Z

@greene Pretty sure I'm going to!

Still need to figure out some significant details re: what I'm writing. And update my page on nanowrimo.org, since it's been over a decade...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T20:00:58Z

@greene Ok, updated my profile. I guess I am doing this!

nanowrimo.org/participants/sib

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-09T21:57:58Z

The printer/scanner/copier I scavenged from the dumpster a while back now refuses to do anything because it can't recognize the print head.

Dearest HP, do please consider that a print head is not required for scanning. I should still be able to scan documents without a print head. Scanning is, after all, the only reason I salvaged this thing.

It has wifi, USB ports, a touchscreen display, and a speaker. I'm pretty sure someone could port Linux to this thing if they tried hard enough. (For that matter, it might already be running a stripped-down embedded Linux.) But it won't let me scan a document, because the alert dialogs about an unrelated hardware component are blocking access to any other functionality.

Oh well, guess I'll have to go scan these papers at the library and figure out where to take e-waste now that the local computer recycler only accepts bulk corporate donations. *sigh*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T22:00:24Z

Whoop, I spoke too soon! I can still make it scan via USB even though the onboard interface has been rendered useless.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-09T23:35:59Z

Seems like I'm having a bad hardware day.

I ordered a "heated scarf" off ebay for my partner. When turned on, it smelled like burning plastic, so I've been taking it apart, intending to re-make it in wool. Got the electronics out of the original "scarf", discovered that it still smelled because the heating element was encased in iron-on interfacing. Pulled that apart, was thinking about how to secure it... and one of the tiny wires connecting the switch to the USB port broke. Not sure if my extremely limited soldering skills & equipment are up to the task of repairing it, and I'll have to scrape off a bunch of sealant to even get at the solder pad.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T23:57:08Z

Note to self: You only have two hands. Next time you go to test circuits in the shed, bring clip leads.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T23:58:34Z

Note to electronics manufacturers: People sometimes want to repair their stuff. Consider using wires that don't break as soon as they bend.

(I got it soldered back on more easily than I expected, but still.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-09T23:59:25Z

*wishing adhesive manufacturers labelled their products to indicate electrical conductivity or lack thereof*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-10T00:22:38Z

@ashleemboyer On the Mastodon web interface? My experience has been that it is set up by default to play a chime for notifications. (Posts may include video and audio clips as well.)

(Also, yikes that sounds like a major usability issue.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-10T00:24:26Z

@mzedp I got halfway through reading the post and thought, "That's very Vi Hart of you." and then finished reading.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-10T03:52:58Z

@zoey This, yes, this.

I knew plenty of trans people and thought I knew what it meant to be trans, and I didn't qualify under that definition.

I don't think I really developed coping mechanisms, because I didn't know I needed them. I'd had a very high level of perceived safety for over a decade.

Then I found Trans Mastodon and genderdysphoria.fyi and had to recalibrate my understanding of what it was to be trans, and *whoops I'm a girl*.

@Impossible_PhD

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-10T04:48:06Z

@jiinissi Got this specifically to address severe muscle tension and headaches, not for day-to-day being cold.

It's a difficult spot to hold a hot water bottle on, too, otherwise we'd be doing that - we're generally "turn down the heat and put on another sweater" people. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-10T05:03:52Z

@zoey Oh, the browser homepage is a good trick! For a few months I kept going back and rereading bits of genderdysphoria.fyi for confirmation, but your way sounds simpler.

@Impossible_PhD

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-10T05:10:46Z

@jiinissi The oat bags are great, but we don't have a microwave. Between a tiny kitchen and not using microwaves much anyway, it doesn't make sense for us. I figured it would be more efficient to convert electricity to heat directly on the neck.

In retrospect, it probably would have been most energy efficient to get a small peltier element, wire it to a USB port, and construct a scarf around it. Ah well, hindsight...

I hadn't heard of TENS devices being used for migraines - I'll look into that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-10T18:21:58Z
re: Ewwphoria post, harassment

@salad_bar_breath
(1) Sounds like he needs to re-take Remedial Human Interaction.

(2) I just learned that my brain wants to read "You're a [adjective] [noun]! Such a [adjective] [noun]!" in the overly-cutesy tone of voice one might use for "You're a fluffy kitty! Such a fluffy kitty!" Presumably because That Is Not How One Addresses A Human.

(3) Ugh, I'm sorry.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-10T18:29:25Z
re: Ewwphoria post, harassment

@salad_bar_breath Yeah, I figured. I don't expect any voice would make it better.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-11T02:19:50Z

Paging @parkingreform and @NoFreeParking

Perhaps you can suggest some answers/resources for the question from @ucaccessnow that I'm replying to here, and/or boost the post to the parking reform community?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-11T03:00:21Z
dystopian

I step outside, wearing a knee-length black coat and a facemask.

It's drizzling lightly, and harsh white lights cut the darkness. I hear sirens, an engine revving, tires swishing over wet pavement. Acrid smoke, car exhaust, and the scent of fresh rain on asphalt mingle in the air.

I ask myself, "Since when do I live in a dystopian sci-fi noir movie? Oh, wait..."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-13T01:37:47Z

Today marks the third time someone I met before I started presenting feminine recognized my very unique trike. Responses so far have been:

- "There's someone else in town with a trike like that, I've seen him at..."
- [person mistakes me for my partner because she is not present]
- "I think I met your boyfriend..." (while my partner was present!)

Fortunately, nobody has yet been unpleasant when I responded, "Oh, that was me before I transitioned."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-13T01:45:21Z

@salad_bar_breath Congratulations and good luck!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-13T02:52:16Z

@bluestocking At least they're decidedly relevant for your region?

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@kg6gfq
2023-10-13T16:13:45Z

@yonabee@eldritch.cafe Yes! A while back I put in a feature request for separate post-only and boost-only feeds, but the response was "just turn off boosts, then turn them back on" and I didn't feel up to explaining how that is not at all the same.

I really like the reading-gap view idea, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-13T16:29:46Z

@EnaWasHere Wait, really? Yikes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-14T03:40:52Z

@ascentale A6. I recently heard from a friend in PDX that they are testing a bike trailer street sweeper up there. I'm not certain, but I would guess it's this one: bikelanesweeper.com/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-14T03:47:31Z

@linnefaulk Once when I worked at a shop, a tow truck pulled up out front with one of our regular customers in the cab and her bike strapped on the back. Apparently she had called AAA about her flat tire, and that was their solution!

@ascentale @MartyCormack

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-14T05:24:43Z

@consumablejoy I loved that book! Just saw a trailer online somewhere the other day and assumed it was for a movie, but it's a show? I am going to have to look into that...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-14T05:57:38Z
mild spoilers for Cleat Cute by Meryl Wilsner, discussion of neurodivergence and medication

Just finished reading _Cleat Cute_ by Meryl Wilsner.

It was perfectly timed, because I was journaling about my wants/needs/priorities and about separating them from those of the people around me. Reading about Grace facing the same thing, figuring out how to let go of other peoples' expectations, I felt a little less alone.

I loved that both of the main characters were neurodivergent and undiagnosed. Would have appreciated a little more acknowledgement of a social model of neurodivergence and alternative approaches to living with ADHD instead of jumping right to "let's get your ADHD diagnosed so you can get meds". I mean, it's good to destigmatize neurodivergence and associated medication, but that isn't the only valid path.

I also have mixed feelings about combining neurodivergent representation with the opposites-attract trope. Yes, ADHD/Autistic couples can work really well. I'm just leery of the possibility that it could turn into a trope of its own where authors always pair up the neurodiverse characters and that doesn't seem like a good way for things to go.

Anyway, enough quibbles and concerns. I really enjoyed Phoebe and Grace and definitely had some emotions about seeing aspects of myself in them, and seeing them and their families be so kind and caring with each other when they were facing executive dysfunction, social overwhelm, nonverbal moments, etc.

I'm impressed at how versatile Wilsner seems to be in terms of setting - they seem to write Hollywood, academia, and professional soccer with equal fluency (from the perspective of someone who isn't an expert on any of those). As with Wilsner's previous two books, I'll almost certainly read this again - it's just the right balance for me between emotionally intense and easy-to-read.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-14T20:34:17Z

@zora You can get secondhand ones pretty cheap too - I use a Gillette I got on ebay for about $10. It was probably made in the 1960s but still works fine. They're pretty durable little gadgets; mine is just three pieces that screw together.

@esther@strangeobject.space

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-14T20:56:36Z
re: NaNoWriMo Q

@EveOfTheFuture You can plan and prep to your heart's content before kickoff as long as you don't start the actual novel (or whatever). I've been writing character profiles and plot summaries in an attempt to get my brain in gear.

I hadn't heard of SCP before, that sounds interesting! I can't speak from experience with that type of project, but I can say that 50,000 words - while it feels long when you're trying to churn it out in a month - is pretty short from a plot standpoint, just a bit more than a novella. I used to have trouble gauging how much I could fit into 50k - too much one year and too little the next, if I remember correctly. Something like SCP might give you more flexibility to expand or condense different parts of it at need, so that could work out well, I think?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-14T22:02:39Z

@pixelpaperyarn I am! I've been seeing more people posting about it on the hashtag, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-14T22:21:52Z

@pixelpaperyarn Pretty sure my last time doing NaNo was a couple years earlier than 2012 and I've written basically no fiction since, so you're probably in better shape for this than I am. 😁

I'm excited and also concerned about where I am with prep - there's some key stuff I still need to research in depth to write one of these characters.

Any idea what you're going to be writing?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-14T23:35:38Z
re: Transphobia

@YouShallNotPass It's definitely easier to dismiss the validity of outright transphobia than it is to dismiss someone who talks like they're supportive and accepting and then isn't.

My concerns about coming out were not entirely dissimilar. I was pretty sure nobody close to me would be spewing transphobic vitriol, but my people-pleasing self was so uncomfortable asking everyone to change how they thought and talked about me. And not even because I had any really intense dysphoria symptoms or anything, just because I thought it would be an improvement over the status quo.

Reactions have been like 95% good. There's one person I'm close to who hasn't handled it well (no vitriol, just silence), and I know that's because of stuff internal to him that he needs to process and I think he knows it too. Even so, it was intensely nerve-wracking at first.

Anyway, it's absolutely a valid thing to worry about.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-15T00:01:27Z

@EnaWasHere How does one do online karaoke? Because that does sound very fun!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-15T00:03:47Z

@EnaWasHere Ah, via Discord. Neat!

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-15T04:36:52Z

@cestfleuve I just have a little orange plastic safety wing with a reflector sticking out to the side, but I've heard tales of people mounting a short, sharp spear sticking out to the side of their bikes for exactly that reason. No idea if they're true.

Best make it retractable, though, for when other cyclists are overtaking.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-15T04:41:33Z

@caroline Yikes! Really putting the "lightning" in "lightning cable" there. 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-15T04:54:37Z

Me, this morning, high on jogging endorphins: I'm gonna finally make a new pair of shoes, brainstorm for NaNoWriMo, do some internet chores, see if I can get some replacement spokes for the trike, and maybe work on a sewing project.

Me, tonight: I have completed 1.25 shoes, got spokes, partially re-read a book, and had a few good mastodon conversations.

Pretty sure I figured out how I can make the toebox slightly adjustable on the next pair of shoes, too, which is kinda exciting!

Now, do I have time for three-quarters of a shoe *and* a shower before bed? No, not if I want to wake up early enough to jog again tomorrow. That's ok, I can make do with the uncomfortable experimental shoe for another day or so.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-15T23:35:47Z
re: Self doubt; Trans; Wall of text

@zoey Hey, thanks for writing this. It kinda came up in another thread last week, but I think I am in a similar boat.

>
✅ I don't think I was sad as a boy.
✅ I didn't think about being a girl constantly.
✅ I don't have all these signs to look back on.
✅ I don't think I have any significant trauma associated with my birth gender (or being forced to perform it).
>

I'm transitioning based on things like "Yes, I would press the button that instantly turns me into a girl." and "for some reason I started sleeping better after I considered the possibility of being trans" and "I have better posture in girl mode" and it all feels so circumstantial and inconclusive sometimes.

But the other thing that I have to keep reminding myself of is that this transition thing, every step of the way, has felt right. I filed the name change paperwork and felt good about it. I started estrogen and liked the effects. I look in the mirror when I've got breast prostheses and a good outfit on and I smile to myself - not a thing I did often with boymode outfits!

So yeah, I'm trans, even on the days I question it, and from what I've read it sounds like you are too.

(And yet, I think part of the reason I don't post about trans stuff on Mastodon so much is because I *don't* have as many of those typical trans experiences so many people talk about and bond over. I'm trans, but I'm not trans enough to talk about it much? Ouch. Gotta work on that one.)

Anyway, thank you again for writing this. I feel a little less alone 'round here after reading it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-15T23:38:07Z

@CharlotteEowyn

1) 🤨 Hmmmm.

2) I feel like there's a joke to be made here about

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@kg6gfq
2023-10-16T05:33:47Z

@yonabee@eldritch.cafe I just tried phanpy.social/ and it doesn't have a separate feed for boosts, but it does display boosts in a way I really like. Original posts from people you follow are in a vertical column, with occasional inset boxes that scroll horizontally and contain about 10 boosts each. So far I like it more than pretty much any other client.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-16T15:07:41Z

@transitory Oof. But as a friend of mine says, "bonus miles!"

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-16T17:56:00Z

@IPEdmonton Someone finally convinced him that he ought to be more cautious about catching covid... but it's pretty safe to take his mask of in this class because the instructor is clearly taking precautions?

I don't know, people's logic around masking and other covid precautions often baffles me.

Maybe he was just using it as a face-warmer walking to and from class?

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-16T18:06:20Z

@zoey Yeah, "we need more diverse gender narratives" has been on my mind a lot this year. Writing more about my own experience is still on the to-do list.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T02:54:39Z

@melanie As in... DIY HRT, or just info about hormones, or what?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T03:00:02Z

@Willow Oh, gosh. I'm suddenly remembering either ads or links to eShakti from a few years ago that I was very interested in.

(and wow, that's a nice dress)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T03:13:48Z
implicit unsolicited advice, maybe

@Willow I also spent a long time wanting to wear things I didn't have the curves for. Then I made a pair of knitted breast prostheses, and they don't work for everything but they dramatically increased the range of feminine-styled clothes that I like on myself.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T03:22:35Z

@melanie I'd start with the links in this post: cultofshiv.wtf/@SleepyCatten/1

And since you mentioned zines, Crimethinc published something about making transdermal estradiol oil (from pure estradiol) a little while back, which has further links at the bottom: crimethinc.com/2022/12/15/prod

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-17T04:04:29Z
grainy webcam selfie, eye contact

New glasses! I had already been hankering after cat-eye frames before I started presenting feminine full-time, so I'm pretty excited about these.

Face of a white person wearing cat-eye glasses. The frames are metal, mostly pink but with a bold red segment across the top of each eye. 

Also wearing an N95 mask, an orange-brown shirt, and a yellow ribbon braided into dark-blonde hair.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T04:08:41Z

@EveOfTheFuture Well, now I'm curious what the idea is!

I considered a while ago trying to kick-start something like hashtag-MoreGenderStories (I had a cleverer name for it, which I have forgotten), but I'm possibly not the best person for it - I think the majority of my followers are primarily bike people.

@zoey

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T04:23:01Z

@SRLevine Hey, plain square/rectangular black is good too; that was basically my go-to for a couple decades. I appreciate a no-nonsense, these-things-are-functional aesthetic.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T04:23:37Z

@twistylittlepassages Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T04:30:01Z
caps

@pixelpaperyarn Oh yeah, I've done the ***INSERT MORE DETAILS ABOUT THE SCENE HERE LATER*** thing before. It's a good technique.

I hope the novel continuation goes well for you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-17T05:10:15Z

Apparently "so tired I can barely keep my eyes open" is the correct frame of mind for finally replying to some backlogged mentions. 🤷‍♀️ 💤 Goodnight, fediverse!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T16:03:05Z

@salad_bar_breath Aw, thanks!

Selfies are not usually my thing, but occasionally...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T16:33:21Z

@hack (1) That's pretty neat. (2) I hope you feel better soon!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-17T22:56:40Z

@transitory Yikes! I've had "episode of sudden and intense embodiment" while biking in traffic and that was distracting enough; dissociating sounds way worse.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-20T02:49:43Z

Today in solar trike repair:

One of the repurposed crutches supporting my solar panel sheared off while riding to an appointment this morning (as aluminum, especially cheap aluminum, does if you put it under too much stress for too long). I rigged some string diagonally to keep the structure from sagging too much on the ride home.

I didn't get around to replacing it (yes, I keep spare crutches around for exactly this purpose) until it was getting dark this evening, so I pulled out some blue LED strips I found in a free pile. I had wired them to a set of PowerPole connectors last night, so it was a simple matter of plugging them into the trike battery via a voltage converter and dangling them from the old broken-off mirror mount and Presto! I had work lights.

Swapping the crutch out was simple enough; just unbolt the old one and bolt on the new one. The biggest challenge was drilling mounting holes through the crutch handle...

I could have made do with the hand drill, but I was in a hurry so I pulled out my formerly-cordless drill. "Formerly cordless" because it didn't have a battery when I found it, so at some point I wired a set of PowerPole connectors onto the battery contacts. It's meant to run at 18v and works very nicely connected directly to my solar panel in full sun - the panel provides a little over 20v, which is close enough. If there isn't full sun, as was the case tonight, then I have to run it off the trike battery directly, which provides closer to 40v. It's kinda exciting, since the drill goes *really* fast and it probably isn't great for the motor. Also the trigger switch on the drill doesn't work, so I have to turn it on and off using the forward-backward switch instead.

Anyway, I got the holes drilled and the crutch bolted and the trike is ready to go again, except I really ought to rework the lighting system and the trunk lid and some other things, which I might do. Or I might continue building a semi-recumbent out of a couple scrap frames; we'll see.

This is why I often refer to my trikes (and other things) as prototypes: They tend to be bodge upon kludge upon hack, everything just good enough to keep going for a few dozen more miles.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-20T03:17:55Z

@enobacon Make Portland Normal (by bringing goats to picket lines everywhere)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-20T04:47:46Z

@glightly Sometimes, yes. I think it's not just the threading issue but also blocks & silences.

For example, here on octodon our admin has mastodon.social (among others) silenced, so I won't see replies to this post from anyone there unless I follow them, have explicitly allowed their posts to show, or go view your original post's page on mastodon.social.

Federation can be... interesting... at times.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-20T14:53:19Z

@seventeenmagpie I don't have many photos online; there's one in this post and a couple more in the post it links to: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1106596

Posting more info about the trikes is also on my to-do list...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T00:43:01Z
re: Star Trek CYOA - Away team (Moon)

@EveOfTheFuture I have no idea what "cheese it" means in this context, so clearly that is the correct option.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T00:47:21Z
re: Star Trek CYOA - TL:DR

@EveOfTheFuture USS Fediverse / Mastodon? Or, since it's being run by polls, USS Majority?

(No, I am not the most imaginative when it comes to naming things. 🤷‍♀️)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-23T02:34:48Z

So, who else is doing this year?

What are you going to write?

Are you planning, pantsing, or somewhere in between?

If you have one and feel inclined to share it here, what's the link to your profile on nanowrimo.org?

P.S.: Consider following @nanowrimo and @-ing it in posts about NaNo, since gup.pe groups federate across instances more reliably than hashtags.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T02:57:04Z

I'm coming back to NaNo after more than a decade away, so it should be interesting...

This year's project initially looks like a cozy sapphic romance in the community garden. Then the local "green" housing developer gets involved. Then there's some climate disaster... and I'm not quite sure where it's going to go from there.

I'm a plantser; currently more on the pantsing end but I really do want to get some more planning done before kickoff - more work on the character profiles for sure, and also a rough timeline so this plot doesn't go completely off the rails.

Profile here: nanowrimo.org/participants/apr; "buddies" welcome though I don't know how much I'll be using the official website for anything.

Aaaahhh I'm so excited!

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T03:42:02Z

@Rivikah Well, if you find that you have the brain space... I tend to think NaNo is more fun if you do it with more people!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T03:43:29Z

@salad_bar_breath Yay! I'm glad you're still planning to do it!

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T04:13:05Z

@Rivikah Nice! I went to a few local events in past years but never got too involved; I was thinking about checking out some of the local virtual events this time.

I take it you've done NaNo before, then?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T04:21:15Z

@salad_bar_breath Yeah, I've only ever done single works for NaNo. I like being able to tell a longer story and get involved with the characters more.

I also find short stories intimidating because there's so little room for error. Though I just realized that if you write multiple shorts for NaNo, then you can pick a few to revise intensely instead of having an entire novel that needs revision.

Hmm... I don't think I'm going to write shorts this year, but now *you* have inspired *me* for the future.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T18:07:55Z

@EveOfTheFuture Yeah, I think most people don't share their work during NaNo, but I get the impression that a few might... not sure where, though. You might get more suggestions on the nanowrimo.org forums? That said, if you do post somewhere, I'd probably read it! (Well, to the extent that I'll have time for reading anything during the month.)

Also, I think I said before but I'll say again: That sounds like a really cool writing structure. I've really enjoyed the few things in that style that I've read.

I might put up some excerpts if I'm feeling ambitious and good about my writing, but they'll probably be short bits. With octodon's 2222-character limit I might just post them here. Most of what I write will probably be awful, but for me that's half the point.

@yam655 I like the sound of that revision strategy; I'll have to try it.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-23T19:14:19Z

@pqqq Yay! I haven't written fiction in years either and I never got good at it anyway, but NaNoWriMo is a fun way to practice.

Your plot description sounds fantastic; that is absolutely something I would read. Sounds like you're ahead of me in terms of planning, too. I gotta work on that... 😬

Not sure anyone else is using the gup.pe group right now, but since it's there I figured I'd promote it. 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-23T19:22:41Z

@varve Oh, neat!

I think my first (very low-wordcount) NaNo was 2004, but I was mostly doing it with a group of school friends back then and not too connected to the larger community. It did seem to grow fast back then...

I'm kinda hoping we end up with a little Fediverse NaNoWriMo community, since it seems like the overlap between NaNo and Fedi should be small enough for that.

@EveOfTheFuture @yam655

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-24T01:47:47Z

@jepyang Joinnnnn ussssss

(Or, you know, don't, if you don't want to. I suppose we can allow that. 😄)

@EveOfTheFuture @nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-24T02:15:32Z

@Jgmeadows That sounds like a good project; I hope it goes well!

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-24T02:23:43Z

@malcircuit I'm going to be chuckling at the phrase "photon bucket" for a while now, I think. That's a good one!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-24T02:49:42Z

@pqqq Oooh, mandolin! That sounds like fun!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-24T03:36:59Z

@glightly I'd ask a specialty wheelbuilder, maybe. Sugar Wheel Works in PDX used to be my local wheelbuilder - I only ever bought spokes from them, but I always heard good things about their wheels and they usually seemed happy to offer advice.

I think the tricky part would be finding the narrow hubs used on Bromptons and a few other foldies but that are drilled for higher spoke counts. I get the impression 28-spoke is standard for Brompton hubs. Looks like Phil Wood makes 32-spoke versions, but then you're paying like $200/hub. 😬

After very brief searching, it looks like there's a Japanese company making 36h Brompton hubs (gokiso.jp/en/products/hub_03.h @ bottom of page). I don't see any pricing or ordering info, but from the product description I'd expect them to be spendy as well.

I know Skyway Tuffwheels (cewheelsinc.com/skyway-wheels/) are used on BMX bikes and Bikes at Work trailers, so they're pretty durable, and I believe they can be made with custom hub sizes, so that could be an option too.

Sorry, I wish I had something more concrete and/or less absurdly expensive to suggest.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-24T03:39:56Z

Turns out all it takes to get me to clean my desk is an audiobook and some other task I want to avoid.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-24T04:26:20Z

@glightly Oof, yeah, I know what you mean about search.

Went a little further down the rabbit hole and the options I'm finding are either way to expensive (e.g. specialty hubs or bespoke replacement forks which only seem to be available in titanium??) or kinda hack-ish (e.g. yoink a hub from a Dahon/Tern wheel with suitable width and a higher spoke count, or try to fit a fork from a kid/BMX bike on the Brompton) and not the kind of thing most shops are willing to attempt.

That sounds like a really unfortunate bind. ☹️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-24T23:03:32Z

estrogenic second puberty: When your partner gets you "teen girl" multivitamins even though your teen years are a distant memory. 😆 :heart_trans:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-25T00:37:52Z

@bluestocking Oooh, I hadn't heard of that before. Might have to give it a try...

Thanks!

@asthargf

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-25T02:43:51Z

@PedalHoppy "permission to make the time" - Yes, that's a really good way of putting it.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-25T02:45:31Z

@pqqq Cool! I had a cheap mandolin for a little while - not long enough to get even remotely good at it, but enough to get the sense that it's a lot of fun to play. I hope the recording goes well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-25T04:35:04Z

@BarbChamberlain I and a few others have been using the tag for these; I'll have to follow as well!

@forpeterssake

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-25T21:28:54Z

@alice @spinach Things I love about the fediverse, number 573: Watching conversations shift seamlessly from amusing jokes to interesting linguistics facts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-25T21:35:40Z

Ok, time to close the computer for a while and go do silly things to bicycles. Today's silly things are mostly going to be in the amateur carpentry department, I think.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-26T02:05:28Z

Today in amateur bicycle carpentry:

I knocked together a seat that I probably won't end up using on this Crank Forward / Semi-Recumbent because it's not really suitable for the seat angle I want on this thing.

Still, it helped me figure out what I do want in a seat for this. Maybe I can use this seat on another prototype later.

A semi-recumbent bicycle made by connecting 1.5 bike frames end-to-end. The (black) front frame is intact. The rear triangle of another frame (burgundy) is mounted to the back of it, with pieces of wood bracing the top of the triangle diagonally to the front frame. It has a seat made of plywood cut to fit the contour of a reclined torso with aluminum tubes horizontally through the plywood to provide a surface to sit on. The too-short handlebars are extended backwards with bar-ends on one side. Close-up of where the bottom bracket of the rear (burgundy) half-frame is bolted into the rear dropouts of the front (black) frame. Diagonal-front view of the previously described bike, showing the transverse aluminum tubes more clearly. Me sitting on the bike, one foot on the ground and one hand on the handlebar. I am sitting upright, with my back nowhere near the back of the much more reclined seat. I'm wearing a calf-length purple-ish skirt, a pink/white/orange checked shirt, and an N95 mask.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-26T07:13:31Z

@oook The chainstay-BB connection is quite solid. I did this 1.5 frames thing once before, many years ago, but as an upright longtail cargo bike with a regular bike seat installed on the front frame and it worked well.

I'm less certain about the wooden "top tube" - last time I did this I used a steel step-thru frame on the rear and was able to bolt its top tube and down tube onto the seat stays of the front frame. I might reinforce the wood later, or swap in some aluminum stock, but for now it feels pretty sturdy.

The extra stem on the steer tube, pointed forward, is to keep the top race on the headset from unscrewing. It's a threaded fork and I have a threaded headset for it, but the steer tube is a little too long and I don't have enough spacers to tighten the locknut down against it. I'll almost certainly swap out the fork later; this is just proof-of-concept.

The other extra stem, on the right side of the handlebar, is clamped over a crack in the handlebar as makeshift reinforcement. That's also why all the handlebar extensions are on the left. Again, temporary proof-of-concept!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-26T07:38:12Z

@oook I can do you one better and link to the 10-page instructional document I created back then (I think for a college class assignment?) because I apparently never delete anything from my website: aprilwick.com/extracycle_tutor

Notes from skimming that doc:
- Instead of putting cutoff cranks in as spacers and spreading the front frame, you can use a longer BB spindle and narrow the front frame slightly.
- I never wrote a Part II, nor did I finish building a cargo rack. I think I just bodged something together out of a standard bike rack and some scrap metal, and usually hung four bucket panniers from it.
- Cable extensions are a bit of a challenge if you don't want to buy tandem cables or a specialty cable extender. I think I DIYed the cable extensions with pinch bolts somehow at one of the spots where the cable is outside the housing... ???

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-27T16:42:23Z

"I'll just dehydrate it with math."

(Estimating nutrition information for a dried food.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-27T17:16:35Z

@forestine Try our new super-absorbent Math Towel!™️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-27T17:24:04Z

@FranklyWrites Oh, that's smart! I probably won't have time to do it, but it is an excellent idea. Maybe next year...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-27T19:36:59Z

@Qyriad Yep, but not intentionally. I had been listing pronouns for years before switching and I don't even know where they all are anymore. I'm updating them as I find them, but it'll take a while.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-27T21:06:04Z

@malcircuit Augh, that sounds extremely frustrating!

I was going to reply earlier in the thread with some joke about joining the "Bike Side" where we have hardly any software (or money, so, uh...) but ack, that's awful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-28T04:40:30Z

Today's bonus challenge: Maintaining feminine voice while helping someone fix a flat tire in Spanish.

Apparently altering my resonance and speaking a language I'm not fluent in are both things that require focus, and I only have so much focus to go around. I don't think my voice slipped *too* much, though?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-30T03:39:18Z
Transfem HRT question

@jaytee Mostly sounds accurate to me, yes, though I'm far from an expert.

Different T blockers can have very different side effects, and what you can get may depend on your region, doctor, and insurance.

Patches can cause skin irritation. Also, they tend to be low dosage for monotherapy. I'm currently using 2 patches at a time, and I suspect that's still going to be insufficient. They have the benefit of being easy to use, though.

The closest thing I've seen to an authoritative resource on progesterone is the doc curated by CJ Bellwether here: docs.google.com/document/d/1OG As with much about HRT, there seems to be a shortage of solid research on progesterone in transfeminine people so everybody's doing their best with inference and anecdata.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-30T03:49:34Z

@Annalee
😮​
👏​ 👏 👏 👏

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-30T05:28:57Z

@e_er1n @SymTrkl Had one of those while out walking tonight and just stopped mid-step to appreciate it for a moment.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-30T23:13:34Z

@Qyriad Only one middle name, but as of a few months ago I have two first names.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T16:33:14Z

@pqqq I forgot about SFP! Re-reading it now. It is really good; I always enjoy how much it delves into philosophy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T16:46:39Z

@EveOfTheFuture Eeep! Yeah, me too.

*deep breath*

It's ok, we got this.

*grins nervously at keyboard*

Really though, it's gonna be fun. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T16:52:24Z

🚫​ Scared because it's Halloween
✅​ Scared because starts tomorrow and I'm underprepared

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T17:17:27Z

(Really, though, I'm excited. Half the reason I do NaNo is because if I wait until I'm "prepared" I'll never get anything done. It's time to jump in and do it anyway!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T17:25:37Z

@EnaWasHere Errr... Have you seen that meme about "Circles of Trust" where the outermost circle is "strangers on the internet" and it works its way in through normal things like "acquaintances" and "close friends" until the innermost circle is "gay strangers on the internet"?

That'd be my guess. 🤷‍♀️

Edited: meant to say "close friends" not "close fiends"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T20:35:05Z

@digichelle Ready? Absolutely not. Excited anyway? Absolutely!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T20:36:04Z

@pixouls Nice! I went to a few of those in PDX and they were lots of fun. I hope it goes well for you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T20:38:54Z

@mbonsma I hadn't heard of Makedo cardboard screws before, those are nifty! Thanks for the info! (and nice costume!)

@smellsofbikes

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T20:51:20Z

@fieryzard 👋 I am! Are you?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T20:53:24Z

@EveOfTheFuture Someone else asked about posting NaNos online and got a few answers here: hachyderm.io/@sandyarmstrong/1

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T21:00:31Z

@renegadejade@hachyderm.io Planning by the seat of one's pants?

(I've done some planning, but some significant research that I need for one of the main characters remains unfinished.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T21:03:16Z

@EveOfTheFuture Probably not going to put the whole thing online this month; I'd like to do a round of revision first. I do want to post excerpts... maybe I'll aim for 2 per week.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T21:13:14Z

@salad_bar_breath Woo-hoo! x2!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T21:17:34Z

@georgettetan Buddy request sent?

Little bit of imposter syndrome because you seem like a much more serious writer than I am, but I'm coming back to after a 10-year absence as well.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T21:20:10Z

I've been going through the hashtag replying to and following people more-or-less at random because I'm excited but can't start writing yet.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T21:22:10Z

@EveOfTheFuture I've still got nearly 10 hours to go. *sigh*

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T21:27:53Z

📌​ 🧵 I'm doing again after more than a decade away!

This thread will be for wordcount updates, excerpts, etc.

I'll try to remember to tag all related posts going forward in case anyone wants to filter them. If it seems like I'm awkwardly adding the tag to every post & reply about NaNo, that's because there are folks out there who would rather not be bombarded with it and I want to make sure they can filter things out.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T21:35:27Z

@salad_bar_breath I think you might have started a trend with that pinned thread. That was a good idea!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-10-31T21:36:37Z

@EveOfTheFuture 🤣 The Standard Disclaimer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-10-31T22:06:46Z

@renegadejade@hachyderm.io That sounds like a good approach!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T00:44:40Z

@PedalHoppy Yep, that's absolutely how I (try to) approach . I expect to produce lots of complete garbage with occasional inspired bits. But at least it generates something tangible instead of being stuck in my head, and I have the opportunity to revise it later. (Maybe one of these years I actually will. 😁 )

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T00:50:24Z

@pqqq Snrk. Just got to the bit where she's talking with the professor in the park and he says "Oh, you want me to do philosophy? Normally I get paid for that." Now I remember why I like him so much as a character. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T02:14:27Z

@pqqq Hey, he's a philosopher. He feels entirely justified demanding double the standard rate for thoughts.

I just ran out of comic. Augh! And the whole twist with the professor is unresolved!

Oh well, it was still a good read. I'm always impressed when I find something like this that's both lots of fun and really intensely thought-provoking. Thanks for the reminder about it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T02:17:17Z

@Axiom Oh gosh, and they were fruiting mulberries? That's awful. I'm sorry.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T02:21:20Z

@LaserMistress Nice! I (metaphorically) raise my own janky e-bike-powered soldering iron in salute!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T03:47:56Z

@SusanneDoering Well, here's to coming back! I hope it goes well for you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T04:00:04Z

@DelilahTech Looking good! I like the purple hair.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T04:06:04Z

@amin Hang on, let me find that summary... ok.

Title: Plot Rescue
Summary: Initially it looks like a cozy sapphic romance at the community garden. Then the local "green" housing developer gets involved. Then there's climate disaster...

I've been tagging @nanowrimo in addition to for anything I want to have broader reach, since it is my understanding that groups federate more reliably than hashtags.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T04:07:37Z

@cheribaker Sleep? Not yet, gotta get the first 1.7k down as soon as the clock turns over! 😅

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T04:13:03Z

@amin Thank you! And thanks for creating that page too; it's an excellent idea. I've been trying to connect the fedi community a bit via interactions on here, but this is an excellent use case for something centralized, curated, and more static.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T04:16:46Z

@Fury Welcome to the fediverse 2023 club!

@amin just started a list of NaNo Fedi folks here: benjaminhollon.com/fediverse-n

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T07:05:24Z

is upon us here in PDT. Time to start the midnight sprint!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T08:30:36Z

Day 1 Midnight Sprint: Complete!

1674 words written, first scene finished.

The characters have already generated a small amount of unanticipated conflict that wasn't in the outline, so I think it's off to a good start plot-wise.

Software pipeline is suboptimal - the note app on my ereader does character count but not wordcount so I have to upload it to the computer for progress checks, and the sync system requires a bit more interaction than it should. Maybe I can sort that out later in the week... right now it's time to sleep!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T17:34:43Z
re: NaNoWriMo excerpt, MH, fake DSM excerpt, identity issues, 3/3 for this excerpt, feedback welcome

@EveOfTheFuture Dang! Never thought I'd be so invested in a story after reading a fake DSM excerpt. Now I'm curious to see where this goes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T18:03:59Z

@exelia_antonov Wait, you're doing too? Yes!!!

The pronoun thing sounds like a serious challenge; I'm glad my protagonist already transitioned.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-01T18:11:08Z

"Did you know that authors can see what lines in their books readers highlight on Kindle?"

(source, includes mention and drawing of a bra b/c romance novelist: mastodon.social/@JaeAuthor/111)

Yikes?! Sure, it sounds like a fun and potentially useful feature from an author's perspective, and I assume the data is aggregated and anonymized before it is presented to the author, but still... no thanks!

I mean, unless it's a really well-described opt-in for users, maybe, but I'm kinda guessing that's not the case here.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T18:34:07Z

@exelia_antonov Wow! Pretty sure the last time I did was before 2012. I did win a couple back then, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T19:49:41Z
re: NaNoWriMo excerpt, MH, fake DSM excerpt, identity issues, 3/3 for this excerpt, feedback welcome

@EveOfTheFuture Well, there's 11 other months for editing. 😁

I feel like it maybe has some Charles Stross vibes? There's probably better things to reference, but it isn't the genre I'm most familiar with.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-01T19:50:59Z

@salad_bar_breath 🎉

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T04:13:07Z

Day 1 Virtual Write-in with the local group: Complete!

Current wordcount is 4540, which is well over my goal of 4k for the first day. (I want to build some buffer now while I'm fueled by novelty and excitement; I fully expect to hit the doldrums in a week or two and have some very slow days.)

I also am about to hit the point where I have to do some more research if I want to do a decent job writing one of the protagonists, so the timing worked out nicely.

The virtual write-in was a blast; we did sprints of varying durations and chatted a bit in between and I probably wrote around 2k words in the sprints. Can you tell I'm still a little over-excited about all this? 😁

If anyone on Fedi wants to do some virtual write-ins, or even just schedule some sprints, I'd be interested!

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T04:17:16Z

@salad_bar_breath Nice! Anything over 1.7k is on track for wordcount, so I'd call that a win! Plus naps are important; gotta take care of yourself so you can write.

I'm glad the story is going well for you too! I had forgotten about the forced creativity effect; it's really something.

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T04:25:12Z

@KimSchebler Congratulations on completing the first day! You're doing short stories, I take it?

I'm writing a cozy sapphic romance set in a community garden... Except then the local "green" housing developer gets involved, and there might be a bit of climate catastrophe mixed in somewhere.

Someone has a (partial, opt-in) list of Fedi WriMos too, if you haven't seen it yet: benjaminhollon.com/fediverse-n

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T04:38:09Z

@salad_bar_breath I had a pretty good sense of how I wanted these first few scenes to go, so I mostly just banged it onto the page for a few hours. I really doubt I could sustain that amount of writing all month.

I've got a thing in the morning, but maybe sometime after 3pm Pacific / 6pm Eastern? We could just do it text-based over fedi, or use Jitsi Meet or something. Or there's an audio conferencing thing that uses fediverse logins, audon.space I think? What's your preference?

(The one I went to was on Discord, but I dislike Discord.)

@nanowrimo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T05:13:14Z
NaNoWriMo Excerpt part 1/2; contains food, mention of being immunocompromised, and a housemate who is way to invested in the protagonist's love life

I'm pretty pleased with this, and the final line is about the only thing I had in my head almost word-for-word before the beginning of November.

--

Rachel yawned and stretched in the next room, then stood up and meandered toward the kitchen.

"Lily? That smells good."

"I thought you'd like it. I made some stuffed mushrooms, and they're keeping warm in the oven. Let me just finish this function definition. If you put them on plates and bring them in here we can eat together."

"Seriously, Lils, you are absolutely the best housemate anyone has ever had in the history of housemates. What did I do to deserve you?"

"I, uh..." Lily considered a joke, but she was feeling a little too sentimental for it. "I guess you were a decent person and a good friend when I really needed one?"

"Shit, are you trying to make me cry? Because I will absolutely cry on these beautiful, delicious mushrooms if you keep saying things like that."

"Ok, fine, I'll stop complimenting you. That better?"

"Yes, much better. Now, tell me more about this cute gardener. You said her name was Mad?"

"Mads, but..."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T05:14:14Z
re: NaNoWriMo Excerpt part 2/2; contains food, mention of being immunocompromised, and a housemate who is way to invested in the protagonist's love life

"Uh-huh. Look, you don't have to admit your crush out loud. I'm feeling magnanimous because you fed me, so I'll let it slide. For now. But seriously, at least tell me more about her. What's she look like? Does she have a good smile?"

"I... I think so? She was wearing a mask too, so I could only really see her eyes, and she only really smiled once when I made a terrible joke but.. yeah."

"Oh no, you made a joke? Well, I guess it's a good litmus test. You couldn't really have a relationship with someone unless they appreciated how awful your sense of humor is."

"Hey!" Lily protested, "my sense of humor is-"

"Awful, seriously, don't argue. But you said she was wearing a mask too? Do you think it might be because...?" Rachel trailed off, a questioning look on her face.

"No. I mean, for one thing that's not the reason most people wear a face mask. And besides, she said it was something to do with her immune system."

"Oh, shit. She's got an immune condition? Did she say what?"

"No, and I'm not going to ask her just so you can play doctor. But she thanked me for wearing a mask. I almost explained why, but then Eva showed up and the conversation went elsewhere."

"Well, if the two of you start dating and she needs to know that your housemate wears a mask or something so she can feel safe making out with you, just let me know. I'll wear a mask for the sake of your love life, ok? That's how much I care about you."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T05:31:42Z
re: hrt and strength

@hack Nice! I've been struggling a bit to find ways to maintain upper-body strength but only because I never had good routines for it.

That's good to hear, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T05:38:48Z

@salad_bar_breath I'll try to get set up on Matrix before tomorrow afternoon, then.

I don't like giving Signal my phone number (I think technically you can set it up without one. "Technically" in the sense that it gets rather technical.)

I should probably get back to ham stuff one of these days, but I can only juggle so many of my interests at any one time. 🙃 I think my Echolink client was having audio/connection issues last time I tried to join the Pride Net and I don't feel like troubleshooting that right now either.

And text-based is a good fallback.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T07:04:36Z

@maco Oh, wow! That sounds like a really neat and really challenging project. I'm impressed and maybe a little inspired.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-02T07:06:23Z

@smolcasm That would be a pretty good tagline for - "Make your inner perfectionist scream."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-03T06:05:07Z

Day 2 (edited; I guess I was so sleepy yesterday I typed Day 3 on accident :eyeroll:​)

6643 words is a little short of the 7k I wanted to end the day at, but I need to start getting back on a reasonable sleep schedule. 😴

Wrote most of that during a very fun virtual write-in this afternoon, and then pushed myself to get a few hundred more words down just now.

I did have a research breakthrough, though. Going in, I knew one of the protagonists would be immunocompromised but hadn't figured out the details, and I was fretting a lot about it. Now I've settled on Graves' Disease for her, currently in remission, and I'm reading up on peoples' experience with it so I can try to work it into little details of her day-to-day experience where it's relevant.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-03T17:03:36Z
complaining

Why do people (or orgs, in this case) publish useful datasets as images or PDFs and not link to a CSV or similar?

I'd really like to do some different visualizations with this stuff, but I'm not about to spend all morning retyping numbers into a spreadsheet so I can spend fifteen minutes throwing together a few charts.

blargh

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-03T17:16:51Z

@Kleen Thanks! I saw an article about this a while back and the local advocacy groups I contacted didn't seem to be acting on it at the time; glad to know they are now.

I won't be there on 11/11 (both because of travel logistics and because I am still not doing big in-person events unless they require masks) but I expect to be taking the R-SR bridge on a trip to/from the Sacramento area that weekend. Going from the North Bay to Sac via Richmond certainly isn't a direct route, but it is the safest one I've found and I really want it to keep existing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-03T17:44:33Z
re: complaining but now doing something about it, contains reference to data on anti-trans violence

Well, fine. I emailed asherfergusson.com to suggest/request that they publish a non-infographic version of their Global Trans Rights Index.

And also emailed transrespect.org to request that they publish a CSV of the data in the Trans Murder Map. (Seriously folks, why did you publish a PDF of a spreadsheet?)

Don't know if it'll go anywhere, but at least I feel sorta useful about it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-03T19:16:27Z
re: complaining but now doing something about it, contains reference to data on anti-trans violence

@pqqq Oh, that's an excellent point, thanks for the reminder! I'll give it a try later.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-03T19:42:38Z

@EveOfTheFuture

Me, excitedly reading the last few paragraphs: "Is this going where I think it's going?"

*scrolls back to top* "Oh right, I guess it is." 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-03T19:47:33Z
re: body size (mh+)

@taedryn

(1) Wow! That's really neat.

(2) This is a very good idea. I was working on a bodice block not long before I started figuring out gender stuff. I should go find those measurements...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-03T20:10:42Z

@EveOfTheFuture Personally, I have a soft spot for TI-BASIC

: Input "Gender? ", A
: Disp A

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-03T21:53:11Z

@Terra@chaosfem.tw Sometimes I have challenging conversations with my partner by typing on a bluetooth keyboard while she holds the tablet it's connected to.

My take is that it's absolutely me... and there's a bunch of other people who are similar in a handful of specific ways and we have a name for that set of similarities.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-03T22:30:51Z

@EnaWasHere Pretty sure ActivityPub doesn't support sending warm blankets, unfortunately. I hope you get to warm up and feel better soon.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-04T00:54:20Z

A8. Oh, yes. If I decide to say something, I usually start with "Are you okay?" both because it puts us on a relatively positive footing and because I like to assume the best of people - i.e. that they're parked in the bike lane because they had to make a sudden stop for safety reasons or due to mechanical failure. I usually try to explain that it's dangerous and scary for cyclists to be suddenly forced into the car lanes. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

I think the most ridiculous response was someone who insisted that it wasn't a bike lane because there was no bike symbol painted in it *on that block*, regardless of the bike lane symbols/text in the lane on adjacent blocks.

@ascentale @daihard

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-04T00:58:09Z

A7. One of the features of the "Python Lowracer" steering geometry for recumbents is that it can take months to learn to ride. I once rode to the bus stop in a rush, took the bus somewhere, returned to a different bus stop, walked home, and a day or two later got a text from a friend saying, "Hey, I saw your bike unlocked next to the bus stop. Did somebody steal it?"

No, nobody stole it. I just forgot to lock it, and nobody could figure out how to ride it away.

@ascentale @Daveography

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-04T05:05:41Z

@Daveography Well, patient is the goal, but... Some days I'm fresh out of patience with motornormativity and just ring my bell a couple dozen times and glare back at them as I pass. 🤷‍♀️

@ascentale @daihard

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-04T05:29:27Z

@wintersweet Thanks! I needed that advice today. 🙂

I love CL Polk's work, so it feels doubly impactful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-04T05:58:36Z

Day 3 writing ended a while ago at 8547, almost entirely during a virtual write-in.

I was loosing steam a bit today, mostly because I was fretting about quality of writing. Got a nice reminder this evening that a lot of quality comes in revisions, not the first draft, so I'm feeling a bit better about it now. (wandering.shop/@wintersweet/11)

Also, I think I need to do some planning before I write too much more. I had a good sense of what I wanted in the first few chapters, but it got more vague further on. Now that I've spent some time with the characters and nailed down the beginning I might be able to plan ahead a bit more.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-04T15:47:17Z

@caffeineandfoxes *waves hello* I'm at 8.5k as of last night.

Someone has a (partial, opt-in) list of Fedi participants here: benjaminhollon.com/fediverse-n

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-05T05:00:05Z
re: Day 4 of NaNoWriMo

@rowyn Wow! I thought I was doing well breaking 10k by today. Impressive! 👏

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-05T05:16:47Z

Day 4: 10222 words total (woo!), but I barely made it over 1667 for the day (eep!). I did some much-needed planning but probably still need more. Also more research. And integrating the things I learn in research into the planning outline so I don't forget to include them.

Oh, and I remembered to give one of my main characters a minor dysphoria moment. I still haven't explicitly stated in the text that she's trans, but it is *heavily* implied. I'm considering not making it explicit until she tells the other MC. I'm absolutely stealing the idea from Fake It by Lily Seabrooke, but I like that book so much I will happily call it an homage.

Also spent a good chunk of the day listening to an audiobook. Reading becomes such a different experience for me when I do NaNo as I think more about the craft and technical aspects of writing. I don't enjoy the stories any less; it just adds another layer. (The audiobook reader has a British accent which is appropriate for the book but also has invaded my brain; I'm going to have to listen to something else or it will start showing up in my own dialog.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-05T22:44:31Z

@exelia_antonov On your phone?! 😲​ Nicely done!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-05T23:01:02Z

@astronomerritt "Meta-Analysis Regarding the Effect of Dragons on Academic Publishing"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-05T23:03:36Z

@MLE_online I was wondering how that steering geometry would work out. Glad it's rideable; that's a really cool design!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-06T03:30:23Z
trans stuff, sad but also positive

I used to associate presenting feminine with pretty exclusively positive emotions. Probably because when I was presenting fem only occasionally, I was either doing it because I felt good (confident enough to appear gender non-conforming) or because I did it for an emotional boost (gender euphoria).

Now I present fem full-time and between self-acceptance and estrogen, I've got greater intensity in most of my emotions.

It's been positive in all sorts of odd ways. For example: Feeling awful and sobbing, and simultaneously feeling good about the fact that I can finally sob after years of not being able to, and also it was oddly gender-affirming.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-06T04:00:50Z

@faithisleaping I used to wonder why I liked that song so much. Turns out I just had the wrong lyrics; this version makes a lot more sense.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-06T06:16:51Z

Day 5: I think I'm stopping at 10513 words total, which means only 291 words today.

It obliterates a good chunk of my buffer (whoops) but I was not really in the right emotional state for writing most of today, and now I'm feeling wrung out and tired. And I still need to clean up the kitchen!

I did read the latest Ashley Herring Blake book; that was fun. I especially enjoyed the way she pokes fun at herself and at the earlier books in the series. 😆

Sleep tonight, more words tomorrow. The main characters are Totally Not Going On A Date to the local nursery.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-06T17:44:24Z

What are the lightest P100 respirators?

Also, where are the good reviews/lists/comparisons of P100s? I know I've seen some, but they aren't turning up in searches.

:boost_request:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-06T21:41:38Z

@hhf Yes, I mean elastomeric. My understanding this that all P100 respirators are by definition elastomeric. Thanks, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-07T04:46:17Z

Is there a timer bot on the Fediverse?

I'm imagining something where you could @ the bot and a few other people, specifying a number of minutes in the message, and it would then reply @ everyone when the time has elapsed.

I'd love to do writing sprints with folks right here on Fedi, and it'd be neat if there was tooling to support it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-07T05:05:38Z

The various @remindme bots on several servers seem to remind the person who requested the reminder, but not anyone else as far as I can tell. (tested one to check)

I already have to keep me occupied, I don't need to try to hack up the code of a timer bot. And I know me, I'll try to start adding features. Wordcount reporting. WPM calculations. An option to publicly announce sprints so others can join them.

Nope, not going there. Doesn't mean I'm going to close the tabs with those git repos for the timer apps yet, but I'm still not going there.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-07T05:34:14Z

@RamenJunkie Yeah, on further consideration participants besides the initiator should have to opt in to prevent it from becoming a spam tool.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-07T05:36:53Z

On further consideration, I'd want it to pretty much replicate the functionality of an existing Discord bot that serves this purpose.

1) Message the bot to initiate a sprint, specifying duration, start time, and whether or not words are being counted
2) Bot announces the sprint details
3) Anyone who wants to participate replies to the announcement. If words are being counted, message should include their starting wordcount.
4) Bot messages everyone to announce the start & then the end of the sprint
If words are being counted:
5) Everyone replies with their final wordcounts
6) Bot posts everyone's wordcounts and WPM

I'll just leave this description here in case someone needs a project... 😃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-07T07:12:45Z

@amin I suppose we could also do it the lower-tech way. Designate a hashtag / group for the purpose and if you want to start a sprint you post something like "Starting a 20 minute in 5 minutes. Reply if you want me to @ you when I start and stop the timer." Doesn't have to be automated.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-07T07:41:41Z

Day 6: Ending the day with 12745 words total; back on track with daily wordcount; Not A Date At The Nursery is nearly complete.

I'm a quarter of the way through. The characters are starting to get established and their interest in each other is developing. Lily is finally out to Mads (and to the readers), and Mads has started opening up as well.

Sounds like it's time to throw some fresh external conflict at them!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-07T19:47:46Z

@ai6yr At first glance I thought this was set up in a driveway and was going to make a joke about Park(ing space)s On The Air.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-08T06:57:19Z

@enobacon Seems like bioengineering is hard to do well. But then, creating a complex system in which biology won't interfere is also hard to do well. 🤷‍♀️

And I do think sometimes intentionally putting more biology in the system is the way to go, e.g. composting toilets.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-08T07:04:44Z

Day 7: It's been a week already?! Stopped at 13358, which isn't the full 1667 but still puts me a day ahead. Might be able to catch up tomorrow.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-08T16:34:43Z

@gcvsa @enobacon Oh, right... I got a little off track and forgot the whole "live on mars" aspect of the original post. I very much agree that we shouldn't be trying to live on other planets when we can't even take good care of the one we've got.

I did live with and maintain a waterless composting toilet for a couple of years and preferred it to conventional flush toilets. But it's true they decentralize the maintenance. And extra carbon matter might be hard to come by on mars!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-09T06:47:06Z

@faithisleaping 💯 We need more casual trans representation in media. I've seen it a bit in books, but it's still pretty rare, especially for main characters.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-10T05:00:07Z

Days 8&9: Current wordcount is 16666, which was entirely unintentional - that's just what it was at when I decided I had hit a good stopping point.

Yesterday was pretty busy, but I caught the tail-end of the local virtual write-in and did a few sprints.

Today was mostly devoted to packing up and riding the first leg of a 120+ mile trip to visit a good friend. Gonna award myself the "Incognito" badge for writing in a tent next to a bike path next to a freeway tonight. 😁

Plot's feeling okay. Main characters are probably going to admit they're officially dating shortly, at which point I'll throw the antagonist at them. Wheeeeee!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-12T05:12:01Z

Today in misuse of electronics:

My wall charger for the solar trike battery died a while back. Charging just from the solar panel has been enough most of the time, but it turns out a long trip in late fall doesn't work so well on solar...

But there is a solution!

- My laptop charger has a 19.5V output
- The MPPT DC-DC converter on the trike boosts ~20V up to the correct charging voltage for the trike (~42.5V maximum)
- They both have PowerPole connectors on them ever since I inserted a set into the middle of the laptop charging cord for charging the laptop from the trike battery (with a suitable step-down converter)

Now I can charge my laptop from the trike battery, and charge the trike with my laptop charger!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-12T18:13:38Z

in the 2020s: Doing a 15-minute writing sprint while waiting for a rapid antigen test result. (not my best WPM, but at least the test was negative)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-14T20:11:14Z

@ceracole @greene Thank you both for posting about this. I've been looking into the current state of things and it seems someone finally got the board involved and they're taking it seriously, but still prior to that... yikes.

I haven't participated in the forums recently, but I might just step back from the entirety of nanowrimo.org for a while as well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-14T20:15:49Z

@amin I still can't read phrases like "timeline reset" without looking for a Star Trek-esque interpretation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-17T03:17:32Z

Day 16: Well, that was a bit of time off from posting. Didn't do a whole lot of writing either, between a bike trip that took most of a week and food poisoning during the trip. (It was otherwise a lovely trip, though!)

I caught up some today, wordcount is now 24659 (of an expected 26672).

I also stopped posting wordcount on the official NaNo website after learning about the forum fiasco (originally via wandering.shop/@greene/1113946). I checked on it a few days ago; it seems like someone finally notified the Board of Directors and it looked like they were taking things seriously (forums.nanowrimo.org/c/officia) but I haven't been following it since then. I'm just going to post wordcount and other updates here for now.

Anyway... Plot is moving along well. Main characters are officially dating and on track to kiss soon. They're finally aware that the garden is under threat from a developer, so we've got a new source of conflict now that the romantic tension is getting resolved. Time for city council meetings, monkeywrenching, petitions, and other forms of protest! I have no idea how to write these things in a compelling way, so that oughta be interesting. 🙃

Ok, my mental/physical batteries have been low all afternoon; better go sleep soon.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-17T22:49:22Z

@alice Where was this advice when I joined? It took me like five years to find the genderdysphoria.fyi thing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-18T06:16:14Z

Me: "I'm going to try to smash out some more words before I fall asleep."

"Okay, but maybe try not to bang on the keyboard too hard. You know..."

Me: "Right, good point. I'll gently caress it, as is appropriate for a romance novel."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-18T06:23:23Z

@twistylittlepassages I was drinking water when this post hit my screen and I nearly did a spit-take. 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-18T07:27:54Z

@faaln I find this very relatable.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-18T07:30:32Z

Day 17: 25651 total words (out of 28399).

I could keep writing and I probably have enough in my brain to at least get the 1667 words down today, but my eyes are trying to close on me, so it's time to be done for the night.

That's okay. I'm in the middle of a scene where the main characters are trying to remove each others' N95 masks in the most seductive way possible as a preamble to their first kiss; it'll be fun to pick this bit up again tomorrow.

One of these days I'll post something here that isn't NaNo-related. Maybe even before December!

Goodnight all!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-18T19:25:58Z

@hack I remember doing that with TI calculators, but I didn't retain much of it. Probably because I spent more time tinkering in TI Basic.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-18T22:04:50Z

@xtaran @Cutterpillow @ascentale @MartyCormack I can tell you that Python and Flevobike FWD/MBB bikes and trikes have a turning radius tight enough that it surprises most people. My partner frequently turns her FlevoTrike plus trailer around in the width of a car parking space. My python cargo trike is a bit longer and I can't quite pull that off, but in exchange I get better traction on climbs. I've only ridden a Cruzbike once, many years ago, and I don't remember how it compares.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-19T00:47:03Z
fiction writing advice request, re: trans characters

@jaytee I have been very much enjoying this thread, and trying to think of anything I can contribute... most things I've read that have trans characters are contemporary queer fiction, so it's pretty straightforward to introduce to the reader.

E.g. I think in Jennet Alexander's _I Kissed A Girl_, one of the main character's roommate's first lines is something like "Which boobs go better with this shirt?" (holding up two pairs of breast forms). There's some other nods, e.g. notes about spiro and E refills on their shared calendar, and a fridge full of pickles. It's written in... I think close third person? so you also get a lot of things just because the main character knows them, e.g. aforementioned roommate is "involved in a polycule that’s, like, six women deep right now. Six women and a nonbinary lesbian named Max who eats all my expensive yogurts even though they’re supposedly lactose intolerant," so we know there's an enby as a sort of peripheral character even if we never meet them.

The only historical fiction I've read that I can think of that fits is _The Perks of Loving a Wallflower_ by Erica Ridley, and the main character there is more genderfluid, so there's obvious situations where she's dressed as a "boatman" or something, but using she/her pronouns.

Oooh, this is such an interesting question! Going to keep thinking about it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-19T00:52:21Z
fiction writing advice request, re: trans characters

@erosdiscordia That is a really excellent approach. I'm going to try to keep it in mind for my own writing, and doubly so when I get to revisions. Thank you!

@jaytee

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-19T00:58:14Z
fiction writing advice request, re: trans characters

@jaytee Oh, followup thought: I think the common advice for race/ethnicity/appearance these days is to establish it up front for every character, as a way of combating presumed whiteness.

I think with a character's gender history, though, I like it when authors mix it up. Sometimes it's nice to know from the start that a character is trans. Other time, I enjoy getting halfway through the book and finding a casual mention of the fact that the character is trans, because it doesn't have to define them more than any other trait, and even if it is a character-defining feature, we don't need to know that from the start any more than we need to know that, e.g., their fear of commitment comes from a specific issue they had in their childhood.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-19T04:30:49Z

@pqqq That "write for a bit, do something else while considering what should happen next, then write some more" strategy is a really good one, and I only recently (re)discovered it myself.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-19T04:34:53Z

@life Sounds like a fun trip!

I love big mirrors like that; I feel so much safer turning & merging with them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-19T05:09:51Z
trans stuff; parents having difficulty with it; not easy but positive overall

I saw my dad the other day, for just about the first time since coming out to my parents back in... February? We didn't really talk - I chatted with my mom while he did other stuff - but it's progress!

As far as I can tell, this is just him having a really hard time with both change and risk. From his perspective, my transition is both a huge change and extremely risky (I disagree, to some extent, with both those assessments, but I understand where he's coming from) and I think he's just so worried for me and uncomfortable with it that it's getting in the way of him accepting it. And then he feels guilty that he's having a hard time with it, and that doesn't help anything.

This is about what I expected. He has always been slow to process difficult situations and emotions. I didn't predict it would take over nine months, but I knew he would probably go silent and take a long time to work through it.

It's been good, though, overall. I've heard from my mom that he finding his way to a much better mental/emotional place than he has been in a long time. I'm pretty sure this pushed him over the edge, from a place of just getting by even though he wasn't happy. Now he's processing things that have been weighing on him for a long, long time.

I hope he gets to a point where we have a good relationship again, but mostly I'm glad to see this ripple effect of my transition: I chose to be more honest with myself, and now my dad is doing the same. That's... pretty cool, actually.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-19T07:49:01Z

Day 18: 28,472 total words (out of 30,006)

🎵 I'm onlyyyy a day behind! 🎵

Whelp, our secondary source of conflict is solidly in action now. I think the pacing of this whole thing is wrong, and I definitely need to introduce the antagonist earlier, but that's for revisions! Right now, I'm looking forward to writing the antagonist for the first time sometime in the next couple of days.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-19T17:50:33Z
re: fiction writing advice request, re: trans characters

@jaytee Oh yeah, I like the idea of foreshadowing it.

Optionally even to the point where a knowledgeable reader could guess. The literary equivalent of "suddenly I'm seeing trans people everywhere."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-19T17:54:57Z

@JoscelynTransient *perches on chair next to @faithisleaping*

I, too, am interested in this question. Best answer I've got for myself so far is "useless lesbian on the ace spectrum," but that's kind of long.

@Impossible_PhD @erin @NicolaElle @Reborn_Cat_Mom

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-19T20:05:14Z

@arcana Relatable.

I keep thinking I want to try a FireFish or derivative instance, then realizing it would require actually switching over and *using* a second account, and... nope.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-20T00:58:45Z

@EnaWasHere I was just cooking/baking with my partner and she Very Carefully measured the quantity of water... then substituted significantly different ingredients for everything except salt and yeast.

Also, that's an excellent screenshot/quote. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-20T07:09:07Z

Day 19: 31,434 total words (out of 31,673)

I'm catching up! courtesy of an unanticipated lost cat and a melodramatic landlord, and some sprints with folks in the local group.

(edit: the cat and landlord are characters in the story; the local writing group isn't)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-20T19:53:21Z

@bikeshed "Chris Voigt, Executive Director of the Washington State Potato Commission, is currently eating nothing but potatoes for two months, 20 5.3 ounce potatoes a day. When I read about it, my reaction was, Hey, what’s so hard about that? Last winter, I ate pretty nearly all potatoes for about six months. It was a feast all winter! "

Carol Deppe, caroldeppe.com/The%2020%20Pota

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-20T23:07:11Z

In case you were wondering: Instead of trying to warp the inkle loom directly from a skein, it's more effective to wind the yarn into a ball first.

Because the alternative, based on my recent experience, is to get fed up halfway through warping and then wind a ball from a very messy skein.

I suppose a yarn swift would help with this too, but now is not the time for me to find or make any more bulky fibercraft tools.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-21T02:47:04Z

@smellsofbikes Huh. That makes sense, and is good to know. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-22T21:49:34Z

@salad_bar_breath You routinely post some of the most interesting CWs I see on Mastodon.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-23T01:50:32Z

@salad_bar_breath Oh, they're good CWs, I think! And good posts, too.

It's just, somehow, most other CWs I see 'round here don't make me go "...how in the world are those things related?" Which I suppose is a very indirect compliment to your creativity?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-23T05:23:19Z
NaNoWriMo, mention of fictional climate disaster

Day 22: 35154 total words (out of 36674), wrote 2127 words in sprints on the local discord this evening.

It's been a slog today, I think mostly because I realized that my plot is structured all wrong. There are three main plot arcs:
- a low-drama romance
- fighting to keep the community garden from getting turned into "sustainable" luxury apartments
- a climate disaster (probably a wind/fire event, since it's set in NorCal in the summer)

Right now they're happening sequentially. The romance gets mostly resolved before the fight for the garden heats up, and the climate disaster only hits at the end. That's the wrong way to handle it. I really need to restructure everything so the romance is running concurrently with the first half of the fight for the garden. While the climate disaster is still probably going to hit at the end, it needs some heavy foreshadowing from the start.

I don't know if I'm going to try to restructure things right now; that seems like a lot to attempt. I may just try to keep writing from where I'm at in a way that will allow me to repurpose scenes when I go back for the first revision pass, but we'll see... it has been really hard to write when everything feels wrong.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-24T06:59:19Z

@SRLevine I don't hockey at all, but still very much enjoyed checking out their website. Thanks for sharing it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-24T07:10:37Z

Day 23: 36690 words (of 38341).

My enthusiasm is picking up a bit again. I don't think I'm going to restructure the plot this month, but I am getting a better sense of how I want to arrange it all and can keep that in mind as I continue writing.

I'm kind of actually looking forward to revisions, which is an exciting change from most of my past attempts!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-24T17:17:15Z

@cpm Nice Bikes@Work trailer!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T00:49:40Z
CW for wildfire mention

A4: When planning trips, especially long ones, here on the west coast of the US we now think about Fire Season. Any time between roughly summer solstice and the start of significant rains (which might not happen until Nov/Dec) we could end up riding/camping in really bad air quality or having a route cut off by wildfire. This has happened to us and also to friends of ours. It's not that it was impossible before, but it's gotten a lot more common lately.

Smoke is a consideration for commuting/joyriding, too... though I'm usually wearing a mask any time I'm out of the house anyway, so it's not that big a deal for me.

I'm not as certain if it's related to climate change, but this past winter several landslides damaged bike paths on a route that I take at least a couple times per year, and there aren't good/safe alternatives.

@ascentale @Daveography

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T00:53:46Z

A5. I'll put in another vote for Schwalbe Marathon Plus tires. They've worked better than anything else I've tried, are available in lots of sizes including 20", which tends to be an important consideration for the recumbents, foldies, and other odd things I prefer to ride.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T01:44:56Z

@faithisleaping I like the hair color. 😀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T03:08:11Z

@trouble Right, good point. I also prefer ISO sizes but forget to use them sometimes.

And by 20" I mean 406.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T03:09:12Z
re: CW for wildfire and covid mention

@xtaran Oh, I wear a N100 into stores and such now, and consider the N95 adequate for most outdoor situations.

@ascentale @Daveography

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T04:49:22Z

@faithisleaping Hmm. I don't think I want to try coloring my hair, but this color scheme is definitely going on my hair ribbon wishlist.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-25T05:05:05Z

@terraboops I'm definitely not a gamer and not much of a movie person either, but books...

I binge-read sapphic romance novels for at least a year prior to figuring out that I wanted to transition. Spent a lot of time wondering why I found them so much more relatable than straight romance stories. And I think I've got a post somewhere about how reading Kiss Her Once For Me by Alison Cochrun at the beginning of this year pushed me to confront my fear/anxiety about further exploring my gender identity.

Also, pretty sure I learned about genderfluidity from the webcomic El Goonish Shive, back in a previous iteration of figuring out gender stuff.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-25T05:10:17Z

@pqqq I love hair ribbons! "Braided with a ribbon in it" has been my default hairstyle since several years pre-transition. :eyeroll:​ Maybe one of these days I'll learn some alternatives well enough to rotate through them... 😅​

I hope your own ribbon experience goes well!

@faithisleaping

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T05:52:29Z

@SRLevine Unhinged AO3 Tags, now with more subtlety.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T06:40:33Z

Day 24: 37855 words (of 40008)

Gonna try to write at least 4k words tomorrow morning to get caught up. That ought to be fun!

It's actually something of a tradition for me to do some intense writing around US thanksgiving (National Day of Mourning) because I originally did NaNo when I was in high school. I could usually take a few hours out of family activities and type frantically for a while. Plus it was just around the time when the approaching deadline kicked my desperation into overdrive, as it seems to be doing this year.

I vaguely remember surfacing after one writing session in the corner of my grandparents' living room to announce that I had just written 5k words. Let's see if I can channel that energy tomorrow...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T21:19:20Z

@Axiom What a cute floof!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T21:34:26Z

@twistylittlepassages (hugs)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-25T22:50:40Z

@glightly I wish I had a better answer for this. I usually darn knit/crocheted items by tying on some similar yarn and crocheting haphazardly through all the loose loops (plus some adjacent ones for strength) and across the hole until it's filled.

Not sure what the proper technique is.

Thanks for asking about this, though. I'm curious to know the answer, plus it finally got me to look up darning for knit fabrics and learn about swiss darning, which I probably should have learned a long time ago. I think it's only useful for actual knitted fabric though, not sure how it would work on crochet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-25T23:28:55Z
unsolicited overanalysis of why clew and I didn't see the photo; feel free to disregard if unwanted

@glightly

I think the issue there is specifically that @clew and I are both on an instance which has mastodon.social silenced (or soft-blocked? I don't know the right term), so posts from mastodon.social are hidden from us unless we follow the person who posted or boosted it. I don't follow the person you were replying to and they're on mastodon.social, so I can't readily see their reply to your post or your reply with the photo.

People on other instances may be able to see it just fine depending on the policies set by their admins.

Ah, the fun of federation... 🙃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T03:42:47Z

@YouShallNotPass I'd probably read it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T03:44:34Z

@varve I thought I was doing pretty well writing while lying in a field in the sun yesterday, but I didn't have cats.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-26T04:58:30Z

Just came across the "20th anniversary editions" of a couple of the songs from Wicked on youtube.

Defying Gravity has always been a favorite of mine and a source of inspiration, and I quite like this version.

But...

The extremely earworm-y Popular has been living rent-free in my head for a long time too even though I'm not much of a Glinda, and I absolutely love how on-point the acting and cinematography are in this version. The camera swings around in a way that's borderline-uncomfortable for me, but absolutely reflects the "getting in your face and giving you a pseudo-makeover" energy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T05:03:18Z
trans stuff: gender envy & trans voice

I was also interested to note that the outfits I liked best from the Defying Gravity video were the two with pants. Confirmation of tomboyishness, I guess. (Though that light blue dress in Popular was nice too. 🤷‍♀️)

And the Elpheba on the far right has a voice that I might need to listen to more. I've been trying to find some voice training goals to work towards beyond "generally recognized as feminine" and I really liked that one.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T05:13:40Z
re: trans stuff: gender envy & trans voice

Okay, pretty sure that's Mary Kate Morrissey whose voice I like and apparently she's queer. Dangit, I teared up a little reading an interview where she mentioned it.

I :heart_pride:​ representation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T06:57:33Z

Day 25: 42887 words (of 41675), I wrote 5032 words today and got ahead of daily goal for the first time in a while!

Special thanks to @pqqq for doing a bunch of writing sprints with me earlier, and also for reminding me that she makes music. I just finished a few extra words this evening while listening to her lovely Summer Salad.

Plot-wise, we have just met the antagonist in person for the first time. Yes, more than 40k words into the book. Yes, I need to rearrange events a little in the next draft. And when I say "a little" I mean "quite a lot."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-26T17:02:40Z
re: Coming out, unintentional

@sparkledragon5@chaosfem.tw Oh, cripes, videoconference software is kind of awful that way, isn't it? Too often it just throws you into a call with your video on and no chance to check or revise the info you're displaying.

Sounds like you did a good job rolling with it though, and I'm glad to hear it went well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T18:54:31Z

@Karstan Might it have been this question about tool brands from @sam sfba.social/@ascentale/1113891 ?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T19:06:38Z

@xtaran The Pythoon is a homebuilt Python Lowracer with a long rear end for carrying cargo or a kid: youtube.com/watch?v=72dd2kHGxQ

Pretty much any front wheel drive 'bent can be extended like this, but I haven't seen many examples.

I've also seen people replace the stoker seat on a BikeE tandem with cargo space.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T19:24:28Z

@xtaran Yeah, I think a lot of people go directly from FWD bike to cargo trike, because a trike makes so much sense for carrying cargo *and* it makes the odd steering geometry of flevos, pythons, etc. a little easier for most people to manage. That's the route I took!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-26T19:31:41Z

I'm having a funny language day, apparently.

"Duplicate the page, then you can un-bilingual one copy and Spanish the other one."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-26T20:20:06Z

@YouShallNotPass Yay!

My only complaint about posting to the Internet Archive is that they seem to be reluctant about moving things to new accounts or editing certain identifiers, which has actually come up for me a couple times. Not sure how much of that is an archivist thing and how much of it is just weird technological limitations.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-26T23:06:56Z

Anyone have good reading (or other resources) to recommend about trans masc experiences? Possibly something like Stained Glass Woman by @Impossible_PhD?

I've done a deep dive into trans fem info this year as I figure myself out, but I think it's time to branch back out to other perspectives.

I know some of the broad strokes and some of the details are similar in most/all trans experiences, but I also know there are gendered differences in a lot of things.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-26T23:34:54Z

Trying to use Wordpress as a hack-y sort of WYSIWYG static site builder.

Now I'm looking at the HTML & CSS that it generates and I want to just rip it all out and start nearly from scratch.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-27T21:19:55Z

@esther@strangeobject.space That's an interesting idea.

I kind of do this with my phone because it has terrible battery life - just leave it plugged into the power bank nearly all the time. The main issue is that it tends to tug on the power cable, and things can snag on the cable as well. Needs a way to securely attach the power bank to the device, and then you end up with several competing attachment standards...

But apart from that I rather like it. Also, instead of "device A is charged, but I need to use device B which is dead" you could just swap the batteries.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-28T03:51:27Z

@YouShallNotPass 🎉​

...and now it is on my e-reader. I'll take a look after I finish my current book.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-28T05:30:59Z

@JoscelynTransient Ooh! I saw Greer live many years ago when she played at the bike collective where I volunteered, but I don't think I've listened to much of their music since before I started transitioning, or anything recent. Thanks for the reminder!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-28T18:34:02Z

@jepyang

*clank clank clank*

"They're gaining on us, just drop the bags and run!"

EDCG: "Hang on, I think I found the caltrops. That'll slow 'em down. Oh, nevermind, it's my titanium spork collection."

*clank clank clank*

"We can't go that way, there's a fence."

EDCG: "Don't worry, I have portable bolt cutters! Somewhere."

*clank clank clank*

[I, meanwhile, only carry a *perfectly reasonable* amount of stuff in my new, larger, purse.]

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-28T18:36:00Z

@inherentlee@strangeobject.space @jepyang @Reb@strangeobject.space Yes, seconded. 👀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-28T22:08:44Z

@YouShallNotPass 20% in and I'm enjoying it so far!

You say you won't ask questions, but do you want or not want comments?

---

I will say...

"The only things I ever got in trouble for were reading in the wrong places and the wrong times"

is very relatable! (I still get in trouble for that.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-28T22:09:57Z

@ai6yr I saw that post and immediately thought, "What's the law about questions in headlines?" but you answered before I could look it up. 😅

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-28T23:51:51Z

@YouShallNotPass Comments so far, since I was thinking on it:

It took me a while to get into the story because I'm in the habit of reading things that are faster-paced and more plot-driven, but that's just a style/genre thing.

The writing is solid. I just finished a book by a professional (albeit indie) author that had more errors and a less consistent narrative voice than yours.

I've been amused by Grandma's antics, curious about Davy and the main character (yeah, I see the gender stuff there) and just generally... enjoying the little scenes, and the character nuances, and the narrator's observations and commentary.

Thanks for sharing it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-29T00:11:40Z

@glightly Oh gosh, I am so sorry to hear that.

Crossing my fingers for the manufacturer to handle this quickly and graciously.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-29T01:23:43Z

@wendypalmer I don't love this solution, but I've seen things like "Content Warning for a common phobia (contains a spoiler)" and then it's on the reader and their priorities.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-29T02:12:58Z
re: sad

@pqqq Oh, that sounds like a tough situation. I'm sorry.

Can send digital hugs or be virtual company if wanted.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-29T02:24:08Z
grumpy

Sometimes I

Hate
This
Markup
Language

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-29T02:32:27Z

@pqqq I intend to come back and do a proper job of it at some point. For now, I managed to cut most of the WP garbage out of the code and am rewriting bits as I need to edit them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-29T02:40:44Z

@wendypalmer I think I dislike that it seems a bit unfair. I, with only one common phobia that's not so bad that it'll keep me from reading something, can read on without worrying about the spoiler-y CW. Someone who has more severe phobias probably gets spoiler-ed.

Though also I read a podcast transcript recently about the psychology of spoilers and foreshadowing, and it argued that spoilers don't necessarily decrease enjoyment. Not that that'll prevent people from complaining about it, of course.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-29T02:45:58Z

Thank you to everyone who suggested resources on trans masc experiences! Looks like I have some interesting reading ahead.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-29T03:04:06Z

Usually I do my hair in a pretty simple braid with one ribbon, but every so often I get slightly fancy and put multiple colors in.

I did blue-pink-white the other day. The blue is a little too light to properly match the trans flag, but these are the ribbons I've got right now. 🤷‍♀️

Anyway, I didn't get out of the house much to show it off before I had to re-braid it, so I took a photo to show off here.

Dark blonde hair braided with blue, pink, and white ribbons. The ribbons are tied in messy bows at the end of the braid. 

Behind the hair is my light-skinned neck, a yellow and black plaid flannel shirt, and a black coat.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-29T04:51:36Z

@jepyang I was going to say that I used to carry just as much in my Standard Vests* but then I remembered that I just got a bigger purse so I could carry my ereader and optionally a bluetooth keyboard. But now I'm less likely to carry a tote bag in addition to all the pocket/purse stuff?

*Standard Vests had sizeable breast pockets (always filled with something) and a narrow waist. But noooo, I was like 90% cis and only a little bit genderfluid.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-29T05:42:43Z

@gcvsa (1) Agh, libraries are wonderful but I wish they had better selections sometimes.

(2) There's a new "Elemental Blessings" out? I'm going to have to look that up!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-29T06:07:05Z

@gcvsa Oh! I didn't realize there was another one coming in that series, or if I did I forgot.

Apparently my library has the print copy on order. Thanks to the enshittification of their ebook provider I can only request that they get electronic copies if I figure out how to do it in the app; that function has been removed from the web interface. *sigh*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T00:58:28Z

@glightly Oooh I wanted some items from their collection when we passed by there on a trip ~1.5yrs ago, but they weren't selling anything back then.

*stares longingly at the hand-crank sewing machines and cheap spinning wheels*

Ah well. I shouldn't be acquiring things like that right now anyway.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T01:11:36Z

@glightly I found it entirely by chance while riding over to the laundromat; didn't spend nearly as much time there as I wanted because covid. It was pretty neat, but I feel like the auction page actually showcases a lot of what I saw. Hmmm... just going to pop that URL into the Wayback Machine so it can be archived for posterity.

I had a treadle machine for a while and loved it, and I've been wanting a little hand-crank chainstitcher. I actually have a cheapo modern chain stitch machine found in a free pile - just need to rig a crank to it somehow - so I can't justify getting a vintage one, even though there are some pretty good prices.

And the spinning wheels are an absolute steal at those prices! I don't spin enough to justify a wheel, though, and drop spindles are so much more portable.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T01:26:55Z

@glightly Oh, I know! But I've already got something I need to convert to hand crank, and I can't add any more projects because nope.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-30T01:32:14Z
re: Trans surgery stuff (good news!)

@bikeshed Congratulations!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T05:01:05Z

@miriamrobern Aww, that's sweet... in multiple ways. 😁

Also, that's an impressive cake!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T05:32:58Z
NaNoWriMo excerpt
Mads called, "Are you decent?"

Before Lily could answer, Rachel shouted back, "Would it stop you from coming in if she wasn't?"

Because if your role in a romance novel is "best friend" you are contractually obligated to (lovingly) give the main characters a hard time.

(doesn't mean your best friend won't be giving you a hard time in a sequel, though) (why yes I am getting ahead of myself and planning not one but two sequels before I'm even finished writing this)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T07:33:32Z

Day 29: 50,001 words. I'm at a reasonable stopping point in the epilogue and the Plot As It Stands is pretty much complete.

It's going to need so much revising, but I have an actual document to revise, and that's 100% better than where I was at a month ago.

This has been so much fun. It's a bit nostalgic for me, since I haven't done it in many years, and funny how much has changed and how much has stayed the same since then. Back when I first did NaNo in... 2004, I think? I might have believed that I would still be trying to write fiction nearly 20 years later, but I would never have expected that it would be a sapphic romance. I probably didn't even know the word "sapphic" and my few forays into reading actual romance novels (as opposed to genre or YA with romance subplots) had been dramatically unsuccessful because, as it turns out, cis/het romance doesn't really resonate with me! I guess I've learned a few things about myself since then.

Anyway, it's about time I get some sleep and then maybe I'll take a few days off before I come back and chop this plot up for re-outlining. Though I might find a bit to write tomorrow, just so I can finish the month still writing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T21:56:04Z

@Axiom 🐰💨​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-11-30T22:05:17Z

Partner, singing: 🎵 "And I think it's gonna be a long long time..." [trails off]

Me, picking up the tune: 🎵 "'till touchdown brings me round again to find / I'm not the man they thing I am at... hmm, that hits a little different now." 😁

:transgender_flag:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T22:06:18Z

@exelia_antonov Congratulations! 🎉

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-11-30T23:56:41Z

@ai6yr I used to be a big fan of the EVT Safe Zone mirror. It's a huge helmet-mounted mirror with a lot of flexibility in the attachment. Now I'm a bit leery of anything helmet mounted because it requires turning your eyes repeatedly in the same direction. I've read there may be a link between that and astigmatism, and while I don't know if the source is reliable there is a correlation between my use of helmet mirrors and my astigmatism getting worse. 🤷‍♀️

So I'd go handlebar-mounted for that reason, even though I think they're more prone to getting knocked out of place and you lose the ability to aim them by turning your head.

I do think the largest mirror you can reasonably mount is usually the best.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-01T01:18:38Z

@pqqq Congratulations!!!!! You did it!

I've had so much fun writing with you, and I hope you get this book to the point where you can release it because I *really* want to read it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-01T02:47:06Z

@faithisleaping Wool coats are so nice. I hope it goes well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-01T03:23:52Z
grumpy with technology

Scanned my passport in desktop scanner at 1200dpi. That should be enough for uploading to an online application, right?

WebApp: Would you like to take a photo of the document with your webcam or your mobile device?

Me: You won't let me upload a photo?

Webapp: No, silly, this is 2023.

Me: Fine, I'll try the webcam.

WebApp: Hahaha, I can't read that at all.

Me: Fine, I'll try using my phone. Good thing I finally have a smartphone.

WebApp: Sorry, I can't find your signature.

[repeat the last two steps at least five times]

Me: Fine, I guess I'll get customer service involved. After I take a break and cool off, that is. Just because I'm grumpy with the WebApp devs doesn't mean I need to take it out on customer service.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-01T05:00:09Z

@enobacon I skipped most of that but listening to *sparks* *cursing* every time the driver "hit the gas" was more amusing than I expected.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-01T20:04:36Z

@aWildThorp 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-01T21:33:31Z

I enjoy romance novels, but I'd really like to read some friendship novels.

Not just books where characters are friends, but something akin to romance novels that digs into the difficulties of connecting with someone and being emotionally vulnerable while still being entertaining and maybe a little trope-y, and probably ending with some sort of Happily Ever After.

Something that centers and celebrates the joy and the difficulty of making friends, and also provides a bit of guidance for folks like me who don't have as much experience with it as we'd like.

What's the procedure for starting a new genre, anyway? Should I just sneak into some bookstores and libraries, re-label their shelves, and hope the employees can find relevant books to fill them with? 🤔

(Mostly just musing, but I wouldn't mind book recommendations if you have them.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T01:23:20Z

@derwinmcgeary Did something happen with F-Droid recently?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T01:30:56Z

A6. I guess I'm not the target audience here because I ride recumbents, but if you'll forgive a perhaps lukewarm take... While I personally have no interest in electronic shifting right now, it seems like it's potentially a huge step in terms of accessibility for people who have difficulty operating mechanical shifters, and I want the technology to exist and be improved upon for that reason.

@ascentale @daihard

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T01:37:51Z

@salad_bar_breath I checked a summary and that sounds pretty good. Thanks for the recommendation!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T01:38:51Z

@deetlebee @sashin I've never quite gotten into manga or anime; maybe one of these days I will. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T01:57:37Z

@deetlebee @sashin Thanks!

That reminds me, if anyone else is looking for lists of books that don't feature romantic and/or sexual relationships, Claudie Arseneault (claudiearseneault.com/) has some great resources including the AroAce Database and the hashtag here on fedi.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-02T06:12:00Z

How do I loop audio input to audio output on linux with a specified amount of delay?

I distinctly remember doing this a few months ago, but all the suggestions I can find online now are trying to minimize delay. I want to set a delay of several seconds so I can talk briefly, then listen to myself.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T22:17:38Z

@psiie 🤣 I've heard of something like that. Not optimal for my situation though, I think. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T22:22:37Z

@derwinmcgeary Well, shoot. That doesn't look promising. Thanks for the link.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-02T22:23:17Z

@airshipper Yeah, I have no idea how to go about that. 🤷‍♀️ Thanks, though! Maybe it'll get my searches on the right path.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-02T23:21:57Z

@ogueki @lilbatscholar Well, I was hoping for something a little simpler, but it's better than nothing.

Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-03T03:36:57Z
re: grumpy

Can't
Stand
Stylesheets

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-03T04:21:05Z

I tried to dramatically walk face-first into the wall to indicate frustration & tiredness.

In doing so, I kicked the dog bowl and spilled water everywhere.

But now I'm laughing at the irony of it, so net positive?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-03T20:09:59Z

@glightly Oof, yes. Walking USS 'bents is a huge nuisance. I (mentally) shake a fist whenever I see "walk your bike" signs on an important cycle route because I know that isn't viable for all people or all cycles.

If I were in Davis I'd offer to come over with a patch kit and whatnot, but 150 miles is a bit far to just drop by. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-03T20:18:27Z

@glightly Yeah, that would be excellent! It ought to be pretty straightforward on most SWB designs.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-03T20:47:08Z
re: I'm very, very gay... (links to sappy sapphic movies)
@faithisleaping@anarres.family
If someone made a super sappy lesbian Hallmark movie
Well... It looks like Hallmark is doing a sapphic Christmas movie this year? (found a mention of it at the end of this video which lists several other films in the same genre and reminded me of this post. I've seen one or two on that list and they weren't quite Hallmark-level distilled sappiness, probably due to lack of funding, but they were pretty cute.)
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-03T21:12:33Z

Too many of the things I want/need to do right now involve screens and/or close visual focus.

Anybody need a ship's lookout? Or someone to staff a fire watch tower?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-03T23:09:06Z

@SRLevine Off topic, but... When were you at OHSU?

I worked at the bike valet there around 2018-2019.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-03T23:33:57Z

@SRLevine Ah, ok. I don't think I worked the valet before 2018, but my partner definitely did. And I think I technically did for a short while in 2020, when we also moved.

There's a decent chance we crossed paths IRL at some point.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-04T00:15:54Z

@SRLevine Working that valet was one of my favorite jobs. Run around all morning while being friendly with other bike people? Yes please!

Yeah, we intended to pass through CA and visit my family on the way to another location TBD, but continuing on has taken a lot longer than anticipated. 🙃

It was kind of a bad time to move, yeah. Also, every so often I see someone from PDX posting about masks-required events and whatnot, which we don't seem to have around here, and I really wish we did. Still, I was very done with the dark part of the year and so glad to be somewhere with more sun.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-04T00:31:39Z

@salad_bar_breath You're not alone, Jamie: xkcd.com/1838/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-04T00:40:46Z

@salad_bar_breath Jamie Clayton, as played by Rayne, as played by Jamie Clayton.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-04T00:42:42Z

@SRLevine Fuyu (the short squat ones, as opposed to the pointy hachiya persimmons) I like to just eat straight the way I would an apple, when they're fully orange but still crunchy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-04T03:00:47Z

I'm still getting used to attending crafting groups and not being the One Guy in the knitting circle or what-have-you.

It used to be not just a fun social hobby thing, but also an opportunity to expand the definition of masculinity. And now it's not. It's normative for me to be there, and that's an odd change to experience.

I also am having to recalibrate from "keep quiet; you don't want to *masculine* all over a women-centered space" to "I can participate fully here", though I need to caveat that with:
- I've always been reserved in unfamiliar social situations; if anything I may open up easier these days.
- I try to keep in mind that, whatever else, I got 30 years of (presumed-)male privilege and I've been presenting fem full-time for less than a year. That's going to impact my experience of the world.
- The crafty groups I've been in haven't been explicitly women-centered (if they were, I probably wouldn't have attended when I presented masc) but I still tended to treat them that way because we live in a patriarchy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-04T03:00:54Z

Oh, and back to expanding the definition of masculinity. I don't get to do that any more, but now I get to be the woman who walks into a bike shop or hardware store with the weirdest and most obscurely specific technical requests. 😁

I've taken some pleasure in watching Bike Shop Guys go from "haha, no, you must actually want..." to "oh you actually meant it" over the course of a conversation.

That's something I've thought about a fair bit from the other direction, as a comparative expert engaging with walk-in customers at bike collectives.

It's easy to make assumptions about someone's level of knowledge, but it rarely helps anyone. Much better to take a moment and ask questions to assess/verify what they know so you can meet people where they are at. It helps to workshop the questions in advance to find something that's comprehensible to newbies without sounding condescending to experts.

It's easy in theory, but many people seem to have difficulty learning and remembering to do it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-04T03:03:26Z

@inquiline@union.place If you're open to other ways of using them, I've sliced them thin and dehydrated them and they're really tasty.

@SRLevine

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-04T03:54:57Z

@salad_bar_breath

*finally goes and looks at more than one photo of Jamie Clayton*

*digs up the old Wanted poster thread for a Rayne selfie*

The hair and eye color don't match and I'm not sure how their heights compare, but otherwise I think Jamie could pull off the role of Rayne appearance-wise. She's doing a remarkably good job getting into character too, based on these recent posts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-04T17:56:04Z

@sparkledragon5@chaosfem.tw Oh, hey! I posted a while back wondering what a trans version of Beauty and the Beast would be. I think your answer here might be my favorite.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-04T18:35:56Z

@Jaden2@mstdn.social It's not popular or well-known, but I'd say Russian Christmas Music by Alfred Reed. We played it in high school band and it's still one of my favorites.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-04T20:36:55Z

@sparkledragon5@chaosfem.tw No need to apologize!

It's a fun story. And it seems like you're not the only one around here who is thinking about it today.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-04T20:37:53Z

@sparkledragon5@chaosfem.tw Just realized "I'm sorry" in this context could also have indicated "wish I had caught that conversation" which makes more sense. 🤦‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-05T20:42:45Z

@Lucia Took me a minute to get that, but... 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-05T21:34:50Z

@glightly Yep. Motornormativity is *so* deeply ingrained.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-05T22:05:17Z

Just saw a license plate frame that said "I'm so gay I can't even drive straight."

Maybe I should add that to the list of reasons I don't drive cars.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-06T04:40:33Z

@malcircuit Oh, I relate to this way too much. Been trying to work on it (again) lately, and it's certainly not straightforward.

We are enough. I know that intellectually. Just have to keep reminding myself; maybe one of these days it'll stick.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-06T06:29:51Z

@faithisleaping That's great that you've found some balance! I like "embrace the chaos." That's the direction I've been trying to go as well.

Learning self-care, and the associated self-knowledge/self-awareness, has been one of the biggest parts of transition for me lately. Turns out when I stopped denying/avoiding gender stuff, all the other houses of cards started falling down as well. I'm just fortunate that I'm in a position right now to spend time and energy rebuilding in ways that are more sustainable.

@malcircuit

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-06T17:47:10Z
re: sad

@salad_bar_breath @pqqq

Well, Rayne pretty much said all the things already, but...

Yeah, there's no time limit on having emotions.

Doubly so with covid and covid-denial making it so hard to exist in society.

((hugs)) if you want them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-07T03:27:42Z

Question for other transfem folks using estrogen patches:

Does your mood dip when you're due for new patches?

I know I've seen it mentioned with injections, but I thought patches were supposed to deliver a more stable and consistent dose. I've been noticing this occasionally and not sure if it's causation or just correlation.

I am currently using 2x 0.1mg/day "DOTTI" patches and changing them twice weekly; expecting to increase the dose soon, after my next round of blood tests.

So, anyone else notice a worse mood and/or increase in dysphoria on New Patch Day?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-07T22:37:19Z

My partner is weaving some more hair ribbons. (Ok, I use them as hair ribbons. They're robust woven straps; if you attach hardware they could be purse straps, leashes, etc..)

Would anybody want one?

It would probably be a "donate to something - including mutual aid fundraisers - and we'll send you one" deal unless there's enough interest that we run out of this yarn*, at which point maybe someone could send us $20 or some suitable yarn?

Specs:
- about 57" (145cm) long, plus a couple inches (several cm) of braided tassel at the end
- about 5/8" (1.7cm) wide
- maybe 1/16" (1.5mm) thick
- blue/pink/white/pink/blue stripes; colors won't exactly match the official trans flag colors because the yarn is secondhand

She might do variations or custom ribbons upon request, but no guarantees.

* We probably have enough of this yarn for 2 or 3 more trans flag ribbons.

:boost_ok:​

Photo of a blue/pink/white striped ribbon braided into long, dark blond hair. 

Background is a light-skinned neck, pinkish shirt, and black jacket. Bow tied from a ribbon with blue/pink/white stripes and braided tassels at the end. There are small flecks of white in the blue. 

Above the bow, the ribbon is braided into dark blonde hair. Below the bow it is wrapped around the end of the hair. 

Background is a light-skinned person wearing a pinkish shirt and black jacket.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-07T22:45:47Z

@slipstream Thanks! Good to know it's a possibility.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-07T22:54:07Z

@Karstan I would [Follow] The Rules, and I bet I'm not the only one.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-07T23:20:38Z

@Karstan Oof, no clue. Octodon has a lot of the big ones silenced so my awareness of them is pretty limited.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-08T22:43:22Z

@evdas Isn't it great?!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T00:31:11Z

A2. The one I've used is warmshowers.org. Not sure we've ever actually stayed with someone through WS, but we did host people for a while and it was a lot of fun. Their review system is a little odd/annoying sometimes, though.

I like the sound of WTMG, though!

Oh, and one other tangentially related thing: It's weird and not specific to bike camping, but the N55 LAND manual might serve that purpose if you're in one of the handful of places with LAND, and the concept has always intrigued me: n55.dk/MANUALS/LAND/land.html (I generally find N55 projects fascinating and sometimes slightly baffling.)

@ascentale @xtaran

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-09T01:00:07Z

I had a lot to say today because I had my first actual voice training session this morning! And I'll try to tie it back to @miriamrobern's suggested topic of "Family."

On listening: Yikes, my resonance is dropping way down on vowels still!

transcript in a reply because it's too long :-(
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T01:01:19Z
Transcript part 1/2 generated by Whisper and edited by me:

Okay, it's Trans Voice Friday, and I just had my first voice training session that was actually like an official voice training session with a speech therapist this morning. So I'm going to talk about that a little bit before I actually try to tie it back into the topic that Miriam proposed of "family." I'm not going to talk about the whole voice training session, but there were two tips that were really cool that I wanted to share in case other people don't know about them. Um, today was mostly dealing with resonance and with, um, varied intonation. And the first tip/hack/whatever was if you're having a conversation and you notice that your resonance is starting to slip, like I'm trying to intentionally do now, you can say um or mm-hmm. Or hmm, because that M sound apparently moves the resonance forward into oral resonance, into the front of your mouth, and it sounds natural in conversation. And then that can help kind of reset. Uh, the other hack actually combines varied intonation and resonance. And it is: if you've got a sentence that ends on a deeper vowel sound. Um, like if I'm saying "deeper vowel sound," um, there's a tendency to drop both pitch and resonance, I guess, at the end of the sentence. So it sounds like "deeper vowel sound." But if you go up the syllable before, then you can drop back down and it sounds reasonable. So it's like "deeper vowel sound." And that keeps your overall pitch and resonance higher, but you still get that drop from "vowel" to "sound." Uh, those were the fun hacks I learned.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T01:01:38Z
Transcript part 1/2 generated by Whisper and edited by me:

And trying to tie this back to the topic of family, I was telling my mother about doing vocal exercises this morning, going mi-mi-mi-mi-mi, and she said, "oh yeah, I had completely forgotten. But my dad," that's my grandmother, or grandfather, um, "at some point took voice lessons for some reason." She doesn't remember why. And so he would walk around the house going, "mi-mi-mi-mi-mi" and it was a running joke in the family to say "mi-mi-mi-mi-mi" to everyone for a while. So I guess I am carrying on that weird family tradition, sort of. Anyway, I'm going to end this recording and upload it without listening, because if I try to listen to it, I'm probably going to delete it. So, um, I'm going to go ahead and do that. Okay. Hope you're having a wonderful day. Bye!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-09T01:57:56Z

@Terra@chaosfem.tw I don't think I share your desire for maximum size, but I very much relate to getting to the end of the day and not wanting to take off my breast forms. There have definitely been nights when I stayed up later than I should have because I didn't want to take them off.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-09T01:58:58Z

@DelilahTech Wait, it's out now?! *scurries away to library website*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T02:39:18Z

@hack Wow, your singing voice sounds fantastic! (and your speaking voice, for that matter)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T03:09:47Z

@salad_bar_breath Aww, thanks! 🥰​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T03:14:31Z

@miriamrobern Thank you!

To be clear, this is my first day of formal voice training with a speech therapist (or something like that? not actually sure which specialization). I've been doing DIY voice training for a while.

I started watching TransVoiceLessons on youtube about a year ago - before I had even figured out that I wanted to transition! Just, you know, figured it was a good skill to develop as an AMAB genderfluid person for if/when I wanted to present fem more often. Turns out I want to present fem pretty much all the time, and I've been using my best effort at feminine voice for over six months now, so I've had a bit of practice.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-09T03:18:47Z

@pqqq

*looks at own todo list*

*nods in agreement*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T03:33:07Z

@miriamrobern "Maybe I'll use it occasionally when I read aloud to my partner. Like, to do voices for the characters."

Yes, well, I did that, and consequently for a while my partner referred to my fem voice as "Gadriel's voice" after the main character in Small Miracles by Olivia Atwater. It was the one book I read to her in between first trying voice training and deciding to transition.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-09T05:11:55Z

@audrey I have no familiarity with streaming and am not entirely sure what that would look like, but I enjoy doing craft stuff while other people are also doing craft stuff via videocall with the FediCraftClub group. If it's anything like that, then maybe?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-09T05:17:38Z

@Karstan My partner saw this and pointed out that botsin.space allows non-bot accounts that do bot-like things, so that could be an option?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-09T06:08:09Z

@audrey I think it's very fun! Here's the announcement for the one that just happened: social.coop/@ansate/1114799107

If you message anasate she'll DM and/or email you the zoom link each month.

What were you thinking with the streaming thing, though? That sounds like it could be fun too!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-09T06:52:07Z

@audrey Neat! I both like the idea of things that are more RT/interactive and have difficulty with the scheduling component. I think I've made it to one of the last 3 CraftClub things? But It sounds like it could be fun, so I would try to check it out if you do it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-11T19:34:06Z

@glightly Augh.

Someone I know occasionally tells the story of the time someone at a party confidently informed her that she wasn't a real cyclist because she didn't ride clipless... and then a friend walked up behind the guy and said, "You know she biked across the country, right?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-13T06:54:01Z

"How much of your decision is based on each of the factors, by percentage?"

Me: [thinks for a long time] "I guess maybe 40% Thing A, 15% Thing B, 15% Thing C, and 20% Thing D."

"...what about the other 10%?"

Me: "Let's just say it's out of 90% total, ok?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-14T15:44:32Z

@rolandelli I'd probably be interested.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-15T01:34:02Z

Spent most of the day wearing my new elastomeric P100 respirator (GVS Elipse w/o exhale valve) and it's quite good!

Not particularly heavy or otherwise uncomfortable, unlike others I've tried. It gets a lot of condensation, but mostly on the surface of the mask and not on my skin. Feels like it has a good seal, which I should be able to confirm when the fit testing stuff get here in a few days. It feels a bit small on me; maybe I'll try the larger size at some point.

Now I just need to knit some colorful covers to put over it on the days when I don't want to look like I walked off the set of a low-budget sci-fi movie. 🧶

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T01:37:15Z

@hollie What?! Aww. Maybe I'll skip the audiobooks, then.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T04:44:59Z

@hollie Eh, I like reading the text anyway. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-15T05:52:46Z
re: family, not especially pleasant

@pqqq Oof, that's a tough situation. Best wishes for you, whatever you end up doing.

(Also, can relate to items #2 & #3 at the end of that first post. Too many conversations lately have felt like "How can I describe the past [time period] positively without talking exclusively about transition stuff and/or my weird internet friends?")

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-15T06:28:26Z
So I'm not on the Blahaj bandwagon, but I just saw this Xyla Foxlin video about making an IoT stuffed animal for sending/receiving hugs, and a few things immediately came to mind:

1) Seems like a pretty good idea. Somebody ought to connect it to ActivityPub, with the number of hugs that get sent around here.

2) How long before someone puts this in a stuffed shark or a trans-color SeaFlap or something?

Also, tangentially, (3) I've been picking up "disposable" vapes from the side of the road with the intent of scavenging batteries, but apparently they also have air pressure sensors like the one used in this project. Reuse opportunity?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-15T07:57:49Z
re: Covid

@esther@strangeobject.space Oof. Hope you can get lots of rest and have a quick & uneventful time with it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T17:41:57Z

@younata *makes a warding-against-evil gesture*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T21:01:34Z

@DeliaChristina Well put, all of this. Thank you for writing it out!

I've only been with tiny (<1 full time staff) nonprofits and it all holds true there.

All the infrastructure & operations deficit also contributes to burnout because staff & volunteers are trying to maintain programs without adequate infrastructure or support. The people trying to actually work on operations get internal pushback because they aren't focused on Important Program Stuff like everyone else, and they burn out. Eventually either someone else comes along to pick up the unappreciated slack, or the whole thing collapses.

My favorite single moment, I think: "Strategic plan? Yes, we made one of those a few years before you started! *dusts off binder* Now, what does it say in here?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T21:03:28Z

@glightly Can confirm this effect. It's one of my favorite things about carrying things like sledgehammers and pick-mattocks to and from the local Tool Library.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T21:06:57Z
re: alc, nonsense

@EveOfTheFuture I don't drink, so I just stared at it for a bit. Huh.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T21:10:28Z

@glightly Or they're projecting? "Person with big, heavy object might harm me!"

No, really? *stares pointedly at car*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T21:15:01Z

@DeliaChristina Oh, that's really good and also yes sounds enormously difficult to stick with. Bookmarking for the next time I'm in a similar situation.

(I tried to learn this stuff on the fly because... somebody has to do it?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T21:22:54Z
re: alc, nonsense

@EveOfTheFuture Had to look up Mark Fisher so I'm short on context, but at a glance it makes sense to me?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-15T21:35:43Z
re: A bad joke based on a typo I corrected anyway

@EveOfTheFuture Oof. Not sure whether to wince or laugh at that one.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-16T02:50:17Z
re: alc

@EveOfTheFuture Dang it, that's wonderful!

(And terrifying too, I remember the terrifying. But hopefully good terrifying, for the most part.)

Anyway... glad to get the update. (-:

*lifts water bottle in a vaguely eastward toast*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-16T19:41:02Z

A2 cont'd. I just learned about sleepy.bike/ (@sleepybike) which looks like it's maybe still a work in progress, but at first glance looks really cool!

@ascentale @xtaran

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-16T21:00:17Z

[Edit: They are now promised to someone.]

Anyone want a set of knitted breast forms?

I made a spare pair a while ago and never used them, and now I think they're going to be a bit too big for my preference.

Some info I posted after finishing the previous pair: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1109988

I think, based on the pattern notes, these would be about a C-cup when stuffed. You can understuff them by a little bit if you want them smaller. I'm pretty sure the yarn is acrylic, but there's a slight chance it's actually cotton or something. (I can't donate these to the official Knitted Knockers project because I'm pretty sure I didn't use one of their approved yarns.) They're off-white.

I'll send them flat and you can stuff them. You're supposed to use proper stuffing, but I find fabric scraps to be adequate.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-16T23:02:38Z

@squirrellilly Awesome! Can you DM or email (april@aprilwick.com) me an address to send them to?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T02:40:58Z

@glightly Yikes. I actually liked the lightning racks when I lived in Davis, but that's because...
(1) I rarely rode a SWB to campus (my primary 'bent during that time had the bottom bracket much closer to the front wheel) and
(2) most of the other rack designs I knew of back then were even worse, e.g. the old concrete wheel-benders, or the ones that are just a long frame with a bunch of vertical bars in it.

In retrospect, it's an appallingly narrow-minded design.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T02:54:40Z

@glightly Yeah, these days I completely agree with you about U-racks.

(though with the solar trike I often just take a car space, especially when riding with my partner, because we're going to take up that much room anyway and we'd rather take it out of the abundant car parking than the meager bike parking)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-17T05:37:48Z

Dangit, I think I'm actually going to try putting the basic Keystone Jacket and Dress Cutter "waist" into GeoGebra so I can generate parametric bodice patterns.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T06:22:32Z

@clew Oh yeah, there's probably actual pattern-drafting software out there. Maybe I should learn to use it someday... 🙃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T07:21:07Z

Got all the straight lines and points. Now I have to either figure out how to do the curves, or transfer it to paper and freehand the curves.

Screenshot. On the right is a sewing pattern for a bodice. On the left is a rough approximation of the same pattern generated by geometry software.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T07:21:58Z

@clew Also, as I just learned, because curves. 😑

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T07:41:22Z

Argh! This is still (1) creating weird armhole shapes and (2) not matching the drawings in the book quite right, even though I'm ostensibly using the same measurements.

Did they just fudge the drawings in the book? It wouldn't surprise me all that much - there's at least one spot where they give obviously incorrect instructions.

Argh.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T07:52:57Z

@varve I was literally just looking at freesewing and thinking I might want to try one of their existing bodice blocks instead, rather than bashing my head against the Keystone.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T18:05:36Z

@ai6yr @glightly Dangit! I found a similar article but you beat me to it. 😆

Looks like what I found was a blog post about the very early days of that project: stevencanplan.com/2012/04/this

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-17T21:57:16Z

Today in tech silliness:

I needed to bring a QR code "ticket" for something and didn't want to carry any big/valuable devices because there wouldn't be a secure place to put them. So...

I took screenshots of the QR code and loaded the image onto the iPod Classic that I mostly use for jogging music. The teenager at the gate said "What is that? An iPod, right?" while scanning it with a modern iPad.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T22:02:48Z

@younata Nice! Which Grin kit are you using for the recumbent?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T22:14:18Z

@younata Lovely! I've got the All-Axle kit on my trike and it's kinda heavy but I often think it's worthwhile for regen alone.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T22:21:37Z

@ansate I just want one of those bendy flexible curve tools implemented in GeoGebra in a way that's relatively easy to use. Because that's definitely something that belongs in math education software.

The goal is a dress; I just do silly things like try to learn pattern drafting so I can make a simple dress because it seems easier than finding a pattern I like.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-17T22:23:32Z

@clew I don't know, maybe they're not that weird, they just look wider than they are tall when the pattern in the book is the opposite. I'm not at the point of making muslins yet, though perhaps I should be getting there?

I have approximately zero tacit seamstress knowledge, so that's almost certainly part of the problem. 😀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T02:18:35Z

@smolcasm Impawsibly good balnyance?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T02:31:16Z

@SRLevine I recently did a variant of part (1) of your experiment, and found that people do seem to take me less seriously when I'm on an only-slightly-weird semi-recumbent instead of the solar trike. 😒​

Also, now I'm hankering for a sapphic romance novel set in a bike shop. Haven't found one of those yet (though there's some good short stories).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T02:37:01Z

@SRLevine I think the shorts I've read were in Elly Blue's anthologies, most recently Bicycles and Broomsticks, so I guess not primarily romance. I'll let you know if I find anything longer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-18T03:01:39Z

Re-reading Paladin's Grace by T. Kingfisher and I'm not sure which of the main characters I relate to more.

The anxious, awkward one with a chaotic mess of a workshop? Or the quiet, guilt-prone one who knits? Could go either way.

Really, though, I just want a job working for the Temple of the White Rat. It's too bad they're one of the less plausible parts of the book. I mean, that degree of efficacy and generally doing good things and operating at such a large scale? I wish I could think of a real-world equivalent.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-18T04:12:09Z

Anyone have anecdotes to share re: ADHD/dopamine and estrogen hormone therapy?

I've read a bit about recent research focusing mostly on AFAB folks. I think I saw someone on transfem fedi posting about their experience with changes in focus early in HRT, but I can't find it now.

Because my focus and impulse control are absolutely shot lately, and it just occurred to me that it's been getting worse in the last few months since increasing my estrogen dose. Could be other factors, but this seems worth investigating.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T04:14:34Z

Hey, @faithisleaping, might that have been you posting about estrogen and ADHD a while ago? I thought I remembered it in connection with your name but I can't find the post now.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T04:21:05Z

@ansate Oh, absolutely! Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T04:35:38Z

@tessiselated Thanks! That's consistent with what I've read elsewhere; good to have the confirmation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T04:45:14Z

@faithisleaping Yikes! Didn't know Benadryl poisoning was a thing. Glad it's sorted.

I'm not on ADHD meds either; that's interesting. Going to have to read more...

Emotional overload could be a factor. I had actually been thinking some of my recent emotional overload was an indirect consequence of worse executive function; maybe I've got the causal relationship backward.

Thanks for the info!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T04:52:09Z

Followup notes:

1) I'm not on any meds for ADHD, so that's not a factor for me.

2) So far searching the web I've mostly read that low estrogen may cause low executive function in some people. I thought I read a while back that for some transfem folks, increasing E causes an initial drop in executive function and then it may recover to some degree later. Not sure where that was, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-18T05:05:36Z

Partner snuck up behind me and put a necklace on me this morning. Turns out I actually like it okay. At least this particular necklace/outfit combination.

In related news: Today I (re?)learned that necklaces are a socially acceptable type of wearable fidget toy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T05:17:10Z

@ana Thanks! That's consistent with what I've read elsewhere.

I'm not on any medication for ADHD, so I think it would be impacting something in the dopamine pathway if it's doing anything at all? 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T21:28:44Z

@madrabbit @bumpus Yeah. Failure of avoidance/denial-based coping mechanisms and a decreased ability to just exist with burnout has definitely been a factor for me lately.

I'm glad my emotions are working again, but it turns out I built a lot of things on that foundation of mild depersonalization. Whoops.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T21:36:28Z

@jaytee Thanks! The part about big hormonal shifts briefly exacerbating symptoms and leveling out later is reassuring! (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-18T21:45:28Z

@KatS Oh, interesting! I've heard some people say they had eventual improvements, but I think this is the first time I've heard about steady improvement. Thanks for the anecdatum!

My partner and I are both neurodivergent, so I can relate to both sides of that situation. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T21:49:59Z

@j12i I wouldn't turn down a boost - I usually welcome more info - but I'd say I've gotten plenty of answers for my purposes. 🤷‍♀️

I suspect there's a few I can't see either; octodon has limited many of the big instances. Maybe I'll go take a look from another server in a minute here... thanks for the reminder about that!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-18T21:53:59Z

@madi_kava Huh. Thanks for the info!

I'm doing E monotherapy, so I'd expect to have my E pretty high before my T starts to really drop, but I'm not certain about that. The next round of blood tests at the end of this month might give a little more insight.

Best of luck to you with figuring things out... seems like we're all learning as we go.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-19T03:55:25Z

@pqqq That's an apron with an excellent backstory!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-19T03:57:30Z

@jaytee Fingers crossed for you!

Does sound like an promising start to the visit, though. 😀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-19T03:59:19Z
re: Christmas gift/ornament

@salad_bar_breath @sofia@toot.site Aww, that's adorable!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-19T20:48:11Z

@leahbobet

starts reading an article

"Published: July 2023"

immediately closes tab

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-20T04:16:52Z
re: Watching the lesbian Hallmark film

@njeanneburns@mspsocial.net Well, drat. I expect I'll still watch it, but good to know I should manage my expectations.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-20T19:48:27Z

@Karstan

*head pops out of dumpster*

"This kind of trash elf? Also, hey, there's some good stuff in here. Do you need any folding chairs?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-20T20:52:45Z

@RoseRaven Most comprehensible version of this poll yet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-21T02:11:43Z

Well, I tried using the Bella body block from freesewing.org and, uh... that didn't go as expected.

I told it I had a waist measurement of 80cm and just discovered that my muslin has a 57cm waist. I went back to look at the pattern and it seems the issue is that what I thought was a dart at the front waist is actually... whatever the opposite of a dart is? I think it's called a gore? Now I see what they mean about this pattern only working for people with a specific body type. Pretty sure it would look very strange the way it's specified.

I think it's back to the 'ol Keystone again...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-21T02:28:01Z

@miriamrobern 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-21T02:35:55Z

@miriamrobern

"I hear it's common for trans people to want surger—"

"Yeah, I guess those of us who really get into making our own clothes. Not that much more common than for cis people, though. It would probably be less of a thing if clothing was available in a wider variety of sizes and styles, and tailored to fit more body shapes."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-21T03:00:42Z

Today in sewing:

Where'd I put that shirt I was using as a reference for the neckline?

*search search search*

Oh, I put it back on. Because I was wearing it before I needed it as a reference. Right.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-21T04:11:27Z

and by "the 'ol Keystone" I apparently mean ripping up the muslin from a project I started nearly a year ago and never finished: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1097690

This is working much better than the Bella did! Just a few hiccups...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-21T04:15:51Z

...like, for example, this minor issue:

Me, sketching the pattern: "I can combine all these pieces into a center front panel, and combine these pieces into a center back panel, and assemble the whole thing with just four seams and two darts! I feel so clever!"

Me, assembling the muslin: "Wait... now I don't have anywhere to put a closure, unless I want it offcenter in the back."

Maybe I can chop the center front and splice some sort of closure into the middle the middle there... or maybe I should just start fresh. Am I going to have enough fabric for the skirt?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-21T04:52:24Z

Okay, I have plenty of this fabric; enough to re-do it and have leftovers. Which is good, because I think I'm going to make it a wrap dress to keep the closure simple, and that means basically making two of the center-front piece.

Except this fabric is apparently rather sheer, so either I need to switch to a different fabric or I need to make a lining.

This might not get finished tonight. Not if I want to sleep.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-22T03:02:00Z

@taedryn I've been meaning to read the sequel to that because the protagonists are trans, and if I'm doing that I might well read the first book too. Curious to know what you think of it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-22T03:16:11Z

@terraboops I hope the plague transitions, because I'd rather miss it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-22T03:31:29Z

@taedryn Thanks for the info! Maybe I'll bump it up my reading list. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-22T18:16:21Z

@EnaWasHere @mel I second the leatherman and add a(t least one) flashlight.

Also hair ties. I don't use them in my hair much, but they're excellent rubber bands.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-22T20:50:37Z

@zombierustpunk Augh; that's appalling. Opt-outs should *actually* opt you out.

I'm not sure if the question at the end is rhetorical. If you do want alternative search engines and haven't seen it before, this seems pretty comprehensive and informative: octodon.social/@alienghic/1111

Also, may I ask why not Duck Duck Go? (I don't keep up with search engine news; wondering if I missed something negative about DDG?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-22T21:10:26Z

@North I prefer Roko Basilisk and may start mentally substituting her in place of Roko's Basilisk.

"I'm worried about Roko Basilisk."
"Yeah, she comes off kinda scary sometimes but it's okay, she's a fictional character."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-22T21:36:09Z

@DelilahTech They're so good! I especially love Bragg's version of Lucifer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-22T21:42:26Z

@DelilahTech Ha! I had to look that up just now because I haven't seen the show, but :chefkiss:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-22T21:45:38Z

@dr_a @ducksauz Oooh, I got that it was a cigarette lighter gizmo but wasn't sure what it was for. I'm used to seeing much more modern ones with SMD components and USB ports on the end.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-22T22:01:01Z

*digging under piles of fabric and paper pattern pieces*

Well, I'll probably be able to find the permanent marker as soon as I finish this sewing project. So, tomorrow night, maybe?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-23T02:47:50Z

@DelilahTech *makes note to never post photos of her own soldering on fedi*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-23T02:53:56Z

@dr_a Oh, wow! I guess I usually expect mass-market things with thru-hole components to be older than that, but then I don't have that much familiarity with trends in the electronics industry. Thanks for the info!

@ducksauz

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-23T03:50:24Z

@DelilahTech No, it's worse than that. 😬 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-23T05:13:25Z

A3. I think I've mentioned some of these cargo-hauling stories before, but...

The first big haul I did was a 3-piece sectional couch on a Bikes@Work trailer, probably ~12 miles home from the next city. At night. Fueled largely by a package of chocolate-covered espresso beans. (I am not normally a coffee drinker. My partner doesn't give me chocolate-covered espresso beans anymore.)

Weirdest might be the time we carried chickens in our bucket panniers.

Other fun ones include:
- Helping Bike Farm in PDX move by hanging bicycle forks on the side of a velomobile (see photo).
- Towing a 16-foot canoe behind a 10-foot recumbent tandem. It was loooooong. No tight turns on that ride!
- Half a cubic yard of compost, also towed behind the recumbent tandem. It probably exceeded the 300lb load rating of the trailer and definitely surprised the person at the soil company who dumped it in with a big earth-mover, but we made it home.
- Moving from PDX to NorCal partially by bike. We sent some boxes ahead, but hauled a significant amount on the cargo trikes & shortened B@W trailer. Trip was interrupted by wildfires near Eureka, though.
- My partner carried a couple of really giant sheet cakes on the B@W trailer for a bike advocacy event. The other event organizers thought they'd have to use a car, but she insisted on using the trailer and it worked perfectly.

All of the above were before we had e-assist.

Plus the usual stuff like plywood, sheetrock, doors, windows, dogs, cats, lumber, assorted furniture, other bikes, power tools, etc.

At some point we stopped telling people on Craigslist that we were coming to get things by bike because it got annoying to reassure them that no, we do not need a truck, we have a trailer. A really big trailer. It'll be fine, I promise. Please, trust us. We don't need you to deliver it. We have carried bigger things. *sigh*

My favorite thing I've seen someone else carry: A small sailboat in a cargo trike for the "PaddlePalooza" PedalPalooza ride. He just kind of wedged it into the back of the trike, pulled it out to sail around on the river, and wedged it back in to go home again. There were probably some tie-downs involved too.

@ascentale @fgbjr

Cockpit area of a velomobile (recumbent tricycle with partial enclosure. About 18 forks are hung on the closer wall of the cockpit. Several more are stacked in the empty space on the far side of the seat.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-23T05:24:25Z

@DelilahTech Eh, I think mostly cold joints... even when I've heated the wires/components so much that insulation/housing is beginning to melt.

I suspect the problem may be that I mostly end up using irons that are extremely cheap and/or have had their tips severely abused. These days I solve it by using crimp connectors whenever possible. 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-23T05:29:19Z

@Lucia Aw, that's lovely!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-23T05:52:42Z

It's been more than six months and my first formal voice training session since I last recorded myself reading the first sentence of Small Miracles, so here it is again for comparison. Seems like there's been some change! 😃

Chapter 1: It was eight o'clock on a Wednesday morning when the Fallen Angel of Petty Temptations walked into a quaint cafe on the north end of Church Street.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-23T06:17:14Z

While I've got the recording app open for I wanted to know if I could do the same sentence from _Small Miracles_ but at a lower pitch while trying to maintain high resonance.

I think the pitch is similar to my last recording six months ago, but I maintained the higher resonance better. I'm pretty pleased with that!

[repeating "mi" several times while decreasing pitch] Chapter 1: It was eight o'clock on a Wednesday morning when the Fallen Angel of Petty Temptations walked into a quaint cafe on the north end of Church Street.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-23T23:28:45Z

@DelilahTech Yeah, I don't think I've been using any silver solder.

Thanks for the tips!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-23T23:30:20Z

@taedryn Okay, I read and enjoyed it, and now I'm on to the sequel. So far, so good!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-24T01:59:21Z

@glightly Thank *you* for asking questions and starting conversations and sharing your knowledge and perspective and thoughts. I always enjoy seeing your posts and interacting with you here, and I've definitely learned some things from you and from conversations you've initiated.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-24T03:12:02Z
Grasping Hands Meme: The arm on the left is "Sewing" and the arm on the right is "Welding." The text where they are holding hands is "Hours of prep so you can spend a few minutes sticking two things together with a big fancy machine."
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-24T03:19:07Z

Really, the "prep" is part of the activity. It just feels funny to refer to it by only the one step.

There's a term for that, isn't there? *finds list of literary devices* Ah, yes! Synecdoche. Haven't thought of that one in a while.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-25T02:12:29Z

@Ten I don't know if it was the biggest, but the final misconception I had to get past was that trans people "know that they are" a different gender, usually from a very young age. It wasn't until recently I heard anyone saying that you can "want to be" a different gender instead of "knowing you are."

By then I had already gotten most of the other misconceptions debunked by IRL friends and the Fedi trans community.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-26T04:06:30Z
re: Watching the lesbian Hallmark film

@njeanneburns@mspsocial.net Ok, watched it last night and uh... yep. It was a movie. Not great; not terrible. Very red-and-green themed.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-26T17:43:39Z
re: Passing

@miriamrobern Same. I have a trans flag pin right below the pronoun pin on my purse strap.

@Terra@chaosfem.tw

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-27T04:44:59Z

@taedryn Finally finished Chef's Choice (after taking a break to re-read two other books) and I really liked it!

My only complaint is that it leans pretty hard in a few places on him being unfathomably wealthy and I'm kinda tired of un-interrogated extreme wealth inequality in fiction.

Otherwise it was very cute, very trans, and very well written.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T04:48:01Z

@SRLevine Oof. Yep.

I rode most of that a couple years back. It's appalling that California apparently considers it acceptable for the most popular touring route in the US.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T04:50:09Z

@ai6yr Now if only we could get people to think that wearing a mask looks cool the way they think that clip looks cool...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T05:06:34Z

@SRLevine I've traveled way too many miles on the Pacific Coast route for my own safety, from a statistical perspective. At this point I cope with it using equal parts desensitization and ever-escalating hi-vis. (Well, and e-assist.)

I think in many ways it was a lot better on a cargo trike than it would be on a bike because drivers don't seem to think they can get away with passing so close to a giant trike.

Even so, too much of it is absolutely terrifying.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-27T17:51:38Z

Would anyone be interested in something like a Fediverse Queer Romance Novel Club?

Update: See replies for logistics polls and January book nominations. Vote and nominate now!

I don't quite know how to do the logistics. What I really want is to shout back and forth across the fedi about these silly, sappy books, like how the Monsterdon people do with their movies, but books don't have the same degree of concurrency.

Expressions of interest and/or suggestions on how to make it work are welcome!

Edit: If this goes somewhere I'll tag followup posts and you can follow the hashtag for updates.

:boost_ok:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T18:33:38Z

@faithisleaping Nice! Is this the wool coat you were sewing?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T18:45:29Z

@faithisleaping Oh, that looks great! Beautiful color, and I bet it's warm and cozy.

(Cute earrings, too!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-27T19:06:43Z

@holyramenempire Ooh, yes! I haven't read any KJ Charles yet (been mostly bingeing sapphic romance for the past year and a half) but I was absolutely blown away by one of her posts on writing tips a while back so I'd love to read more of her prose.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T21:17:35Z

Well, I think the bodice is now satisfactory for my purposes. Initially I was annoyed that it had so much slack in the neckline, but I'm pretty pleased with the little pleats I made to take it up. It's still kinda wrinkly, but it'll do.

Just wearing a skirt below it to get a sense of what it looks like for now; next up is making the actual skirt portion of the dress, and probably some hemming on the bodice. Maybe with bright-colored bias tape? We shall see.

Selfies w/ eye contact below:

Your Author wearing a reddish wrap top with a red and white polka-dot waistband over a purple skirt. The neckline has extra fabric gaping below the collarbone on both Your Author again, wearing a reddish wrap top with a red and white polka-dot waistband over a purple skirt. This time there are two small pleats on each side, turning it into a court neckline (straps coming straight down on each side and then turning inward to make a wide V at the bottom; similar to a sweetheart neckline but without any curves to it).
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T21:22:16Z

@hollie Thanks! Making those pleats felt like origami, which I enjoy, and I quite like the look. (The wrinkly bits are elsewhere.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T21:24:46Z

@SRLevine Oh, interesting! I hadn't thought of that, but it you're right that it could look good. I may have to try some different tapes once the skirt is on.

I'm planning to do the skirt in the same dusky red - it's an old sheet from a free pile, so I have a bunch of it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-27T21:40:16Z

@pqqq 😊 Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T21:48:09Z

Me: I have plenty of this fabric!

Also me: *calculates expected area of the skirt and compares it to area of available fabric* Whoops. Gonna have to reconsider this...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-27T22:01:11Z

@tara "Chat" as in Mastodon, or as in something more aggressively realtime like IRC or Discord? (or both?)

I love mailing lists, but have found it increasingly difficult to get people to use them. *sigh*

I'll probably post a poll soon with some options for how we might handle it, but I'm leaning toward both a hashtag/group here on fedi where we can share things as we read, and also occasional audio/video chats.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T22:03:45Z

@salad_bar_breath Aww, thanks!

I was planning to use the same fabric as the bodice, but it turns out I don't have enough of it for the type of skirt I want so now I have to dig through the Trunk Of Fabric and consider my options.

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-27T22:34:12Z

Why do I have so much white and whitish fabric? I can't even wear white because I invariable get dirt, grease, or other stains on it.

I guess I should learn dyeing one of these days...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-27T22:37:01Z

@LinuxAndYarn Oh, that's what half the fabric in my stash is! And this current project is already mostly made from a sheet. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-28T01:17:07Z

@mel They are an excellent fidget *and* very useful. What more could one ask for in a multitool?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-28T01:32:22Z

@wendypalmer Oh, I hadn't even considered breaking it down chapter-by-chapter. I will add it to the forthcoming poll. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T01:50:37Z
re: rare Rayne self-love post

@salad_bar_breath You are all of the above good things, and more.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T02:53:10Z

Okay, @queerromanceclub, let's do this!

See replies to this post to vote on logistical details and make nominations for our first book. Cast your votes now!

I don't guarantee that I'll always 100% abide by the results, but I probably will. If this keeps going I expect to try some different options and change things as we figure out what works and what doesn't. It's an adventure!

I think I can try to steer this ship through February, but if other folks want to step up and take a turn or two handling whatever logistical overhead is required to keep the book club going, that would be excellent.

:boost_ok:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T02:54:18Z

Fedi Queer Romance Book Club logistics poll #1: Communication Medium

If we do audio/video meetups, I'll aim to find something that isn't operated by a datamining megacorp and that offers auto-captions and text chat for accessibility. (That might be a tall order, but I'll try.)

@queerromanceclub

I would prefer to discuss the book by...

posting updates on Fedi with a hashtag and gup.pe group, CWed if they contain spoilers for a particular chapter/section (23)attending an audio/video meetup after finishing the book (7)attending multiple audio/video meetups while reading the book (3)Total Votes: 26
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T02:55:44Z

Fedi Queer Romance Book Club logistics poll #2: Book Duration & Timeline Synchronization

@queerromanceclub

For the book club, I would rather read a book...

in one week, reading up to a certain chapter each day (8)in two weeks, reading up to a certain chapter each day (4)in two weeks, reading up to a certain chapter each week (9)in one month, reading up to a certain chapter each day (2)in one month, reading up to a certain chapter each week (14)over the course of a specified day or two of intensive reading & live-tooting (7)Total Votes: 23
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T02:56:04Z

Fedi Queer Romance Book Club: Nominate a book for January 1-??

What do you want us to read? Any romance novel by/about LGBTQIA+ folks is welcome.

This is a lightning nomination round because I only just thought of this whole book club thing last night and January 1 is nearly here. Whoops!

Reply with your nomination and I'll post a poll in ~24hrs with (up to) 8 books semi-randomly chosen from the nominations, because octodon.social allows up to 8 options in polls. The poll will be open for 24 hours, which leaves just a *little* bit of time for people to acquire the book. Maybe try to nominate books that readily available from multiple outlets or otherwise easy to acquire this time around?

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T02:56:15Z

Also: February is Black History Month in Canada and the US. Do absolutely nominate Black authors all the other months too... but we're *not* featuring white authors in February.

I'll probably come up with a few more things like this to ensure we get some diverse representation once I've looked at a calendar and contemplated a bit, or y'all can suggest them. Details may depend how many books per month we go with.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T03:06:13Z

Tip of the hat to @njeanneburns@mspsocial.net for reminding me about Black History Month in a post about Yarnuary earlier today. Thank you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T03:12:12Z

@SRLevine Lurkers welcome!

As far as thinking about the book, I expect at least 50% of my involvement to be on the order of "haha that character is being hilarious." Not that I mind in-dept analysis, but it doesn't have to all be serious and thoughtful!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T05:27:16Z

@storybead @twistylittlepassages Yes! Those are both fantastic! I read Uncommon Stars for the third(?) time a couple weeks ago and would absolutely read it again.

I haven't read Even Though I Knew the End yet (saving it for a special occasion, I think?) but everything else I've read by C.L. Polk has been amazing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T06:54:09Z

@RomanceReviews That's very odd. Maybe you'll be able to get to the polls via direct links to the poll posts?

octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1116557

octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1116557

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-28T17:54:45Z

@jasmine @JoscelynTransient Now I'm wishing I still had a trumpet!

It makes sense to me as far as breath support and encouraging the use of the front of your mouth.

I was initially thinking it would tend to cause relaxation of the muscles that raise the larynx because I remember working a lot on relaxing my throat back when I was playing... but now I'm realizing that was to minimize constriction and improve airflow, so I guess it would actually be beneficial.

Also, having played trumpet - and music generally - helped me with the theoretical side of voice training, understanding resonance and the different sounds that result from changing the size and shape of resonant bodies.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-28T18:12:46Z

@pqqq I intended for it to be one nomination per person but left it a little vague because I didn't know how many people would respond. 😄

I think we have enough nominations that I can prioritize specific titles over general author suggestions. I understand where the author recs are coming from, but right now I'm not about to track down a list of the author's books and pick one to put in the poll, not when we have plenty of specific suggestions.

Well, hey! This is already helping me come up with new guidelines for next time.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-28T19:16:52Z

@pqqq I like "read heaps". 😄

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-28T21:53:15Z

@MLE_online Same. I've been offered food, socks, and spare change, among other things.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-29T02:41:09Z

@miriamrobern I believe "squish" is the commonly used term in the aro/ace community for a non-romantic crush, so it's not just your kid. (-:

@faithisleaping Regarding the main question: Yes, absolutely!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-29T02:58:08Z

@Lucia Nice! That sounds like so much fun and an awesome outfit.

They had an outdoor synthetic "ice" rink around here and I went this year. It was terrible material and/or the skates weren't sharpened correctly so I couldn't do anything except turn left, but I got to go *swish* in a skirt a whole bunch and I'll count that as a win.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-29T03:19:47Z

@EverydayMoggie I briefly considered trying to set up a Matrix room or something. (I'm disinclined to try to build a community on Discord for various reasons; that's a topic for another time.) But then you have to get everyone onto another platform, where they need another account and they have to check another thing...

Same with @weirdwriter's suggestion of Bookwyrm, though it is somewhat interoperable with the general-purpose fediverse. Also my experience with Bookwyrm has been that it's still a little short on features. And having a dedicated Bookwyrm instance for it means someone has to set up, maintain, and moderate the instance.

They're both interesting and potentially good ideas, but all I can commit to working on right now is something that happens here in the general-purpose fediverse, with an occasional realtime component via Jitsi or something.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-29T04:49:15Z

January Book Poll

What book do you want to read in January? Vote now, or hold your peace until next time!

Per the logistics poll results, we'll break the book down into chapter goals for each week to keep us all reading and discussing at a similar pace.

The options are a random selection of the books people nominated; I haven't researched them at all.

Learning more about these books and making sure you can acquire them for January reading is left as an exercise for the reader/voter. Feel free to debate the options and lobby for your favorites in the replies here.

The usual sort of guidelines apply: If you want to see more Book Club posts, follow the hashtag and the gup.pe group. If you don't want to see them, mute the hashtag. If you're posting about Book Club, hashtag it!

:boost_ok:​ @queerromanceclub

Slippery Creatures by KJ Charles (2)A Restless Truth by Freya Marske (6)Looking for Group by Alexis Hall (1)Beating Heart Baby by Lio Min (2)Commitment Hour by James Alan Gardner (1)Play it Again by Aidan Wayne (2)The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune (4)Even Though I Knew the End by C.L. Polk (7)Total Votes: 12
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-29T04:57:49Z

One book per month is the pretty clear winner here so I'm going with that for now and we can re-evaluate after we've tried it a time or two.

However... there's also some interest in doing an intensive read in a day or two, and I feel like that could co-exist with the bigger, slower read. If someone else wanted to run one of those, I might like to participate.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-29T05:02:33Z

@Lucia Yes, that's it! Every time I pushed off with my right skate it nearly left me doing the splits. (I'm blaming the skates because I swear I used to be better at it.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-29T05:37:08Z

Hey @miriamrobern, you had a suggested topics list for , right? Where might I find that if I wanted to start thinking in advance about what to say?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-29T05:53:07Z

Lately most days when I'm short on sleep I wake up dysphoric and vaguely depressed, and barely manage to drag myself through the day. For some reason this morning I woke up tired and instead of dysphoria I felt extra bonus girly!?

I'm sure it helped that I had other positive stuff early in the day: A good voice training session and then confirmation that my estradiol level has reached a reasonable range. (Woo!)

But mostly I just felt like that wave of gender euphoria carried me through what would otherwise have been a frustrating and unpleasant day.

If I go to bed now, maybe tomorrow I can do it again without feeling so tired! 😆

G'night, folks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-29T16:49:11Z

@miriamrobern Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-29T21:19:40Z

@Anathema Just three books? Umm... *digs through e-reader history*

Fake It (Lily Seabrooke) based on sheer number of re-reads.
Cheer Up: Love and Pompoms (Crystal Frasier) because I got a *lot* of emotions over a pretty short graphic novel there.
Light from Uncommon Stars (Ryka Aoki) was a re-read this year and it's still near the top.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-29T21:22:04Z

@Genderqueerwolf MG & YA books are often fantastic; no caveats required!

@Anathema

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-30T01:46:08Z

@pqqq I don't think "take that to the bank" was ever part of my vernacular, but now I kinda want to start saying "take that to the credit union".

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T01:55:08Z

A8. If you're gonna link to XKCD, xkcd.com/2832/ should get a mention too, though I do wish he'd found a punchline that went past Tire Spikes and into proper mobility justice territory.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T02:03:59Z

A2. Probably 2-3 years old, pretty sure I'm well over 10k miles by now but I think I've accidentally reset the odometer at least once so I don't know by how much. Occasionally charging at >2A, but not usually.

It's a cheap 1kWh LiFePO4 pack from an off-brand seller, if that matters to you.

@ascentale @artemesia

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-30T02:10:39Z

@pqqq I have noticed and appreciated your tendency to pick up and use distinctive turns of phrase. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T02:18:44Z

A6. I don't know about the ratio, but I will say I tend to appreciate a lot of the commercial truck drivers, bus drivers, etc.* that I have encountered on the road. My best guess is that they're more aware than most people that a motor vehicle is heavy machinery and requires the full attention of the operator.

*Less true of local delivery drivers, but I figure that's because their employers are being awful and pressuring them to maximize speed at all costs.

@ascentale @dingodog19

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T06:00:05Z

@la_sombra Well played! 😆

I was trying to come up with something like that but hadn't figured out a good punchline.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-30T06:08:15Z

I don't know, I just talked into the computer for a minute? 🤷‍♀️

Edit: No, only half a minute. 😁

So today's prompt for TransVoiceFriday is "Resolution." I don't really do New Year's Resolutions. I was going to try to come up with a joke about, like, screen resolution... but someone already did a better job of that and I didn't have a punchline for it. Or maybe, oh, I don't know, the resolution of a story or the resolution of a chord progression in music. But I haven't come up with anything so that's all. Uh... Hope you're having a good Friday! Bye!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T06:22:33Z

We have selected a book!

I was going to do a proper announcement with the title and a review of the guidelines and whatnot tonight, but I need to go sleep now so I'll probably post that in like 10-12 hours.

I'm so excited for this! And also so tired! 🥳💤

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-30T19:00:55Z

Fedi Queer Romance Book Club is reading Even Though I Knew The End by C.L. Polk in January!

Suggested reading schedule:
Act I - Jan. 1-5
Act II - Jan. 6-12
Act III - Jan. 13-19
Act IV - Jan 20-26
Act V - Jan 27-31

Guidelines & Logistics:
As you read, post your questions/opinions/thoughts/reactions. Anything goes, from literary analysis to "That meet-cute! 🤣​ 😍"

Tag posts about the book with and @queerromanceclub so we can all see them. Also so people can filter out the hashtag if they want.

Please CW spoilers with the act/chapter that they spoil, because we're not all going to read at quite the same rate.

We might have an audio/video meetup at the end of the month; details TBA.

More info & purchasing links on the author's website
Your library might have it too:
WorldCat
OverDrive
Hoopla

...and I think that's all for now!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-30T19:50:17Z

@pqqq I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! :heart_lesbian:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T19:51:16Z

@EnaWasHere AuDHD?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T21:38:18Z

@EnaWasHere Same! A little from column A, a little from column B.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-30T21:48:50Z
re: ph, Covid, (-)

@salad_bar_breath Aw, cripes. I hope you can get lots of rest and it clears up quickly!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T02:42:34Z

@DelilahTech Ooh, that's a good color!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T02:43:58Z

@life Good photos!

Here's hoping your health soon matches your cuteness!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T02:50:06Z

@moira Do Not Drink (except robots)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T03:06:28Z

@xtaran I hadn't seen the Brau design before; that's lovely!

@ascentale @epu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T03:18:08Z

@glightly Skimmed; interesting concept and yes useful to be able to name it. Thanks!

I just bookmarked this earlier today; seems related: zeroes.ca/@subjacentish/111670

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T05:30:04Z

@SRLevine Aw, thanks! Also, you named several people I was going to list, too. 😀

@Impossible_PhD Skimming my timeline, here are some people who might fit several of your criteria:

North@chaos.social
SRLevine@urbanists.social (back atcha, Sam!)
mbonsma@mastodon.social
loriemerson@post.lurk.org

Re: me: I check all boxes on your "don't" list. My own posting is approximately equal parts trans, bicycles, and other hobbies, with a bit of silliness on the side. The Fedi Queer Romance Book Club might be adding a new category to that list, but I'm ace-spec and have pretty much no interest in posting about the spicy parts of the books.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T05:30:37Z

@Willow @storybead I second the motion!

@caroline

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T05:44:03Z

@North Just regarding the intro... I thought Zoe Storm's To Own the Libs was amusing but implausible. Apparently I was incorrect?!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T06:33:44Z

@North Yep. Though, having watched the rest of that, it seems like the IRL version is (unsurprisingly) often much darker and not nearly so amusing. 🙁​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-31T06:55:18Z

Calculating skirt segment dimensions with a spreadsheet...

...and then doing division by folding the tape measure in half.

I kind of enjoy the contrast of using two dramatically different calculation aids within minutes of each other.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T08:17:03Z

@smolcasm When working as a bicycle mechanic, I may not have said it but I definitely felt the sense of "Enjoyed talking with you and I hope I don't see you for a while" sometimes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2023-12-31T08:38:44Z

@EverydayMoggie @scott @seb Solar ebikes are viable. I've probably traveled 10k miles on pedal+solar in the last couple years, including a 2k mile round-trip. Other folks have built better systems and traveled even further with them - look up the Sun Trip if you want some inspiration!

Mostly it's a matter of getting suitable panels and supporting them well enough to minimize flex.

A lot of the popular videos I see about it on YouTube are people who don't really know what they're doing and clearly haven't done much research. The best resource I know of for someone actually wanting to build a solar ebike is probably Mark Havran's solare.bike/technical-stuff/; some of the components are a little more specialized than what LTM is suggesting for a stationary system but most of the same principles apply.

Long-distance travel really is the best application for it right now. For shorter trips I think it almost always makes more sense to use stationary charging points.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2023-12-31T17:44:26Z

@EnaWasHere Well, not that specific method of calculation. 😜

But I do prefer half-circle skirts for spinning. They flare out plenty but they're narrow enough to still provide sufficient coverage even at maximum spin.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-01T17:09:09Z

@EveOfTheFuture "Okay, but I can't delete that file. I might need an offline copy of it at some point. Here, let me construct an elaborate imaginary scenario in which it might be useful. Yep, definitely can't delete it." (from Reasons I Have Too Much Stuff On My Hard Drive by April Wick, sequel to Why I Still Have Notebooks From 20 Years Ago)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-01T20:11:08Z

@pqqq That looks like a pretty good set of rizzos!

I would like to note for the record that you're a pretty awesome person even when you're having a write-off sort of year, and I am glad I've gotten to know you a bit.

Re: writing/editing: Now that I've got a bit of distance from November, I'm about ready to get back to it (as soon as I finish this sewing project and reclaim some workspace). I don't know if there's an editing equivalent to word sprints, but perhaps we can figure out some alternative... 😃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-01T20:39:38Z

@jepyang First thought: It's not really the best time of year for making jam; there isn't a lot of ripe fruit around.

Second though: Oooooh. Different kind of jam.

Good luck! That sounds like a neat challenge!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-01T21:53:10Z

Someone linked to The Doubleclicks the other day and I finally made it over to that tab and I just spent the last half-hour sobbing and I can't stop smiling. 😂​😭​😄

Thank you, whoever that was! I think it's just the catharsis I needed today.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-01T22:00:07Z

@itzyg Yes, that was it! First it was I'm Winning and then Wrong About Gender came up in the recommendations, and... yeah.

Not sure how I've been missing them all these years. Anyway, thank you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-02T03:35:36Z

@SRLevine *excited squee-ing*

Oh, there is no way I'm not reading that! Will definitely report back. Thank you! 😀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-02T04:26:08Z

@SRLevine @Karstan Yikes!

In my household we usually say "rag bath." I think I've also heard "cat bath," which I rather like.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-02T04:29:03Z

@SRLevine @Karstan Yeah, there is that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-02T06:36:31Z

@spinach ...which is different from other years in what way? 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-02T17:42:10Z

@glightly Yep. Upright bikes have an advantage in being able to see over cars, and there exist some really low recumbents (e.g. most tadpole trikes) but we still aren't the lowest things on the road.

I have on multiple occasions had the conversation that goes:

Driver: "You should have a flag on that thing!"
Me, sitting on recumbent: "I'm as tall as your sedan, and taller than that sports car."

And, frankly, it shouldn't matter. We all deserve safe access to public space and transportation infrastructure, regardless of height (or any number of other things).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-02T18:05:19Z

@enobacon @glightly Having commuted on both, I can say with some confidence that a 2-wheeled recumbent is significantly better than a tallbike at handling frequent stops.

Which is not to say that infrastructure and general motornormativity isn't a problem... I think I'm just being pedantic and splitting hairs at this point. 🙃

Tallbike commuting is kinda fun, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-02T21:38:59Z

@cam @tutwilly I saw both a dog-powered scooter and a dog-powered recumbent trike in use on the road when I lived in PDX. That scooter came through my neighborhood fairly often, and it was fast. The dog looked like it was having a blast, too.

Otherwise, a trailer or cargo bike/trike for dogs weighing over ~15-20lbs. You can often make do with a secondhand trailer meant for kids/cargo with a bit of modification, which is a lot cheaper than something designed as a dog trailer (not to mention cheaper than a cargo cycle).

Baskets or panniers for smaller dogs. The dog's preference may vary - I've known some small dogs who were quite comfy being snugly zipped into a semi-rigid fabric pannier of the right size, and others who want a basket with enough room to move around.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-03T01:05:34Z

@jepyang I don't listen to enough instrumental synth stuff to have nuanced opinions, but that was fun to hear and I smiled as I bounced along to it. (-:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-03T05:12:59Z
re: expressing fannish enthusiasm about a web comic

@Packbat Had not seen that before but it turns out I like it. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-04T05:05:45Z

Well, the obvious solution to insufficient fabric of any one color is... quilt!

Three different piles of fabric pieces, sorted by size/shape, in various shades and patterns of red, red-brown, pink, orange, and purple with a few other colors mixed into the patterns. The fabric from the previous photo, various shades and patterns of red, red-brown, orange, pink, and purple. It has now been arranged into 9 narrow wedges. When sewn together they will make a 3/4 circle with a small cutout from the top, but right now they're folded in half on the vertical axis and laid out in a row.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-04T07:35:05Z

Got the skirt pinned to the bodice; it looks kinda like a dress!

I think I need some kind of belt-loopy thing in back to eliminate the gap between the two pieces of waistband ribbon.

Also this is somehow longer than I expected. (Okay, I know how, it's because I decided to err on the side of More Skirt because it's easier to hem it shorter than hem it longer.) Anyway, I think I'm going to take it up a bit higher at the waistband in addition to hemming it, because this is really long!

Video contains eye contact and a skirt going spinny.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-04T17:24:54Z

@EverydayMoggie Yeah... I realized after the poll closed that it's probably not a romance novel as they're commonly defined, for all that it seems to have a significant sapphic relationship. I don't think it's the only nomination in that category, either. Maybe we'll get something more conventional next go-round?

The mystery is definitely intriguing, and I'm enjoying Helen's tough-gal detective persona. ("Not so fast, I have conditions.") I also want to yell at her about communicating with her girlfriend, so I guess it has that in common with much of the romance genre.

I only just finished Act I. I'm trying to stick to the schedule! Really! Even if it means I'm reading several other books in between acts.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-05T04:17:06Z

@salad_bar_breath Ah, the heavy burden of being right. 😆

@elexia@toot.site @Terra@chaosfem.tw

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-05T05:53:27Z

@YouShallNotPass I might be envisioning you as a distributed consciousness now.

The bodycount+=1 aspect implies that you assimilate anyone who's interested. Like the Borg, but with consent.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-05T17:56:46Z

I'm finally re-learning how to use Pure Data so I can make it echo my voice back to me for voice training. Instant feedback! It's great!

...when it works. Apparently it doesn't play nice with Ubuntu's default audio configuration - something about Pd not being compatible with PulseAudio? The Internet says I can solve this using JACK, which I think will also let me do fun stuff like pipe audio back and forth between Pd and Zoom when I have virtual voice training appointments.

...but I'm apparently behind on distro updates, so I have to do that before it'll let me install JACK.

...and if I'm doing that, I should back everything up and swap in the new (larger) SSD for my laptop.

...which means some amount of organizing my files and my various old backups, and that's going to take hours.

So I guess I know what I'm doing tomorrow. 😑

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-05T18:19:36Z

@forestine Thanks! It's the first time I've actually been motivated to use it since I learned the basics for a class ~10 years ago. It is such a cool piece of software and also feels *so* quirky and old.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-05T18:25:57Z

@forestine Do you use it for music?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-05T19:45:35Z

@MLE_online I will be watching this thread with great interest!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-05T21:00:08Z

@bikeshed The modern locket?

Then: My true love and I have two lockets, each containing half of this photograph.

Now: My true love's USB necklace has the private key to decrypt the image file stored on my own USB necklace.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-05T23:42:15Z

@glightly I just watched this the other day. Not my absolute favorite in the "explain at several levels" genre, but it was fun to see how much I could follow. It went completely over my head when Collier and Hancock got into it at the end.

(Not sure whether to worry that google is analyzing the fedi social graph for it's recommendation algorithm or to be amused that we have similar enough taste to both run across this.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T00:47:25Z

@glightly Yeah, I only know as much music theory as I picked up in and around high school bands. I think everything past "teen" in that video was at least somewhat beyond me.

I'm always impressed with ear-trained musicians, especially ones whose music is as good as yours!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T04:36:45Z
re: voice recording, Covid mention

@salad_bar_breath Sounding good as usual!

And I'm glad you're recovering!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T04:56:09Z

A3. I there was a time when I would jokingly make "cheating" comments about e-bikes, though I don't think I was ever actually opposed to them. These days I wouldn't make those jokes because I don't want anyone to feel bad about using an e-bike and jokes can have that effect. I think e-bikes are great (though, as with any technology, they can be misused), and I want people to feel good about using them.

They make cycling more accessible to people who would otherwise not consider or be unable to cycle for any number of reasons, and I consider that a huge benefit to society at large.

I think banning them from multi-use paths is an awful red herring that does more harm than good. It's predicated on the assumption that pedestrians, acoustic cyclists, and e-cyclists (and skaters and horseback riders and scooter-ers and wheelchair users and anyone else who isn't in a car) should be crammed into whatever tiny bits of space and budget are left over once the car infrastructure is built. Fighting among ourselves over the scraps divides us, and that's one of the ways motornormativity wins. If we can work together - all micromobility users, transit users, etc. - we have more capacity to push for a world where all modes of transportation are safe and viable.

@ascentale @daihard

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T05:16:42Z

A3. cont'd: Incidentally, I have a bone to pick with the way e-bikes are classified in much of the US*. It's not based on safety so much as how closely they seem to resemble acoustic bikes. I can go just as fast on a Class 1 bike, pedaling gently with the assist at maximum, as I can on a Class 2 bike with the throttle. They are equally dangerous.

And throttles have some significant benefits: Throttles aren't just for people who want to ride without pedaling, they're also good in combination with pedal-assist for anyone who wants to ride at a low assist level and get occasional boosts at hills or intersections. They're good for the times my cargo trike is stopped in the wrong gear on a steep hill and I can't turn the crank far enough to engage the assist. They were, until very recently, one of the only ways to modulate regenerative braking.

If safety were the actual concern, the levels would be based on the things that matter in a crash and in a rider's ability to control the cycle: speed, weight, acceleration, braking capacity, and possibly power (which is sort of a proxy for speed and weight, but also factors in the power the rider can provide so I'm not as fond of that one).

*For those not familiar:
Class 1: Pedal-assist, 20mph max.
Class 2: Throttle, 20mph max.
Class 3: 28mph max.
(all with a max. power of 750 watts)
(some states & regions have other policies, but I believe these are the most common and the ones backed by the industry lobby, such as it is)

@ascentale @daihard

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T05:28:25Z

@glightly @cmgrowell @ascentale @kimu PDX does this too - I think their term was something like "neighborhood greenways"? - and they can be nice to ride but wayfinding gets challenging.

Good signage and maps help a lot, but I still found myself wondering on many occasions where I needed to rejoin the main street to get to the grocery store or the library or what-have-you, since those things were never located on the smaller residential side-streets. If I didn't have the exact route memorized, it was often easier to take the (less safe) main street just so I wouldn't overshoot my destination.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T05:40:30Z

A5. Wayfinding and bike/ped only cut-throughs.

I think the cut-throughs are pretty self-explanatory, and others have mentioned them, so I'll save the essay portion of this answer for... 😁​

Wayfinding is *so* lacking in many places where I ride. There are miles of multi-use path with no signage at any of the cross-streets. I guess I'm just supposed to memorize the look of the intersection I need to turn at?!? Or, more likely, the people designing these paths didn't really expect them to be used for transportation so much as out-and-back recreational rides.

My favorite wayfinding tool, though, that I want to see everywhere, is the labeling of cycle routes in Marin County. There are a number of major routes through the county that are identified by numbers regardless of what roads or paths they follow, a bit like some highways.

Route 5, for example, is the major North-South route that I take on a semi-regular basis. It includes several different roads and several segments of car-free path, but wherever I am on the route I can look for a "Route 5" sign to make sure I'm on the right track. Any time the route turns onto a new road or path, the change is marked with a "Route 5" arrow. I don't have to check the map every time I get to an intersection; I know that as long as I'm on Route 5 I'll get to my destination.

I think it's such an elegant way to build a coherent network out of the disparate bits and pieces of infrastructure that are available.

@ascentale @kimu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-06T06:02:56Z

@raeaw There are some things out now that are pretty much all-terrain wheelchairs, mostly using bike and e-bike components.

I think it's tough to make something stable enough for all-terrain use and also compact enough for navigating places that are just barely compliant with ADA or similar accessibility standards, so I think they're still pretty limited to recreational use. Also I suspect they're really expensive. (I mean, so are regular wheelchairs, but still.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T06:12:47Z

@SRLevine Tsk. Youth is wasted on the upright bikes. *sigh* 😉

(Also, all of those cyclists have terrifying posture, even the 'bent rider! Yikes!)

@glightly

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T06:23:20Z

@attoparsec :lesbian_flag:​ 🤨

lezwatchtv.com/about/toaster/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-06T07:10:11Z

It's still here and I'm going to completely disregard the prompt because I wanted to play with different sounds!

The thing I record myself reading every so often, so I can get a sort of standard comparison for how my voice has changed, is the first sentence of Small Miracles by Olivia Atwater. It's not just because I like the book (genderfluid(ish) angels! sapphic romance! hope in the face of despair!), but because reading it aloud was one of the first times I attempted to apply some resonance modification - many months before I even thought I might want to present fem full-time.

Anyway, this is me trying to revisit some of those character voices, both for fun and for practice.

Ok. Voices from Small Miracles.

Gadriel... I for some reason decided that Gadreil's voice is kinda nasal-y. I think it's because I knew- that was what I knew that could sound androgynous. 

Then I needed another androgynous-sounding voice for Barachiel but Barachiel's supposed to be soothing and calming and resonant, so I went for a lower pitch but trying to maintain the high resonance. 

Wormwood is explicitly a high, breathy, thready-sounding voice. Really it's supposed to be an unpleasant sound. 

And Holly, I feel like Holly has this deep well of exhaustion but she's trying to sound peppy about it, most of the time at least, and so kind of high-pitched and a lot of varied intonation. 

Anyway, that's my take on some of the characters in Small Miracles by Olivia Atwater.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T16:54:14Z

@enobacon Yes, well put. That's definitely a problem with them.

@glightly @cmgrowell @ascentale @kimu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T16:56:28Z

@nicole Hooray! 😁 It's definitely a book I'd recommend.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-06T17:30:47Z

@SleepyCatten Thanks! I really enjoy playing with the voices.

Also I'm not quite sure yet what voice sounds most "me" to me, so I'm trying to make opportunities to try different sounds.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-07T18:09:42Z

@SRLevine I have a card from the local library but I'm keeping my old one from PDX as long as I can because they have a much better ebook selection. And at least two others I've managed to pick up... am I becoming a library card collector?

@EverydayMoggie @RMiddleton

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-07T18:14:18Z

@ansate Aww, I double-booked myself again!

I marked off first-Sunday mornings on the calendar for the next couple of months so maybe I'll make it next time.

Hope you all have fun!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-07T23:21:22Z

Note to self: Don't rely on autosave.

(this time it's fine, it was mostly a typed-up version of something I already had on paper)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-08T01:46:10Z

Muttered to myself as I change into my fourth shirt of the day: "I'm busy making up for decades of missed opportunities for fashion mistakes, okay?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-08T02:30:54Z

Day 2 of Backups: Carrying my open laptop down the hall with an e-reader and an external hard drive precariously balanced on the keyboard, wires dangling everywhere.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-08T04:56:43Z

@wendypalmer @SRLevine @EverydayMoggie I am interested to note that despite the poll results, all four of us that I see posting about the book so far are much more prone to binge-reading. Maybe we can try a quicker schedule next time.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-08T21:25:37Z

@JoscelynTransient Answered "sometimes" because it's not always and it's not never. But I'm not sure if that's really accurate...

Pretty much the only reason I ever wish for that is #3 above (I would like to swap bodies with alternate-universe AFAB me), and if we're considering impossible things I'd much rather solve that with magical transformation technology than with not being trans. Not sure I'd want it enough to change the course of my life that brought me to this point, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-09T18:46:55Z

@Karstan Not sure about nettle and other wild fibers, but I know that as of ~5 years ago there was a linen flax cultivation project starting up in the Willamette Valley somewhere, and the processing is quite similar. I got some seed from them but haven't grown much of it. Here's their website: fibre-evolution.com/

I did a bunch of research on bast fiber growing & spinning a while back and could probably point you to more resources if you want.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-09T20:45:36Z

@Karstan Yeah. I think they were doing some classes, but it seemed like a lot of their focus was on scaling up to industrial production.

There's so little info on production, harvest, and processing of any bast fiber except for flax. Fortunately, everything I've read/heard indicates that flax, hemp, nettle, and ramie (which I think is a variety of nettle) all process pretty similarly.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-09T20:49:17Z

@Karstan @enobacon I believe ivy can be good for basket making.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-09T20:56:43Z

@Karstan Oh, yeah! I think I watched a few of her videos a while back.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-09T21:08:48Z

@floy I love it!

I generally like coats in super-bright colors, both from an aesthetic perspective and a "the drivers are trying to kill me, better take precautions" perspective, so that's where my opinion is coming from.

Still, I like the color and think it's a neat cut/style, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-10T02:33:24Z

@pqqq Ouch! Well, even the Holmeses & Marples of the world have off days, right? Glad to hear you survived regardless!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-10T02:50:16Z

@glightly Cripes, that's appallingly cryptic. I really hope it works out in your favor, one way or another.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-10T03:05:35Z

@glightly Yeah, I figured that's what the redaction was for.

I wonder if a Tenants Rights group might be able to advise?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-11T03:03:33Z

@jepyang
1) I'm also enjoying listening! I don't usually have much to say, so when I star them it means "I listened to and enjoyed this jam."

2) I hope you can do whatever you need, be it taking care of yourself or some other thing. That takes priority over jams for the internet!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-11T03:13:35Z

@miriamrobern Oh, that's lovely!

I have some necklaces I don't wear in part because I don't have long enough chains; I should try this...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-11T03:44:24Z

@glightly Yeah, I guessed you might have already investigated that but figured I'd mention anyway. Drat.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-11T04:23:40Z

@T Oh yes. Bicycle repair is at least 50% of the reason I'm not allowed to own white clothing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-11T04:26:12Z

@mel Squatter's rights, but for money?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-11T22:42:47Z

Potentially ridiculous question: I've got a small electronic device that is intended to be disposable, but it appears to contain an STM8L microcontroller, in addition to a 4x28 segment LCD and some sensors. There are exposed pads on the PCB labelled TP1-TP8 & TP13.

How possible/plausible is it to reprogram & repurpose this gadget?

Difficulty level: I have basically no experience programming microcontrollers.

I suspect it's a fool's errand and/or would require far more time and effort than I can put in, but it seems like such a waste to just discard it...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-11T23:45:06Z

@julie I had sort of guessed this, having seen their name in one or two of your photos... but it's nice to know more of the story. Thanks for the heads-up.

I was already miffed with the direction they've taken on "recommend a book for your library to purchase." This is probably the turning-point where I start asking my library what they're doing to move away from it. They do have ebooks through Hoopla as well, but it seems like a smaller collection.

Also time for me to figure out a pipeline for getting books to my ereader that is less dependent on Overdrive.

Anyway, thanks again for the post!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-11T23:47:52Z

@julie Oh, that sounds interesting. 👀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T00:50:27Z

@nina_kali_nina Thank you, that's really helpful! If I end up acquiring more of these (likely) and come up with an interesting use case (??) then it just might be worth the trouble to figure it out.

Thanks for checking it out and summarizing - it probably would have taken me a few hours to make that much sense of the datasheet. I didn't even know readout protection & erase protection were things to be concerned about.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T00:53:14Z

@projectgus Oh, wow! Thank you for the info, that's good to know!

It's nice to have a starting point if I end up pursuing it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T02:31:37Z

@nina_kali_nina Yeah, you were one of the people I was hoping might see this post, for precisely that reason. 😀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-12T03:43:22Z
I now have a quieter, more personal alt account

I've been wanting to work on being a little more emotionally open/vulnerable lately and it's difficult for me to do on this account where it feels like to whole world is watching, so I'm trying an alt: @fern

Going to keep the follow list shortish, I think? To start with, I'm pretty likely to approve follow requests from and to follow-back mutuals here if we've talked some. That goes double for trans friends.

Still planning to post the same sorts of things I have been here, though I might not be quite as active sometimes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T03:53:05Z

@betanianne Yeah, we'll see!

How's it been working for you?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T03:56:41Z

@betanianne Oh no!

I just had my second appointment after a year of on-and-off searching so, uh... I hope you have better luck than I did?!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T05:58:41Z

@betanianne Ah. I'm able to be out everywhere so that's not a consideration for me, but it's a solid reason for having an alt!

The alt that I'm using is actually one that I created when I was thinking I might... try out presenting more fem for a while, just in limited contexts, to see how it felt, but that idea didn't last long enough for me to even use the account. 😆

We'll see if it gets significantly more use this time.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T17:30:23Z

@SRLevine Okay, I read Sol Cycle! Pretty good overall, though I'd say it's only a Gold-level Bicycle Friendly Book. (Witchmark by C.L. Polk set my personal benchmark for Platinum-level.)

Took me a little while to get into it - something about the writing felt slightly stilted at first? But overall it was an enjoyable read. Plausible characters, good romantic chemistry between them, something external to their relationship to provide conflict for the plot, satisfying happily-ever-after, well-written dogs and cat.

While it's set around a bike shop, most of the plot focuses on the retail and administrative side of things. Repair happens in the background. Pretty much all the characters ride, and many of them are bike commuters, but they all seem to have come to it by way of sport cycling which, ah... does not reflect my own experience or that of most cyclists I know.

Anyway, it was a fun read and I always like seeing cyclists in my fiction, so thanks for the recommendation!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-12T17:31:00Z
a bit of a spoiler and also a bit of a cw for the book

One of the major plot points is a bike-car collision. The outcome is... optimistic? in that the driver and the authorities are all favorably disposed toward the cyclist. It's not quite implausible, but it seems like usually when I read about an IRL crash like that there's at least one person trying to blame the cyclist regardless of what happened so it seemed a bit pollyanna-ish to not have that reflected in the book.

@SRLevine

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-13T02:25:13Z

A7: I've crossed the Oregon-California border by bike a few times, but I think only once at a location where there was an ag customs check. The customs officials smiled and waved and gestured for us to keep going. 🤷‍♀️

@ascentale @MartyCormack

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-13T04:44:03Z

@bigblen That is a very nice upgrade, bout functionally and aesthetically!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-13T05:12:25Z

@amy I used to try to dual-boot, really. Always figured I'd need Windows around for something, but then I'd go a year or two with it taking up a huge chunk of drive space and when I finally tried to boot it would turn out the partition was corrupted so I don't bother any more.

But I mostly use Ubuntu, so...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-13T06:18:43Z

Hello, it's Trans Voice Friday and the prompt is "Home." I always seem to post these late in the day; I think either I'm busy during the day or I just can't think what to say. 

But I finally figured out something to say about "home" because I realized that the Fediverse feels like a home online to me in a way that no other internet community has to date. So thank you all for making this such a nice place to be. 

All right, have a good weekend!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-13T06:22:00Z

@miriamrobern Glad you made it home ok; it sounded like that trip was rather... eventful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-13T06:50:23Z

A7 cont'd. Oh right, I've done Oregon-Washington plenty of times, mostly between PDX and Vancouver, WA, but it's such a non-event that I think more about the loud car traffic and narrow bike/ped routes than about the border itself.

In fact, I commuted across there on the tandem 'bent for a month or so, often with a stoker. It's pretty pleasant around 5am when there's hardly any cars out. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T00:01:18Z

I started reading the first Dorley Hall book this morning.

Almost halfway through the first one now.

I'll probably be able to focus on other things again in a couple of days.

(I'm only slightly joking.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T00:40:23Z

@jepyang Oh, wow! That's such a contrast from the more electronic-sounding stuff you've been posting.

I think I see why you say "uncanny valley." It reminds me of a joke score I saw once back in high school band that required players to do things that were maybe theoretically feasible with their instruments, but certainly not conventional. In this case I think mostly the amount of plucking in the strings, but also some of the articulation in the brass, possibly? I can't quite put my finger on it, it's been too long since I played music and I think I've lost some ear for those details.

Anyway, that was fun to listen to!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T03:11:11Z
Minor spoilers? for Welcome to Dorley Hall

@storybead It's so good!

There is some very definite Discourse to be had re: this book, and from the titles of the sequels I'm curious how much (more) of the Discourse is going to be brought up within the text itself.

But for now I'm mostly just enjoying it as an engaging read and laughing over the banter and this ridiculous situation with Christine being (apparently) oblivious to how hard Paige is crushing on her.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T03:29:06Z

@jepyang Oh, neat! I think percussion is the section I have least awareness of usually. On re-listening, I think I might get it, though. I never played kettledrums, but the precision and... staccatoness, maybe? of those little rolls sounds like it would be hard to replicate IRL. Like they're muffled to prevent any sustain, but the timbre sounds more like an unmuffled drum? So it would have to be some kind of amazingly fast on/off with the damper to match the timing of the drumbeats. Or I'm just making stuff up, I don't know! Apparently I'm having fun trying to figure it out, though. 😀

That Shadow Percussion Project is impressive, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T05:32:56Z

@rooster@chaosfem.tw Reminds me of a friend who was turned down for a job as a delivery driver because apparently a math PhD makes you "overqualified" for that. :-/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T05:33:58Z
re: Minor spoilers? for Welcome to Dorley Hall

@storybead The mugs are so good. 🤣

I'm glad they're a recurring thing!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T05:39:00Z

@ai6yr Yeah, I was going to say you need to spend more time browsing .

Once you get into trailers and/or cargo cycles it takes surprisingly little effort to compete with cars and trucks on cargo volume, though maybe not cargo weight.

@SRLevine

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T05:44:14Z

@ai6yr I used to swear by low gears for this purpose, but e-assist is a pretty nice option too if you can make it happen. Or both!

@SRLevine

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T05:45:54Z

@mel It may not be the correct solution, but (1) it works and (2) fixing your multitool with another multitool is excellent.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T05:53:01Z

@ai6yr Oh, and when I said "surprisingly little effort" I was referring to the challenges of loading something onto a trailer and strapping it down as opposed to jigsawing it into a car. It does in fact take quite a bit more effort to do the actual hauling!

@SRLevine

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T06:22:32Z

Elastomeric respirator question:

Has anyone tried both
- a 3M 6000-series respirator with an exhale-valve filter and
- another source-control respirator (e.g. GVS Elipse, MSA Advantage 900, Dentec ComfortAir)?

I'm wondering if the 3M might have less condensation build-up than others because your exhale and some of the associated moisture maybe gets trapped on the far side of the valve.

I don't like the look of the 3M design, but if they keep condensation down more and the inhale filters drier then it's a worthwhile tradeoff.

Can anyone answer from experience?


:boost_ok:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T06:23:04Z
re: Minor spoilers? for Welcome to Dorley Hall

@storybead Wait, really? Oh, now I'm looking forward to it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T06:27:16Z

@psiie Nope.

I know I don't reply much, but I'm over here quietly reading and as far as I can tell you're quite good. [some kind of smile and/or heart emoji goes here, but I'm barely emoji-literate and can't figure out which one]

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T06:53:17Z

The more I read this, the more I see allegory here. Just... wow.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T07:12:41Z

@psiie I was a little late for IRC so I spent a lot of time on AIM, MSN, and the like, but I never even got to be very familiar with emoticons!

I did hate when chat clients started automatically converting them to emojis because :-) reads to me differently than 😃​. I mostly use emojis on here when I can figure out the right one because I guess they parse better for screenreaders.

But! Also! I think this may be the first time someone has addressed me as "Giiirl" and I believe the correct emoji for my response to that is 🥰​, so thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T19:50:30Z

@EricCarroll Good to know about the sponge trick, thanks!

Even though nobody else seems to care, I'm going to continue wearing source controlled.

Right now, I'm really only interested in how the 3M approach of filtering after the exhale valve compares with other companies' approach of just not having an exhale valve.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T19:50:56Z

@EricCarroll Incidentally - I got a GVS Elipse with source control recently, then discovered that there was a manufacturing defect where one of the filters fits into the facepiece that was occasionally leaking. I contacted GVS and they haven't responded, so I'm definitely not buying from them again.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-14T20:22:17Z

@psiie Yeah... I have some standard emojis already.

On reflection, I think the problem is less to do with emoji and more to do with having difficulty expressing care, affection, sympathy, and a bunch of associated emotions, whether in text or in emoji. I can usually find emoji for the happy/excited/enthusiastic range of feelings and 🤷‍♀️ and 😑 and whatnot just fine. It's the squishy feelings stuff that I'm not as comfortable with.

I actually revamped an old alt the other day with the intent of practicing that sort of thing, but I think I might just end up integrating it directly into this account's persona. I'm apparently pretty bad at compartmentalizing!

Er, that shifted topic a little, sorry... 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T20:27:51Z

I woke up this morning with the realization, left over from an otherwise-forgotten dream, that my baseline level of dysphoria is significantly higher than I tend to think. I'm just not in the habit of acknowledging it or connecting it to gender stuff.

My first reaction was along the lines of "Oh no, more dysphoria!" but after thinking a bit I concluded that it's good: It means there's more room for things to improve than I had previously realized.

On a related note: I might veer much further femme-wards (by my not-particularly-femme standards) in the near future. We'll see!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-14T21:31:16Z

@pqqq :heart_trans:​ :sparkling_trans_heart:​ :heart_trans:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T00:13:45Z

@getalifemike As a rider of very unusual cycles (but not usually unicycles) I've seen pretty much the same thing.

I was disappointed by the degree of bioessentialism presumed in the write-up. I won't debate androgen-induced aggression as a likely component; I've encountered enough indication of the existence of that phenomenon anecdotally and personally that seems to corroborate it. But I was disappointed to see a relative paucity of discussion regarding power, privilege, cultural norms, and societal expectations, most of which was sidelined into "Miscellaneous Observations." Instead the author discussed at some length the - uncited, so I presume anecdotal - "great male-female divide in humour" which I would suggest has as much to do with privilege and social position as with any biological difference.

I was quite amused by "direct endocrine confirmation would require studies not available to a unicyclist," though. I would definitely rather my phlebotomist not draw my blood while unicycling! 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T00:20:58Z

@ansate Yay! Welcome! I'm behind (still at Act II); I got sidetracked reading other things because I was trying not to get ahead of schedule. Whoops!

Off the top of my head, @wendypalmer @SRLevine and @EverydayMoggie may have all finished it by now? They had a thread going for a while but I wasn't following it because I hadn't caught up. Soon!

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T00:44:46Z

@SRLevine 🤣 Now I want to know what everyone else is reading when they aren't reading *Even Though*.

Book Club Side-Reading Club!?

I love the Paladin series! I just re-read Grace a bit ago after the most recent one came out and I still think it's so cool how Kingfisher dives into the smell-based descriptions when writing from Graces' POV.

Haven't read I Contain Multitudes, but it sounds interesting and I know someone who I'll probably recommend it to.

I've only read the first one or two October Daye books, but I am an avid reader of the InCryptid series. I'll probably get back to Daye eventually.

Right now I'm tearing through the Dorley Hall books. Based on their descriptions I was afraid they would be super cringe-y but they are instead turning out to be Extreme Gender Allegory; going to have more thoughts to post on that soon in a different thread.

@ansate @wendypalmer @EverydayMoggie @queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T01:56:18Z

@SRLevine Oh hey, I didn't even know you had boosted it! I usually browse the timeline with boosts off otherwise I end up overwhelmed.

@getalifemike Right, yes, I got too caught up in thinking about the paper and forgot you had already made the point about toxic masculinity. 🤦‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T02:05:07Z
re: electrolysis

@salad_bar_breath Congratulations on your improved technique!

(Yeah, sorry, I'm more inclined to trust @sofia@toot.site than your frequently self-deprecating self on this. <3)

Also, wait, are you both learning to do electrolysis? I thought I saw that Sofia was, but you too?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-15T02:16:58Z

@mel (1) The more you post about this book the more I want to read it. I am finally going to dump the existing chapters onto my ereader so I might actually get to it sometime! (I have too many things I want to read, though. We'll see how it goes.)

(2) Oh gosh yes it would be so nice to be able to talk to one's characters sometimes, except for the part where one has to apologize for all that character development.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-15T02:22:42Z

@mel Oh, thanks! I have no familiarity with Evangelion but that's a nifty concept.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-15T02:28:56Z

@mel No worries! I just used a browser plugin that epub-ifys HTML. It means I got a separate file for each chapter, but 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-15T02:30:04Z

@mel Oh, that's an elegant solution!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-15T02:37:18Z

@rooster@chaosfem.tw I initially misread "savory" as "scary" and was a little confused.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-15T03:44:23Z

Dear ,

You have been invading my timeline, more of you every week. It's fantastic!

I know almost nothing about these movies y'all watch but I love it! Keep up the good work.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T05:00:33Z

This might be of interest to @PrideRadioGroup & @KJ7OMO (among others)

@iris

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T05:50:06Z

Okay, I want to say more about the allegorical aspect, but first: Greaves actually brings up a concept that sounds very much like cassgender! I was hoping something like that might come into play.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T06:22:38Z
Dorley Hall; are allegorical spoilers a thing? if so this contains some; abstract discussion of cis-normative violence at the societal scale; also the premise of these books involves forced feminization and that's part of what I'm talking about here

"Assigned Female At Basement" (paraphrased, not an exact quote)

I love that joke because it so blatantly spotlights the parallel between the basement of Dorley Hall and... the entirety of cis-normative society. If your gender is assigned without your consent and you are coerced - by everyone around you, with social pressure and sometimes physical violence - into performing that assigned gender, how different is it when it happens in the basement of an old dorm vs. when it happens in society at large? If we condemn Dorley's methods, how can we accept those of cis-normative society?

That's the big allegory I see here, and I love how Greaves handles it. Because a lot of authors, if they decided to write an allegory about how cis-normative society is kinda equivalent to a (mostly polite and well-intentioned) force-feminizing torture basement, would end up writing something pretty dark and serious. Like, I see distinct echoes of Octavia Butler here (e.g. neither Stef nor Lilith have any truly good choices available to them) but Dorley reads much, much lighter to me. Not that it isn't taking these issues seriously, but it's surrounding them with cute romance stories and mugs emblazoned with hilariously absurd slogans. It's overall vibe is often not dissimilar to a romance novel.

It reminds me a bit of Pratchett, actually. It isn't satire, it isn't fantasy, and the humor never veers into slapstick, but... Taking a big, heavy topic that's important in society at large, dressing it up in a slightly absurd allegory, and surrounding it with things that make the reader laugh and smile and want to keep reading? That takes some serious writer-ly skill, I think.

I kind of think these should be on the syllabus of some literature class somewhere. And I'd really like to see what else is on that syllabus!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T06:43:50Z

@miriamrobern Well, of course!

Not sure which unit to assign it for, though. Unreliable narrators? That's kind of a narrow topic. Maybe I'll have to re-read it soon, see where else it could fit. 😀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T07:21:45Z

@miriamrobern I mean, @Impossible_PhD did kind of give a whole presentation on how people should be teaching trans stories, right?

stainedglasswoman.substack.com

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-15T18:10:01Z

@pqqq Oof, that's a really hard conversation to have with someone in that situation.

Good luck! I hope it goes well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T18:17:33Z

@Impossible_PhD Okay, that's true. I hadn't read the whole thing in a while.

It's just that the part that sticks in my head is the Classroom Applications section at the end which is not quite prescriptive but makes a compelling case for teaching trans stories stories.

Which reminds me, there's someone I've been meaning to send that link to...

@miriamrobern

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-15T23:33:47Z

@cassey Nice list! Bookmarking that so I can refer people to it in the future.

I have a Bikes at Work and love it.

Note that the Surly trailers are sold without a hitch. The hitch assembly costs another $325 and is somewhat less universal than the various B@W hitches. (Yes, okay, I'm a bit of a B@W fangirl. They're amazing trailers!)

I think there are a number of others similar to the Burley Flatbed - smaller cargo trailers with a load rating of around 100lbs.

I've seen some other heavy-duty trailers by smaller makers, I think, but can't remember any names off the top of my head.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-16T03:06:57Z

@pqqq Wow! That is a pretty good outcome, all things considered. It sounds like you did a really good job raising the topic and framing the conversation. Well done.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-16T03:47:28Z

A skirt that requires endless patching so it never feels like it'll be fully repaired and is gradually becoming more patch than skirt...

...was made by the child of Sisyphus and Theseus.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-16T03:53:35Z

@IsobelLynn Glad it's getting better! Hope you get more variety soon?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-16T19:12:48Z
re: Still Super Ace: Observations and Analysis

@Lucia 👋 I think I'm grey-ace, not super ace, but... yeah, there's a lot of very allo content around here.

Off the top of my head, I'm pretty sure I know of at least two other trans folks here who have mentioned being on the ace spectrum?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-17T06:03:55Z

@varve Not where I originally found it, but apparently Greaves actually put (is putting? I'm not sure if it's finished) it up chapter-by-chapter on AO3 and published chunks as ebooks later. So you can find the whole thing here: archiveofourown.org/works/3539

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-17T18:56:50Z
grumpy; venting; internet arguments; maybe do not open if you are a fan of girl scout cookies

Ugh. Internet People are conflating girl scout cookies with trans rights (again?).

Yes, GSUSA is trans-inclusive.

No, that does not mean their cookies are perfect in every way.

Yes, you can still buy girl scout cookies. Yes, buying girl scout cookies from trans kids is a way to support trans kids.

No, it does not mean anyone who criticizes girl scout cookies or GSUSA is transphobic.

I can't run on indignation very long; now I'm just vaguely frustrated and tired of it.

(edited for more accurate wording)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-18T02:01:27Z

@mel This is a reminder to do this stuff, if you haven't already.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-18T03:20:43Z

I may have spent too much time on Mastodon lately: I just tried to ⭐ a recent XKCD.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-18T04:29:40Z
re: Minor spoilers? for Welcome to Dorley Hall

@storybead Aww, I finally got to the backstory on the mugs today (or last night? all the Dorley is starting to blur together). That's lovely!

Also, WOW this is long. I did not realize at the beginning quite how much book I was signing up for. And I know at some point I'm going to want to re-read it and it'll be even longer. Yikes!

I see now how right you are about the way Greaves picks everything apart and analyzes it. Now, every time she introduces some new twist, I'm looking forward to the ethical nuance it's going to add as much as I'm looking forward to the resolution of the plot arc.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-18T04:43:55Z
re: Minor spoilers? for Welcome to Dorley Hall

@storybead Yeah, I saw your post about it earlier and thought, "Oh, maybe by this evening I'll be caught up and I can respond to that," but no... probably not happening tonight.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-18T06:21:07Z

Pretty sure I backed everything up to external drives.

New ISO has been written to USB.

Time to shut this laptop down, and if all goes well the next time I log in it will be to a fresh install on a new (larger) SSD.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-18T06:31:53Z

Or not. Turns out M.2 NVME SSDs come in different *thicknesses* in addition to all the other things about them that can vary.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-18T07:02:56Z

@Anibyl Nope! Not in this laptop. But if I can't return it I can probably at least use it to replace my biggest, oldest, and most worrisome external drive.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-18T23:50:50Z

@EveOfTheFuture Given the context, I don't think KJB means King James Bible here... but I'm not sure what it does mean?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-18T23:58:33Z

@nicole Ooh, right, thanks for the reminder. I think that's the case for mine too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-19T01:04:41Z
re: Post Therapy Thoughts

@zoey I'm getting teary over hear. You express this so eloquently; thank you.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-19T01:08:27Z

@mel Yes! Years ago I switched from cargo pants to vests with lots of pockets. Now I usually carry a purse. But I've seen a few belts with a bunch of built-in pouches and they look really nice and really convenient...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-19T16:01:06Z

@EveOfTheFuture Ah! That makes a lot more sense.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T02:16:23Z

A2. I mostly ride a cargo trike and carry really a lot of stuff on it.

- Extensive first aid / emergency kit, separated into "after crash" stuff like bandages, splints, snacks, and disinfectant, and "other stuff" like benadryl, backpacking water filter, and... I don't know what else? The kit is a bit eclectic because I tend to add things either as I find them or as I discover a need for them. I used to carry a mylar blanket but used it when touring several times and it doesn't pack down very small now. Really ought to replace that.
- Enough tools that I could almost completely dismantle and rebuild the trike
- A dedicated electrical kit for e-bike and lighting issues
- Spare nuts, bolts, and other small parts
- Extra raincoat in case I get caught out without one

And that's on top of whatever else I drop in the trunk and then forget about. Every few months I clean it out and it's invariably a mess.

@ascentale @ClimateJenny

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T02:24:17Z

A5. I mostly get bikes and components secondhand, and I've DIYed several frames over the years, so I don't have a ton of experience with companies...

...but Grin Tech has been absolutely fantastic for e-bike components. They're DIY-focused so not ideal for someone who wants to just ride. For a DIYer, though, they make things that are hard to get otherwise (hub motors with regen, configurable controller systems) and very DIY-friendly (using commonly available connectors, publishing specifications, actively supporting people who want to modify their products or use them in non-standard ways).

Also the warranty/returns side of things was remarkably good when I had components fail during a multi-month trip and needed replacements on the road.

@ascentale @glightly

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T02:28:43Z

@PurpleStephyr Welcome back! Also: Sounding good!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T04:34:17Z

@you_jo_girl Yeah, your voice reads feminine to me. It sounds to my non-expert ear like your resonance is pretty high/forward.

Nice clock, too!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T04:48:21Z

@miriamrobern @12 I'd say ambiguous-to-feminine, just as a gut reaction?

Analytically, I noticed occasional drops into a darker resonance as well.

Something caught my ear about the inflection (?) when you were listing living situations and it registered as feminine in a way that surprised me... re-listening, I think it might almost sound a little bit "valley girl"-ish and I didn't make the connection at first because I'm used to hearing that at much higher pitch. Not sure, though. (Generally I'd place your accent somewhere in the US, but I'm not much good with accents.)

@EveOfTheFuture @you_jo_girl

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-20T04:52:56Z

@ohellofedefo Wow, I like your singing voice!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T04:55:10Z

@miriamrobern These days it's a toss-up whether I take "y'all" to indicate southern-ness or someone very intentionally substituting it as a non-gendered alternative to "you guys".

@12 @EveOfTheFuture @you_jo_girl

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-20T05:48:45Z

Well, I'm not overly pleased with how I sound (or the content of what I had to say, for that matter) this but I'm posting it anyway.

As a few other people have said this week: Feedback, critique, and analysis from folks with knowledge or experience about transfem voice training is much appreciated!

Happy Trans Voice Friday! Um... I just had my last voice training session for a coupla months this morning and my SLP pointed out that I tend to drop my resonance when I'm thinking about something, which is absolutely correct and I'm probably doing it as I talk right now. I just deleted two recordings that I didn't like because of it. [laughing]

This week's topic is justice. I really ought to have something to say on this, having just finished reading the Dorley hall book... series? I dunno, 700,000 words of allegory and musing and... gosh, there's just too much there to summarize in a minute or two. 

Anyway, hope you all have a good weekend! Bye!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-20T05:56:04Z

@DelilahTech Oh, nice! My hold just came in from the library. I've got a couple other things to read first, but I'm looking forward to it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-20T06:10:28Z

Too many good books!

I'm reading Show Girl by Alyson Greaves because I finally got to the (current) end of Dorley Hall and I may have some slight completionist tendencies at times. Also Girl Alex has a minor role in Dorley, so I wanted to read it with that fresh in my mind.

I need to catch up on Even Though I Knew the End for book club because I'm way behind and I want to get in on the discussion!

And I just got multiple holds in from the library:
- Whispering Wood, the latest Elemental Blessings book by Sharon Shinn (It's been a while since I read this series, so I might want to go back through the earlier books first.)
- Bookshops and Bonedust by Travis Baldree as both ebook and audiobook, so I'll probably end up listening to it while cleaning or something

Too many good books... must resist the urge to stay up all night reading...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T06:12:45Z

@Lizbon Wow, that looks intense! I know a few folks with Raynaud's, though, and I see how that would be really useful. It looks very nice with the two colors. Is it knit straight from one end to the other, or is there some kind of join in the middle?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T06:19:18Z

@Lizbon Oh, interesting! I recognize the term "provisional cast on" but I think I'll put off learning more until I need it for something. But now I have some idea what it's for, so thank you for explaining!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-20T06:19:36Z

@Lizbon Oh, neat! That sounds like a good trick.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-21T04:39:37Z

Ha! I got through Show Girl (too straight for my preference, but a very amusing coming-of-egg story) and then finished Even Though I Knew the End. Time to go revisit all the posts...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-21T04:48:36Z

@exelia_antonov Yeah, I suspect you might enjoy it.

It's not To Own the Libs level of oblivious egginess, but that's an absurdly high bar anyway.

And, uh, very straight. Which is not something I've encountered so much in trans fiction, but perhaps that's just because I entered the genre by way of sapphic romance.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-21T04:51:28Z

@pqqq I mean, it's the trans equivalent of a bildungsroman, right?

A journey of self-discovery and personal growth, at the end of which it's like the main character is a new person.

😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-21T05:07:43Z
re: Queer Romance Club January read — spoilers Act 3-5 yep I couldn’t wait 😊

Yeah, the entire magic system was kind of a black box to me in this one. There just wasn't enough of it for me to get a feel for what was/wasn't possible and for whom, but they did feel different...

Like, Helen's the quirky self-taught DIYer with a "whatever works" attitude, in contrast to the very structured Brotherhood. (I favor Helen's approach to things.)

I particularly liked how Marlow was so much more comfortable and fluent in human society than Haraniel. It seems like they have not-dissimilar powers, but Haraniel is often a awkward about it. Teleporting without consent, just flushing all the toxins out of Helen's system, always a bit high-handed about it, as if they believe they know better or just aren't used to thinking about other people's preferences.

@EverydayMoggie @wendypalmer
@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-21T23:15:44Z
dispirited, loneliness, fretting

Lately I'm feeling like a puzzle piece that doesn't fit quite right anywhere. There are things about me - not driving, continuing to be cautious about covid, being trans, not being on mainstream social media, etc. - that might individually not be issues. But each one adds another set of convolutions to my edges that makes it more difficult to fit into the society around me.

I used to feel like I could adapt reasonably well to different social situations, even when I didn't necessarily have a lot in common with people. These days, it seems like that ability is gone. Not because I don't want to or because I am unwilling to interact with people who don't resemble me, but because the actions required to fit in are incompatible with my values and priorities.

Anyway, that's been on my mind lately.

(The opportunity to use "convolutions" in a sentence is not the *reason* I posted this but it may be a bonus.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-21T23:33:43Z

Me: *files name chance petition with the county Superior Court*

Superior Court: "Sure! Petition approved!"

[9 months pass]

Superior Court: "Dear Oldname, please come to jury duty."

Me: 🤦‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T02:21:02Z
re: dispirited, loneliness, fretting

@salad_bar_breath Ah yes, I remember Rayne: The Musical Episode.

Currently I appreciate hearing that other people relate. (Also, it's helpful for me to see examples of because it is a form of communication that I'm usually kind of bad/awkward at.)

And I guess it's particularly relevant when a big part of what I'm having trouble with is loneliness. Other people saying they relate helps me feel a little less alone.

So, thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T02:24:50Z
re: dispirited, loneliness, fretting

@twistylittlepassages Thanks!

It's been on my mind a lot lately, this and the related challenge of balancing acceptance-of-what-is with striving-for-what-should-be.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-22T02:37:26Z
re: dispirited, loneliness, fretting

@pqqq Thanks. <3

I've seen you posting about all this, too. Most of the time I don't know what to say in reply, but... yeah.

I would *really* like to be walking distance from you and a handful of other people on fedi.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T02:38:18Z

@SRLevine Why would you pay more to *not* get it in hi-vis?

Also, A+ repurposing!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T02:43:47Z
re: King Kong vs. Godzilla (1962) night

@pqqq You have to eat your vegetables, Godzilla!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T03:35:37Z
re: dispirited, loneliness, fretting

@twistylittlepassages @salad_bar_breath @pqqq @mel @jepyang

Just want to say thank you (again, where applicable) to all of you, and virtual hugs all 'round to anyone who wants them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-22T03:39:33Z
re: silly things I’m proud of myself for today

@bluestocking Aw, that's lovely! That's some good neighboring.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T04:46:54Z
re: dispirited, loneliness, fretting; now with cliché overload

I've always been inclined to march to the beat of my own drum, try to blaze new trails, take the path less traveled, and such. It's just that... now, more than ever before, I'm feeling burnt out and realizing that (ahem) it takes a village.

I am so glad I found fedi when I did, because you all are precisely the community I need right now. Even if you're too far away and only available via screens.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T04:52:09Z
re: dispirited, loneliness, fretting

@salad_bar_breath Thanks! 💜

And same in return, for all that I rarely know what to say. :wry_smile_emoji_does_not_exist: (trying to work on that, though)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T04:54:29Z

@salad_bar_breath Also I like the new screen name!

I am imagining you sepia-toned, in a fedora, with a slightly ominous jazz soundtrack.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-22T05:08:22Z

@mel Thanks!

Odds that I'll take you up on it are low, due to social awkwardness/anxiety, but I do appreciate the offer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T05:29:27Z

@glightly It's been a heck of a rough time for human connection these last few years.

For what it's worth, I'm really glad you're here on fedi. I said in another thread that there are some people on here I'd really like to have as neighbors IRL, and you're definitely one of them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T06:08:50Z
re: unfocused melancholia about social media and "friendships"

@tamsinsays All this has been on my mind as well. I saw the cw text and bookmarked it to come back to when I had some time... and meanwhile posted something tangentially related.

@storybead - I think you're spot on saying that social media's design often favors many casual friends instead of a few close ones.

I've been trying to figure out how to focus on a few deeper connections instead of many shallower connections and it feels like the architecture of Mastodon and the Fediverse at large is kind of antithetical to that goal sometimes.

I could prune my follows, but followers-only threads end up broken so badly as to be unreadable whenever someone I don't follow gets involved. I tried to use an alt, but (1) then everything is doubled, and I have to switch back and forth between two browser tabs and (2) I'd just end up following the entirety of trans fedi so I could keep up with the followers-only threads.

Even just better list functionality would help, so it would be possible to choose whether I get the firehose or the tap. But it seems you can't hide boosts in a list the way you can in the home feed, and I often get overwhelmed by boosts.

Anyway... It seems like we're trying to make friends in spite of the medium. It's pretty frustrating.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T06:15:14Z

@jepyang "rawr" indeed! 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-22T16:28:58Z
re: serious posting for a second about ADHD

@terraboops Oh, goodness, there's a term for it. That... makes a lot of sense. Thanks. Looks like I've got some reading to do.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T16:48:36Z

@jepyang Beautifully bodged!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T17:53:23Z

@Fiona What type of DIY breast forms? I wear Knitted Knockers pretty much all my waking hours these days; they are remarkably comfy.

I haven't had issues with "faking it" thoughts myself, I think because I watched a ton of historical costuming videos on youtube for a while and those folks talk a lot about the (european) history of relying on padding to get the "correct" silhouette. If they can do it, then so can I!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T18:30:30Z

@mzedp Neither my Spanish nor my ability to parse lyrics is quite up to this, but I like what I understand so far. And I enjoy the music, and the video. I'm definitely going to look up the lyrics and re-listen later. Thanks for sharing it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T20:22:30Z

@Fiona Oh, neat! Similar shape to the KKs, but sewn instead of knitted.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T20:35:18Z

@Willow Oof, yeah. Too often nonprofits just expect you to work more for lower pay "because of the mission."

That said, it's really nice to work toward a mission other than just "make money."

@rooster@chaosfem.tw

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-22T20:46:24Z

@Willow Heh. I'm mostly only familiar with nonprofits that are way too small to have a C-Suite. But yes, it is absurd. And... okay, I could go on, but I'm not going to right now.

Non-profits (and for-profits that are actually mission-driven, especially smaller ones) may be imperfect, but they're still pretty great.

@rooster@chaosfem.tw

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-23T02:56:59Z

@mel Too far for the solartrike to travel in 24hrs, much to my dismay. Even in optimal conditions CA->GA would take like 2 months. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-23T03:01:39Z

@Packbat @Hearth Schoolchildren wear glasses, carry books, and... have beards?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-23T03:34:54Z

@Packbat Ack, sorry, yes, I am familiar with the comic and was trying to riff off of what you and @Hearth were saying.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-23T19:08:54Z

@forestine @jepyang IGHs are so wonderful.

It didn't factor into my naming decision, exactly, but I was pretty pleased to end up with the initials AW.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-23T19:13:16Z

@jepyang @forestine Having now broken 2 different shifters for a Shimano Alfine 8, I would really love something more like the old metal S-A shifters (but with standard cables).

(Caveat: my shifter is mounted in a vulnerable spot - under-seat bars on a recumbent - so it gets bashed more than the designers intended.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-23T20:51:20Z

@jepyang @forestine I love those exploded diagrams. They are both good-looking and extremely useful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-23T20:52:18Z

@mel ...why the solid waste authority?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-23T20:54:59Z

@mel Oh, of cour... no, wait, that only raises more questions.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-23T21:01:05Z

@mel Huh. Okay, that's fairly reasonable.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-23T21:07:57Z

@mel Yeah, probably a good thing to not do.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-23T22:44:25Z

@EverBeyondReach other = whatever monsterdon is watching this week.

@EveOfTheFuture

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-24T03:06:34Z

Sometimes the solar trike inspires really lovely conversations.

This afternoon someone in her late 70s stopped to ask me about it because, while she's still pretty active, she isn't sure how much longer she will be able to drive. Apparently she's been keeping an eye out for vehicles - like my trike - that might give her options for mobility as she ages and allow her to carry her dog. (Also, she lives in a neighborhood that I'm pretty sure has negligible transit service.)

She said that she's pretty handy - has fixed cars and whatnot - but building something like my trike was probably a bit beyond her. She also took a photo, and half-jokingly said she would go tell her husband, "I want one of these!" and see how he reacted. 😆

This is why I want to see the cycling industry/community expand beyond a standard 🚲 shape. Different cycles serve different purposes and different people.

We need more cargo cycles, more trikes, more recumbents, more adaptive cycles of all sorts, and the infrastructure to accommodate all of them safely so more people have the option to ride if and when they want to.

(When I started writing this I was aiming for "sweet story" but at some point I seem to have hopped up onto my soapbox. Oh well?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-24T07:29:34Z

Also, clarifications/disclaimers:

(1) Non-standard bikes aren't just for people who are unable to ride the usual upright diamond-frame 🚲.

All sorts of bikes can be fun and functional and worth riding. People riding a variety of bikes shifts the overton window away from "bikes all look like 🚲," which is something that a lot of manufacturers and policymakers and cyclists don't seem to have caught up with yet. (And no, individual action isn't the only way to shift the overton window on this.)

(2) More variety in cycles is not a general solution to ableism. There is a heck of a lot else we need to do, both in the world at large and specifically among the cycling community.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-24T07:31:41Z

@mel See: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1106596

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-24T07:39:02Z

@mel *sends virtual hugs*

Still on version 1 and reading primarily for enjoyment so I don't have any constructive criticism.

Also, that's an excellent rate of return on hugs. It hadn't occurred to me before, but hugging authors is very efficient.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-24T18:08:47Z

@bikescape There are a number of small companies that have sold cargo trikes at various times. I don't think any of these are still operating, but you might be able to find their products secondhand. The first two are recumbents but otherwise similar:
- the Center for Appropriate Transport / Human Powered Machines (the Tri-Hauler)
- Organic Engines (the Triclops)
- Stites Design (the Truck Trike)

You might look at companies that sell pedicabs?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-24T21:27:39Z

I have more notes for some of my secondary characters than I do for one of the main characters. Going to have to do some backstory development.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-24T22:00:25Z

@pretensesoup Olivia Atwater? I know her regency fantasy romance series (starts with Half a Soul) is on Overdrive as audiobooks, and the third book is sapphic. (The rest are straight, iirc, but generally have great female MCs.) Also her standalone Small Miracles is contemporary urban fantasy-ish romance with a protagonist who is effectively genderfluid.

Erica Ridley's The Perks of Loving a Wallflower is also sapphic regency-ish romance and has a genderfluid protagonist, and part of an otherwise straight (I think) series. (Yes, there are some trends in my reading habits.)

Broken Wings by L-J Baker is a lovely urban-ish fantasy sapphic romance, but I don't think there's an audiobook. 😦

If you're up for small-town witches, Lana Harper's Thistle Grove books (starting with Payback's a Witch) are quite good and quite queer and the audiobooks are on Overdrive.

Those seem like the best fits I can think of at the moment. I'm curious to see what other recs you get!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-24T22:25:49Z

@pqqq Heck yes! Congratulations on vanquishing the dish monster!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-24T23:33:01Z

@EverydayMoggie Yes! I've been meaning to put out a nominations post; thank you for the reminder. Without further ado...

Queer Romance Book Club: Nominate a Book for February

February is Black History Month in Canada and the US. Do absolutely nominate Black authors all the rest of the year, too... but we're not featuring a white author this month. Apart from that, any romance novel by/about LGBTQIA+ folks is welcome.

Reply with your nomination and I'll post a poll in ~24hrs with (up to) 8 books semi-randomly chosen from the nominations, because octodon.social allows up to 8 options in polls. The poll will be open for 24 hours, which leaves a little bit of time for people to acquire the book.

If you want to nominate multiple books, please list your top choice first. I'll aim to get everyone's top choice into the poll before delving lower on the lists.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-25T00:55:31Z
re: job hunting +

@salad_bar_breath Congratulations!

Also, I can see you being a good tutor. Are you going to be focusing on any particular subjects?

Anyway, I hope it goes well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T02:16:05Z

re-write is progressing!

I'm treating the outcome of November's writing as a premeditated freewrite, so today I've been working through and dissecting it into plot points, along with notes on characters, relationships, and settings. I'm about 1/3 done with this step, I think.

Next step is going to be restructuring the plot. There are some events that need to happen in a different order and the whole thing should be stretched out to cover months instead of days. Also it's set around a community garden, so I have to line it up with planting & harvest calendars and tie those into the plot at the correct times. I tried to wing the planting schedule in the original and that did not work.

I'll also be trying to expand several characters' backstories, personalities, etc., including going back and doing some research I kinda skipped over before. Maybe also doing some focused freewrites to get into characters' heads better.

Future April will be responsible for re-integrating all of that into a cohesive manuscript somehow. (Sorry, Future April!)

Disclaimer: I have no clue what I'm doing here. This is the furthest I've ever gotten in revising fiction, and by far the biggest and most ambitious piece of fiction I've attempted to revise. None of the above should be misconstrued as advice!

So far, though, it's been fun! And re-reading hasn't been painful yet. I still enjoy large swaths of the existing prose, which is more than I can say for some of my old NaNo projects.

Several large sheets of paper layered on top of each other, with handwriting in green pen. The two at the top left have Chapter [Number] headings down the side with bulleted lists under each heading. The one at the bottom right has a mind map with character names as the largest nodes. 

Sitting on top of it all are two piles of 8.5x11 paper with typing, a tidy pile with the heading "Chapter 13: Lily" on the top sheet and a messy pile with the heading "Chapter 1: Lily in the Garden" at the top of the top sheet. 

Background is a wood floor.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T02:29:30Z

@min Glad to know you're prepared, because I'm definitely inviting you to do writing sprints next time I'm actually in a words-generating phase.

Incidentally: Be glad I don't paint my nails, or I'd invite you to paint nails at the same time as me to make "No 💅" a more baffling response.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T02:30:31Z

@min Me either!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T02:34:18Z

@min Technology fail win?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-25T02:40:27Z

@shauna Thanks!

I gave up on a few writing projects ~15 years ago as well when I started trying to revise them. I think back then I was overwhelmed by the scope of the task; since then I've learned that I need to break it all down a lot further if I want to fix things properly. I think this time will go better!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T02:43:25Z

@min Eh, just unpolished. I for one could do with a bit less perfectionism than usual.

(yes, my train of thought may have switched tracks here)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T02:47:36Z

@min Compare myself to you to feel better? No.

Learn a few things from you? Yes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T02:53:06Z

@min That sounds like a very, very unfortunate incident. It doesn't make you flawed.

And. *ahem*

Whose book inspired me to get to work on this revision project?

*friendly glare*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T03:03:14Z

@min I'll keep that in mind.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T03:03:31Z

@min Absolutely!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-25T04:15:35Z

@ai6yr Nothing wrong with using penetrant when removing a stuck part. Or extra leverage, or any other tools & techniques that work. As long as you get the part out without breaking anything important or hurting yourself, it's a win.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T04:21:50Z

@pqqq Ooh, which ones?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-25T04:42:33Z

@pqqq Huh. I don't think I ever read those.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-25T16:38:15Z

@enobacon I'm pretty sure that's not a Stites in the photo; it doesn't have the distinctive front-wheel-drive system.

@bikescape, I guess that means you could ask b-line who they get their trikes from?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-26T02:55:34Z

@glightly Glad to hear you're going to get the quad back!

That whole situation with ti-trikes sounds awful; I'm sorry they've put you through that.

Glad Laid Back Cycles has been good, though! They seem like a fairly big name in the US 'bent community, and it's good to hear they're a shop worth recommending.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-26T03:38:03Z

@pqqq That right there is some very good self-awareness.

I'm also working on some of this (e.g. "feelings can't be helped but productivity can" and being open & honest about some more difficult things). So... solidarity? And <3.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-26T05:00:47Z

@deadofwinter That is a nice-looking blazer!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-26T05:02:47Z
re: multitools

@mel Well, I guess I know what I'll be getting if I ever lose my leatherman.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-26T06:02:46Z
re: multitools

@mel Rebar!

Yes, I am very basic in this regard. 😁

But I also quite like it. My two previous ones were a Super Tool and an older one that in retrospect was probably a PST. The Rebar has the Super Tool's functionality/versatility without being so heavy.

(I lost one of the previous ones to airport security and the other when I took it off my belt for a dance class and forgot to reclaim it before leaving.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-26T06:05:31Z

@iliana 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-26T06:08:53Z
re: multitools

@mel I still miss the elegant simplicity of the PST sometimes. Then I remember the lack of blade-locks and feel grateful for technological progress.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-26T19:24:00Z
Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

Okay, I need some outside opinions on the following:

My partner and I use they/them pronouns to refer to our dog. We ask other people to use they/them pronouns for the dog too. Our rationale is (1) you can't ask the dog their pronouns and (2) it helps normalize the use of singular "they."

A cis friend recently said that she didn't want to do that because (if I understand correctly) she (1) is worried that it's asking too much of her cis friends who already have a hard time using they/them pronouns for people and (2) she is concerned it's... disrespectful, I think? or cheapening nonbinary peoples' claim to they/them pronouns?

I'm pretty sure this is clueless cis/binary-normativity on her part, and a desire to prioritize the comfort of her cis friends, but wanted to check and make sure I'm not way off-base here.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-26T19:25:12Z
dog tax; eye contact with a dog

🖼

Photo of a small orange-ish and white dog with long hair and big ears staring at the camera from close range.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-27T00:17:59Z
re: Spoilers for Act 1, Polk Even though I knew the end

@Sini74 Welcome to the book club!

I don't have the book handy and I was going to guess that it's set in the 1930s, but then checked the wikipedia page and apparently it's 1941.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:04:37Z

Thank you everyone for the replies!

It's good to hear I wasn't wildly off track, and several people made some helpful points that I might incorporate when I follow up with the friend. (The friend is, thankfully, interested in further discussion and pretty willing to be open-minded about this.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:07:13Z
re: Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

@younata Yeah, I asked her already if she had an issue with using "he" or "she" for dogs and she didn't, so that's a line of reasoning I fully intend to poke at.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:08:29Z
re: Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

@varve Thanks for bringing up bioessentialism! I hadn't quite put my finger on that as a factor, but you're right.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:17:22Z
re: Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

@salad_bar_breath Oh, that's a good point about the historical aspect.

And yeah, it's all bound up in speciesism too. I don't know that I'm going to try explaining that to this friend right now... that may be a conversation for a different year.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:18:18Z
re: Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

@SRLevine I didn't know that about birders using ee/eir, that's cool!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:22:29Z
re: Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

@jepyang Thanks!

It probably did come off a little odd back when we usually presented as a cishet couple. (Not that we haven't always been a little gender-non-conforming, but you used to have to look closer to see it.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:34:46Z
re: Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

@astronomerritt Thanks!

Yes, the fact that it implies some kind of difference between "he"/"she" and "they" seems to me like one of the more obvious issues with her argument.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:48:52Z

A3. I learned much of what I know about cycle repair at the Davis Bike Collective in the early 2010s or so. The group was volunteer-run and had grown out of student housing collectives so it had a somewhat anarcho-punk vibe.

Instead of buying and reselling branded merch we would occasionally have screenprinting parties, usually printing on clothes we got from the thrift store or that people brought from home. We didn't even have a consistent logo - there were several designs that people used more-or-less interchangeably.

I've had this shirt ever since and it's survived an amazing amount of abuse. These days I mostly wear it when wrenching, since it's already thoroughly grease stained, but I still love it.

@ascentale @xtaran @Dadmin

The back of an orange long-sleeved button-down shirt. Printed in black ink in the center is a drawing of a bicycle freewheel, behind a crossed pedal wrench and chain whip, behind a closed fist. Underneath it says "Davis Bike Collective" but with the word "Collective" shortened to CLCTV in large print with the intermediate letters squeezed in between in a smaller font.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T02:51:51Z

@glightly I like the recumbent shirt idea!

@ascentale @xtaran @Dadmin

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T03:04:15Z

A5. I have a Topeak Road Morph, and I use it for everything.

Sometimes I feel like I ought to have a floor pump, but I think I do most of my pumping on the road: touring, or I forgot to pump the tires before leaving home, or I'm fixing a flat on the go.

I pump tires at home so rarely I'd rather spend money on a nice portable pump instead of a second pump that's only useful at home.

In shops, I'm not terribly particular but I think I do favor Topeak's double-sided pump head, especially when compared to most of Park's offerings.

@ascentale @genex

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T03:05:07Z
re: Request for opinions on pronoun-ing animals; contains what I believe to be cis/binary-normativity

@younata Yeah, I noticed that too, but for some reason it didn't register the first couple of times I read @astronomerritt's post.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T04:39:43Z

@OctaviaConAmore In your dreams?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T09:43:49Z

@rachel @mel Drat! I had only made it to chapter four and was excited to read the next batch. I guess that'll teach me to put off downloading them. 😄 I suppose I'll just have to look forward to the rewrite!

This is a big chunk of why I wouldn't want to publish as I write. Even when I'm at my best, I write things that I look back on and need to scrap, but I wouldn't have the fortitude to do that with something I'd already posted somewhere.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-27T21:46:43Z

Got an old secondhand heart rate monitor. It seems to be reading double my actual heart rate. I'm baffled.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-27T23:05:02Z

@steggy Don't worry, Mr. Mittens is prepared. He'll protect you from the sewer ghosts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-27T23:26:04Z

Couldn't find an eyedropper so I just refilled a "single use" fountain pen ink cartridge by pouring ink directly from the bottle.

It worked! No spills!

I may have used up my quota of good luck for the day, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T23:29:45Z

(Pen is a Pilot Petit1. Tiny, cheap, and supposedly quite good quality, though I don't have anything to compare it with. I got a multicolor set of these several years ago. Used to keep the whole rainbow of them clipped in one of my breast pockets.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-27T23:35:24Z

In retrospect, having a rainbow of pen-clips visible on my pocket was not a typical cis(ish)/het/masc thing to do.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-27T23:40:43Z

@mel They're fun! I haven't used them in a while but I think I might start again.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-27T23:47:54Z

@mel Yeah, my handwriting isn't much good but the pens are still fun.

I also sometimes argue that they generate less plastic waste than ballpoints etc., but that argument is undermined somewhat by the fact that I haven't bought a ballpoint in years; I just pick them up off the sidewalk.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-28T00:22:37Z
re: what

@alice I want to run with this but am not sufficiently committed to it that I'm going to find out who it would be reasonable to ship Theseus with.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-28T00:24:22Z

@enobacon I'll get around to fixing it properly one of these days...

applies more duct tape and baling wire "just for now"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-28T01:19:49Z

@mel Augh. That is not good.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-28T04:11:11Z

I am apparently relearning OpenSCAD in an attempt to make an adapter for fitting International Standard ink cartridges in Pilot fountain pens.

Not sure this is a good idea. Not sure if it's even going to print nicely; the only 3D printers I have access to are the ones at the local library and calibration may be suboptimal for e.g. printing tubes with 1mm walls.

But I'm trying anyway.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-28T05:22:53Z

@dibi58 octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1106596

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-29T01:24:37Z

@rolandelli Nice!

I like the fit of the one I got but I'm miffed at the company: I ordered from their Amazon store because there weren't many other options and didn't realize until after I'd been wearing the mask for a few days that there's a manufacturing defect that leaves a gap where it should seal against one of the filters. There was no apparent way to contact them via Amazon and when I called GVS directly they promised to get back to me and never did.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-29T01:56:55Z

@rolandelli I suspect it was a one-off or small-batch issue.

It's pretty obvious if you take the filters out; there's just an extra half-circle chopped out of the lip that fits into the groove on the filter.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-29T01:59:01Z

@rolandelli I could also feel air flowing through it once I knew it was there, especially after I'd been wearing the respirator for a while.

I'm going to try repairing mine with silicone sealant (and then testing it with bitrex & a nebulizer). But I'm also going to get a new respirator from a different manufacturer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-29T03:57:17Z

@salad_bar_breath @sofia@toot.site Yay! Very excited for both of you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-29T04:00:18Z

@mel @min Is there a word for when you're simultaneously impressed and wincing a little? If so, that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-29T04:13:09Z

@mel Oof.

Yeah... DIY projects with not-quite-the-right tools are a very effective way to add to the scar collection.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-29T04:27:57Z

@mel Nicely done with the analogy connecting it to another recent thread! It's a good way to think of it, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-30T00:15:46Z

Trying to talk to someone from the for-profit Bike Industry about DIY non-profit quasi-anarchist repair collectives is a weird experience.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-31T00:07:43Z

@rachel Really looking forward to that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-31T00:15:44Z

@glightly Awesome!

I enjoy his work; it's nice to know he can take critique well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-01-31T00:20:37Z

@Karstan Ugh, wet camping. Bleh.

Vipassana meditaiton retreat? WWOOF or WorkAway?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-31T18:34:17Z

Okay, I'm done bawling (happy tears) over the end of Bookshops and Bonedust. What's next on the agenda?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-01-31T18:36:32Z

Yeah, no, that's my fault; I haven't put a poll up. Will do so shortly.

@EverydayMoggie @SRLevine @queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-01T01:24:25Z

Queer Romance Book Club: Vote on a Book for February

We haven't had many nominations, so all three of them are going on the poll and I've added one from my own TBR list.

Apologies for not posting this sooner, and thank you to @EverydayMoggie and @SRLevine for the gentle reminders and the nominations.

@queerromanceclub

[edited header b/c it wasn't showing when the post was collapsed]

I'm So (not) Over You by Kosoko Jackson (2)Once Ghosted Twice Shy by Alyssa Cole (0)How to Find a Princess by Alyssa Cole (3)The Romantic Agenda by Claire Kann (1)Total Votes: 6
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-01T05:17:30Z

@alshra Oh hey thanks, you saved me the trouble of asking. 😁

I know what I'll be reading for the next little while...

@storybead

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-03T03:12:11Z

@EnaWasHere Nice! What kind of music?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-03T04:41:12Z

@EnaWasHere Oh, cool! What instrument? (or singing?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-03T06:51:49Z

A6. I tend to do (1) because I figure it puts my signal more in the drivers' line of sight. I most often use (2) when I'm merging into traffic that's on my right. I occasionally do both, since it's very easy to ride my particular trike hands-free.

People do sometimes respond to (1) by waving at me, which implies they don't know what it means. But drivers also routinely act as if I haven't signaled a left turn, so sometimes I wonder if they just don't know any hand signals.

@ascentale @daihard

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-03T07:14:35Z

A5. I went to UC Davis and showed up at the Davis Bike Church (now the Davis Bike Collective) one day, wanting to put drop bars and slick tires on the old mountain bike I was riding.

Some volunteers helped me through those projects, and a few others, and stripping parts off of donated bikes, and building up a new bike... and pretty soon I was volunteering regularly. I helped run the shop for several years, and continued at Bike Farm after moving to PDX.

Of course, that was all before I transitioned. DBC and Bike Farm both tried to be inclusive but could skew very bro-y at times depending on which volunteers were on shift - not something I was ever terribly comfortable with, but I'm even less fond of it now. Both DBC and Bike Farm had Women & Trans nights that I didn't attend because I didn't think I qualified. I know many people appreciated them, though.

I've been back to DBC once recently, right as I was starting to transition, and it was definitely a different experience presenting fem in that environment.

----

Community Bike Shops have come up in a few comments here. Anyone looking for their local CBS should check bikecollectives.org/wiki/Commu. It's the most comprehensive list I know of for the US and much of the rest of the world, and we're actively expanding and improving it.

@ascentale @inliuofjoan

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-03T07:22:15Z

A7. On a few occasions when making steep descents I've wrapped a spare glove (the cheap, think, knitted ones) around the helmet strap right in front of my ear to provide a small windblock, in an attempt to mimic a commercial product I had seen advertised. It worked okay?

@ascentale @AngelaAntunovic

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-03T07:36:49Z

A9. I don't think I've been in a situation where someone told me whether or not an infrastructure project is accessible... which is worrisome in itself, since I've spend a fair number of years at least peripherally involved in advocacy, attended community meetings about transportation infrastructure projects in multiple cities, and served for a while on a city's Bicycle Advisory Commission.

But - especially after reading many of your posts, @glightly - I would almost never take that assertion at face value if it came from city staff or from a group that wasn't specifically focused on advocating for accessibility.

Even then I'd want to examine the design for the common issues that I'm aware of, most of which have been mentioned in other replies. I take the same approach with ostensibly "bike-friendly" infrastructure, because too often the people designing it either (1) don't ride and are just following design guides or (2) don't ride the types of bikes I do.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-03T16:59:56Z

@glightly I haven't spent enough time there the past few years to say. It can vary a lot depending on who is on shift.

Where I have noticed differences, it's difficult to tell how much of that is change in the org vs. how much is change in peoples' behavior & what I notice with a different gender presentation (and more life experience).

And yes, Davis seems prone to resting on its laurels in a way that leaves it "progressive" by standards that are decades out of date.

@ascentale @inliuofjoan

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-04T23:47:00Z

is reading How To Find a Princess by Alyssa Cole this month!

If you want to space your reading out over the course of the month, given we're starting a little late (sorry!), it looks like 6 chapters per week would do the trick. That said, I'm not sure any of us quite held to the schedule last month and it seemed to work fine.

Guidelines & Logistics:
As you read, post your questions/opinions/thoughts/reactions. Anything goes, from literary analysis to "That meet-cute! 🤣​ 😍"

Tag posts about the book with and @queerromanceclub so we can all see them. Also so people can filter out the hashtag if they want.

Please CW spoilers with the act/chapter that they spoil, because we're not all going to read at quite the same rate.

More info & purchasing links on the author's website
Your library might have it too:
WorldCat
OverDrive
Hoopla

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-06T09:21:50Z

@EverydayMoggie Yes! I'm into chapter 5 and the whole fictional monarchy vs. ordinary slice-of-life thing feels a bit odd to me, but it's fairly well-written and amusing.

I'm curious what folks think of Bez?

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-07T00:55:22Z

@storybead I'm at... around 9 months on estradiol monotherapy, probably <6 months at levels roughly equivalent to average cis fem levels.

I've recently noticed loss of muscle tone and am starting to put in some effort to maintain it.

I have always been a transportation cyclist and have been riding an e-bike for several years; lately I think I'm using the assist a bit more. I was never consistent about upper body exercise, but recently I've been more motivated to do so as I feel like my arms and hands are losing strength otherwise.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-07T02:52:45Z

I'm curious if anyone has thoughts on this not-well-defined (sorry!) topic.

I have been thinking about the tension between infrastructural and interpersonal approaches to organizing and just generally... doing things.

One example: I was in a meeting with two people who I think of as "connectors" - they know everyone and want to make connections between people. One of them has more of a professional networking-style approach, the other is more friends with everyone. I think I habitually skew toward the former and aspire to the latter.

Another example: A recent conversation about Bus Factor vs. knowledge. Bus factor focuses on making sure, from an institutional perspective, that you have enough people who understand [thing] so you won't lose the ability to maintain [thing] if someone gets stuck on a bus in the middle of nowhere for a while. It focuses on the ability of different people to more-or-less interchangeably fill a role. It doesn't necessarily do as good a job addressing the individuality of people, their skills, their growth & learning over time, and their interpersonal relationships. On the other hand, I've seen a lot of projects that relied heavily on the specific skills, knowledge, and relationships of one or a few individuals and I've seen those projects fail because the key person/people became unavailable.

Seems like there should be either a middle ground or a combination of the two approaches, but it requires a lot of skill and intentional effort.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-07T04:49:20Z

@SRLevine I don't think I'm quite at that level yet, but I can still sorta relate.

(Technically this account dates back to when I lived in PDX, though I didn't use it for several years in the middle there.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:14:25Z

@SRLevine It took me a while to have any community in PDX to speak of except for a bit at Bike Farm. 2018-2019 was around when we finally made some friends, or at least friendly neighbors.

I love that we ran into each other here after leaving PDX, and also that I met @glightly here, who currently lives in the city I called home before PDX.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:15:45Z

@MLE_online @smellsofbikes

*appears out of nowhere* Did someone say "weird bike"?!

Is that a front or rear hub?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:21:47Z

@glightly Yeah. It's so often hard to find the intersection of skill, interest, knowledge, and time. It's a lot to ask of people when everyone's also busy trying to exist in this society. Many of the people who do have all or most of those end up burnt out on organizing after a while, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:22:11Z

@EveOfTheFuture Oh, interesting, thanks! I'll have to look into that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:24:27Z

@MLE_online @smellsofbikes Nice! I like front hub motors because then you get redundant drive systems.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:33:33Z
re: Food

@Karstan Can you do nuts or seeds? I don't know if any of the following would work for you, but for a while I did a patties using pumpkin seed press cake (the leftovers from pressing oil out of the seeds; I suspect you could also just coarsely grind pumpkin seeds), usually with beans or bean flour for binding and some other things for flavor, then added koji and let it all ferment for a day or two.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:55:56Z

@MLE_online @smellsofbikes Yeah, one can get used to a lot of weirdness.

It's also possible to compensate some for weight distribution by adjusting trail and steering angle, though the details of how to do it are a bit beyond me. There's some lore about porteur bikes, I think, but a lot of frame geometry lore is kinda iffy.

There is also software for it (JBike6) if you have matlab or can get it running in octave, and you are willing to spend a lot of time measuring/estimating the physical properties of the bike in great detail. (I got it running in octave once but noped right out when I realized I'd probably need several physics courses to understand what inputs it wanted.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T02:58:18Z

@MLE_online @smellsofbikes I'll very occasionally break out a bit of trig, but otherwise yes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T03:03:10Z

@smellsofbikes If I remember correctly the GUI component didn't work consistently and may have required some fiddling to get even minimal functionality, but it was otherwise fine.

@MLE_online

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T03:23:29Z

@salad_bar_breath @june That was a good read, thanks for the link!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T03:43:00Z

@interrupthandler I'm in my 30s, and I don't think I'm particularly young among the transfem fedi crowd.

I started a lot of transition steps before I found a therapist. In retrospect, I would tell my past self to put therapy higher on the priority list. Even when I'm not dealing with gender stuff directly, transitioning has... opened up? a whole bunch of other things I needed to think about.

Whatever you do, I wish you the best! And there's a lot of very supportive and friendly folks here.

<3

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-08T03:47:47Z

@salad_bar_breath Ah, of course. I mostly browse with boosts off to mitigate overwhelm, so I miss some of the big news that goes around via boosts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-08T04:12:30Z

I am so tired and yet there are things I want to do!

I have energy and enthusiasm and motivation right now. Why do my eyes keep wanting to close?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-08T07:01:48Z

@taedryn I'll caveat my "Never" with (1) I'm quietly open - "Trans" is the first word in my bio, but the percentage of my posts that are trans-related is much lower than many people's and (2) octodon blocks a lot of servers and limits a lot more, including mastodon.social and several other big names. Some of my posts with broader reach (usually bike or book stuff) I have to view in a different client or from a different instance because I won't see all the replies here on octodon.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-08T07:05:38Z

@taedryn Yeah. I think a disproportionate number of the complaints I hear about problematic replies come from the handful of folks on mastodon.social that I follow. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-09T01:11:22Z
Amazey making things thread

@twistylittlepassages I will send positivity and encouragement your way, if they are wanted.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-09T03:15:24Z

Currently reading an article with the subtitle "An Autobiographical Case Report."

This is, as one might expect, Academese for "I tried a thing and then I wrote about it."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T04:37:35Z

@glightly Accidental bubble machine seems like a pretty good failure mode for a design, especially if it still does what it's meant to do.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T05:06:39Z

@miriamrobern Aww, that was very sweet!

@hopepunk

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T05:08:18Z
re: PH-

@PurpleStephyr That sounds like a rough time; I'm sorry. Best wishes to you and your family!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T05:15:17Z

@storybead Congratulations on the voice training achievement!

I've had several occasions when people who know me casually obviously associated me with masc-presenting me due to [circumstances], but thought I was a different person and reacted accordingly. I find it simultaneously weird, affirming, and amusing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-10T05:28:14Z

cc @salad_bar_breath

Hello! Happy Trans Voice Friday!

The topic today is apparently "Love" and I just want to say... I love you all. (Yes, even if I'm not dating you.) But, uh. Fedi is so wonderful. I have found so many new friends here and I am so grateful for all of you. 

Thank you and have a wonderful weekend!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T06:17:08Z

@storybead The intonation, speed variations, phrasing, etc. is the part that I've felt least successful at so far; I'm hoping it will come with time.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T06:58:25Z

A9. I'm a big fan of IGHs.

I've got an Alfine 8 on my cargo trike. I used to be responsible for a fleet of rental bikes that was probably 70% Nexus 7 & 8 hubs and it was lovely to have so many low-maintenance drivetrains.

I've also had several DualDrive & 3x7 hubs (3spd IGH with a 7, 8, or 9 speed cassette on them) which are great for getting a wide range while still having an IGH's ability to shift while stopped. You can get absurd range by combining them with a front derailer.

I had a 3-speed on a very old, heavy homebuilt LWB recumbent, which was a bit of an odd experience.

And I have built up a couple of retro-directs, which I think are among the weirdest of non-derailer cycles. I mentioned them in a previous BikeNite: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1111116

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T07:14:34Z

A6. I'll second @dr2chase on good dynamo lights for all commuter cycles.

They aren't cheap, but they probably could be a lot more affordable with widespread adoption and it would mean an end to "Whoops, I forgot (to charge) my lights. Now I have to go home via another mode or risk my life (even more than usual)."

@ascentale @fbaum

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T07:20:33Z

A3. It's a for-profit shop and I never used it, but Gladys Bikes in PDX had a saddle lending library for many years and I heard a lot of good things about it: gladysbikes.com/the-saddle-lib

Unfortunately, it looks like they're closing up shop at the end of this month. 😦

@ascentale @esnyder

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-10T08:03:42Z

@glightly I ran a tool library in PDX for a while. You do get some theft/loss/damage, and usually the only recourse is to refuse to lend to people until they return or repay the lost item. (We did have a board member who was willing to go be slightly intimidating at them for high-value items.) You also have to figure out how to spread the burden of no-fault losses, e.g. damage due to cumulative wear instead of misuse and the rare occasion where something is stolen from a borrower. Our insurance, much to my dismay, required a police report before they would cover any theft; I think that's pretty standard.

I'm not quite sure how it would work for a cycle lending library. You could do deposits, though that can be a hardship for some people.

That said, theft was surprisingly rare. We mostly had issues with chronically late returners, and that was often due to difficulty transporting the items back or getting to the library during open hours. The transportation aspect, at least, could be less of an issue with cycle lending.

Mostly tool libraries, like other nonprofits, rely on a constant stream of donations, grants, and volunteer work. Often that's people with the budget for it donating tools that they don't use any more or got for a single project.

What I've seen of the secondhand cycle donation stream indicates that you wouldn't get a lot of the bikes that I would most want to lend (e- and cargo cycles?); they're much more often re-sold.

(I get the impression the Berkeley & Oakland TLs receive some public funding too, possibly through the library system?)

Umm... sorry, you seem to have accidentally hit the "April infodumps about tool libraries" button. 😬

@ascentale @bikenite

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-14T03:09:43Z
re: ch 1 how to find a princess

@ansate I know! A little too relatable sometimes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-14T03:15:10Z
re: Queer Romance Club Feb read: How to Find a Princess ch1-3

@wendypalmer Oh, interesting. I found the WFM thing and "pronounced Smith" and all that stuff a little too implausible and contrived to fit with the otherwise contemporary scenario at this point in the book.

Good point about the Nigerian Prince scam sound-alike, I hadn't picked up on it.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-14T03:44:20Z
Queer Romance Club February: How to Find a Princess ch. 1-11

I wasn't so sure about this book to begin with, but it's growing on me.

Regarding Bez: I really didn't care for the way she was written at the start, and I'm still iffy on it. I think she's meant to be neurodivergent, probably ADHD/AuDHD, but she comes across a little too Manic Pixie Dream Girl (Manic Soft-Butch Dream Girl?) with the chaos energy but also the extreme competence apparently showing up whenever she needs it? Sure, you can have chaos & hyper-competence in one person, but I'd expect less consistency & control in terms of when you get which one. I don't know, I kind of like her as a character but the way she's written feels a little too contrived, or something.

Regarding the WFM and ridiculous monarchy stuff: At first I felt like all this was just too implausible to mesh cleanly with the regular contemporary setting of Makeda's life, but I'm starting to appreciate it on a more meta level at least, since Makeda's got such intense discomfort with the fairytale princess thing. The contrast still feels like an old Disney movie that mixes live-action and animation, but I'm starting to realize that's the point.

Regarding the arc of the romantic plot so far: I was very worried that Makeda's reluctance to go along with Bez was stepping up so far that she wouldn't do it unless she had no alternative. And then the debt collectors started coming for the B&B and it really looked like that was the way it was going to go. I didn't like that because it limits Makeda's agency in the situation. I much prefer characters being able to make their own choices, otherwise it feels too much as if they're being forced into proximity with the other MC and that isn't necessarily the healthiest foundation for a relationship, especially here where Makeda would be in some sense dependent on Bez for financial security. So I was really glad when Bez said "You should do it for yourself. [...] For the girl who was bullied for being called princess." Even if Makeda talks herself into thinking it's for her mom and Grandmore, I'm glad Bez saw that angle and pointed it out.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-14T04:33:13Z
Queer Romance Club February: How to Find a Princess ch. 6 quote

“Ah, so the American romantic films are correct,” Bez said, her voice full of amused wonder. “Beautiful women really do sit around lamenting how unattractive they are. Do you also trip over random objects and eat pints of ice cream when you’re distressed?"

I do appreciate it when characters poke fun at the genre. Also: Smooth line there, Bez!

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-14T17:52:46Z
complaining

The list of software I'm annoyed with today is growing:

  • It started with MediaWiki
  • Then there was Docker (I haven't done anything with it directly today, "annoyed with Docker" is just my baseline)
  • Now I have to deal with PassBolt, which just... I get that requiring a private key along with a passphrase for account recovery is good security, but in a world that doesn't have good ways for ordinary people to securely and reliably store private keys it's a nuisance. (Turns out I actually have the keyfile, but I can't find the passphrase. I thought it was in my other password manager, but...)
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-14T17:56:47Z
re: very bad joke but I thought of it seriously before typing this

@melerva@woem.men Nooooooooo! 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-14T18:04:04Z

Good news! The password *was* in my other password manager... but it was stored for the PassBolt extension, so it didn't turn up in searches for PassBolt or the domain it's hosted on.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-14T23:06:03Z
awful fake Italian accent, abstruse pun about astigmatism

"Wearing the-a glasses for blurry vision is not-a something that should be a-stigmatized"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-15T02:42:29Z

@Unixbigot *raises hand*

I remember being so disappointed when I learned that Franklin W. Dixon was a pseudonym for "whoever the publishing company hired."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-15T08:24:20Z

@redrummy Oh, excellent!

That song (along with some of its neighbors) has been bouncing around in my head for... I don't know, well over a decade now. It's a fun one!

@mariancall

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-16T19:44:00Z
re: voice training

@rachel @miriamrobern I don't quite have the Mouse Voice, but I've definitely got some disconnect between what sounds good in my head and what sounds good when I play back a recording. It does seem like spending a lot of time speaking has helped me narrow the gap a bit.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-16T20:00:18Z
re: voice training

@rachel @miriamrobern Oh yeah, the disconnect between speaking voice and brain voice also bugs me. I haven't put much effort into narrowing it since it seems like time has been helping there as well, but maybe I'll try being a bit more intentional.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-17T00:50:53Z

A5. @dr2chase That sounds exactly right to me. If anything, I consider that barely-perceptible amount of play to be not just acceptable but actually desirable due to the pressure from the QR.

Some people prefer to hold one end of the axle in an [axle vise](parktool.com/en-us/product/axl) while locking things down, which allows you to more precisely hold the cone in place with the cone wrench while tightening the locknut. I've found it more effective to skip the vise and just try it a few times until you can get it in the right spot by feel.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-17T00:56:18Z

@glightly It looks like @dr2chase answered this well already, but I'm going to take the opportunity to link to an exploded diagram of a hub that a friend from the DBC drew many years ago as part of a set of instructional pamphlets: davisbikecollective.org/self-l

(I am rather fond of these drawings, having learned a good deal of basic maintenance stuff from them and the person who drew them, and also used them as teaching aids on many occasions.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-17T01:05:46Z

A4. I've barely used them - just borrowed a friend's pair to try them - but they seem rather quiet and I ride in loud environments often.

I wound up with a (secondhand) Sena Pi helmet intercom which is plenty loud and leaves my ears open. It's basically a pair of little speakers that attach to the helmet straps. Usability is a little weird to in the way that bluetooth devices get when they try to pack dozens of functions into two buttons, though.

@ascentale @Anibyl

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T02:00:00Z

@sam @moira @glightly @ascentale I learned this was a thing that could happen when I was first working at a for-profit shop and someone brought in a wheel for truing. I trued it up, pulled it out of the stand, inflated the tire, took it for a test ride... and suddenly the brake was rubbing. On closer examination, it was because the rim had started bending outward along the wear line. That was not a fun conversation to have with the customer. "Yes, you need a new wheel (or at least rim). No, I swear I didn't cause it, I just didn't notice the issue when you brought it in." Pretty sure I comped the labor on that one.

I once encountered someone by the side of the road whose rim had done the extreme version of this - the sidewall just peeled away in a long, curling strip. Fortunately it was in an urban area and he had already called someone for pickup.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-17T02:01:22Z

@moira @ascentale I remember seeing some of your posts about that when it was in progress. Looks like it turned out well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T02:08:07Z

@sam Nice!

The full collection of diagrams & instructions is here: davisbikecollective.org/self-l

Edit: Another set of scans of the same documents with the original Copyleft note & possibly better image quality: bikecollectives.org/wiki/Maint

And I think it got cut from these scans, but the originals have a little note on them to the effect of "Copyleft - please share!"

They cover all the major systems, though they're, um... over 10 years old now? and probably already skewed toward older components at the time because that's what you get with secondhand bikes, so they may not be as useful for newer stuff.

@glightly @dr2chase

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T02:09:51Z

@sam Thanks! Let me know if you have questions, I'm pretty much always happy to talk about weird bikes.

@moira @glightly @ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T02:33:47Z

I meant to talk about voice training plans here - I'd like to practice recording myself reading aloud a whole lot more, and I still want to rig PureData or something to echo my voice back on a short delay - but my brain went in a different direction.

Also: Whoops, dropped my resonance for a while in the middle there. Where'd it land? I can't find it. Oh, there it is. Goodnight!

Also also: I realize the Feegles are speaking in an approximation/maybe-parody? of an actual accent, it just sounds funny to my Californian ear sometimes.

Hello! I guess tonight's TransVoiceFriday topic is Plans. I'm not very good at plans and I'm kind of terrified of making big decisions, which is not great. 

But talking about plans always reminds me of the bit in one of the Tiffany Aching books by Terry Pratchett where Rob Anybody decides to make a "Plan. P. L. N." and then that reminds me of some of the other funny pronunciation things the Feegles do like referring to "queen" as "quinn" and "sheep" as "ships" and for some reason I have adopted some of those into my own vocabulary. 

Well, that got off topic but I hope everyone's having a lovely evening. Goodnight!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-17T04:31:05Z

@dragonfrog 🤣 Thanks!

I feel like I've heard of that too. I'm going for a bit longer delay - enough to say a phrase and hear it echoed back. I have tried to do really short delays and it can be disorienting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-17T04:32:32Z

@salad_bar_breath Thanks! I wasn't even looking for a loophole this time! I was going to be on topic. But no, my brain had other plans. 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T05:00:23Z
the tiniest of spoilers for Lily Seabrooke's Bayview series, caps

I have the latest Lily Seabrooke book and it's FINALLY Harper/Paisley.

I'll return to the real world in 12-24hrs, depending on whether I sleep or not.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T08:02:14Z

@melerva@woem.men Do not acquire an absurd quantity of misspelled cheese.

Here, have an absurd (but true) story about a ridiculous quantity of cheese instead. (The rest of the story is here if you don't want to scroll through the whole thread.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T09:21:22Z

@melerva@woem.men If you want *good* cheese, then you almost certainly shouldn't get misspelled cheese.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-17T09:27:55Z

@melerva@woem.men
Skills learned:
- making cheese
- selling products in bulk via international e-commerce platforms

Skills not learned:
- English spelling

I will admit that it is not impossible.

Even so... don't get the cheese.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-17T12:35:21Z
I did not sleep, instead I read Every Little Thing by Lily Seabrooke

While this book doesn't feature any trans characters, it reads as so incredibly trans to me. Which is not surprising, given the author, but... hah.

One of the main characters learns that she can change, and it can make her more herself, not less. And the other one learns that she doesn't have to pretend to be someone she isn't.

It's a coming out story about cis people. Written by a trans person.

I really liked it. Maybe I should read it again sometime when it's not the middle of the night. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-18T03:49:10Z

@Willow Question for a time when you're not busy having a gay night: What are you reading?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-18T04:08:56Z

@Willow Ooh, I haven't run across anything by Vera Winters yet. I'll have to check that out. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-18T17:56:15Z

@pqqq
> In many ways, that person isn't radically different than the person I was.

Same. I think sometimes that I'm a bit of an outlier in the trans community because the distance between "who I was" and "who I am (becoming)" is pretty narrow. I've lived most of my life in subcultures that were relatively ok with people being gender-expansive (more so over the years, and gosh I wonder if that might not be as random as I used to think?). For all that I like dressing fairly femme, I'm still kinda tomboyish in personality, interests, and some aspects of visual presentation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-18T17:57:25Z

@pqqq Glad to be of hypothetical assistance! 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-18T20:17:14Z

@pqqq I may be wrong - haven't done DB stuff in a while - but I think the correct way to do this would be to break the names of contributors out into a separate table and... er, I forget the term for it, but have yet another table that cross-references them.

So you get:
- a table of books with info unique to each book
- a table of contributors with info unique to each contributor
- a table where each entry is something like [BookID, ContributorID , Role]

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-18T21:39:29Z

@daihard I picked up the same perspective as your ED when I was first getting started in cycling advocacy and adjacent stuff, that we didn't want to scare off non-cyclists who thought "cyclist" meant "roadie", but @glightly's arguments have been slowly winning me over toward "cyclist/cycling" in many contexts.

When I do call myself a cyclist, I sometimes specify "transportation cyclist" or "utility cyclist" or something like that. (I used to say "commuter cyclist" but I don't have a commute these days.)

For context: I'm abled and mostly ride a trike.

I really like the idea of "cycle" as a term for the vehicle itself, since I don't think it has a history of referring to road bikes specifically in the US. To me it just sounds old-fashioned and possibly a bit British. Seems like a good transitional term for reclaiming "cyclist/cycling".

I believe there was a discussion very similar to this one in response to a BikeNite question a while back.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-19T04:53:00Z

Today in janky electrical connectors:

Temporarily converting my soldering iron to USB power (instead of PowerPole connectors) so I can finish converting a tiny chain-stitch sewing machine to USB power without having to go get a battery off the e-bike.

Because my soldering iron is designed to run off the e-bike. I really should make a little USB-PowerPole cable sometime for this and any other 5-ish volt things that I've put PowerPole connectors on. Maybe that'll be next...

(How am I converting the soldering iron to USB temporarily? Alligator clip leads! They're like duct tape for electricity.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-19T05:10:02Z

@landrew I suppose in some sense the clip leads are WD40 and any insulative material is duct tape? Hmm...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-19T05:59:24Z

I just finished installing a battery & USB-C charging board scavenged from a disposable vape into a tiny chain-stitch sewing machine.

Once the glue is dry, I can put it back together and it'll be a USB-C rechargeable sewing machine!

The sewing machine came from a free pile. It was missing the cover for the battery compartment and the AC adapter. I considered converting it to hand-crank, but cramming a battery and USB port into it is more within the scope of my very limited fabrication capabilities right now. I did most of this with some multitools and a small soldering iron.

A small printed circuit board with a USB-C port on it, held next to the plastic case of the sewing machine. The plastic case has small notches cut in it to make room for the USB port and the PCB. 

Also visible is a tangle of wires, half of the sewing machine's original battery compartment, some of the plastic gears in the machine, and the edge of my hand. A view of the USB port installed in its notch on one half of the sewing machine case, the new battery wedged and glued in between the motor and the top of the old battery compartment, the the motor, and some of the gears inside the sewing machine. The entire sewing machine, laid open, and an orange-pink disposable vape sitting next to it. 

The sewing machine case is less than 7 inches tall and made of white plastic. It contains a motor that provides power to the mechanism via several gears. There's also a switch, a battery compartment, a jack for power from a wall adapter, and a bunch of wires.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-19T06:42:11Z

@alyssa@cloudisland.nz Well, I'm generally happy to ramble about projects...

I just made a post about the sewing machine now that I'm in the "Let Glue Dry" stage with it.

The soldering iron is a cheap battery-powered one but I got tired of the AAs being dead all the time and wired in a set of Anderson PowerPole connectors so it would run off of the DC-DC step-down converter on my trike (Grin Tech makes very hackable e-bike conversion kits).

A while back I picked up a dongle off the road (probably a bike light charger) that is just a USB plug with a couple of pins on it for power output, barely long enough to attach alligator clips to. Clip leads between that and the PowerPole connectors on the soldering iron was a pretty straightforward hack for temporary USB soldering.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-19T17:54:29Z

Just put the USB sewing machine back together and tried it out. It moves, but it doesn't sew!

I figured out why, though: At some point while I had it open, one or more of the little drive shafts popped out and I didn't realize that the gears had to mesh back together just so. Now the movement of the needle bar isn't happening at the right time relative to the little hook underneath, so the hook isn't there to catch the thread at the right moment and it doesn't make a stitch.

So I guess I just have to open it back up and figure out how to set the timing on a chain-stitch machine now? At least it doesn't feel as intimidating as trying to fix the timing on a full-size lock-stitch machine.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-19T18:44:03Z

Got the USB sewing machine to work!

A little trial and error, a little help from a youtube video, and the timing seems to be correct.

I took a little video of it but got an error uploading... maybe I'll try again later.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-19T18:46:22Z

@jaytee Yeah, I'm kinda terrified of timing issues on the big machine because it seems so complex and easy to mess up.

I didn't really get how chain stitch machines worked until I went looking for videos to figure this one out. They're pretty amazing gadgets.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-19T19:03:08Z

@faithisleaping I don't know yet! Maybe I'll post an update when I've done some more sewing with it.

I considered measuring the current draw and calculating expected life, but decided to just go for it. I think the tiny 0.5Ah battery should provide about 1/4 the sewing time per charge of the AAs (nominally 2Ah?) it was designed for. Probably a bit slower sewing due to lower voltage, but it's faster than hand stitching!

Worst case scenario, I'll need a battery bank or a long USB cord for extended sewing sessions.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-19T21:51:13Z

@bikeshed I haven't read Annie on my Mind (might have to add that to my TBR), but binge-reading sapphic romance novels in the past few years was one of the major factors in figuring out my own gender stuff.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-19T22:08:17Z

@bikeshed Oh, yeah. I wasn't really searching for sapphic books in 2010 but there definitely wasn't the degree of publicity and availability that there is these days.

I kinda wish now that I was in the habit of keeping track of my reading history; I'm pretty sure I was at least reading things with sapphic subplots back then but not aware of why I was drawn to them; now I can't remember what most of them were.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-21T00:20:31Z

@melerva@woem.men Thermophilic composting is serious business. Fire codes sometimes regulate the maximum size of industrial compost heaps for precisely this reason. So long as you keep your compost piles under approximately 1 square yard/meter, which is usually plenty for home composting, youŕe fine.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-22T01:05:22Z

I spent several hours today wearing a 3M 6000-series elastomeric respirator with P100 filters on the inhale ports and a filter on the exhale valve.

It was remarkably comfortable! Like, actually one of the best respirator experiences I've had. Pretty much on-par with an N95.

It's the lightest of the five elastomeric respirators I've tried. Heavier ones tend to give me head/neck aches if I wear them for a while.

It may have had even less condensation build-up than an N95, and certainly less than other source-controlled elastomerics I've tried. Admittedly I was just sitting in a climate-controlled room for most of that time, so I wasn't breathing hard or sweating much. But I think the exhale valve with its own separate filter really makes a difference. I suspect all the condensation in the exhaled breath goes out through the valve and doesn't come back to hang out in the mask.

It's a bit more utilitarian-looking that I'd like, all angular and grey with big filter cartridges on the sides, but someone told me later that it looked cute on me, so...? My best guess is the bright pink filter cartridges went well with my bright orange coat.

I'm planning to do a proper fit test with bitrex & a nebulizer soon, and then I'll see if I can get some alternate filter cartridges that might be more protected from rain, because I suspect I'm going to want to wear this thing a lot.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-22T01:56:38Z
re: mh affirmation pls

@garden@woem.men I thought that infodump was really interesting (that's why I starred it!) and was glad you posted.

You're not being annoying. I think you seem like a pretty neat person.

I hope you sleep well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-22T06:38:49Z

@MLE_online Oh, that's a clever trick!

Reminds me of the few ham radio field days I went to when I was a kid; people would sometimes put fluorescent tubes up on the antennas. If you were good at copying morse code you could read half the conversation off of them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-23T05:39:54Z

@glightly That is a very apt analogy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-23T06:22:36Z

@glightly Yeah, it's turning up in everything whether you need it or not, and on top of that it's kind of a pale imitation of the real thing.

(Good point about accessibility uses too; I've talked with another friend about that some and it's both so promising and so frustrating.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-23T06:43:48Z

@glightly Oh gosh, you're right.

Now that you've said it the parallels are rather obvious.

Which means on the other side of things we're going to get (and I think we already have) purists attacking anyone who is relying on it for accessibility purposes, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-23T07:05:07Z

I just realized there's probably folks who haven't seen the 8rad, an 8-wheel, 2-seat recumbent cargo cycle, or its second iteration the 8rad 2 solar.

Photo from nicojungel.net.

A vehicle the size of a large car. At the front are two comfortable reclined seats for riders with pedals ahead of them and the first set of wheels. Behind them is a structure somewhat reminiscent of a covered wagon, with rows of solar panels all over it. Two of the upper solar arrays on the near side are folded out to catch the sun, while two lower arrays are flat against the side. Inside the covered area is a large flat platform. Three more sets of wheels are visible below the cover. A large half-dome of clear plastic over thin rods protects the front.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-23T15:32:19Z

Me last night, making a post about a weird bike I like and adding some popular hashtags: "It's late at night, I'll probably get like five favorites."

Me this morning: "Aaaah! Where did all these notifications come from?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-25T04:06:25Z

@xenogon Yeah, most pedal-powered approaches to carrying 4x8 sheets that I've seen hold them vertically or diagonally so they can fit down cycle paths, but the 8rad just dispenses with that consideration entirely.

Though I suppose my Bikes@Work trailer did come with "load-bearing fenders" so you can rest 4x8 sheets on it flat if you want.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-25T04:07:07Z

@mu Oh gosh I haven't thought about R2AK in a while...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-25T04:12:01Z

@kirk Oh, cool! I think I saw the Vhelio a while back but didn't realize they had published instructions for a self-build. Thanks for the link!

I'm not a big fan of their design, but I'll take a look and maybe steal some useful details.

@thehomespundays

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-25T15:55:23Z

@kirk Mostly I'm just not a fan of tadpole trikes. It's a perfectly reasonable design choice, lots of people like them, and they're good for a lot of things, but it isn't what I like to ride.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-25T16:01:38Z

@xenogon Yeah, covered is nice. I rode a velomobile for a little while and it handled wind quite well, so I think it's largely a matter of getting the aerodynamics right and doing it on a non-tilting vehicle like a trike.

Well, perhaps I should say "like most trikes." (-: Let me know if you have questions about tilting trikes, I am pretty much always happy to talk about them!

And if space is your constraint for building... I'll just mention that most of the work on that tilting trike happened in half of a 1-car garage, and I'm not the most space-constrained builder around.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-25T17:46:41Z

@bklisboa Have you seen the Disaster Relief Trials? Also a cargo bike race, but a different type.

vimeo.com/90719722

disasterrelieftrials.com/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-26T02:30:16Z

Going through my "sentimental stuff" box for the first time since starting estrogen. Mostly just re-sorting things at the moment, but still... hello emotions!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T02:34:01Z

Found a couple of my old "he/him" pronoun pins. Don't think I'm going to need those in the foreseeable future! One of them is rust-stained and I'll probably keep it as a memento. Maybe the local LGBTQIA+ center has a place I can leave the one that's still in decent shape...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T04:14:52Z

@moira @younata Oh, awesome! I just saw the other day that Bikes@Work has switched to using extrusion like that for their cargo trailers. It looks really versatile. I can't wait to see how this turns out!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-02-26T07:51:34Z
I'm reading Penny for your Heart by Season Vining; have some amusing quotes

"Even your mom says you're made of chaos and spice and everything nice."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T07:52:39Z
I'm reading Penny for your Heart by Season Vining; have some amusing quotes

"Steal candy from babies. Take the batteries out of remotes. Hide all the left shoes"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T07:53:41Z
I'm reading Penny for your Heart by Season Vining; have some amusing quotes; reference to carceral system

"Just follow your gut and you’ll be fine. Unless your gut leads to jail time. In that case, let me know because I’ve still got your father’s Rolex hidden away in my underwear drawer. We can use it for bail money.”

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T08:01:51Z
I'm reading Penny for your Heart by Season Vining; have some amusing quotes

“You know zero about my life and responsibilities outside of this office. I could have three kids, a cat who only shits in my shoes, and a successful vegan froyo startup.”

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T09:06:28Z
I'm reading Penny for your Heart by Season Vining; have some earnest quotes

"You are strong, brave, smart, creative, a fucking badass citizen to this garbage society we live in."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T09:07:55Z
I'm reading Penny for your Heart by Season Vining; have some earnest quotes

" I stare out at the beach and think about every grain of sand it takes to make up such a place. Millions and millions of tiny pieces beat and broken down into their simplest shape and brought together to make something so beautiful."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-26T21:39:27Z
re: I'm reading Penny for your Heart by Season Vining; have some earnest quotes

@EveOfTheFuture Maybe?

If you like workplace romance, long lost love, opposites attract (in this case, "ice queen" / chaos hippie), and a not insignificant amount of "can they surmount personal issues and workplace stuff to make the relationship work?" then you'll probably enjoy it.

Posting quotes does not necessarily constitute a recommendation relative to other books I've read, it just means that the urge to post something coincided with encountering a quote I liked. 🤷

That said, if you ever want recommendations for sapphic romance novels I'm happy to talk about them... (I'm generally happy to talk books, it's just I've been binge-reading sapphic romance the past couple years so I feel somewhat familiar with the genre.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-29T04:45:33Z

@Karstan Ooh, that sounds like a good read. Thanks for the recommendation!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-02-29T07:07:10Z

@moira This looks remarkably similar to what happens when I attempt to save seed from the garden.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-01T01:11:09Z

@younata 🤣 Oh no, not more tools!

Weird noise... I've opened up my Grin All-Axle a couple of times and I'm trying to imagine what it might be. Now I'm really curious what's causing it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-01T01:13:00Z

@younata Wow, that is very good efficiency. Congratulations!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-01T02:27:39Z

@younata Some of the wires inside mine are held in place with zip ties. Maybe one of those shifted and is scraping/catching on the inside of the motor case?

My first thought reading your initial description (makes noise under load but not on the stand) was spokes that are loose or still settling, but I don't think the noise is quite right for it and it almost certainly wouldn't show up on the stand. Definitely weird.

Also, do you have a gear puller or something similar? I had to borrow one from an auto shop to open my hub.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-01T02:45:11Z

@younata Huh. Very strange. I dislike intermittent problems.

Yeah, the gear puller is useful for separating the side of the motor housing from the axle - the housing side-pieces are press-fit to the bearings are press-fit to the axle. Though on second thought I think I've also done it with 2x4 blocks for support and some gentle hammering. That's certainly how I reassembled it.

Those hubs are a pretty tidy piece of design work, too! Lots of interior space and pretty modular as well. I was repairing the wiring harness after shearing through some of it and the only really tough spot was fitting the new wires through the opening in the axle.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-01T02:46:19Z

@moira Pretty!

What are you using to tint it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-01T03:25:02Z

@cassey I switched a public tool library from older, very janky book-library software onto MyTurn. They did offer to let us basically wait until we had sufficient income before paying, so at least as of a few years ago they were flexible about pricing. It might be too much maintenance/operational overhead for your purposes, though, since it is intended for a larger scale.

I'd like to suggest ToolLibrarian, but as I understand it the dev/maintainer doesn't actually want to support more people using it and, much to my frustration, refuses to release the source code.

If you haven't already, you could try joining the Tool Library Google Group and asking or searching their archives? It was a pretty helpful group when I was doing TL stuff.

AirTable or a shared spreadsheet is probably fine if you're just listing the tools you want to lend, and maybe keeping track of who currently has them checked out. I expect it would be much harder if you want to track borrowing history and whatnot.

That said, the TL I worked at used paper records when it was new and small...

I agree with @clew that maintaining accurate records is the hard part in the long run, regardless of the software.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-01T05:32:22Z

@meredeth (1) What device, if it's ok to ask?

(2) Oh gosh yes I need to organize mine too. I think I have around 2k books on my reader at the moment and the tagging isn't always terrible but it's far from consistent.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-01T16:29:20Z

@sam Uh-oh! The Davis Bike Collective is still around; I was actually just texting with one of the current volunteers earlier this week. I'll let them know about the website; thanks for the warning!

I'm glad it isn't bikecollectives.org that's down; I'm one of the people responsible for maintaining that site these days and I do not need something else failing there. 😅

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-02T02:18:18Z

A6. I'm not the best LBS customer. I usually show up and ask for some small, inexpensive, but extremely uncommon component that they don't have in stock and sometimes can't even order. Every so often I go in for a bunch of cable and housing, or buy a bulk box of patches.

I do my own repairs, and frankly most shops don't want to deal with the weird contraptions I ride, for nuisance and/or liability reasons.

@ascentale @pete

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-02T06:30:02Z

I haven't updated my name with our credit union yet. I've looked at the form several times and said... "Nope, you shouldn't need all that info just to change my name. This is ridiculous."

So a while back my partner emailed them about it, and got a response tonight saying they're looking into it and will be updating their procedures and inviting us to give further feedback on the process.

I am very happy about this!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-02T06:32:13Z

@skinnylatte Nice! China Camp is a lovely place to stay and I've met some very nice folks in the hiker/biker sites there.

I usually come at it from the north, where it makes a convenient stop before crossing from San Rafael over to Richmond.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-02T06:42:58Z

@EverydayMoggie Their "name change process" was actually "fill out the new member form again, including all the eligibility requirement stuff." 🤦‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-02T21:06:39Z
re: HTML tips for 90s kids trying to make 20s websites, metadata edition

@Packbat Thanks! I'm going to reference this at some point in the not-so-distant future.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-03T22:11:26Z

@salad_bar_breath Oh that was interesting.

I'm more accustomed to worrying about bi/pan erasure than lack of lesbian representation. I wonder if the genre has over-corrected? Although I wish I kept a more comprehensive list of what I've read because I feel like there's counterexamples for this that maybe just aren't what the presenter has been reading.

You said it in another post already, but hard yes to the mostly white writers in the genre not handling race well. I know there's some good books by non-white writers, but they're fighting the publishing industry (among other things) for representation.

My initial impression when they started talking about The Perks of Loving a Wallflower was "you must not be connected to the trans community if you're referring to that character as 'crossdressing' instead of 'genderfluid'" but then I checked the presenter's youtube bio and it says they/she for pronouns, so... I don't know.

I disagree with them quite a bit on what "good writing" in this genre is, which I guess is mostly a matter of personal preference. Might be partly because they explicitly say they want to read a lot of sexual tension and I'm pretty much the opposite.

Okay, now I'm getting toward the end and they're talking so much about "it's too much in our feelings" and "not enough sexual tension" and 🤣 yeah if that's your takeaway I'm probably not going to agree with you about what makes a good romance novel.

Hm. I actually want to dissect trends in the genre and what makes a good sapphic romance, but this youtuber and I would disagree on it too much.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-03T22:24:13Z

@consumablejoy Do you want answers from anyone or just from people whose pronouns are they/them?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-03T22:25:45Z

@rick @salad_bar_breath Oh, yes! I was thinking that as well.

Also, I would like to read that PhD thesis.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-03T22:26:51Z

@rick @salad_bar_breath Not that I've read a whole lot of older sapphic romance, but that's the impression I've gotten from what I have picked up.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-04T05:15:14Z

@agathachristieandcoffee I usually do a braid with a ribbon in it and tie the end off with the ribbon. Works fine for me with dentec and pretty much everything else I've tried.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-07T02:00:12Z

Well, the ride back from my appointment today involved pouring rain (and even a little hail) but in the best possible way:

1) I wasn't far from home.
2) It wasn't that cold out.
3) The sun was out, and the rain was so hard that it created a fine mist near the surface of the road. That mist was apparently enough to refract some sunlight and produce a rainbow that hovered just above the roadway.

For just a few moments, everything lined up just so and I got to ride my trike down the rainbow. 🌈

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-07T03:04:22Z

@younata Wow! I know from experience and anecdote that tire pressure makes a big difference, but I don't know that I've seen it quantified before in a way that I could relate to so well.

I should check the averages on my CA one of these days... I'm very unreliable at recording and/or remembering trip data, so at this point it'll be averaged over the several years of widely varying riding conditions since I last accidentally reset it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-07T03:05:06Z

@itzyg Oh, I've been meaning to read that. I think you just bumped it to the next spot on my TBR list.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-07T21:08:43Z

@risingphoenix The lesbians will continue until morale improves.

(Somehow I missed these books; thank you for mentioning them! I have 'em on hold at the library now.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-08T06:03:23Z

I've been keeping a list lately of the things that help me get started on a difficult task, or direct myself back to it when I'm off-topic. Now I want to know...

What are your best tips, tricks, and strategies for getting things done when your brain keeps trying to slide away from them?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-08T06:05:42Z

My list as it currently stands:

Check Basic Needs
Food
Water
Sleep

Re-centering
Music and/or Dance
Acknowledge Discomfort
Go outside
Exercise/move
Take some deep breaths
Dress up in some way that lifts my mood (cute, elegant, tenacious, gay, etc.)
Meditate
Observe physical/emotional status

??
Complete an easier or well-defined task first

Doing Difficult Things Anyway
Bring the Book and keep reading while you get started
Music and/or Dance
Break it into parts and do the first, littlest part
Have someone else hold the distractions for me
Phone a Friend and have them virtually sit with me while I get started

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-08T06:20:21Z

@wendypalmer Thanks for posting this! I've been meaning to say, I seem to have fallen behind on attempting to coordinate and was planning to step back for now. I'm glad someone else is taking up the mantle!

I read Hellion's Waltz a while back and liked it enough that I wouldn't mind reading it again this month, so I'll probably join in at some point.

@queerromanceclub @lgbtqbookstodon

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-08T16:28:10Z

@MikeHar94962844@mastodon.me.uk

Chain stitch: Pulls a loop of thread through the fabric, then pulls another loop through both the fabric and the previous loop, and continues doing that all the way down the line. A bit like crochet, actually. You may have seen it used as an "old-fashioned" closure on paper bags because when not tied off you can tease out one end of the thread and pull it all out.

Lock stitch (machine sewing): This is what most sewing machines do. Two threads, one above and one below the fabric, get wrapped around each other to create stitches. Somewhat more resistant to unraveling.

Chain stitch can be done with a pretty simple mechanism, lock stitch requires a good deal more mechanical complexity.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-08T16:29:14Z

@MikeHar94962844@mastodon.me.uk 😆 How do you think I first met @melerva? She was posting about multitools and I said to myself "perhaps we should be friends..."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T01:24:34Z

A5. I'll second everyone saying to buy secondhand if you can.

If there are cycle rental shops near you, ask if they sell bikes from their fleet. I worked at a rental shop where we sold off the older bikes at reasonable prices and they were usually in good shape after being stored inside and regularly maintained.

@ascentale @vex

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T01:38:20Z

A4.

- You might be able to get appointed to a relevant governmental advisory commission. They don't necessarily have a lot of power, but they do get to make suggestions to city councils on relevant topics. I think it's pretty common for medium-to-large cities to have one for transportation, and there isn't always a lot of competition.

- If there isn't much cycling community, approach it sideways. Start a group ride, a repair night, a "wash your bike in the park" get together, or whatever you think might work, and you may end up surrounded by friends and acquaintances who are all fired up about bike safety. (Though this is complicated now by the fact that so few people want to take any sort of covid precautions for in-person events.)

- Ask your city and/or a local nonprofit to start a Parkways / Greenways / Ciclovia / Open Streets event, where a pleasant route along local streets is opened to cycle and pedestrian traffic (and closed to cars) for anywhere from several hours to an entire day. It's a recreational activity, but it gets people out and reminds them that riding is fun when the streets are safe. Local businesses, hospitals, schools, etc. may be inclined to support this.

@ascentale @glightly

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T01:44:34Z

@younata Also fun: the way lumber/hardware store employees react when you pile a heavy load on your cargo trailer and ride away. 😁

@ascentale @sam

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T01:50:05Z

A2. I don't think I can dig up any photos right now, but...

I think the largest haul by volume was a pair of empty 330 gallon IBC totes on a Bikes@Work trailer.

Heaviest was probably half a cubic yard of damp compost on the same trailer, with a makeshift floor and sides assembled from bamboo poles and plastic sheets.

Most ridiculous is probably still the chickens in bucket panniers (with sufficient ventilation holes, of course).

@ascentale @sam

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T16:25:22Z

@tully @perigee Same. Noisebridge was pretty quiet when I visited years ago, but I got the impression they were having many of those same issues.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T18:51:45Z
yes, I'm pretty sure that's dysphoria you've got there

@psiie I think "I see myself inside my own head looking out. IN the skin of my face. Like I'm wearing a boy mask." is a pretty quintessentially trans feeling. I've felt that. The whole point of it is that you aren't the mask and the mask doesn't define you.

Heck, that's actually pretty consistent with the classic "wrong body" perspective on trans-ness that I don't normally relate to much myself. (Um. I'm going to have to think about that some other time.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T19:03:41Z
re: yes, I'm pretty sure that's dysphoria you've got there

@psiie I didn't either until I wrote that reply. It might require some thinking about.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T19:06:54Z

@psiie I think @EverBeyondReach pretty much covered it, but I'll just say that I'm also a bit genderfluid, between feminine and agender (I feel a lot like you do about "boy") and I think it does wrench a little harder on the genderfeels & imposter syndrome when it's variable like that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T22:23:39Z

@psiie Well, this got long! I'll start with a couple of caveats: (1) I fall pretty hard on the "labels are there for you to use in ways that benefit you and help you understand yourself or communicate with others, not to be gatekept" side of things. So I tend to think you can be whatever suits you. (2) I have not done a huge amount of reading on agender identities/perspectives/experiences, and I'm open to corrections or suggestions if I say something wrong or something that hurts someone else.

Ok, now that's out of the way...

I'd say I'm genderfluid or perhaps genderflux. My sense of gender, such as it is, can vary. (So can my presentation, and the two don't always match.) I'm pretty sure this is a thing that at least some cis people experience as well, but they're less likely to face huge swaths of society constantly questioning them about it all the time.

Either way, some days I feel much more feminine and other days my attitude is more "too busy to be bothered with gender." The latter may not match what other people mean by agender; on further consideration it might be better described as cassgender. I haven't looked into that so much, so I haven't necessarily figured out what the most accurate words are.

It's sometimes difficult for me to distinguish dysphoria from imposter syndrome from a mismatch between genderfeels and presentation, or between the actual genderfeels I'm having and the genderfeels I expect myself to have. And it often gets more discordant if I'm sleep deprived or otherwise having a bad time of it.

It's gotten a little easier with time as I've settled into transition, into presenting feminine full-time and feeling confident in that presentation, but I don't know if the uncertainty will ever go away completely and I think that's something I just have to come to terms with.

(cont'd...)

@EverBeyondReach

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T22:25:50Z

@psiie (...continuing)

Anyway, yeah. I think it's absolutely possible to be genderfluid in the space (volume?) that lies between feminine and agender. I haven't thought about it as much, but I think there's also an argument to be made that you can be genderflux with independently varying degrees of femininity and agender-ness, too. (a brief search indicates I'm not alone in thinking something like this: lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Agende)

I think it's better for everyone if we can treat gender - identity, expression, presentation, all of it - as an open space to explore and play and enjoy, where we can find ourselves and what makes us happiest.

@EverBeyondReach

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-09T22:43:14Z

@mbonsma You need a set of those big numbered scorecards judges hold up at sporting events.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-09T23:46:33Z

Me, preparing to write back in October: "I don't think I'm going to intentionally include any neurodivergent characters in this project."

Me, reviewing now as I prepare to revise: "...and this one reads autistic, and this one..."

I guess I'd better be intentional about it now. If I'm doing representation I want to get it right.

Another thing for the research list!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-10T00:12:56Z

@njeanneburns@mspsocial.net Thank you, and thank you for sharing your writing about it as well. :heart_trans:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-10T03:39:30Z

Outlining complete! The plot as it stands in Draft Zero is laid out, as are character notes and some preliminary notes on locations.

I've got the very earliest inklings of what I want to add and how I want to rearrange things.

The plot sags pretty badly in the second half and the prose is of dramatically varying quality and the characterization needs a lot of work and the list of things to research is longer than anticipated, but I still like it enough to continue!

Laid out in overlapping fashion are four giant sheets of blueprint paper with chapter outlines down the left-hand side. The last one has other notes on the right. On top is a fifth sheet of giant paper with a mind map of relationships between characters and locations. Under each character and some of the locations are notes. There's also the stack of printed pages of the first draft. 

I don't think any of the text is readable in this photo.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-10T17:59:58Z

@DelilahTech I also like knitted knockers, though I've never tried anything else. If you or someone you know can knit, they're pretty easy to make.

@ThePoetSky@tooters.org @doppelgrau

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-11T03:18:27Z

@melerva I've gotten the impression that wikipedia is notable for excising a lot of content related to herbal medicine.

I usually go to Google Scholar for this sort of thing, sometimes preceded by more general web searching.

ijaai.tums.ac.ir/index.php/ija seems like it might be a good review of research on the topic?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-11T16:33:32Z

@RoseRaven Nice! I love that series. Haven't read it recently; I should go back and re-read the three of them in the correct order. I think last time I was so excited that I couldn't wait for the holds to come in at the library.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-11T17:31:36Z

@storybead Yes! Pit orchestra is the best.
@rooster@chaosfem.tw

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-12T04:34:15Z

@MLE_online Oh, interesting! I've only dug into these for the batteries (with USB chargers when available).

I knew there was a pressure sensor of some kind but didn't have a use for it. That's so cool/weird that it's using a mic for the purpose. Thank you for sharing!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-12T04:55:41Z
Dorley Hall ch. 38: "Daylight"; spoilers I guess?

Oh! Graves is actually going to include COVID? This is going to get (even more) interesting...

I sort of feel like I'm at that bit in a movie where I want to cover my eyes and peek out between my fingers. I strongly suspect that if this story continues beyond 2020 in narrative time - and it seems like it very well could? - I'm going to end up being really disappointed with how the pandemic is handled. That's usually what happens when I read fiction set in the last few years.

On the other hand, Graves seems to have some real skill at teasing out all the nuance and detail in controversial ethics topics, so I'm kind of hopeful that she'll actually dig in and I'll come away from it with a more nuanced perspective.

Not that it's even going to really show up properly for a few chapters yet, but still.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-12T19:45:51Z
mh ~ mild dissociation

"Examples of mild forms of dissociation include daydreaming, ‘zoning out’, or getting lost in thought and ‘losing touch’ with an awareness of our immediate surroundings." (mi-psych.com.au/understanding-)

Me: Oh, so that's considered dissociation? Well, that explains a few things.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-13T04:21:55Z

@moira @iris Also trailers usually have some design effort put into centering the flexible part of the hitch pretty well between the wheels and if you change that you can end up with persistent wobble.

Source: My own ill-conceived early efforts at making DIY towbars. 🙃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-13T20:44:59Z

@RoseRaven I would think it delightful, but I also think I'm not typical.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-13T21:50:52Z

Just read the latest page of Motherlover and I think it may be time to warm up the *squee* engines!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-15T05:58:51Z

@moira Yeeeaaah. I remember looking into that a while back. Then I promptly went back to figuring out other approaches to metal fabrication. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-16T03:51:46Z

- Beware my silly attempt at songwriting and questionable singing abilities. (Also beware the mild earworm.)

I thought of this the other day when I noticed that the first line scanned pretty well and wasn't sure if I wanted to share it, but... what the heck!

Feedback/suggestions on singing in a more feminine voice would be very welcome.

Me singing the following to the tune of "take me out to the ballgame"

Catching up with my timeline
Catching up on the day
Finding some memes I can boost and fave,
there's the dopamine fix that I crave. 
So lets scroll, scroll, scroll through my friends' posts
I hope they're all doing fine. 
But I'll never ever catch up
with my whole time line!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-16T03:56:18Z

@nthia I love listening to your voice tricks! And I want/need to practice more of that sort of thing myself; thanks for the examples!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-16T04:01:28Z

A7. A big DIY visor made out of coroplast (if you're in the US, now is a good time to grab some leftover lawn signs) helps keep my glasses a bit drier than they'd otherwise be, and lots of wiping with gloved fingers. Even if I'm not wearing gloves I usually have a cheap knit pair in my pockets I can pull out to wipe the lenses.

@ascentale @kleaders

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-16T05:16:23Z

@SRLevine @glightly 😍 That looks like a lovely design! I hadn't heard of it; thank you for linking to it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-16T15:51:30Z

@astronomerritt I would read that! I love genre-blenders.

Any chance you could tag interested parties when you announce it? I'm worried it'll get lost in my over-full timeline otherwise.

For publishing, as a reader I have a slight preference for (1) AO3 or anything else that automatically generates an epub or (2) any html page that plays nice with firefox reader mode, since I have an epub generator that relies on reader mode.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-19T02:58:40Z

@DivineKestrel@chaosfem.tw While I was waiting for an appointment with an SLP, I DIYed my voice training with a mix of random TransVoiceLessons videos for background/theory and the following guides I found via a local org:

[How do I start voice training?](buymeacoffee.com/alyssavt/how-)
[No explanations, just instructions!](buymeacoffee.com/alyssavt/no-e)

I only really got through voiced resonance; I should probably go back and do the rest of that...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-19T03:12:03Z

@scroeser I feel like this came up as a question a while back... you might be able to find it by searching the BikeNiteQ hashtag for related terms?

I think strapping the front wheel on is pretty common, but you might also be able to mount something to your GSD that fits in place of the front wheel on her bike, like this: i5.walmartimages.com/asr/20752 (you still have to carry the front wheel somewhere, of course). Mounting blocks like that are not uncommon on car racks, or there's several ways you can DIY them (make one out of an old quick-release hub, drill through a wood block and put a QR skewer through it, etc.).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-21T02:03:47Z

@smolcasm

paging @jasmine to this thread,

re: chaosfem.tw/@jasmine/112128976

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-21T05:18:12Z

@salad_bar_breath Just finished ch. 39, the last one that's up on AO3.

What about you?

@pug_soph@eightpoint.app

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-22T03:16:06Z
re: current status (~), forest fire

@twistylittlepassages Oh, yikes! Glad you all made it through okay. I hope the recovery efforts go well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-22T23:16:18Z

Anyone have tips on creating emoji? Primarily for use on fedi.

My inclination is to make SVGs in Inkscape, but I'm open to suggestions...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-22T23:43:17Z

@t54r4n1 @creek Awesome, thank you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-22T23:50:25Z

A6. I think this is pretty common consensus now, but the best way I know for someone to learn is with a bike that's short enough they can lower the seat until they're able to comfortably reach the ground. Then take the bike to a big open space and just push themselves around with their feet for a while to get the hang of steering. Going somewhere with a slight slope may help, that way they can lift their feet up and coast slowly downhill. Once they're comfortable with steering they can start raising the seat and add pedaling to the mix.

@ascentale @younata

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-22T23:52:20Z

@MLE_online That is a *beautiful* frankenbike! Well done.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-23T00:37:55Z

@enobacon That's a good point about the pedals being in the way if left on. The main reason I don't always suggest removing them is because for some people, it is a really significant challenge.

I've had to talk a lot of folks through the basics of unscrewing bolts. Pedals often take a lot more torque, and people end up frustrated and sometimes just going back and forth on the thread direction because it doesn't feel like it's working either way. 😬

In addition to directionality of threading, I like to remind people that they can use lubricant where the pedal threads into the crank and a longer-handled wrench (or a piece of pipe over the end of the wrench to extend it) to make things easier.

There's also some tricks you can do with the relative angles of the crank and the wrench so the cranks are less inclined to turn as you're applying force to the wrench, but I think I'd need to take some photos or video to explain it... maybe I'll do that one of these days.

@VirginiaHolloway @ascentale @younata

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-23T01:33:19Z

@TamsinSays That was an interesting read and at times very relatable for me. Thank you for sharing it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-23T04:53:55Z

@storybead @TamsinSays Yeah, the continuity thing was probably the most notable for me too. I've been slowly drifting fem-wards for at least fifteen years. Right now it's going a lot faster because I'm actively paddling in that direction, but it isn't really a discontinuity. I'm very definitely still the same person, and the changes that do happen are a matter of becoming more myself.

And the related idea that transition can be just a name we give to a specific part/aspect of the much larger path we take through life. That was on my mind a lot for a while.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-23T05:05:22Z
re: Queer Romance Club: my nominations for April

@twistylittlepassages Ooh, nominations for me?! 😁 (Thus begins more than a month of me making this joke at every opportunity, I think.)

Those both sound good to me. There's decent odds I'll read both of them, and probably a few more things from those newsletters... thanks for the link!

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-23T05:10:18Z
re: Queer Romance Club - Hellion’s Waltz ch 1-8

@wendypalmer I had forgotten a lot about this. Agree that it's so nice to read historical romance about working-class characters.

I don't think I picked up on the LLM parallels last time, but that may have been before LLMs were under quite so much discussion.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-23T17:45:14Z

@malcircuit This is relevant to me and I really wish it wasn't.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-24T02:31:09Z

@moira @SRLevine @sollat One of my grandmothers had a bread recipe she made more-or-less weekly that involved sixteenths of a teaspoon of some ingredients. It was also optimized for her specific breadmaker.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-24T03:27:32Z

@moira The tablespoon currently in my kitchen came from Australia, so it's 20ml. It's a good thing I don't cook much that requires precision measurements these days.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-24T17:28:48Z

@gettingunstuck I recently asked a somewhat similar question. Got some good answers, and gave a list of my own: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1120585

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-26T00:56:48Z

I guess with TDOV coming up I'm putting a trans flag in my display name here for a bit.

Just in case anyone managed to forget that about me, or is in any way surprised that there's a trans woman on mastodon. 😆

Probably not the most impactful show of visibility, so I'll figure out some other things to do in different spaces as well...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-26T03:50:29Z
gender-affirming hormone therapy & its effect on my emotions, +

This past week has been a reminder that my emotions have more range and intensity than they used to. A lot of that is thanks to estrogen. Some of it predates the estrogen and probably has to do with the increase in general self-acceptance (and decreased ability to avoid difficult things) that hit when I accepted that I wanted to transition and consequently stopped being able to hide so many other things from myself.

The emotional changes are really good for me, overall. It does mean I'm a bit more likely to feel sad or overwhelmed, but mostly that results in me taking better care of myself in the moment instead of trying to "push through" and feeling the accumulated effects later. It also means I can actually cry at anything from personal grief to a moving scene in a book. I used to just sit there rubbing my eyes and wanting to cry.

It's not just the sadness, overwhelm, etc. that are more intense. I have laughed so much more and so much harder this year than I can remember doing in a long time. I literally bounce up and down when I'm excited now. I'm told that I smile more.

Conclusion: It's pretty nice to have a fuller range of emotions!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-26T15:12:30Z
re: gender-affirming hormone therapy & its effect on my emotions, +

@MikeHar94962844@mastodon.me.uk My understanding is that estrogen doesn't necessarily have that effect on everyone. (genderdysphoria.fyi/en/biochem says a bit about this)

But yes, I can relate - knowing that this effect was a possibility is one of the main reasons I wanted to try it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-26T22:26:02Z

I started reading *Self-Editing for Fiction Writers* yesterday and I love it. It is a fantastic book that I would recommend to anyone writing or editing fiction. But...

They recommend that authors "show, don't tell" characters' emotions. Convey the character's emotional state through dialog and action rather than saying they're "sad" or "excited" or what-have-you.

I am not convinced. Not by their arguments or by their examples. I don't think actions or words convey emotional state reliably enough to count on them for the purpose. It's one thing for a non-POV character, where I wouldn't expect to know their emotional state with certainty, but what about a POV character? In 3rd person and sometimes omniscient POVs I expect to be reading about what's going on inside the character's head. In first-person narration, it's whatever the character is willing to tell me. I would expect both of those to include explicit statements of emotions (as appropriate for the character and tone, of course).

Not that "showing" the emotions is a bad thing... I'd just like to see them told in a lot of cases as well.

Is this an autistic vs. allistic thing? Because that was my first thought.

Anyone else have thoughts on it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-26T22:49:33Z

@katabaticat@toot.lgbt Pedal w/ electric assist; it's got 1kWh of battery under the seat.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-26T23:16:25Z

@katabaticat@toot.lgbt It depends some on the type of electric assist.

This has a torque sensor on the pedals (well, technically it's in the bottom bracket) which makes it feel very similar to an unpowered bike. Up to a certain speed the power provided by the motor scales with the power provided by the rider, with the ratio controlled by a set of buttons on the handlebar. Turning up the assist feels a lot like instantly reducing the mass of the bike.

Other types of assist control can feel less natural, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-29T19:06:04Z

@gettingunstuck Oh, that's interesting!

My therapist recently pointed me at some "Window of Tolerance" resources (e.g. mi-psych.com.au/understanding-) and they seem to put the things you have in blue on one side of calm, and the things you have in yellow/red on the other side of calm.

I feel like both your chart and the Window of Tolerance chart can make sense for me... there's definitely times when I go directly to shutdown, but I can also relate to what you're saying about centering exercises sometimes dropping me back into the red zone of overwhelm.

I used to spend very little time in the red and jump straight to numbness (or avoidance), but I think HRT has pushed me in the direction of being a lot more connected to my emotions, which makes them much harder to avoid.

The thing I've been working on some lately is... I guess figuring out how to settle myself and feel safe enough that I can reconnect with the feelings again but more in the yellow range, where I can experience, analyze, discuss, and address them without letting them take over and without shutting down.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-30T00:12:28Z

Finally did some qualitative fit tests on N95 masks and P100 elastomerics, and I'm now very bitter*.

*covered in bitrex from the shoulders up

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-30T00:20:00Z

A7. @or If you really want to be talked out of it: You'll probably end up with way too many bikes, nowhere near enough volunteers, and an endless demand on your time.

It's a lot of fun, though! Some of the best communities I've been a part of have been at bike collectives.

If you've got specific questions about logistics or anything else, ask! I've got a fair bit of experience and can point you to various resources, mostly on bikecollectives.org/

What's your prior experience with bike collectives?

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-30T00:26:07Z

A8. A couple off the top of my head:

org: @bbe (not very active, which is partly my fault. sorry! 😬)

business: @bklisboa

I'm sure I follow others, but they won't come to mind until I see them in my timeline later...

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-30T00:30:21Z

(Yes, I did lick my shoulder. Yes, it did taste awful. No, it was not a good idea. *blech*)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-30T04:34:37Z

@ellie I pretty much always keep mine in a braid.

I keep saying I'll figure out other hairstyles that work with a helmet. One of these days...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-30T22:28:38Z

I don't actually miss pockets that much. Turns out a purse is usually better than pockets for my purposes.

The universality of belt loops, on the other hand... How am I supposed to carry a multitool with me everywhere if I don't have a belt to put it on? I can put it in my purse, but then what if I set my purse down in the other room and suddenly need to open a can or tighten a screw?!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-31T03:12:48Z

@pqqq @salad_bar_breath I had been thinking of those as rhetorical questions when I wrote them, but I love your suggestions!

Putting it in my purse works ok, but I don't carry my purse *everywhere*.

Bandolier would be amusing! But would not match many of the things I wear and would probably interfere with my purse strap.

This multitool has a belt holster but no clip. I suppose I could modify it to clip to most skirts and pants, but that still doesn't work with dresses.

Searching for "body belt" yields... an interesting assortment of results? Um. Some of those might work. I've thought about trying a festival/utility belt; I do like the look of those. And they're a bit like fancy fanny packs.

Armpit holster seems like it would be either obtrusive or hard to access. A calf holster could be kinda fun, though...

So either a calf holster or a festival/utility belt, I think? Maybe next time I need a random project to work on...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-03-31T03:14:56Z

@katabaticat@toot.lgbt Oh, that's a good analogy. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-31T03:16:43Z

@salad_bar_breath Yeah, I definitely favor "both." I think that too often when there's just an action I can't tell exactly what emotion it's supposed to convey, but if a writer combines them I have context for the action and it's that much more powerful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-31T23:01:26Z

@aronow There are so many good answers in this thread!

The two thoughts that I think I haven't seen addressed as much or as directly are:
1) Making space for trans women in leadership roles is excellent and necessary. But! Too often that ends with them being responsible for bringing all of the "trans" to the leadership team. Make sure the rest of the leadership is actively working to learn about trans inclusion and consider what they learn in every single decision they make.
2) What is this group's stance on nonbinary inclusion? Agender inclusion? Can they work on those things without treating folks outside the binary as "women lite" the way so many do? How can the group support and/or collaborate with transmasc folks?

All of this is probably a huge amount of work on top of their current mission, vision, and values. The group needs to be prepared to take on that extra work, to do it without placing the burden of it on trans folks, and without causing burnout to a handful of cis allies/accomplices who may bear the brunt of it. It isn't easy to implement, and they *will* get things wrong - sometimes just plain mistakes, sometimes situations where there is no perfect right way. A women's group is probably accustomed to being the underdog and perceiving itself as fighting the good fight. Is the group and its membership ready to examine its privilege, acknowledge when it gets things wrong, and then learn and grow?

It's a lot of work, and it's hard work, and I really appreciate that you're putting in the effort to ask these questions and listen to the answers.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-03-31T23:49:41Z

@nicole It took me far too long (even after coming out) to switch to a purse, in spite of my partner encouraging me to do so for years. 😆

Apart from the usual sort of stuff I used to keep in pockets (wallet, keys, flashlight, pens, notebook, spoon) I now have a purse that fits my ereader and a small bluetooth keyboard. Not quite essential, but it is so nice to be able to read/write/sketch wherever I go.

What about you?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-02T15:11:37Z
re: Dysphoria

@itzyg That's definitely something I've experienced plenty and heard about from others.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-02T16:13:01Z
attempting to analyze my experience with simultaneous dysphoria + imposter syndrome

@itzyg I think for me it's a combination of the obvious:
"I don't look sufficiently girl." ➡️ Dysphoria!

with the somewhat more convoluted:
"I don't look sufficiently girl." ➡️ internalized gender norms say "well then maybe I'm not actually a girl." ➡️​ Imposter syndrome!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-03T00:48:35Z
re: subtoot

@meganL I think I just saw the post this is referring to, or at least a post this could refer to, and the account is on... hachyderm. An instance focused on the tech industry. 🤦‍♀️ 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-03T00:57:21Z
re: subtoot

@meganL Yes, definitely weird.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-03T01:23:02Z

@younata Nice! The trailer looks great!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-04T18:18:30Z

@enobacon That is neither my budget nor my style, but I like the modularity of the frame. I wonder if they'll get many takers for the bespoke "Big" version?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-05T22:28:56Z
re: Queer Romance Club Book Poll for April

@twistylittlepassages Oooh. The Romantic Agenda has been on my to-read list for a while (Ace representation in romance! Woo!). I'll have to look into the rest of these...

Thanks for posting the poll!

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-05T23:19:51Z

A2. Varies depending on my mood, my speed, and my read of the person & their behavior. I usually err on the side of alerting unless I have really a lot of space to pass, because I'd rather not surprise them or have them suddenly and unwittingly step in front of me.

I favor my bell because it's a pretty distinctive indicator that I'm a bicycle and there's no risk of the occasional confusion:

"Passing on your left!"
pedestrian hears "left" and moves left
I have to suddenly brake and/or dodge

@lioracle @ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-06T17:17:52Z

A7. The first and much more straightforward thing I've learned is that I do actually enjoy some kinds of exercise / athletic activity.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-06T17:18:04Z

A7. The second and probably more important thing I learned about myself through cycling is: I will accept a significant amount of stigma and risk to do something that feels right for me. Fifteen years ago, that was committing to not driving. Fifteen months ago, it was starting to transition.

I asked myself the usual sorts of questions when I was debating whether to socially transition: Was I willing to accept the challenges of being trans in a cisnormative society? I didn't feel a lot of dysphoria at the time. Was it worth it to transition just because...

Because I thought I would enjoy it? Because I had some vague sense that it felt right for me?

As soon as I framed the question that way, the answer was obvious. I had already figured this out when I decided to use a bicycle as my primary transportation. It wasn't the safest* thing or the most socially acceptable, but it was the choice that felt right for me, and I went with it, and I've pretty much always been glad I did, even when it was challenging.

So far, transition has been a net positive as well. Not always easy, but absolutely worth it.

* Note: I've spent most of my life in places where both cycling and being trans are comparatively safe by US standards. I have faced fewer challenges to cycling and to transitioning than many people face. I can only speak to my own experience, and I recognize that the tradeoffs and considerations for these things may be very different for other people.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-06T18:14:25Z
contemporary curse

"May there be bubbles under your screen protectors."

(Guess what I've been doing this morning.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-06T21:11:16Z

@miriamrobern Well, that just ate a few hours but I think I finally determined that the different colors have different "mass"?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-06T21:19:07Z

@miriamrobern 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-07T19:25:57Z

@ChloeCat @LianSirenia@transfem.social I don't know if there's anything that quite matches the capacity of an LLV and has the same ease of access to the cargo, but if you want an infodump on e-assist cargo cycles as delivery vehicles, I've got one...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-07T20:05:42Z
infodump, 1/2

@LianSirenia@transfem.social @ChloeCat Well then...

There's some cool work happening in the world of delivery cycles. A lot of them are quadracycles like the Velove Armadillo and FlevoBike GoLo, though those are in a tricky spot because most places in the US don't classify quads as "bicycles" from a legal perspective.

I think many of them, including both Flevo and Velove, are trying to solve the volume problem by making it fast and easy to swap cargo containers so riders can make more short trips. I guess that could work on urban delivery routes that can probably be broken up into shorter pieces without adding too much travel time, but I expect there might be issues on suburban or rural routes that can't be split as easily.

Velove seems to have some tractor-trailer style Armadillos with the biggest cargo compartment I've seen on any commercially-produced pedal-powered vehicle. That's probably the closest you can get to a delivery truck, size-wise.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-07T20:06:18Z
infodump, 2/2

@LianSirenia@transfem.social @ChloeCat

FlevoBike prototyped a delivery trike back in the 90s. I have the consumer version of that trike and I love it but they were... possibly optimistic about how many people would want to deal with the learning curve to ride something with a non-standard steering geometry. Also it's pretty small, probably no more than double the USPS walking carts.

There's upright trikes like the ones B-Line uses in PDX. I don't know much about them (not weird enough to really catch my interest), but they look pretty capacious.

I have an acquaintance who was(/is?) part of a FedEx pilot project using more conventional front-loader cargo bicycles (Bullit, I think?) for deliveries somewhere in Canada. I could probably dig up more info on that, too, though it seems like all the big delivery companies are trying it these past few years and they're all putting out press releases because it's good for the corporate image, so you could just read one of those.

I don't think any of those are a drop-in replacement for the current standard delivery trucks. Of course, if you're willing to consider the realm of absurd custom-built hobbyist projects I think the 8-rad might be able to carry more than an LLV! But it's probably deeply impractical for most delivery routes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-08T00:22:37Z

@enobacon If I were doing mine again, I'd probably use a sheet of heavy coroplast. Depends on the tools and materials you have to work with, though...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-08T01:13:18Z

@enobacon That sounds like it would be a lot of 3d printing!

If you're thinking fiberglass, you could combine it with the cardboard and do cardboard-core composite. I've also considered using the heavy-duty honeycomb cardboard you can find in some larger packages. I've gotten it from furniture stores. You can peel the paper off either side and you're left with a flexible paper honeycomb, which seems like it would be fantastic for composite work... But I've done very little with fiberglass, so I don't necessarily know what I'm talking about!

I've mentioned to someone on here before... might have been you? The solar roof on my trike is a 1/8" plywood frame that has just enough curvature to keep the panel on top of it from being too floppy.

I have also seen panel supports that are just aluminum sheets with giant holes drilled in them. Or panels supported on frames made from aluminum box/angle/channel stock. Those needed several crossbars to support the center, though, since they can't really give the panel any curvature.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-08T02:15:02Z

@greene It depends on what you want from it...

The three P100 elastomeric respirators I've tried and liked ok:

GVS Elipse - Smaller and more elegant than most P100s with the filters built into the mask instead of sticking out the sides. It also has nice wide elastic straps instead of a more complicated yoke common on the upper straps of other elastomerics. Downsides: It's hard to find the source-controlled version anywhere but Amazon, and mine came with a manufacturing defect that created a leak next to one of the filters. GVS never responded to my inquiry, so I fixed it with silicone sealant.

3M 6000 series - This is the most industrial-looking one I've tried - all grey and boxy with huge filters on the sides, but it's the lightest of the three and I think something about having a separate, valved, filter for exhaled air results in less condensation. It is also the most muffling of the three - I really have to speak up with this mask, and still end up repeating myself sometimes.

Dentec ComfortAir - This one is sort of in the middle. Plain white with filters that stick out on the sides, but it's at least smaller than the 3M. It's small but also the heaviest, which isn't necessarily good for prolonged wear.

The pricing was similar (I think around $30-40) for all of these, though the 3M was a little more expensive up-front because I could only find exhale valve filters in sets of six. I believe the price of replacement filters is similar for all of them as well, but I haven't replaced them yet so I'm not certain.

Note: All of these have source control (exhaled air goes through a filter). If that's not something you want, then there are a bunch more options. I've heard good reviews of the 3M 7500 (I think?) series, which has a different type of filter cartridge and a speaking diaphragm so people can hear you more easily. You also don't have to worry about condensation inside the mask nearly as much.

I'll be interested to see other responses...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-08T02:35:03Z

@enobacon Regen vs. too much solar is a real problem that I have experienced. If you're gonna park for a while at the top of a big hill, remember to unplug your solar charger! Or upgrade your mechanical brakes. Or both.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-08T11:28:05Z
re: HRT question

@daughterofrao transfemscience.org/articles/t is the reference I've found most helpful for this.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-10T04:53:13Z

Bike trip: Mostly prepared for.
Planned Departure: Early in the morning.
Battery: Charged.
Sundress: Packed.
Sun in the forecast: ✅
Rain also in the forecast: ✅
At list it's only forecast to rain on the return trip: ✅
I'd better go pack some weather-resistant layers...

🙃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-12T23:12:37Z

A1. I'm visiting Davis, CA for a few days, and yesterday I got to meet up with @meganL! We spent a couple hours hanging out and chatting and I can confirm that she is just as awesome and interesting to talk to in person as she is online.

The ride out here was very pleasant and sunny, but the forecast suggests that it'll be dumping a significant amount of rain on my return trip. Oh well, that's why I brought wool pants (and other raingear).

@ascentale @rodbotic

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-13T01:31:55Z

@meganL Thanks for posting the picture! I rarely remember to take photos.

@ascentale @rodbotic @bikenite

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-13T16:24:43Z
Queer Romance Club: Slippery Creatures (I read the whole thing, but this doesn't contain spoilers)

Well, I read the whole thing pretty much in one go and it was a lot of fun! Now I'm looking forward to the sequels.

I love the writing, especially after reading kjcharleswriter.com/2023/10/11 a few months ago and getting a bit of a look behind the scenes.

I could probably think of more commentary on this, but right now I just want to say that Phoebe is my absolute favorite and I really hope she shows up more in the next books.

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-13T22:11:53Z
hemlines over time in literature, joke-ish

When you switch back and forth between reading historical romance set in 1920s Britain and Devil Wears Prada fanfic:

Re-reading a sentence to check whether the skirt was cut to show a lot of thigh, or a lot of calf.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-16T06:52:39Z

@NilaJones @MLE_online I suspect it's @PrideRadioGroup?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-18T02:47:09Z

puts on N95 mask

achoo! achoo!

takes off the mask, throws it out, and puts on a new one

Oh joy, allergy season!

achoo!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-18T03:03:01Z

@sasha@a.softer.network Oh, no - I tossed the mask because the sneezing indicates that it's gotten too much pollen on the inside, and if I keep wearing it I'll never stop sneezing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-18T03:28:23Z

@sasha@a.softer.network I would second that proposal, except I like plants.

Counterproposal: Make immune systems stop overreacting to pollen.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-18T03:34:20Z

@salad_bar_breath My WIP from November is set approximately in 2023, so... yes?

It would be an N95 or P100 instead of a gas mask, but that may very well end up in the story somewhere. It does need more funny bits.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-18T03:55:08Z

@younata Lovely bike & video!

You've got much the same system I do, and with the same rationale for most things, but your build is so much more polished and professional! Next time someone asks why I care about regen I'm just going to point at this video.

(Truing disc rotors always feels weird to me: "Let's make tiny, precise adjustments to a critical part of the braking system. How? Oh, we'll just bend it into shape with a big hunk of steel.")

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-18T14:58:10Z

Heck yes
sundress
weather!

(Countdown until my inner tomboy and/or my preference for recumbent bikes requires that I switch to shorts: 5... 4...)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-18T20:29:46Z

@twistylittlepassages Oh, yeah. I nearly always wear shorts under skirts/dresses anyway. It just doesn't feel worthwhile wearing a dress over shorts when I'm biking around and the dress is just going to be effectively a shirt most of the time.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-18T20:59:22Z
re: Queer Romance Club: Slippery Creatures (I read the whole thing, but this doesn't contain spoilers)

@wendypalmer Well, I read the remaining two books and it still wasn't enough Phoebe for me, so I took a look on AO3 for Phoebe/Maisie and I really shouldn't dive into reading any of it yet (need to get other things done) but I was very amused to see the following tag:

Excessive usage of the word "darling" (consistent with canon)

@queerromanceclub

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-18T21:24:30Z

@HopePunkFTW What's "a few groceries" for you?

A good secondhand bike with a rack or two and some large panniers can carry quite a bit. You can add a trailer for more capacity.

Dedicated cargo bikes are awesome and I love them, but they do get spendy and might be overkill for what you're describing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-18T23:49:07Z

@Lucia Reminds me of the way Lucifer is portrayed in Transistor by Molly J. Bragg. I should re-read those books...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-19T00:14:55Z

@DelilahTech I spent several years doing something similar (albeit less formal) for bicycle repair. It wasn't as controlled an environment because people usually needed to ride the bikes home at the end of the day, but still...

A fellow volunteer coined the term "couch mechanic." If you're doing it right, you don't touch the tools or the bikes. You spend the whole shift sitting on the couch, answering questions and checking in with people to make sure they haven't gotten stuck or made it to the point of actually breaking something. Maybe occasionally you demonstrate something.

It's not the fastest way to get the repair done, but that isn't the point. The point is for people to learn, and that's something completely different.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-19T00:35:34Z
Slippery Creatures & Subtle Blood (still not really spoilers)

@wendypalmer Oh, that's lovely! Looks very Phoebe.

Speaking of Phoebe... I keep wondering if the Hispano-Suiza at the end was a nod to the Phryne Fisher books?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-19T23:55:15Z

A2. When it comes to heavy duty trailers, I'm perhaps a bit of a Bikes@Work fangirl.

I first used an old (non-separable) borrowed B@W trailer to haul a giant sectional couch ~10 miles, among other things. I've owned one of the previous generation of separable B@W trailers for a while now and hauled all sorts of things. Their new generation of trailers looks even more elegant and customizable, since it uses a common, standard aluminum extrusion.

The B@W hitches I'm familiar with mostly attach to the rear axle or to the rear triangle near the axle on a conventional bike frame. I've also made simple custom hitches for our trikes, since it's a standard and readily-available rod-end bearing.

I also like the style of the Carla Cargo with a front wheel. I've used a DIY version a little bit, and they're great if you have to walk them.

Some people are really into the Surly trailers, but the hitch is a little too specific for my preference. They look cheaper than B@W for a similar size and load capacity... until you notice that the hitch assembly is sold separately, and it brings the price up into a similar range.

For light duty, I tend to go with old kid trailers acquired secondhand. If the fabric is really worn out, put a plywood floor or box on it. Otherwise... whatever works.

@ascentale @Iragersh @scottsthoughts

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-20T00:00:54Z

@miriamrobern Good question... A while back it seemed like she was maybe trying to be less identifiable - switched to an abstract profile pic, I think, among other things?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-20T00:05:04Z

@miriamrobern Drat. I hope she's doing ok. I never talked to her much, but I enjoyed a lot of her posts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-20T00:36:55Z

@ingalls Is that the Sena Pi, or is there something else that does the same thing?

@andyw350 @ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-20T02:47:53Z

A6. I have a Sena Pi primarily for the intercom function, but sometimes I also use it for music or audiobooks when riding solo.

It doesn't cover the ears, so I can hear what's going on around me. I think it blocks a bit of wind noise, and it's quiet enough that nobody will hear it unless they're too close for my comfort anyway.

The UX on the Pi is kind of terrible (I'm supposed to press which button and hold it for how long? And then double-tap which button?) and some of the functions don't work (I can't get it to pair with a non-sena headset) but the intercom is still incredibly useful and it's the best balance of quiet, safe, & effective that I've found for music, etc..

In the past I've sometimes listened to things via a single earbud in my right ear or the right half of a small, old over-the-ear headphone attached to the helmet - the kind of headphones that used to come with a cheap Walkman or portable CD player. (That latter idea came from some former hang glider pilots who needed to hear their radios and still leave an ear open for safety.) I was a lot more picky about only using those solutions in quiet, low-traffic areas. There are still situations where I pause anything I've got playing on the Sena.

@Kleen @ingalls @andyw350 @ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-20T03:24:36Z

- Just playing around with different sounds.

Hey, it's TransVoiceFriday! I've been wanting to play with voice stuff lately, so... 

This is about what I sounded like before voice training. 

Now I kind of default to something more like this, but 

I think I can go much more fem if I feel so inclined. 

And I keep trying to figure out a good low pitch / bright resonance combination, but I'm not sure if I've got it yet.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-21T18:18:03Z

Well, I just encountered "Name May Not Contain Spaces" for the first time. So now there's a company that thinks I'm Darinapril (that'll be fun if I ever have to actually speak with customer service).

And perhaps I'll send them kalzumeus.com/2010/06/17/false, on the off chance it makes its way to the right person.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-21T18:27:07Z

@gistofspirit I was just looking through it and noticed that too!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-21T19:34:18Z

@derwinmcgeary There's some corollary of Betteridge's law which applies to that statement.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-21T19:45:42Z

@derwinmcgeary Oooh, I like that concept.

(Do I like it enough to brush up on regexs? Not sure yet.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-21T21:17:18Z

@Packbat Depends on context, of course. I'm around average height for a human in the US. I would make different assumptions in different settings.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-22T01:02:59Z

Oh hey, it's "I don't care about the movie but I do very much enjoy the silly commentary" o'clock. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-22T14:24:56Z

@salad_bar_breath That sounds so amazing. I haven't found anywhere near me with mandatory masking and I'm slightly jealous but also very glad you got to experience it.

My primary working theory for why people oppose masking is: They don't want to see people masking or taking other precautions because then they'd be confronted with the possibility everything isn't and hasn't been "back to normal" which involves (1) admitting they're wrong and/or (2) admitting that some of the authorities and news outlets they trust are wrong. #1 is hard because people are discouraged from being wrong, and #2 is hard because it requires both admitting they're wrong and also recalibrating who they trust and why, which is a lot of work.

(Well, and that's not counting the extreme conspiracy theory mindsets that I haven't really tried to comprehend.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-22T15:36:31Z
rant

@salad_bar_breath Yep. Or that someone rides a bicycle. Or any number of things people feel like they *ought* to do.

Which just... Augh! It's so frustrating sometimes, and I end up scaling back conversation on topics I really care about because I know it'll drive people away. And I get it, I've experienced that discomfort of being around someone and feeling like I don't live up to their standards, like I'm not doing a good enough job at [important thing] while they are, but I also think I do a decent job of understanding that we're all working on different things at different paces and it's on me to find ways to cope with my discomfort.

Okay, I think I'm done ranting now. 😃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-22T16:05:42Z
re: advantages of wearing masks, 🧵

@salad_bar_breath Another niche benefit of masks: I can ride through a cloud of gnats without inhaling any of them. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-22T21:17:40Z
questionable joke; relies on the presumption that someone is trans based on very little evidence

@salad_bar_breath "Bro" forgot to change (gender) presentation to match wallpaper.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-23T03:21:49Z
re: Gender-related musings

@greene I know people with perspectives/feelings/inclinations that are... not really the same, but not entirely dissimilar. So it doesn't sound particularly weird to me.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-23T04:27:18Z

@meganL Agreed.

Reminds me of inkcinct.com.au/index.php/2015

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-23T04:41:41Z

@meganL It's a bit disconcerting, though, because that same line of reasoning reinforces a lot of conspiracy thinking: "They say I'm crazy, but it's only because they're trying to suppress the truth."

I end up spending a lot of time trying to cross-check and re-examine my own axioms because of the above, which is probably a good thing for the most part.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-23T15:14:20Z

Today's mood: Crying at "Women Know Math" by The Doubleclicks while eating breakfast.

Such a good song.

(youtube.com/watch?v=ClhgnkJ9VQ)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-23T15:41:34Z

@Impossible_PhD Wait, you haven't read it yet?! Well, I'm looking forward to your reaction.

Have fun! See you in a few days! 👋

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-23T15:51:38Z

@Impossible_PhD Ah, right. I was fortunate(?) to have time to go full-on book zombie when I first read it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-23T15:59:04Z

@pqqq Are you too gay for haircuts?

Maybe you need to wait a week so the lesbians will be less visible again.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-23T16:47:53Z

@Hannah

On AO3: archiveofourown.org/works/3539

And I believe chapters are released earlier on the author's patreon: patreon.com/alysongreaves

@Impossible_PhD @storybead

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-23T17:31:41Z

Today in backwards compatibility:

"rotary callers, remain on the line"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-23T17:36:15Z

@Impossible_PhD @Hannah @storybead Also in things you may not consider reasonable: If you're already at *nearly* a million words, why not aim for that nice round number?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-24T03:25:45Z
thoughts on the Dorley Hall series

@Impossible_PhD Huh. Thanks for posting this.

When I started reading Dorley I focused on thinking of it as allegory - Dorley Hall does to (presumed) cis people what cisnormative society does to trans people. The whole point, then, is that everything Dorley does is intolerable because it's highlighting how intolerable all of those things are when cis society does them to trans people through inaction or prohibition.

But I got so caught up in that line of thinking that I forgot to be critical of it: If Dorley is an allegory, it lacks any equivalent for trans people. In Dorley, I guess they'd be "graduates" who detransitioned. We know some graduates end up identifying as enby, but apparently none of them identify as male, which is... implausible at best, and under the circumstances really problematic. At some point there's a bit of a handwave-y "well, we've gotten really good at identifying people who aren't actually too attached to their masculinity" attempt at an excuse for that lack, but it's *very* thin and has problematic implications of its own.

So... yeah. I'm going to have to re-think that allegorical perspective.

Not what I anticipated when I said I was looking forward to your reaction, but still interesting, enlightening, and appreciated!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-24T20:26:34Z

@malcircuit There's definitely some interaction there. I asked about this a while back and got a variety of responses: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1115994

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-24T20:36:21Z
self-inflicted tech problems

Finally gave up and uploaded documents via an app...

...but not before I spent over an hour redlining my laptop, submitting hi-res images via the browser interface by running OBS in virtual webcam mode. It almost worked, but then it error-ed on the last one and sent me back to the beginning and that was the last straw.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-24T20:41:48Z
re: self-inflicted tech problems

Bonus: I re-started my browser too many times and now it won't restore my old tabs.

At this point, I may be furious with the company that instigated all this, but mostly I just have to laugh.

And go back through "recently closed tabs" and "history" before anything too important gets buried.

And maybe go run an errand before I do any of that, because I need some time away from this screen.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-26T18:45:03Z

@SarraceniaWilds Oh gosh I just looked up superstrata, and... what?

I don't know the backstory here, but it looks very much like explainxkcd.com/wiki/index.php except with "3D printing" instead of "algorithms."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-26T22:26:43Z

@SarraceniaWilds @voiceofunreason @sam @smellsofbikes

talking about bikes too much

There's no such thing!

(Right? ...right?!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T02:05:21Z

A7. I intensely dislike the way most of the US defines and regulates e-bikes right now. The common way of classifying e-bikes (speed, power, and throttle vs. no throttle) seems to have as much to do with how closely the vehicle resembles a conventional acoustic bike as anything else.

I don't care how "acoustic bike"-ish a vehicle is, I care about how dangerous it is to the people around it. Anything that's allowed to use cycling infrastructure should be designed with commensurate parameters for safe operation.

I'd focus on speed & weight, since they determine the amount of energy/force* involved in a crash. Speed also determines how far you travel between realizing you need to brake/turn/whatever to avert a crash and actually doing it.

I'm leery of low limits on absolute weight since they can discourage cargo cycling - I've heard an anecdote or two from Europe about this. Ideally I'd rather see a very high absolute weight limit combined with "If the combined weight of you, your cycle, and your cargo exceeds [some comparatively low limit], then the total rated stopping power of your brakes must be [sufficient to safely stop you]."

Acceleration limits seem like a pretty good idea too, since that'll impact how the vehicle behaves and how similar its behavior is to the vehicles around it. Also, as with speed, you shouldn't be accelerating too fast for your reaction time to keep up.

I think of power limits as being mostly an awkward and frequently inaccurate proxy for (weight * speed) and (weight * acceleration) that fail to take into account things like too-steep infrastructure, or the challenges of riders who can't always provide much human power but want to haul cargo.

I don't care if a bike has a throttle or not, but I'm leaving out that rant... for now, at least. And regulations about number of wheels are absurd and should have been thrown out years ago.

* apologies to people who actually know physics, I'm a bit rusty on the nuances here

@ascentale @ai6yr @sam

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T02:21:39Z

A7. (cont'd) The challenge with regulating speed and acceleration is they're pretty much always regulated by software, and the software can be modified to alter the limits.

But the same is true for speed and power*, two of the parameters that are currently regulated. So... no change, really.

Weight is harder - I'm not going to weigh my cargo every time I ride - but I can at least get a rough sense of my maximum weight and stay well under it.

Enforcement is hard for *all* of the above. I wonder if that's part of the reason throttles are a common criterion for regulation? It's comparatively easy to see if a vehicle has a throttle.

Mostly the "solution" to regulating speed and power has been for e-bike manufacturers to try to lock down their software against tinkering and slap "Class [1,2,3]" stickers on the frame. I suspect manufacturers love it because it gives them an excuse for charging exorbitant prices to shops that want the ability to tweak software settings. I don't think it does too much for regulation or enforcement, though.

* Ok, yes, power is more complicated. IIRC, if you push more than the rated power into a given motor under a certain set of conditions for too long, it'll overheat and fail, and motor "power ratings" are based on that. But practically speaking power is regulated in software because you do *not* want your motor overheating because that can cause permanent damage.

@ascentale @ai6yr @sam

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T02:29:19Z

A6. It works with more conventional bikes too! Even for non-bike things! Inner tubes generally make great all-purpose elastic straps.

@marcprecipice @ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T02:35:27Z

A6. So I actually led a presentation/discussion on reuse in community bike shops for the Bike!Bike! Everywhere! 2021 virtual conference. I haven't watched the recording in a while, but if you want to watch 36 minutes of people discussing all sorts of bike part reuse...

archive.org/details/video18622

Note: That was before I started any sort of transition. I look & sound quite different these days!

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T05:07:29Z
re: Reference to hypothetical violence (automotive and general)

A4. I'm with Sam on this. I feel like in most situations, getting away from cars is the single best thing I can do for my safety.

Someone in a car can kill or severely injure me without even trying. Someone without a car will probably at least have to put some effort into it. And most places I'm riding, the options are a multi-use path with a handful of people on it or a street with lots of cars.

But I also know that my habits and instincts around this are informed by 30+ years of presenting as and assuming myself to be an abled cis-het white guy. In the year-and-a-bit since I started presenting fem full-time I've had at least one experience where I had a strong gut-feeling that I wasn't safe, where I don't think I would have felt that way pre-transition. I don't think any of them were on MUPs, though; the only specific one that comes to mind was walking down the sidewalk in a mixed-use urban area.

@sam @ascentale @MartyCormack

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T15:04:45Z

A3. Um. Which vehicles with more or less than 2 wheels have I *not* talked about lots here already? Well... apparently several of them:

I don't remember it firsthand, but there's photos of me as a little kid (maybe around 5?) riding a tiny trike that's been dressed up as a robot using cardboard boxes, tinfoil, and dryer vent tubing, among other things. My parents have joked about it being the first sign of my penchant for creating and riding strange bikes.

Probably the next time I got on a trike after that was in Davis, nearly fifteen years later...

It might have been the bike collective's Mobile Ministry Unit, a huge semi-recumbent cargo trike with a vaguely church-shaped wooden cargo carrier on the back and a steering system that involved holding onto fixed handlebars and bracing your back against the back of the seat while swiveling your lower body. I was one of the few people who could ride it without quickly veering into the curb. It was later rebuilt with a more conventional steering geometry.

Or maybe it was the acquaintance who had a tilt-steer tadpole trike he had built for a final project. It was enormous fun to ride on flat surfaces but very awkward on crowned roads.

At some point I made a little addon for one of my first homebuilt recumbents that turned it into a trike, and I guess I rode it 80+ miles each way to visit my parents at some point. There's a picture of me sitting on it on their old patio, packed for light touring. I only vaguely remember that trip.

I've built and/or ridden a few other trikes over the years, mostly to test different steering geometries, tilting mechanisms, and construction methods.

I guess I've also ridden a linked pair of delta trikes, which is sorta technically 5 wheels.

I have tried unicycling a few times - generally whenever I've been able to get a secondhand unicycle very cheaply - and gotten good enough to ride a few circles around a parking lot but never pursued it further. 2 or more wheels just seems so much more practical for transportation, and I have a lot more motivation to play with vehicles when I can also use them for transportation.

@ascentale @meganL

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T18:55:01Z

@younata Ah, thank you! I knew it was something like that but the closest thing I had was F=ma which kind of gets the gist of it but the KE & impulse equations are what I was actually looking for.

I was going to take issue with power limits as a proxy for acceleration limits, but I just realized that my intuition there is probably confounded by torque limitations of the direct-drive GRIN hub. I do agree that 250W is way too low, having (barely) climbed a few 20% grades with a heavy load on the trike and a 750W power limit.

@ascentale @ai6yr @sam

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T19:05:45Z

@dr2chase Yeah. 20mph is a bit much for me, I usually keep my limit set at 16.

I'm pretty sure I've exceeded 700lbs gross weight with a fully loaded trailer pulled by a tandem, without e-assist. The bike had two hydraulic rim brakes and an Arai drum (drag) brake, which was just about sufficient. In retrospect, the frame construction & steering geometry on that bike weren't really up to the task. Maybe in an ideal world we'd have a separate class of vehicle design standards for those sorts of very heavy loads. (And such things would be common enough that they wouldn't be completely unaffordable.)

@ascentale @ai6yr @sam

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-27T22:24:49Z

@parsley Yeah, that matches my experience. If we're out for a whole day and using them pretty continuously I have to remember to plug them in to charge (from a battery bank or the e-bike battery) at some point while we're stopped.

@Kleen @ingalls @andyw350 @ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-27T23:20:58Z

I've been really enjoying the song Trópico de Cáncer by Café Tacuba lately. (That is to say: I've been listening to it on indefinite repeat.)

It's a really catchy tune, and the lyrics...

"Pero es que yo pienso que ha llegado el tiempo / De darle lugar a los espacios sin cemento"

In English: "But I think the time has come / To make room for spaces without cement"

Hat tip to @mzedp for posting a link to this impressive video for it a while back: youtube.com/watch?v=IN8D92MLG4

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-28T07:05:22Z

@melerva@toot.lgbt

*unfolds Leatherman Rebar*

*pokes at trap with tip of pliers*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-28T07:07:36Z

@melerva@toot.lgbt

*carefully grabs trap with pliers*

*picks it up and turns it over to examine it*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-28T07:08:24Z

@melerva@toot.lgbt *hugs!*

Excellent trap, very well constructed.

A+ would poke trap again.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-28T07:27:11Z

@melerva@toot.lgbt Also I have just learned that there is a bicycle multitool (allen + torx wrench) sold with an optional cover called a "hug" to prevent it poking holes in your pocket.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-28T08:48:42Z

I was looking through pictures going back to ~2010 and I'm pretty sure the photos I have taken of my face are outnumbered by photos of the back of my head that I've taken to see how a new braiding experiment worked.

(Not that I normally do anything special with my hair; I've been braiding it the same way ~99% of the time since I upgraded from low ponytails in 2018. It changed slightly a few years ago when I figured out how to incorporate a ribbon.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-04-29T16:21:48Z

@pqqq Nice!

(It was only in the last month or so that I said to myself, "this comic's themes have been very sapphic and kinda trans lately" and checked the Author page and said "...ooooohh." 🤦‍♀️)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-29T20:24:07Z

@EveOfTheFuture It does have TBR capability (and generally allows you to give books different statuses, e.g. I created a "to acquire" category) but the interface is just clunky enough that I eventually stopped using it.

It, um... it feels like Open Source Software, in the not-good way. Like they don't quite have enough people working on it to really make it a smooth experience.

@pqqq I, too, look forward to reading more of your book thoughts!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-30T14:33:16Z

@HayiWena Oh dear.

I was hoping to find some useful categorical terms that include all or some the various vehicles used on sidewalks, MUPs, and bike lanes.

But, um. That seems to be a very car-centric list of terms. And kind of a lot about automated driving.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-04-30T14:38:10Z

@HayiWena I'd be happy with anything other than "There's a bike lane on the road but it disappears through the roundabout, have fun with that merge." which I've seen too much lately.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-01T03:17:58Z

Well, I guess it's the end of the month when I get to see my name everywhere.

Goodbye, month of April! I'll help carry the name until next year. 😉

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-01T03:18:30Z

(I'm sure I'll eventually be less excited about the whole month-name thing. Maybe in a decade or two.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-01T21:15:49Z

@catdad I find fiction effective as a low-effort / unstructured approach, since I generally enjoy fiction. Reading something at a comfortable reading level or watching TV/movies, especially starting with ones you know well enough so you can cope with missing occasional bits of dialog.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-01T22:31:25Z

@kim Shouting: Sssh! It's a secret!

Nice touring setup! What's the cylindrical thing strapped behind/under the seat?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-03T22:56:16Z

Ok, It's apparently been a few months since I recorded my standard sentence from _Small Miracles_ and... apparently I now default to the lower pitch while maintaining resonance?!

I am thrilled and amazed! I wanted to shift my pitch down a bit, and have apparently done so with very little effort or practice except for occasionally thinking about it when I'm talking.

I still want to keep practicing so I have more control over various parameters and can alter my voice when I feel like it, but... wow. I couldn't have done this a year ago, as demonstrated by some of the earlier posts in this thread.

Chapter 1: It was eight o'clock on a Wednesday morning when the Fallen Angel of Petty Temptations walked into a quaint cafe on the north end of Church Street.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-04T01:21:24Z

@solarbird That's a lovely map! I like a lot of the choices you've made with the legend / design. Sorta makes me wish I lived up that way just so I could use it. 😄

Perhaps you've posted about it already and I missed it, but... what's the process like for creating this?

@sip @MHowell

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-04T01:26:52Z

@miriamrobern Woah! That is a lot of test.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-04T01:31:52Z

@Willowbriar Hey! I am also a member of the "tried to do a fem voice before figuring out I was trans" club. I kinda wish I had recordings of that...

(P.S.: You sound great!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-04T03:42:49Z

@melerva@toot.lgbt

There are no villains in my book, only mental illnesses and their effects

Huh. I hadn't consciously picked up on this as a feature of your writing, but it is perhaps unsurprising that conflict without villains is a feature I really appreciate in books.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-04T03:55:53Z

@solarbird ...Preview? Last time I used Preview it could just about handle displaying a PDF. I guess it has gained a few features in the last... *checks watch* ...decade? Anyway, that sounds like an impressively janky process!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-04T18:01:31Z

@esther@strangeobject.space The bottom bracket axle is probably hardened steel. If you're going the destructive route, I would cut through the crank arms, from the edge in toward the center of the hole where they attach (assuming they are aluminum, as most modern cranksets are, and that you can remove the chainrings to get decent access). Even if you have to cut the chainrings to get access, that may be easier than cutting the axle.

Less destructive (and possibly easier) options I have had success with:
- ride around with the crank bolts removed or loose until the cranks fall off. Stomp on the pedals as much as possible. It will probably round out the holes in the crank arms, making them useless, but it may get them off.
- whack the crank arms with a hammer. Lots. Whack in multiple directions to help loosen them.
- there is a tool called a "pickle fork". It might be an automotive thing? Anyway, sometimes you can drive the wedge of it between the crank and the bottom bracket to force the crank off.
- sometimes an automotive bearing puller can be hooked around the outer edge of the crank or into the chainring spider and the center bolt driven against the axle as you would a bicycle crank puller. The main challenges are that the hooks of the bearing puller may be difficult to hold in place around the crankarm and bearing pullers usually have 2-3 arms, which does not work well with common 5-arm crank spiders.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-04T18:09:05Z

@esther@strangeobject.space On the off chance it is a (usually older) bottom bracket where you can get a wrench onto the drive-side bottom bracket cup while the crank is still installed, you can sometimes get away with removing only the left crank and then unscrewing the bottom bracket with the crank still attached. (Or the other way around if it isn't a sealed cartridge bottom bracket.)

Rapid heating and/or cooling might also help if you have access to a torch and/or dry ice? I have not tried that myself.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-04T18:25:45Z

@esther@strangeobject.space One caution with a pickle fork: If used on modern cartridge bottom brackets with plastic or aluminum cups the pickle fork can damage the splines that the bottom bracket tool fits into, causing a whole new set of problems.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-04T18:40:47Z

Dangit. I am crying over old bike maps. I'm sad about the possibility that I may never again ride some of these routes, or if I do it'll be so far in the future that these maps - maps to which I've attached some very fond memories - may no longer be useful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-05T02:31:30Z

@EveOfTheFuture Oh, that's an excellent point that I hadn't thought of. They really are visual representations of a region or a route in addition to being functional objects, often with very elegant visual design.

I didn't think of it earlier, but this reminds me that I've had maps pinned to my wall like posters at multiple points in my life, and I did treat them like decoration. They are a kind of portrait, perhaps.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-05T19:52:55Z

I'm getting rid of a stack of bike maps that I don't expect to use in the foreseeable future. Anybody want some or all of them?

The stack includes:

  • Adventure Cycling maps for a cross-US trip mostly on the Southern Tier, cutting up to the TransAmerica route at the eastern end
  • Local/regional maps in the western half of Oregon - one from Douglas County, and an old PDX Metro Bike There! map. Also a non-bike-specific map Polk county.
  • State bicycle maps for Illinois, Virginia, Wyoming, and parts of Delaware
  • a booklet of urban & mountain rides in Nelson, NZ

Maps that are now promised to people:

  • a few bike maps from Lane County, OR that I got printed, and one non-bike map of Lane County

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-05T20:35:55Z

@hollie Awesome! DM or email (april@aprilwick.com) an address to send them to?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-07T21:17:03Z

@EverBeyondReach I've got my purse and my multitool. Which bicycle should I bring?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-07T21:40:06Z

@EverBeyondReach Got it. I'll need to move the e-assist to the FrankenForward. Give me forty minutes and a truing stand.

*puts greasy apron on over dress*

*spins wrench*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-07T22:29:53Z

@jepyang Aaaah yes! I hope you'll report back.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-08T00:36:45Z

@jepyang @JoshGrams I think wheelbuilding is really fun. I would recommend it unless fiddly, repetitive tasks drive you up the wall. I find it pleasantly meditative, and very satisfying to come out the other end with a solid wheel.

There is a huge difference between truing a cheap, beat-up wheel and building one from decent-quality new components, yes. I have done a fair bit of both and actually enjoy both, but one is more "so relaxing, so satisfying" and the other is more "Against all odds, I have made this thing functional again!"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-08T03:02:02Z

@miriamrobern Yeah, Show Girl was pretty good!

Let's see... I'm pretty sure we've already talked a bit about Zoe Storm's work, right?

Have you read any of Lily Seabrooke's books? Her two transfem protagonists to date are in Fake It (my favorite!) and Not Like Before. They're both many years post-transition and Mackenzie in Not Like Before is extremely stealth at the start, so it's a very different vibe from Greaves. (Honorable mention for a secondary character in The Rules of Love, too. I bet you'll know her when you see her.)

What about Molly J. Bragg's Transistor? It's sapphic superhero romance and very trans and sorta-kinda plural, but in a sci-fi way. I'd recommend starting with the previous book (Scatter). I just re-read the series recently; it's fun and very sapphic and the next book is apparently coming out in June!

I think there might be a few others I know of; I'll try to remember them... and I'm very interested to see other answers.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-08T03:51:55Z
musing on my experience of genderfluidity

My gender presentation usually reads binary-fem, which is somewhat intentional, but... I'm still genderfluid. (Or maybe genderflux would be more accurate, but at this point I've been calling myself genderfluid for about a decade and for me it's a subtle enough difference that I'm not in a rush to switch labels.)

Back when presenting masculine was my default, it felt pretty straightforward: I was basically a cis guy most of the time. I just occasionally enjoyed wearing skirts, and coats or vests tailored to imply a narrow waist. Living places like PDX, I didn't worry about it too much. A little bit of gender-nonconformance was pretty normal.

Since transitioning, it's gotten a little more complex. I rarely feel myself drawn to a presentation that would really read as masc, but my affinity for fem-ness varies. Those oscillations combine with imposter syndrome (which I didn't have when I was presumed cis) and dysphoria (which I mostly suppressed back then) to create some really weird interference patterns. Some days I feel extremely fem. Others I feel pretty "whatever" about gender and continue to present fem because it's habit now, and because of the pressure of both external and internalized binary-normativity. Also, I wouldn't have the motivation for switching presentation, pronouns, etc. when I'm feeling "whatever" about gender.

Sometimes I take the time to tease out where exactly the gender feels are coming from. Other times I can't be bothered; I have other stuff to do.

Overall, though, I'm pleased that I present fem by default now. I think it suits me better, and I definitely enjoy it. If nothing else, I like the look more!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-08T16:45:40Z

@SRLevine I'm not sure how many people will appreciate this but I think you might: I just heard someone talking about "the NIOSH aisle" in Grocery Outlet.

(I *wish* GO had a NIOSH aisle.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-09T22:22:09Z

@miriamrobern Oh! Also maybe _Chef's Kiss_, which is a cis-fem/enby pairing, and the sequel _Chef's Choice_, which is M/F T4T.

If YA graphic novels are of interest, there's _Cheer Up!_ and _The Prince and the Dressmaker_, both of which are sapphic, trans, and very cute.

(I think I've got all these titles correct and matched to the correct plots, but I'm not at the computer to verify right now.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-10T18:21:04Z

@EverBeyondReach Yes! Um... I don't know, what do *you* want to do?

Walking is good. Or sit in a park and read?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-10T19:41:49Z

@enobacon Oh, I can believe it wasn't done with intentional disdain or malice. Obliviousness, normativity, and systemic bias are remarkably powerful forces.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-10T20:11:14Z

@EverBeyondReach Gaming is not usually my thing, but I'd try it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-10T20:12:01Z

@EverBeyondReach Or at least I'd watch other people play, which is what I have often done in the past.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-10T20:18:26Z

@enobacon Oh, definitely negligent!

I guess systemic inequality is where the lines between ignorance, incompetence, and a sort of quiet malice often look blurry to me. I usually try to assume ignorance because it allows the most potential for growth/learning. (Though I may sometimes feel differently when I'm dodging broken glass.)

(Oh and I didn't read the full tags at first, now I see ODOT is the culprit I'm a little more likely to think malice is a factor. I've met several lovely, competent, well-intentioned people from ODOT... but they always seemed like they were actively engaged in battle with their employer.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-10T20:29:15Z

Are you more of an...

Up Cat (perching atop the bookshelf) (18)Down Cat (curled up under the bed) (24)Total Votes: 42
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-10T20:56:45Z

@pqqq I am sometimes more of a Down Cat when stressed, but I think my overall inclination is Up Cat.

I used to spend a lot of time climbing trees. (Been meaning to do more of that again...)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-10T21:05:34Z

Drat! I forgot to include an option for "other (please comment)."

I am generally interested in comments, though, regardless of which option you pick.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-11T04:00:24Z

A6. I've hauled a kayak and a canoe in a few different ways.

I posted a photo a while back: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1094767 (woah; old photo of me 👀​)

That photo is from a time I strapped an old kid-carrier type of trailer to the middle of the kayak and tied the end of the kayak to the rear rack on the bike with a bit of paracord and/or old inner tube. It was sufficient to go... probably under 10 miles? It was a folding kayak, but folding and unfolding it was such a nuisance I would occasionally just haul it whole as pictured.

I believe I also moved that kayak on a full-length (8 foot) Bikes@Work trailer, and we once towed a 16 foot fiberglass canoe on the B@W as well, with the wheels positioned as far to the rear of the trailer as they can go, to get them close to the canoe's center of gravity.

I don't know if it would work for a SUP, but I've seen surfboard racks that hang the board off the side of the bike.

@ascentale @carolski

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-11T04:04:06Z

@sam Someone gifted me Bicycling with Butterflies recently and I haven't read it yet; glad to hear good things about it!

Wild-Built has been on my peripheral to-read radar for a while, but knowing there's a bike (bike camper?!) in it just bumped it way up the list.

Thanks for the recommendations!

@ascentale @jfparis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-11T04:11:54Z

A4. I'm 2 for 2 in referencing my own old posts this BikeNite!

Possibly my favorite example of cycling representation in literature is Witchmark by C.L. Polk. As I said previously, "I rate this a Platinum-Level Bicycle Friendly Book!"

It's a fantasy setting where cycling is one of the primary modes of transportation and reads to me as being so accurate to the life of people who actually bike... because Polk does actually bike for transportation!

There's also some really excellent thematic/allegorical stuff about energy over-consumption going on, and... It's a great book.

It's not exactly about cycling, but I would recommend it to any cyclist.

@ascentale @jfparis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-11T04:17:48Z

@SRLevine Oooh yeah I don't know if that was why I dropped the Wayfarers books - it might have been, that was a while back - but I've put down a fair few books recently because of secondhand bad decision making. I just can't stop wincing and eventually have to look away.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-11T04:25:02Z

@SRLevine Literary Quibbles sounds like it could be an interesting band.

I used to read almost everything with minimal quibbles, but the combination of e-books from the library (infinite books!) and more recently getting back into writing and starting to self-study editing a bit has given me far more literary quibbles than I used to have.

It's been a while since I read Witchmark but I've been meaning to re-read it. I don't remember feeling that way about the worldbuilding, but I do remember similar comments coming up in discussion of Even Thought I Knew the End when QueerRomanceClub read it, so it could be a general style thing for Polk.

@ascentale @jfparis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-11T05:57:52Z

New hair ribbon!

I love these colors. They're so pretty!

Dark blonde hair braided with a ribbon in the lesbian flag colors (dark orange / light orange / white / pink / dark rose) in lengthwise stripes. The ribbon is tied in a bow at the end of the braid. 

Behind the braid is my light skin and a white t-shirt with blobby stripes of dark blue dye running diagonally across it.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-12T19:47:39Z

@hollie Yeah, I feel lucky that I get at least one flag with colors I like so much.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-13T03:40:36Z

@secretsloth @alienghic @meganL I have fond memories of reading AS&S catalogs for entertainment when I was a kid... I forgot they were still around!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-13T20:19:19Z

@twistylittlepassages Ugh, it's not registering the tap. Am I going to have to swipe sideways through this whole document?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-13T20:23:16Z

I don't normally name bikes except in a functional sort of way (e.g. The SolarTrike) but if/when I ever get around to building a cycle camper I'm going to name it Sister Fern.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-14T02:01:28Z

@hollie 😁 Yeah, there are times when I see a post and I just want to smash ⭐ a whole bunch of times in a row.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-15T20:39:53Z

@asthargf What?! They're doing a movie?!

Based on everything I know about Wicked, I assume it's queerbait. It would be *really* awesome if it wasn't, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-15T21:51:12Z

Beware of Dog

(The dog is small and hiding under a blanket; you wouldn't want to step on them by accident.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-15T22:01:06Z

@SRLevine For dubious cast iron I've sometimes sanded it down and re-seasoned.

Once I even went at it with a flap wheel on an angle grinder, but that was for a really gross-looking pan picked up from the side of the bike path.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-15T22:12:58Z

There's an announcement on xkcd.com about a "Special 10th Anniversary Edition of What If?"

I feel like Randall Munroe has become the time ghost.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-15T22:27:20Z

Anyone have an akkoma instance to recommend?

Or is there anything else that's got a more mastodon-like interface (I dislike *key's timeline) and supports emoji reacts?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-16T04:24:18Z

@minervous@toot.lgbt What's the other reason?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-16T20:30:23Z
re: language police, notes for authors without editors

@susannah 😱

What is it with romance and a lack of editing? I feel like most other genres don't have as many issues like this showing up in published work.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-16T22:07:38Z
re: language police, notes for authors without editors

@susannah I suppose there is that, yes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-19T20:55:58Z

@meganL You can estimate charge level based on voltage. I think that's what most charge meters do.

So a voltmeter in parallel with the battery and charger will do the trick if you know your target voltage, which can be determined based on the battery chemistry (probably Lithium Ion or LiFePO4?) and nominal voltage (I think yours is 48V IIRC?).

Unless you have a "smart" (read: vendor lock-in) charger - and I'm pretty sure your battery isn't wired for one of those - it's a bit of a DIY electronics project but a simple and relatively cheap one. It's just a matter of wiring connectors to a voltmeter or cutting some wires and splicing the meter in. I'd be happy to discuss it in greater detail when I'm having a less-busy day. 🤪

Or there might be someone selling something like that pre-assembled, I'm not sure.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-19T21:25:07Z

@meganL I'm having another one of those "I used to know the right person in Davis to ask about this but the person is no longer in Davis" moments.

I probably made it sound more complicated than it is... but also I understand limited bandwidth for picking something like that up on the fly.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-19T21:33:52Z

@meganL Oof, ok.

The nice thing about e-bikes is they're generally a lot safer in that regard than household electrical stuff.

Still, yeah. Being extra-cautious after that kind of experience makes sense.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-20T01:00:06Z

@izaya That is some effective noise suppression!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-20T01:19:21Z

@Andres4NY Yeah, that one looks done. 😬

(Regarding the alt text: 🤣)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-20T01:20:42Z

Inside of me there are two wolves.

One of them is 🎵 unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe. 🎵

The other one is blonde.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-22T19:25:03Z

Reading fedi with boosts hidden is entertaining sometimes. Like... "Gosh, that was quite the rant about Linux. And now someone else is talking about Linux too. Is this synchronicity? No, now a third person is offering distro recommendations. Must be A Thing right now."

Am I going to turn boosts on and find out about it? Nope. I am neither curious enough nor bored enough.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-24T03:19:45Z

@miiamustang Most definitely!

@xtaran I think maybe I missed this when you posted it?! I've seen a few small-talls, but the cargo baskets on this one are a nice touch.

@Lamima

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-24T03:30:53Z

@faithisleaping That's lovely! And reassuring. :heart_trans:​

"For the first time in a very long time, I'm looking forward to my future. I have hopes and dreams. [...] Now I have dreams that are just for me."

I'm very much still working on all this, but for the first time in a long time I'm starting to work on it. Trying to figure out what I want and how to get there instead of just going along with things.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-24T18:13:22Z

@xtaran Yeah, I think I probably picked up the term from Peter Wagner (localwiki.org/davis/Peter_Wagn).

@miiamustang @Lamima

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-24T18:16:49Z

@roadriverrail Not a very active one, but yes. There's quite a few of us around here.

@faithisleaping

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-24T21:31:25Z

@faithisleaping Your writing is frequently eloquent and rarely foolish, I'd say.

It really is a lot. This all reminds me of something @TamsinSays wrote a while back about thinking of transition as just a particular stretch of the path that is life.

It just so happens that it tends to be one of the steep, rocky, challenging sections where you have to work hard to make it through but you learn a whole lot from it, much of which is useful wherever you're hiking, not just on that one segment.

(Okay, now *I* need to stop before I run that metaphor into the ground. 😆)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-24T22:31:44Z

@federicomena And what's the transit situation out there?

Well, they've got twice-monthly shuttles. If you ask about wormhole teleports to *anywhere* nearby they say "It's in the planning phase. We expect the galactic council to install them in a few years."

So practically speaking, there's no point unless you've got your own personal warp-capable ship, because you do *not* want to make that commute at sub-light speed.

But do they put any of that in the brochures? Nope!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-25T05:31:24Z

@MLE_online Ooh, fun project! I love the inside of old 3-speeds.

Are you set on using adapter plates? I know there are ways to lace wheels with spoke hole mismatches by applying lots of math. But I also understand pursuing a quixotic quest, and the adapter plate concept sounds interesting. I'd be curious to see how it works.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-26T00:51:38Z

I was supposed to be clearing out the shed but instead I've been building a CruzBike clone.

This may not be the best idea. It may not even work. It'll almost certainly delay the shed-clearing. But it's fun, and I think it might help me feel better about getting rid of some of the stuff in the shed, so... I'm going for it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-27T04:39:54Z

The book I've been reading desperately needs editing on several levels. It's got too many secondary characters to give any of them enough depth, the pacing is out of whack, and the prose itself has all kinds of problems. (The narrative voice is reasonably consistent, at least.)

Still, I keep reading because the plot is intriguing and I find the main character sort of relatable.

I just wish it got a whole lot more editing because I can see a really beautiful book under all the issues, it just needs... Hmm. I don't know that polishing would be sufficient. You'd probably have to start with 40-grit sandpaper and keep a chisel handy for the roughest bits, but I really want to read the end result.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-27T06:37:08Z

@minervous@toot.lgbt Nope, your book is waaaay more polished than this one I'm referencing, in pretty much every way. I'm not sure I'd be capable of beta-reading this book because I would be making notes on practically every sentence. For you I usually have an average of... what, maybe 10 notes per chapter? And that's counting the ones saying "I like what you did here."

I think I've said before that Phoenix is better written than some of the published stuff I read. This is kind of an extreme example, but... yeah. I continue to think that you're a darn good writer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-27T06:40:42Z

@minervous@toot.lgbt Ok, the book I was posting about is somewhere in the increasingly ill-defined territory between self-published and "published" in the traditional sense. But still!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-27T06:42:45Z

@minervous@toot.lgbt

Me: "Is that a blank post? Why...?" *mouses over post* "Awww! That's cute."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-27T06:58:52Z

@minervous@toot.lgbt Phoenix is an engaging story about complex, believable, and compelling characters. It takes a thoughtful approach to serious topics including war and depression, and balances them with humor and an adorable romance. I haven't yet finished a chapter without immediately wanting to read the next one.

(I started out writing that as a sort of comparison to the post above, but halfway through I realized I was basically just writing a blurb for your book and rolled with it.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-27T17:14:09Z

@mayor Yeah! FreeSewing.org actually has a parametric pattern based on the Keystone Guide: freesewing.org/designs/corneli.

A while back I tried to implement the Keystone bodice block in GeoGebra, but couldn't find a good way to implement the curved lines.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-27T20:30:13Z
re: Charlie brown football (in other words, i'm being a doomer)

@t54r4n1 Ouch, that CW is a little too on-the-nose.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-27T20:39:26Z

Does anyone know what access to HRT is like in Portugal? Specifically estrogen & progesterone.

I haven't found much info via web search...

:boostRequest:​

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-28T03:49:48Z

@elexia That would be awesome if you could; thank you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-29T19:22:46Z

[news anchor voice]

Strap on your quick-draw pincushions and prepare to put the sewing machine pedal to the metal, as we go to our correspondent for a look into the world of high-speed quilting...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-05-29T19:27:10Z

@phillmv @brunomiguel Thanks for the info & link! Between decent Spanish and very minimal Portuguese I have a hard time searching for this stuff but I should be able to read it; I'll read through it properly later but I also appreciate the summary!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-05-29T19:28:19Z

@goatsarah Thank you! That's great to hear. I've been on patches; do you have any idea if they're available?

@cjsawer

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-07T02:00:31Z

@miriamrobern Only about 50% ridiculous. A long, loose skirt works just as well for changing any clothing below the waist, but the gizmo could be useful for changing tops.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-08T04:15:44Z

I was just charging six different communication devices off an ebike battery that was charged by a solar panel.

There are plenty of things wrong with modern technology, but it's still kinda cool sometimes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-08T04:30:11Z

A6. I love my Bikes@Work trailer, but it's extreme overkill unless you expect to be hauling more than ~150lbs with some regularity.

Right now I'm sitting next to a Burley Flatbed with a solar panel mounted on top. It has carried camping gear and other moderate loads at least 2000 miles (plus a lot more miles without a load). The kid-carrier trailers work just as well, but this is what was available secondhand when we needed it.

Secondhand really is the way to go for trailers if you want a good deal. Find one on craigslist and if/when the fabric floor & sides wear out you can replace them with plywood. Most of them last a very long time if you don't abuse them too hard.

@ascentale @yantor3d

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-08T04:37:24Z

@younata buck converters. One for 5v (USB) and one for 20v (laptop).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-08T04:40:54Z

@superball twig-fueled stoves are so cool! I don't use them anymore because we are so often on fire warning in the summers here, so they are usually banned in parks. It's disappointing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-11T19:58:07Z

This week in Solar Trike Problems: When one of your charge controllers dies on the second day and you spend the entire trip rewiring the trikes every time you stop in an effort to still get as much power out of the solar panels as you possibly can.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-13T19:17:37Z

I have PPE tan lines. One is the outline of a 3M Aura and the other is a bicycle helmet strap.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-13T19:28:15Z

(Point of clarification: I do not consider face masks and helmets to be equivalent. A helmet protects me. A mask protects me and everyone around me, which is much more important. I mentioned them in the same post because the tan lines happen to intersect.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-13T21:09:55Z

If you meet me in person you'll have a hard time seeing them, though. The helmet strap line is fainter, and the Aura line would be covered by an actual Aura mask unless I'm feeling extra cautious and wearing a P100, which doesn't extend onto my cheeks as far.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-14T01:24:20Z

"If that's what you think, then you've got another _____ coming!"

think (51)thing (59)Total Votes: 110
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-14T01:25:36Z

(I've seen it both ways recently and I have Strong Opinions on which one is correct. Now I'm curious what other people think.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-14T06:50:29Z

@dx Well played!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-14T22:08:56Z

@julie If it's just one or the other I'd obviously pick trains, but thank you for including the "neither" option because the true answer for me is, of course, bicycle.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-17T17:45:08Z

@EverBeyondReach There was a while between... probably my mid-20s and now-ish (mid-30s) when I was less likely to identify with or read books with male MCs.

For many years I attributed it to "I've already read so many stories about male characters and I just want to balance it out." Now I'm pretty sure it was actually a Trans Thing™️.

I still favor female, enby, etc. MCs, but I'm easing back into books about cis men. Slowly. It's been getting more comfortable since I started interrogating and processing my own gender identity.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-20T16:31:19Z

@solarbird I am *so* impressed with your work on these maps. I don't know if I'll ever ride in the area they cover, but it seems like you're creating/assembling beautiful, readable, well-researched maps with a degree of commitment and integrity that exceeds what I see from many municipal transportation departments.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-21T02:41:30Z

@Karstan Oooh, sailing canoe!? I've haphazardly sailed a kayak a bit, but always wanted to try a proper sailing canoe.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-21T02:43:49Z

I had an laser hair removal appointment the other day and the only reason they were able to laser anything at all is because my N95 mask had prevented some of my face from getting too tan.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-21T02:45:29Z

(Also, the person doing the laser complimented my... tanning lotion, or something? It took a bit of explanation before she understood that no, actually, it was just an ordinary tan from being out in the sun a lot.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-21T04:13:12Z

I reconfigured the Solar Trike (again?). The crutches that I was using to support the solar roof kept breaking, so I finally moved the solar panel down and back and turned it into a trunk lid. This setup works pretty well!

A recumbent cargo trike is stopped facing the viewer. It has a large solar panel mounted behind the seat that is currently angled up and away from the viewer. Below the solar panel is a trunk/bed full of camping gear that you mostly can't see because it's in shadow. 

Barely visible in the corner is the back of another trike, and a trailer behind it that is angled to match the solar panel on the first trike. 

Background: The San Francisco Bay with a bridge visible in the distance and blue sky streaked with clouds. Closer up, a bike path runs across the frame with yellowing grass on either side of it.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-22T01:38:56Z

@MartyCormack Oh, nifty! I've only seen that done on curbs.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-22T01:42:38Z

A8. On trikes I've used locking brake levers that have a pin you push in, and also standard levers with bungees, elastic hair ties, or velcro to wrap around them.

Right now the cable for the left-rear drum brake on the solar trike is sticky, so I just pull that lever really hard and it keeps the trike in place on moderate slopes.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-22T15:48:37Z

@life Aw, I'm sorry to hear that. You managed some pretty good distance, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-22T16:14:23Z

@sam Yes! I love bicycle literature.

I just started on revisions / second draft of my NaNoWriMo project from last year which is very bike-y.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-23T06:02:22Z

@sam That sounds like fun! Also makes me a little nervous because I've never really done anything like that before, but I was about to post my first chapter and ask people for feedback anyway so I guess I'd better get used to it.

Good luck with the critique group!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-23T17:46:37Z

A1. I just said goodbye to the Solar Trike. Did a final video overview of all the weird features that worked and didn't work, took a bunch of measurements for future reference, and started dismantling it. I'll use some of the parts in whatever my next project is, but it was still hard to let go. I had to take a few breaks to cry over it, eulogize it briefly, and ride it around few more times.

That trike has seen a lot of miles and memories with me in the last four years and I had so many plans for it that I never got to fulfill, but it's time for a new chapter.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-23T18:49:35Z

@meganL Well, it's been in a perpetual state of breaking down for most of its life. The dismantling is more because we may be moving soon, and it is not exactly easy to transport except by riding it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-25T04:06:44Z

@ansate I suspect my attendance will be about a reliable as it is for Craft Club, but this sounds like fun and also like something I would benefit from.

(I just fixed my static site generator by adding the --break-system-packages to something. It definitely needs work.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-26T01:57:22Z

@Karstan @enobacon I just watched it and went from "I don't know, this seems like it over-complicates the braking system." to "Amazing! I want it now!" to "Ok, it's still really cool but I would miss speed limiting and possibly back-pedal regen."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-26T02:10:29Z

Seeking writing feedback: I finally started revisions on my sapphic romance project from November. There's a draft of the first chapter at aprilwick.com/plot-rescue.html

What do you think, generally? In particular, does it catch your interest enough that you'd want to keep reading?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-26T02:13:49Z

@salad_bar_breath, @pqqq, and @EveOfTheFuture. Hello, November writing buddies! Figured I should let you know this is up since you helped it come into existence.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-26T02:20:00Z

@sam I'm still interested in doing a critique group thing - that sounds like a lot of fun! - but posting this was already on my to-do list, so...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-26T02:50:22Z

@Lucia I believe it's short for "Overheard"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-26T14:43:28Z

@IPEdmonton Yay! Thank you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-26T14:46:11Z

@SRLevine Ooooh, this is the most detailed feedback I have yet received. Thank you so much! I will take all of this under consideration.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-26T21:07:44Z

@SRLevine Oh, I'll take all the input I can get!

I'm not sure what questions to ask right now about the pacing/hook. There's some overarching narrative disorganization I need to resolve that might help with it some, since one of the major plot arcs still isn't introduced in this chapter.

I'm curious about specific details in the text that you think could use polishing, too, since I thought I had ironed out a lot of those.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-26T21:37:33Z

@EveOfTheFuture 🔨

If and when you hammer it together, I'll read it!

@salad_bar_breath @pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-27T02:03:29Z

@lyssachiavari Ack, no! Also the editor missed a few things. 🤨

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-27T02:04:21Z

New style unlocked: Lipstick Lesbian

(I found several unused lipsticks in a free pile)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-27T02:06:11Z

I also found a small assortment of rainbow jewelry in the pile, so it feels like a gift from the :heart_pride: part of the universe.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-27T02:17:22Z

It's funny, not long ago I'd have said, "Me? Wearing lipstick? Not a chance. I'm really not a makeup person." I still doubt I'll wear it much, but it'll be fun to have sometimes!

(One of the reasons I won't wear it much: You can't see lipstick through any of my N95s or P100s, which I wear any time I'm out of the house. I guess I'll wear it for video calls?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-27T02:17:50Z

I also picked up some heels from a free pile the other day, which seem to work well with the makeup look.

What's next, painting my nails?!

Nah. I can barely go a day without chipping a nail and/or getting black gunk underneath them all; nail polish would never survive me.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-27T02:18:31Z

@izaya It is surprisingly fun to play with just a few colors! Far more than I expected, certainly.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-27T03:24:57Z

@RomanceReviews They really are!

I seem to post selfies maybe twice a year and I just put a couple up on my alt, so... maybe I'll try that in six months or so? /hj

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-28T06:56:05Z

@SRLevine Thank you!

I think I agree with you on most of those. This is why another pair of eyes is so useful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-28T06:58:03Z

@SRLevine I doubt it's necessary since not much happens where the garden layout matters, and much of the book as it currently exists doesn't occur at the garden, but I have been meaning to map it out for my own reference at least.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-06-28T18:05:21Z

@pqqq Drat! That sounds really frustrating.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-06-29T01:05:12Z

A3. Back when I was in a position where people often asked me about single-speed/fixed frames, my go-to recommendation was anything old enough that it has horizontal dropouts, but with older frames you generally get wide tires or road geometry but not both. So that's probably no good.

It seems like you've already got some decent suggestions, but a couple of weird things that came to mind after I saw your question proposal earlier in the week:

There might also be ways to fudge the handling characteristics of a MTB frame more toward the direction you want by changing fork length, fork rake, and/or relative wheel sizes, but that's perhaps not the sort of project you're wanting.

Or: What about some of the nicer folding bikes like Bike Friday or Moulton? Though even second-hand those are probably going to cost a good deal more than the Steamroller frameset.

I realize these suggestions are all a bit out-there and probably unhelpful, but weird bikes are the only ones I'm familiar with anymore.

@ascentale @gcvsa

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-02T02:24:12Z

@exelia_antonov I use Meld on linux for this sort of thing - it's basically a prettified GUI for diff - but I don't know how well it would handle the different folder structure.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-04T00:40:37Z

@skinnylatte That could be handy if solar powered cars were more practical...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-05T02:31:43Z

@smellsofbikes @MLE_online Several years ago I got to see some of those lights in the wild and I think also did some digging online - maybe into the patents? I don't remember. I believe the trick is that it's not just a stationary stack of magnets. It's several magnets mounted around something that spins around an axis perpendicular to the axle of the wheel. The magnets induce an eddy current in the rim, and the induced electromagnetic field causes the magnets to spin. A coil is wrapped around the spinning magnets.

I put together a proof of concept that was barely able to light an LED, but didn't get much further - it seemed to need a lot of precision, very little friction, and tighter tolerances than I was getting.

@gnomon

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-05T02:55:34Z

@smellsofbikes I can't find any photos right now - I'm kind of terrible about taking photos and even worse at organizing them - but I have been going through old files lately. If I find anything I'll upload it.

@MLE_online @gnomon

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-05T04:07:19Z

@SRLevine I wasn't sure about it from your description - I really dislike some things that are described as creepy - but I quite enjoyed that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-05T22:14:13Z

@TransitBiker [raises hand] I'll second @DelilahTech

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-05T22:20:52Z

@ascentale Wow! That looks like a big load for a... Travoy?

@ai6yr @bikenite

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T00:34:33Z

A4.I didn't really have any concrete goals... I'd have liked to have gone on one or two more multi-day/camping trips by now, but might have more time for it soon.

I also finally started work on a different sort of cycling goal: Building a new recumbent from the bones of my old one. If it works, it'll be smaller, lighter, and capable of collapsing down to airline-checked-luggage size.

@ascentale @jfparis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T00:35:30Z

@younata Ooh, which of the scenic bikeways? I always enjoyed riding up and down the Willamette Valley one...

@ascentale @jfparis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T00:40:25Z

A5. I've mostly shifted to metal bottles that can go in the dishwasher. I use them at home too, so they don't usually sit and stagnate, there's always fresh water coming through them. Before we had the dishwasher, every so often I'd scrub with soapy water and/or fill them to the brim with boiling water straight from the kettle in the hope that it would kill anything trying to grow inside.

@ascentale @trouble

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T00:49:11Z

A2: I have a "plywood rack" for the flatbed trailer that's basically just some vertical supports you can bolt onto the trailer. They're handy for strapping bikes to as well, since they already exist.

@ascentale @achadwick

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T00:58:06Z

A8. I still have a few of the bungee cords that came with our Bikes@Work trailer and they're very nice. It looks like they're selling a different type now (ooh, the new ones are adjustable) but they still have metal hooks with a plastic coating, and I'd expect them to be plenty springy given the overall quality of B@W stufff.

In reality, almost all my bungee cords are either un-patch-able inner tubes or scavenged from the road. There's a few good ones in the mix, but I have no idea where they were purchased. 🙃

@ascentale @ai6yr

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T00:58:39Z

@younata Oh, neat! I never got a chance to ride it, but it sounds pretty.

@ascentale @jfparis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T03:35:37Z

@ai6yr Whatever works for the situation? Tie them together to make extra-long bungees, keep them inner tube shaped and hook the ends over whatever is convenient, bend old spokes into hooks (not very strong, though).

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-06T18:12:01Z

@tk I was prepared to dismiss this as standards proliferation but I actually like it. I appreciate that it's compatible with Presta pumps and the conversion kits seem pretty reasonably priced.

I've seen a lot of people struggle to get pump heads to fit well on both Presta and Schrader valves for a variety of reasons - insufficient hand strength, not knowing which position the locking lever is supposed to start in (it varies between manufacturers), damaged pump head gaskets. This seems to address all of those.

If it works as well as they advertise, I'd really like to see this standard take over.

My biggest concern - and I don't see it addressed anywhere - is that it might not be an open standard, and unless Shwalbe and the inventor are reasonable about licensing fees it might just inspire more competing standards.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-08T01:01:41Z

@Unixbigot Checked back a few days and yep, you're right! Nice catch.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-08T17:08:50Z

@miriamrobern @Willow I also wore knitted knockers for about a year. I slowly removed padding from them through the second half of that year and they basically turned into thick bra pads. I mostly wore them with sports bras; not sure how much difference that makes.

At the beginning they were really crucial for me. They were the difference between absolutely hating how I looked in fem-styled tops and literally jumping up and down with gender euphoria.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-09T02:59:18Z

@EverBeyondReach I don't really need it; I always carry a spoon. I'd probably move it to the sidewalk for someone else to grab.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-09T04:17:41Z

@tillybridges Partner picked up my bottle today, didn't hear the rattle of pills, and said, "Oh no, you're out!"

Then I took it and whacked it on my hand and suddenly there were pills rattling around inside. Truly, progesterone is magic.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-09T05:36:54Z

@faithisleaping Switched to "april" as the username on my computer instead of "kg6gfq," as was previously my habit.

I guess for some people this would be a much bigger thing, but... I'm still on uncommonly good terms with my old name. So for me personally it's pretty minor.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-09T18:10:59Z

@Toni2167 Oh gosh, I know that feeling well but hadn't quite articulated it. I'm sorry it's got you today.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-09T18:37:37Z

@uxmark Back when I used a helmet mirror I would often check the top-left corner of my visual field when walking. Every so often I would do it while wearing the helmet and it would actually work.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-12T23:05:59Z

@t_l_wood@mastodon.social Not too often, I think? Maybe weekly, on average?

Occasional snide comments in passing or the weird performative coughing, but rarely anything direct. A couple times I've had drivers shout something about masks when I was cycling, which is rather novel because I'm used to drivers shouting about the indignity of having to share their road with a bicycle.

I'm in a pretty liberal part of California, so masks aren't entirely weird here.

I haven't had anyone directly ask, "Why the mask?" in a while, but I'm saving up a friend's response for next time: "Because my smile is infectious."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-13T16:50:17Z
HRT Question: Progesterone Allergy?

I've been on prog (100mg capsules, oral administration, Prometrium brand) for about a month and it coincides pretty closely with intermittent itching on my forearms that is sometimes so intense I can't sleep... which is ironic, because apart from that I've been sleeping better.

I haven't had a visible rash or bumpy skin like I've seen in photos of Autoimmune Progesterone Dermitatis / Progesterone Hypersensitivity.

Edit to add: I have no known allergies. I've checked the inactive ingredients and they're common enough that I think I would know if I were allergic to any of them.

I'm going to stop prog for a while to confirm that it's the cause and I'll consult the doctor who prescribes my HRT, but I'm pretty sure Fedi collectively has way more expertise on HRT than my doctor does, so...

Has anyone had an allergic reaction to progesterone? What was it like? Were you able to resolve it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-13T17:19:47Z
re: HRT Question: Progesterone Allergy?

@sidepony Pretty sure that's not it. I eat enough peanut butter that it's sometimes one of my primary food groups, and I've never had a problem with other legumes either.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-13T17:28:15Z
re: HRT Question: Progesterone Allergy?

@EverydayMoggie Fair point. I don't have any known allergies and nothing on the inactive ingredients list seems uncommon enough , but I'll keep it in mind.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-13T17:52:11Z

A1. I picked some plums from beside the bike path the other day, too! Also blackberries, but they're just barely coming into season here.

I guess I've done a fair bit of foraging while riding.

All sorts of fruit: lemon, orange, apple, pear, pineapple guava, loquat, any edible berries.... anything that grows wild or that people plant and then don't harvest. Prickly pears a few times, and also nopales.

Sometimes mustard or radish greens, or their flowers and seeds. A while ago I was riding along and one of the supports for the solar panel on the trike snapped a handful of mustard florets off just right so they fell in my lap and I got an impromptu snack!

I've collected walnuts and hauled them home by bike when they're in season. One year a friend with a connection to a hazelnut orchard invited us out to scavenge all the nuts the machines couldn't pick up, and we rode from Salem back to PDX with... I think over 100lbs of nuts on the trailer? That was a slow ride, but worth it.

A few times on long trips I've even scored lobster mushrooms and added them to soups and stir-fries while camping.

@ascentale

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@kg6gfq
2024-07-14T04:10:23Z

@minervous@toot.lgbt I've been hearing that some sites are doing that but haven't encountered it in the wild yet myself. Yikes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-14T04:29:00Z

CruzBike clone update: So far, this seems to be an ill-fated project - and a weird looking one, halfway between a recumbent and a tiny penny farthing - but I'm not giving up on it!

I had it minimally assembled for a short test ride (no brakes, no shifters, barely a seat, but technically rideable-ish), sat down on it, rolled a foot or so... and it dropped out from under me with a sudden cracking noise.

Turns out the hinge I took from an old folding scooter and designed the entire frame around couldn't take the load and snapped in half. So that isn't going to work.

Not sure if I'm going to try making a sturdier version of the broken piece of the hinge, getting a new hinge (and headtube, because it's connected to the hinge) from a heavier-duty scooter, or redesigning the whole back half.

One way or another, though, I'm planning to make this thing work. Also maybe I'll remember to take a few pictures to share before I break it in half next time.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-14T04:34:55Z

@SRLevine I guess it doesn't actually have the distinctive difference in wheel size... though I could do that for compactness, I suppose. Right now they're both 20" wheels.

It reminds me of a penny farthing because the seat is almost directly above the front wheel. I'm a little worried that it'll do stoppies too easily, but hopefully it'll be manageable.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-14T04:50:40Z

Wait a sec... If the diameter is right and I can remove the stuck bolt, I think I might be able to do something clever with a stem and cause myself a whole slew of different but very interesting problems.

Gonna grab a flashlight, run out to the shed, and see if this is actually viable. Calipers may be involved.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-14T04:58:28Z

Nope, never mind. The diameter is decidedly wrong. 33mm / 1.3 inches is not a standard headtube diameter.

Back to plan "visit the scrapyard and find a more durable scooter to steal parts from."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-14T05:00:03Z

(and by "grab a flashlight" I mean "dig through my purse until I find one of the four... I mean five... light emitting devices. Well, six if you count the ereader with the really bright backlight.")

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-14T05:01:12Z

@minervous@toot.lgbt Oooh, yes! I think I might have actually technically done that?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-14T05:11:02Z

(The purse flashlight situation is more reasonable than it sounds. Two of them are bike lights. One is built into the screwdriver pen thing. Only two are actually dedicated flashlights. That's slightly reasonable? I may need to reevaluate this state of affairs if I'm going to keep carrying bike lights, since they're brighter than any of the nominal flashlights and one of them even has a red light mode for taillights and not destroying my night vision.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-14T05:14:04Z

@MikeH @SRLevine On a conventional bike, yes, it'll send you toward the ground face-first. On a recumbent with under-seat steering it usually tilts you upright and lands you tidily on your feet. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-15T04:57:36Z

Finally put my prisms up in a window that gets actual sun. 🌈!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-16T20:54:41Z
commiserating re: Mimsy bitching about stuff when she should just be grateful

@miriamrobern I'm not quite where you're at, but I can see stealth-mode-as-default approaching rapidly and it's a very weird feeling when that was never quite a goal.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-16T23:57:26Z

Today's gender is equal parts sundress and hacksaw.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-17T01:36:18Z

@jocelyn Welcome back! I hope you find some good community here.

For cycling people generally, there's hashtags like and if you're not already following them.

@meganL and @NilaJones are the two people I can think of right now at the intersection of cycling and disability.

@njeanneburns@mspsocial.net and @consumablejoy are among the cool knitting & fibercraft people I know of, and @ansate hosts a monthly virtual crafting group for fedizens.

(I know there's lots of other awesome people I'm forgetting, but this is just off the top of my head.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-17T05:08:28Z

@JenWithGravy @miriamrobern Oh goodness it's the (even more) wholesome version of To Own The Libs by Zoe Storm!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-17T05:27:21Z

@miriamrobern @JenWithGravy I think that has the potential to be even funnier than the original.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-18T17:28:42Z

@beecycling The latter options sound very satisfying but I had to vote #1 because I'm too much of a useful-parts-hoarder to pick anything else.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-23T18:14:56Z

@taedryn In greater detail...

I haven't been on it long enough to think that it has had an impact on anything physical yet.

Sleep & dreams: Even oral progesterone doesn't make me as drowsy as I expected based on the warnings I've heard, but I do think it helps a bit. I don't tend to remember dreams but I have a vague sense that they're more vivid.

Mental health: It's hard for me to articulate the details, but some baseline level of anxiety and/or depression seems to have shifted in a better direction.

Other: I thought I was having a skin reaction (itching) but that doesn't seem to be linked to the progesterone. I do think the progesterone may have heightened my sensitivity/awareness to it, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-26T22:04:25Z
minor injury

Good news: I did not break my thumb with a bungee cord the other day! Only soft-tissue damage according to the ER I visited the other night.

I was apprehensive about the ER visit but it took less than an hour and wasn't too busy. Wore the P100 because it's a hospital. A few other people were masked.

Anyway, now my right thumb is in a splint for a few days and it turns out that's the one I normally hit the space bar with. This will require some adjustment.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-26T22:06:08Z
re: minor injury; cishet people being weird and possibly queerphobic

They were fine about getting my name and pronouns right, but while I was waiting someone called me to the front desk and we had a strange conversation.

Hospital Employee: What's your orientation?
Me: ...orientation?
HE: Yes, your orientation.
Me: As in, like, lesbian?
HE: Yes, like that.
Me: Yes, lesbian. [I wasn't about to get into the grey-ace aspect.]
HE: And what's your... identity?
Me: You mean gender identity?
HE: Yes, that.
Me: Trans. Female. Genderfluid.
HE: Ok, thank you!

I assume it was "hey, we can check the box saying we had a queer patient and get bonus points for grant applications" but the actual wording...?! I couldn't tell if it was cluelessness, discomfort, or some weird administrative prohibition against saying certain things.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-26T22:07:19Z
re: minor injury; silly response to cishet people being weird and possibly queerphobic

I really wish I had thought fast enough to answer the orientation question with "Right now it's between North and Northeast, I think?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-26T22:16:48Z
re: minor injury

There are a few ways to injure yourself with bungee cords, but my method of (accidental) choice the other day was to be pulling really hard on one end when the other end suddenly came loose from where it was hooked. All of a sudden I was on the wrong end of a slingshot. This was largely my own fault for not thinking things through.

Moral of the story: Bungee cords require planning.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-27T01:52:56Z

@rachel 👏 👏

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-27T03:56:31Z

@dr2chase Oh, I like the mirror trick. I'll have to remember that if/when I next build my own lights.

@ascentale @epu

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-27T04:00:46Z

A8. I don't currently have dyno lights, but I did for a while and expect to again.

Built it myself - I think wheel building is pretty fun, though it does have a bit of a learning curve. I mostly used B&M lights, but I also built a few taillights of my own, complete with standlights: aprilwick.com/dynamo-taillight

@ascentale @epu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-27T04:23:52Z

@meganL Thanks!

I'm getting by with my left thumb, it's just slower. 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-27T04:39:14Z

@meganL Yeah, I often intend to do more with my left hand but it's one of those things I've not yet managed to stick with with for long. Definitely feels like good brain exercise, and it would be useful sometimes.

This happened while I was out on a ride on a prototype/backup bike that only has one brake (bad idea, I know, but I'm not putting any more into that particular build and adding another brake would be costly and time-consuming). I'm fortunate I was able to swap the brake lever to the left side of the handlebar for the rest of the trip home, and the strength/dexterity of my left hand was sufficient for that bit of wrenching.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-27T04:47:15Z

A7. The oldest thing I carry right now is probably a lock cable that used to be my dad's, which he gave me when I left for college. Pretty sure it's significantly older than I am. I mostly use a U-lock, but occasionally I want the cable for securing wheels or trailers.

Not sure what else... I swap parts around a lot.

@ascentale @isomataalum

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-27T04:48:04Z

@meganL Thanks! I think it will, and this is a pretty ok time for me to be a bit slow at things, so I'll get by.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-27T05:08:48Z
XKCD: grumpy about cars; compost toilet discussion

My notes on today's XKCD:

  1. I wouldn't mind seeing more cars buried in septic tanks. There's too many of them on the roads.

  2. It's a bit roundabout, but with a biodigester fueling a small generator I think you could get some electricity from sewage.

  3. When we had a compost toilet with separate collection and composting chambers I did take sewage (in sealed buckets with appropriate amounts of carbon matter) out the front door about once a week. It worked really well!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-27T19:12:46Z
re: XKCD: grumpy about cars; compost toilet discussion

@meganL Yeah, that's why I say "more cars" and not something more emphatic. Deconstructing motornormativity and and car dependence without hurting a lot of people in the process seems like it'll have to be a long project with a lot of sweeping societal change.

I've thought a bit about portable biodigesters and I'm not sure about viability; I don't have personal experience with them. I know it's possible build one for processing some quantity of food waste with a 5-gallon bucket and something like an inner tube for gas storage, but I don't know what the input capacity or power output of that system would be like. I've seen significantly larger digesters that claim to be able to produce all your cooking gas if you feed them enough, but they're not van-sized. I'd bet that biogas for cooking and photovoltaic for electricity is a lot more practical anyway, it just didn't fit the format of the comic.

That post was more by way of sticking my tongue out and playfully/pedantically going, "Nuh-uh!" at the comic, but I do love compost toilet systems and want to see more of them in development and in use. Unfortunately, everything I've learned about them makes me think they're best suited and most effective for permanent installations at scales ranging from household to neighborhood. And that's not going to serve anyone but homeowners and maybe renters without a dramatic cultural/economic shift in how public utilities are handled. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-30T02:41:29Z

@Jaytee I had my partner try names on me at home. About one a day to start with, and then revisiting the shortlisted selections for several days per name. She was pretty good at over-using the name when talking to me, and also discussing me at length with the dog.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-30T05:22:32Z

@Lana Outcomes projected by a simulation that locked up the station computer for several hours:

Benjamin Sisko: Overfed the cat with fancy food.

Odo: Upon your return, Odo is missing and you have two cats.

Julian Bashir: Accidentally performed medical experiments on the cat. It can now speak, but mostly chooses not to.

Jadzia Dax: Sweet-talked Worf into watching the cat. [See: Worf.]

Ezri Dax: Was terrified she would do something wrong, so she asked for help. [See: Julian Bashir or Worf]

Worf: Refuses to give the cat back. He is not sure you are honorable enough to own a cat.

Miles & Keiko O'Brian: They were so busy they forgot about your cat. It's fine; Molly gave it food off her plate. One corner of their apartment smells kind of funny, though.

Kira Nerys: You thought your cat was rebellious and antagonistic before you left? Ha! You had no idea.

Quark: Promised to pay Nog in exchange for taking care of the cat. Did not pay Nog; tells you to pay Nog if you want your cat back. [See: Nog]

Nog: Sold your cat for several crates of self-sealing stem bolts. [Pick any other option.] By the way, do you need any self-sealing stem bolts?

Rom & Leeta: Return your cat in seemingly good condition, but they keep exchanging furtive glances. Probably some sort of sitcom hijinx occurred.

The Weyouns: Gave your cat to the Dominion. They apologize profusely, but you can tell they don't mean it. You'll have to tag along on a mission to the Delta Quadrant in hopes of retrieving your cat.

Vic Fontaine: Someone switched the holoprogram for a while and he lost your cat. It wandered out into Quark's. [See: Quark or Morn]

Elim Garak: Made a very nice jacket for the cat but it ran away when he attempted a fitting. [Pick any other option.]

Morn: Silently gives back your cat. The next day, it has escaped your quarters and is sitting by Morn at the bar, purring contentedly.

Kai Winn: Has made your cat the center of her latest PR stunt. Demands a ransom when you ask her to return it.

Grand Nagus Zek & Moogie: Return it to you with much fussing and extract a promise that you'll let them cat-sit next time you leave. Were your cat's teeth always that sharp?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-30T05:24:09Z

@Lana In conclusion, I think I'd be ok with Sisko, Odo, Bashir, The O'Brians, Rom & Leeta, or Zek & Moogie. Kira and Morn would be decent fallback options.

That is, if I still have time to catch my shuttle once everyone is done yelling at me for messing with the station computer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-07-30T22:00:52Z

@taedryn Same! I sometimes do masc voice for fun and because I don't want to lose access to it. My partner invariable freaks out a little if she's around to hear.

@caroline @WrenArcher

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@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-31T05:31:57Z

@hollie I really admire the gentleness, kindness, and compassion that I see in your posts here. I think maintaining and sharing all of that is just as necessary to "the fight" as more obvious fighting, if not more so.

Also I'm pretty sure "I'm enough" is, as they say, praxis.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-31T05:33:31Z

@WrenArcher 😆 That's a sweet story!

@taedryn @caroline

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@kg6gfq
2024-07-31T15:20:15Z

Just got a call that I'm pretty sure was supposed to be an automated appointment reminder. After a long moment of silence it said, "We are sorry. An application error has occurred. Goodbye."

🤔

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-07-31T19:37:13Z

@nicole 😆

Such elegant fonts to match such a beautiful name!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-02T01:32:41Z

@DelilahTech A thing I actually said within the last hour: "When I'm trying to remember later where the bruises on this part of my shin came from..."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-02T16:42:05Z
I apologize in advance

@ginny I've always pronounced it "ət".

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-02T18:22:23Z

@CharlotteEowyn Excellent hook for a sapphic rom-com. (I'm pretty sure I've read at least three iterations of it.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-02T18:23:09Z

@Fiona Check drafts? FediLab starts a new draft whenever I connect or disconnect a keyboard and it freaked me out the first few times.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-06T04:52:59Z

@Willow Spreadsheet Lesbian:

People overlook her, think she's average, formulaic, a bit too exacting. Boxy wool coat, half-moon glasses, long plain skirt. Disinclined to chat or make eye contact.

But if you take the time to learn her, you will find she contains multitudes. When she pivots, her skirt charts the curve of her hip and extrapolates up toward her waist. She flicks coat buttons open with precision, and the stately column of her neck plunges into the V of a blouse striped with rows of grey and white.

Slide those glasses down the sharp slope of her nose and she will look up at you with eyes that are anything but blank. She sees you. She learns you by facts and by degrees, your trends and your deviations. She collects and collates, cross-references and interpolates until she knows you like nobody else. It feels as if she has examined every cell of you and, somehow, found perfection in the sum of them all.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-06T05:24:14Z

@arose62 Well, omnimask.com/ isn't NIOSH certified yet but they say they're working on it. And I think there's at least one N95s and at least one surgical with big clear windows.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-06T06:08:38Z

@adarsh Woo! Nice to see @ianwalker 's work on Motornormativity getting even more attention!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-07T00:52:01Z
snarky; reference to traffic violence

@HayiWena I don't know who it is so I can't be too specific, but...

How big an increase in traffic deaths are you aiming for this year?

How well do the oil and automotive industries pay you? It must be a lot, right?

Would you rather be hit by a pickup truck or an SUV?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-07T01:12:50Z
re: snarky; reference to traffic violence

@autumn 😬 Ouch! I'm sorry.

@HayiWena

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-07T01:14:38Z

@ordinoides Oh, I'm pretty sure I recognize that one! It's a lovely spot, and the amenities for the hiker-biker area are top notch, as such things go. I hope you have a fantastic trip!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-07T09:35:49Z

Why yes, I was crying at a Christmas rom-com in early August.

(Happiest Season, because, of course, :lesbian_flag_:. Not sure how I hadn't seen this already.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-08T07:27:30Z
Y'all Masking selfie; eye contact through sunglasses

I've been wearing the P100 (GVS Elipse) more often lately when I go into stores. I got two compliments on it in two days recently, so I figured a photo was in order.

Also I'm pretty darn pleased with that hair ribbon.

Me, a white person, from head to upper torso, wearing a bike helmet, cat eye sunglasses, a P100 respirator in blue, purple, and grey, and a dress with a green and white floral pattern. Long, dark blonde hair is braided over my shoulder with a wide, gauzy purple ribbon tied in a bow at the end. The ribbon has silver sparkly bits along the edges. 

Background: A grey brick wall, outdoors.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-08T15:51:30Z

@melicious@toot.lgbt Oh, huh. That is not how I initially read the previous post, but makes a lot of sense.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-08T16:22:58Z

I've been riding the FrankenForward (frankenbike crank forward) recently and it's surprisingly good for something made from junk bikes and scrap wood. It only has one brake and the gear range isn't suitable for hills, but it's comfy and far lighter than anything else I've ridden lately (that isn't saying much; the solar trike weighed over 100lbs). Also, it's much more skirt/dress-compatible than a proper recumbent!

Me on the semi-recumbent bike from the next photo. My sitting position is quite upright; only slouching a little bit. There's a slight bend in the arm holding the handlebar. My other arm is supporting me against a railing. 

Me: White woman wearing a helmet, N95 mask, olive-green coat, patterned dress, and black leggings. 

Background: Assorted trees, dry grass, blue sky with some clouds. There's a building off to one side. Photo of a semi-recumbent bike constructed from 1.5 bike frames connected end-to-end. The bottom bracket spindle of the rear half-frame has been bolted into the rear dropouts of the front frame. A couple pieces of lumber (maybe 1x6" nominal?) connect the seat tubes of the two frames, and a rough seat made from wood and covered with a cushioned pad is attached to them. There's an orange suspension fork on the front, with V-brakes installed. The stem is turned backwards and the cruiser bars have bar ends on them for extra reach. The wheels are 26" with slick tires. On the rear rack there's a yellow cat litter bucket for cargo storage. 

Bike is parked on the edge of a path. Background is mowed grass, then fennel going to seed, then trees.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-08T16:24:10Z

Of course, I've been tinkering with it and considering changing the frame geometry a bit and swapping to 20" wheels so I can use a hub motor and IGH on it without getting or building new wheels. Not sure if I'm actually going to follow through on that, but I need *something* for long trips and the project that I intended to replace the SolarTrike is taking longer than I expected. (I should have expected that.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-08T16:45:04Z
musings on bikes, gender, misogyny, etc.

One of the reasons I wanted to try a crank forward is specifically the skirt/dress compatibility. (Yes, I wear shorts under my skirts. Even so, I don't really like the way skirts tend to pool around my hips on a fully-reclined recumbent. I want my skirt properly draped and blowing gently in the breeze as I ride! But not so much that it catches in the rear wheel.)

This bike's upright posture, wide cruiser handlebars, and overall simplicity are pretty stereotypically fem-coded, which is simultaneously gender-affirming for me (yay!) and worrisome (misogyny!). Part of the "worrisome" is that it's a window into some of my own implicit biases - ones that I've interrogated pretty thoroughly, but still have to be mindful of. The other part of the "worrisome" is how other people react.

When I was riding the solar trike, people tended to treat me as a competent cyclist and mechanic, presumably because the huge, weird, obviously home-built trike overshadowed the "girls don't know bikes" stereotype. Riding the FrankenForward, I think people dismiss me a little more easily. It doesn't shout "I specialize in weird bikes" quite so loud, and at a glance it's pretty cruiser-ish. I get the impression other cyclists - especially roadies - dismiss me a little more easily as unserious.

I kind of love the aesthetic of it, though, and I feel like it's very me. At first glance the design and riding position look stereotypically fem-coded. On closer examination it's weird and janky, built out of scraps with mismatched colors. And all together, it works!

And I enjoy riding it, which is probably the most important part.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-08T17:04:26Z

@esnyder Glad you enjoyed it!

I know that bogged-down perfectionist tendency well, even though I rarely achieve the vision I'm aiming for when I do complete projects. I guess that's probably why I've been trying to take a hack-ier route with things lately. "Perfect is the enemy of done." And "done" is more interesting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-08T17:27:16Z

@MikeH @kim @melicious@toot.lgbt The UCI will never catch on to us!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-08T21:09:05Z
re: musings on bikes, gender, misogyny, etc.

@gcvsa I should probably try a proper skirt weight; I've been making do with clothespins and suchlike.

I only have one dress that's long and full enough to catch anything, but several that are short enough I want to hold them down, and also wear something underneath to put my mind at ease.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-09T02:05:59Z

@raeaw That's a very helpful way of framing it. I'll have to remember that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-09T03:04:49Z

Mistakes Were Made by Meryl Wilsner

...but don't worry. The editor caught them before they went to print.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-09T03:56:18Z

Of course, now I'm thinking about anything in the book that could be considered a mistake or otherwise could be critiqued, and there are some things. I still think the writing is fantastic, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-09T04:15:01Z
long quote; mentions of sex, injury, pain meds, divorce, and food

I mean...

They were having a moment—two friends who had known each other since college, sitting in a coffee shop a decade and a half later, talking about happiness.

“Plus,” Rachel said, “last week you were practically glowing. Either you changed your skin care routine, or you got railed.”

Ah. Moment over.

At least Rachel didn’t mine for more info about Erin’s sexting friend. She was relentless when she wanted details, but she also seemed to have a sixth sense for when Erin needed to be let off the hook.

Before the divorce was final, after Adam had moved out, Erin had thrown out her back rearranging furniture. It had been awful—she couldn’t stand up or sit down or twist her body without pain shooting up and down her spine. When Rachel came over to check on her, Erin was flat on the floor; her bed was too soft. Rachel, God love her, hadn’t asked anything about why Erin decided she had to rearrange the furniture right then, by herself. She also had hydrocodone.

Erin remembered when the drugs kicked in. It hadn’t so much been that she couldn’t feel the pain—the pain was still there, obvious, like a brick, but it hadn’t actually hurt. Everything felt smooth. She and Rachel ordered pizza, and Erin opened the door and paid the delivery guy and carried the box to the kitchen, all without crying out. She could do anything she wanted, even though her body still knew something was off.

That was what being around Cassie was like. The knowledge that she shouldn’t, that it was wrong, that it was a terrible idea, was all there. But Erin felt good anyway. She could be fucking everything up, but she felt good anyway.

The next Sunday, on their weekly call, Parker said, “Cassie got this job in Boston."

(analysis/reaction in the next post)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-09T04:15:30Z
analysis of the long quote

Wilsner moves seamlessly from a specific conversation through a brief self-aware joke that's very in character for Erin, and continues on to narrate an anecdote that shows us some things about Erin, Rachel, and their relationship. The anecdote also highlights specific details of Erin's age, which is relevant to her relationship with Cassie. Then they use that anecdote in an analogy explaining Erin's feelings about her relationship with Cassie... and that's the perfect setup for a time skip to a conversation with Parker about Cassie, because all of Erin's complicated feelings are fresh in our minds.

I just... 🤯. The craft! The artistry! I am in awe.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-09T04:17:37Z

@melicious@toot.lgbt The only thing I've posted is a draft of the first chapter; it's at aprilwick.com/plot-rescue.html

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-09T04:38:04Z

@melicious@toot.lgbt Yeah, no. The whole thing needs a major rewrite before it gets posted anywhere.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-09T16:47:33Z
re: Y'all Masking selfie; eye contact through sunglasses

@hollie Thanks! I wish I could claim it was intentional! XD

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-09T23:55:24Z

A2: The biggest adjustment for me has been the switch to hydraulic brakes. I've had relatively little experience with them compared to most of the other systems I work on and it just feels weird to me.

Runner-up is everything moving toward sealed bearings and proprietary standards. I miss being able to adjust or repack all the bearings on my bike.

I suspect I'll be very displeased when I finally have to work on electronic shifting or something like that. /retrogrouch

@ascentale @meganL

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-10T03:33:18Z

@meganL Yeah. Some of the stuff that increases complexity also improves usability, accessibility, and ease of riding... but a lot of it is also designed for planned obsolescence and/or vendor lock-in.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-10T03:38:18Z

@dr2chase Yikes! That's a weird failure mode.

I'm thinking actually sealed. They're easy to install/replace and can go a long time without any need for maintenance, but when they fail they're completely done for. This may be nostalgia talking, but I kind of miss old cup-and-cone bottom brackets. They require more frequent maintenance and more skill/finesse/time to adjust properly, but they're actually repairable.

@ascentale @meganL

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-10T03:48:38Z

@meganL Yeah... as a general principle, I like the idea of reducing intellectual property terms by a *lot* so companies are competing on quality of manufacturing and customer support more than "we patented it before you so you have to invent your own version". :eyeroll:

The bike industry is but one of many that seems like it would benefit.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-10T20:41:43Z

@ascentale @jfparis Very belated, but I just ran across this question again and remembered Sol Cycle by Kimberly Cooper Griffin.

I was thrilled and amazed when @SRLevine recommended it to me because sapphic romance set in a bike shop is so precisely tailored to my personal interests! It's a pretty fun read, too. I posted a brief review a while back.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-10T21:02:29Z

@SRLevine @sam Bike book club? 👀

I'd re-read it...

@ascentale @jfparis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-14T19:05:06Z

@melerva@chaosfem.tw @alexandria Ouch! I fried one with a mere 40v DC a while back.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-15T02:24:07Z

@tillybridges Prediction for the eventual fate of the concrete?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-15T02:47:00Z

@jepyang I pretty recently lived across the alley from a taco bell. The downside was hearing noise from the drive-through at all hours, and the upside was free internet in our backyard.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-15T20:44:02Z

Having problems with your hydraulic brakes? Struggling with a brake bleed?

Try Brake Leeches™ today!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-16T17:50:01Z

(This post brought to you by Magura HS-series Hydraulic Rim Brakes - for those times when cantilever brakes just aren't complicated enough.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-16T18:53:42Z

@itsmeholland 3M Aura is my preferred N95. Straps go around the back of the head, so it doesn't bother my ears too much, even with the interaction between mask straps and my glasses.

I try to wear a P100 elastomeric respirator if I'm indoors or around large crowds for an extended period. They're a bit heavier but also have straps that go around the head; some even have more of a harness.

I like the look of the GVS Elipse (the version without an exhale valve) and wear it fairly often. I do have to project a bit to be heard through it, but it's not too bad.

I've worn a 3M 6000-series respirator for... I think 6-8 hours on a couple occasions? It's lighter than any other P100 I know of, even with a filter on the exhale valve, but much harder to speak through.

If you're ok wearing a respirator with an exhale valve I've read that it's a lot easier to talk through 3M models with speaking diaphragms, but haven't tried it myself. I think those are the SecureClick or 7000 series? I'm not aware of anything with a speaking diaphragm that also filters exhaled air. Exhale valves also reduce condensation buildup inside the mask a lot, too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-19T22:06:43Z

Whoops? When the doctor apologized for keeping me waiting I told her it was fine, I had a good book. And when she asked, I explained that it was a vampire romance novel called Bleeding Hearts, sequel to Love Bites. I thought she was just making conversation, but then she said she might check it out... and now I'm wondering if I should have mentioned that it's a lesbian vampire romance?

I realize she was probably just making conversation and immediately forgot the titles, but I am amused to imagine her picking up Love Bites and discovering that it's not quite the book she expected.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-23T21:28:28Z

@SRLevine Glad I'm not the only one who sometimes does this. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-24T01:56:54Z
re: Long; positive, but discusses gatekeeping and dysphoria

@zoey

> I don't want to stop, but I can't say I'd rather die than detransition.

Same.

Really, same to a whole lot of this.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-24T02:07:12Z

A6. I can't confidently speak to legalities or efficacy, but I usually ride recumbents that put me eye-level with lights mounted on handlebars, seatposts, and racks. Strobing lights pointed right at my face are really uncomfortable to see at night and aren't pleasant to look at in the daytime either, so I'm not a fan. I prefer pulse mode, where available, as an alternative to steady.

@ascentale @bobjonkman

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-24T17:24:50Z

@miriamrobern 👀 What've you been reading? Anything you'd recommend?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-24T18:24:10Z

@miriamrobern Ooh, I haven't encountered Villaneuve before; I'll have to check out her work. Voskuni's been on my to-read list for a while. April Daniels's books are so good! (How are there two notable authors writing sapphic trans superhero romances? It seems remarkably niche.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-25T09:38:19Z

@izaya Same, albeit for the LA11.

I have more than one thing I need to do every day, Casio!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-26T21:35:45Z

Just attended a virtual meeting that was conducted entirely in Spanish. I haven't done that in a while, and *wow* languages are a skill that needs maintenance.

On the other hand, I think I mostly understood what was going on and managed to get my own couple of points across, so I guess it was ok?

...and now I have to go review the minutes and see if I have anything to add. 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-26T21:54:16Z

@RoseRaven Tri-flow or other any other liquid bicycle chain lubricant; I'm not picky.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T17:38:32Z

@julie Nice!

Was that inspired by youtube.com/watch?v=ZXl6HIcsbm or invented independently?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T17:40:16Z

@julie Ah, ok. Just reminded me of that video.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-28T17:45:07Z

Time to try and hack a new feature into the Rails app I semi-inherited.

I'm not a Rails developer. I'm not a Ruby developer. I'm not even a developer, I just poke at code occasionally.

And it looks like last time I did this, I managed to break a feature that we weren't using at the time but which people are going to need soon. Uh-oh.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T18:25:06Z

Oh dear. This is going to require the use of git. And docker.

*deep breaths*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T18:31:26Z

Wait. This thing doesn't work unless it has access to an SMTP server.

I should not test things on the production server. Even if it is all set up and would save a lot of time in the short term, it'll be so much worse if (ha. if? most likely "when") I break something.

Just have to keep reminding myself of that...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T18:55:23Z

Gonna just try it with SMTP details for my personal email. I think I've got it all set...

Me: docker compose up -d
My computer: Um. Why did you assume you had docker installed? It's not like you use it on a regular basis.
Me: :facepalm:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-28T19:23:56Z

@minnie@toot.lgbt Drat. I can usually work through git stuff better than Docker stuff. Thanks, though! I'll keep that in mind if I do run into git issues.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-28T19:25:23Z

I was trying to figure out why I post so much when I'm working through tech/coding/sysadmin stuff, and I think it's because that is when I'm reliably sitting in front of a computer and feeling whiny.

It's a lot less convenient to post on fedi when I'm sitting in front of a bike project feeling whiny.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T19:38:40Z

Oh, good. Got docker installed, now it's throwing incomprehensible error messages.

To the search engine!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T19:50:07Z

Oh, it was supposed to be "docker compose" instead of "docker-compose". And "docker compose" was unavailable to me because I had the wrong docker-compose package installed.

Docker is so intuitive and straightforward! /s

On to the next error message...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T20:02:19Z

Ok, docker is setting up the containers.

You know, just installing linux on my linux so I can run a server.

The disappointing thing is that I can't even complain too much. I remember when installing anything like this required a trip through Dependency Hell if you weren't lucky enough to be running it on exactly the same system and configuration as the developer(s).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-28T21:11:20Z

@minnie@toot.lgbt Yes, where "active" is defined as "I have an account and I am once again able to log in to it, but the last conversation in my history was with your old account." XD

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T21:56:28Z

Oh, good. Now I'm running into SSL issues trying to access a page that is being hosted right here on my own laptop. Am I going to have to generate an SSL cert for localhost? How do I even do that? By default this thing automatically gets certs from letsencrypt but I disabled that because... what do I even need SSL for when accessing a locally-hosted instance that I'm running purely as a development environment?

Good thing I have to run an errand in a few minutes; I think I need the excuse to go for a bike ride before I just give up on computers.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-28T22:12:15Z

Edit: This is now resolved. Thank you!

Ok, I could use some help with this.

It's a rails application that someone packaged up for docker. I've found an IP address from docker network inspect and a port number in docker-compose.yml, but when I try to visit it with Firefox I get "Error code: SSL_ERROR_RX_RECORD_TOO_LONG"

Anyone have troubleshooting recommendations?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-29T00:05:24Z

wget is throwing a similar error message, so I'm even more confident the issue is with my docker config, not firefox. Which is unfortunate, because I have a lot more experience troubleshooting firefox.

I'll figure it out eventually!?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-29T00:19:45Z

@sidepony Oh! Um. That gets me "The page isn’t redirecting properly" and the network section of the developer console says it's just requesting the same IP:Port over and over again.

Progress, maybe?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-29T00:23:16Z

@sidepony Apparently the server is responding with "302 Moved Temporarily". Not sure why it would be doing that, but at least it's something to investigate.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-29T00:36:00Z

@sidepony Thank you!

I'm confident there's no hypothetical cluster, so I was already thinking it's something to do with host name configuration. I'll try poking at that some more...

And again, thank you so much! That was precisely the pointer I needed.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-29T00:57:27Z

SSL issue resolved! Now I face my next challenge: Ruby on Rails.

I found the logs. Rails is definitely responsible for the redirect... I just don't know why.

(Is this how gamers feel when they beat a level/boss and move on to a new one that's completely different?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-29T22:42:58Z

@sam You might want to check this thread: med-mastodon.com/@luckytran/11

It seems like the Bridge program may not cover updated vaccines. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-29T22:54:29Z

@sam Yeah... doesn't sound promising, but I hope it goes ok for you.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-31T02:46:02Z

A6. 14-18 batteries, usually, if I counted right. Wow, that's a lot!

If I'm riding with assist there's a 1000Wh e-bike battery. (I've also taken it on a couple of non-assisted rides to charge my laptop.)

Occasionally a laptop battery.

I pretty much always have the rechargeable battery in my Sena Pi helmet intercom, the one in my wristwatch, and batteries in all the electronics that live in my purse (lithium rechargeables unless otherwise noted):
- e-reader
- bluetooth keyboard (2x CR2032, I believe)
- bluetooth headphones
- 3x bike lights
- 3x flashlights (one AA and two with pairs of button cell batteries)
- sometimes a phone
- occasionally a USB battery bank

(I think I'm overdue to clean out my purse. I probably don't need a minimum of 12 batteries hanging off my shoulder all the time, even if they're small. 😬)

@ascentale @rvaughnmd

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-31T02:48:26Z

@atrombone Hey! I was going to post that but you beat me to it. 😆

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-31T04:29:58Z

I recently read Bad Luck Charm by Lily Seabrook. Reactions:

Seabrooke has once again knocked it out of the park in the "cis character with a very trans-y narrative" department. Choice quotes include:

You do all the right things, say all the right words at all the right times. You know how to be the right person. That's what someone does when they haven't gotten a chance to be the person they are.

There's putting on a face to help resolve a situation, and then there's putting on a face for my entire life.

Hey, what's the saying about planting a tree? The best time was twenty years ago...

seeking joy is intertwined with facing pain

My biggest complaint about this book - which applies to a significant percentage of romance novels, even queer ones - is the portrayal of excessive wealth and the associated wealth apologism, which this book has in spades. I don't want to go on about it, but can we have some more anticapitalist romance novels, please?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-31T16:43:48Z

@pqqq I know! <3

In fact, I thought of you when writing that sentence.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-31T16:58:10Z

@Zumbador Yeah, it's disconcertingly common and I'm pretty sure you're right about the reason.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-31T17:59:57Z

@eleland Yikes! I ride to/through Petaluma occasionally on longer errands but hadn't seen this news. It's one of those things that is both worrisome and frustratingly normal.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-08-31T18:23:55Z

I just remembered that one method for cleaning raw fleece (as in, a messy pile of wool that has recently been removed from a sheep, not wool yarn or clothing) involves soaking it in water until the alkaline salts in the sheep sweat react with the lanolin (oil) to produce a kind of soap.

The science of fiber craft is so cool!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-31T18:33:44Z

Ok, I looked it up because it's been a while since I last read about this and I had forgotten that it's even weirder: It's called Suint Fermentation and is dependent on anaerobic bacteria, which causes it to smell *really bad*. I tried it once, some years ago, but I don't remember how well it worked for me.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-08-31T20:11:57Z

@hollie Oh, that's clever! I'll have to remember that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-01T06:51:48Z

@lyssachiavari As a reader I wouldn't always reject a book for that but sometimes I might, depending on my mood. Even if I did read the book I might just skim the character list, so don't rely on me having read it.

It's very unlikely that I'll flip back and check it while reading, either. (I was going to blame that on my e-reader, which requires several taps to get back and forth to something like that, but honestly I don't do it with print books either.)

The one exception might be if the character list is especially engaging to read and also uncommonly clear about character relationships, but it's hard enough to do either of those things in isolation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-03T16:56:31Z

Found one! Dear Wendy by Ann Zhao reads a lot like a romance novel but it's a couple of aroace folks making friends!

It is so beautiful. I need to read more books with good ace rep.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-03T17:04:06Z

It's not 100% relatable for me - I am definitely not aromantic and I'm... somewhere in the grey area of the ace spectrum, exact location still unknown - but still! It is so nice to read.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-03T19:01:06Z

@hollie The friendships in romance novels are so good! (And doubly important to me because that's often where the trans characters show up.)

Dear Wendy has a fair bit of tension - the main characters have pseudonymous online personas that are feuding.

I'd love to see a nice cozy slow-burn friendship novel, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-03T21:16:00Z

Other notes on Dear Wendy:

  • It's Zhao's first novel and I think in her enthusiasm about writing a-spec characters she gets a bit heavy-handed with the Talking About AroAce Identities.
  • CW for aphobia (amisia?).
  • It's a really cute book!
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-04T05:21:34Z

@deadofwinter Laughing at allos is part of the fun of being ace for me. They're just so amusingly baffling sometimes!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-05T04:01:26Z

@dr_a "Not very" is my understanding, unless you're doing some very specific MTB stuff.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-06T05:15:32Z

@julie Travelers Along the Way by Aminah Mae Safi

Set during the Crusades, as is fairly traditional for a Robin Hood story... but it's set in Jerusalem, and the Crusaders are the bad guys. Can Rahma al-Hud and her band of misfits steal peace for their homeland?

(Bonus: Sapphic secondary characters!)

I know there's another one I'm forgetting... I'll let you know if I figure it out.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-06T06:16:02Z

@miriamrobern Seconding @ada 's "Who?"

I'm on the edge of my seat over here!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-06T06:36:02Z

@minnie@toot.lgbt It's like the socks with separate toes, but for dew claws.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-06T16:50:48Z

@miriamrobern @ada Ah, yeah. I guessed that a while after asking, once I had read more of the timeline and done a little searching around for more info and felt like I needed to wash my brain.

But I was still hoping it was a character in a book or something.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-06T20:48:04Z

When your to-do list includes both academic writing and sidewalk repair:

"I need to work on the abstract and the concrete."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T00:33:21Z

A8. One of my favorites is the Toxy Trimobil, a delta trike where the primary rider powers the front wheel, a second rider can sit above one of the rear wheels and optionally power it, and a third seat can be installed on the other side for a passenger.

@ascentale @trouble

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T01:06:54Z

A3. In addition to the many excellent suggestions made by others, I'll recommend Slow Moving Vehicle signs - the orange triangles with reflective red borders that you might see on tractors and construction equipment.

It may require a little bit of creativity to mount one on the back of a bike, but they're big and bright and reflective and I think it helps that drivers associate them with "slow" and "caution" instead of with "bicycle" (though I suppose if too many cyclists start using them we may loose this benefit)

@ascentale @yantor3d @kimu

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T01:17:31Z
re: caps, silliness

@0x09 I'm jealous! None of the bike shops I worked in ever had an ENORMOUS ULTRASONIC CLEANER. It would've been so useful, too!

@socketwench

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T02:10:31Z
re: caps, silliness

@0x09 @socketwench Aaaa that's amazing. I have done (and probably will continue to do) so much greasy scrubbing and I am 1000% envious.

May I ask which shop? Because if you worked with donated bikes there's decent odds I've heard of it...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T03:35:26Z

@0x09 Oh yeah, it does seem like there's more of that in SFF. I very much enjoyed both Time War and the Murderbot books. (I tried the Locked Tomb books and they don't seem to suit me. 🤷‍♀️) I'll check out Splendor and Misery, that sounds interesting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T03:37:55Z

@0x09 DreamBikes is a new one to me; thanks! It sounds like an awesome program.

@socketwench

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T03:42:41Z

@amanda 😆 The reason this post is making the rounds again is because last week I posted my thoughts on Dear Wendy as a reply in this thread.

It's an excellent recommendation, though! I quite liked it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-07T03:59:07Z

@amanda I loved A Psalm for the Wild-Built! Haven't gotten to the second book yet, but it's on my list.

I think I started The Romantic Agenda a while back and was in the wrong mood for it; I'll definitely try it again at some point.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-07T05:21:20Z

@meganL 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-07T05:26:35Z

@meganL Ha! I only know that from looking up the history of the phrase, because that Ellen episode has made it such a staple joke in sapphic romance novels.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-09T04:39:17Z

@pqqq @izaya What is it with you two and matching each other?!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-09T05:40:58Z

@izaya @pqqq Ok, yeah, there is a significant body of evidence supporting this explanation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-10T23:18:34Z

Every so often I find myself in a situation that I haven't been in for a few years and my self-image suddenly reverts to an earlier state, taking all of my habits with it.

And then I have to remind myself, "Wait, no. I can do the masculine-coded behaviors if I want, but I don't have to default to them."

It's been happening less lately, so it's even stranger when it does - not bad, necessarily, but still jarring.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-11T02:29:10Z

@miriamrobern Yeah... I have only done a bit of camping and such since starting to transition, and it's still wonky that way sometimes. Bike repair is similar for me. I think I'm beginning to figure out how I actually want to do that stuff, but it's definitely a work in progress.

Today it was a work training thing and I think my "attentive, professional" mask is one I just hadn't updated yet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-11T02:30:13Z

@paleblueyedot Yeah, it's definitely happening less because I already did a bunch of it, so that's nice to realize.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-11T02:48:04Z

@meganL Oh, hey. I've been mulling over an analogy between "AI for accessibility!" and "Car infrastructure for accessibility!" but that thread generalizes it very tidily.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-11T03:33:29Z

@miriamrobern Oof.

I think I have a voice like that but I don't currently get too dysphoric about it, so I've been trying to slowly shift it. Probably helps that I had already been working toward a gentler and more inquisitive tone for a lot of the situations in which I'd use it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T02:40:22Z

Once again I face my nemesis: Installation instructions that only document half the steps in the install process.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T02:54:58Z

At least this time I have access to a working install I can examine and poke at. Pretty sure this would be well beyond the scope of my ability otherwise.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T03:38:23Z

@Chloe I've got at least one I'd be happy to get rid of... (/hj?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T03:41:48Z

@Chloe What do you mean by "at that point"?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T03:43:26Z

@Chloe Ah, got it. Yeah, both sides have pros and cons and it's hard to find the balance point in between.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T04:22:25Z

Cool, now I've finally moved on to problems that I think are actually Ruby on Rails.

Rails is throwing an error because it can't find the file. I have confirmed that the file exists. It seems like the file is not in the Assets Pipeline, whatever that is. It's configured in manifest.js? Ok, now why can't I find manifest.js?!

This is beginning to look like a problem for Future April, because Present April is feeling kinda done with it and needs to sleep soon.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T04:28:55Z

@Chloe If you find yourself in want of a project in the future, I've got a MediaWiki admin/configuration thing that isn't getting done and a dodgy Rails app that people want to use but nobody knows how to fix/improve. I could try to set you up to poke at either of them, if you'd like.

Perhaps not tonight, though, because 💤

Looks like you might've come up with something for now, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T16:55:17Z

Uh-oh. I think I have to learn how to use rails console again.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T17:30:43Z

Good news: I found the old .irb-history files from the last time I worked on this mess!

Bad news: They're not actually useful to me right now because the problem is in a part of the mess that I've never touched before. (I'm still pleased to have found them, and I'm backing them up somewhere sensible this time.)

Good news: The rails docs actually specify how to check the asset pipeline search path from the console!

Bad news: The search paths from the working install and the non-working install are identical.

Annoying news: I can't diff the directories in the search paths because they're in different docker containers. (Maybe there's a workaround for that, but I suspect it'll be quicker to just examine them in side-by-side terminal windows.)

(Going to try to tag these going forward in case anyone wants to filter out my ranting.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T17:56:18Z

🤣 😭 I think I figured it out. It was Docker all along! Or rather, my unfamiliarity with Docker.

I'm pretty sure I've unwittingly been running commands on the working install and thinking it was the non-working install because I didn't change the container name when running `docker-compose exec`.

So I'm sort of back to square one, but at least I know why everything has been so baffling for a while.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T18:28:20Z

Whoops, nope, I checked the environment variables and it is the right container. So the problem is somewhere else... and I have no idea where.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-13T18:53:32Z

@pqqq :blobsad:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-13T23:57:03Z

@exelia_antonov I wanted to write sapphic fiction but I also thought "write what you know" was good advice.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-14T00:13:25Z

A6. Speaking of wear in the brake system, it's also good to check your braking surfaces for excessive wear occasionally - disc rotors or rim sidewalls. They last a long time, but I've met at least one cyclist who was stopped on the side of the road with a sidewall worn through so badly it folded out and caused a blowout.

It takes quite a while, and varies some with local conditions. I feel like I saw more issues with this in PDX, where wet road grit stuck to rims and brake pads, than I have in drier Californian climates.

This is another reason to follow @gcvsa's advice about brake system maintenance, too. A brake pad that has worn down to the metal backing will destroy rims pretty fast.

@ascentale @ai6yr

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-14T00:35:34Z

@majesty I wouldn't feel entirely confident diagnosing it from the photo, but it's possible someone switched to posts that are slightly too small and tried to compensate by tightening the clamps. Seatpost sizing is sometimes in increments of a few millimeters, so it's definitely a thing that can happen.

Do you have calipers or some other way to take a precise diameter measurement of the seat tube and the current seat posts? You can probably find a list of standard sizes online - maybe sheldonbrown.com? - to compare with.

Also, is that a mixte tandem?! I bet it's a really lovely-looking bike!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-14T01:10:51Z

@majesty So pretty! I love that it has three different types of brake. 😆

Yeah, it seems like it could be a close judgement call as to whether you can spread that seat tube enough to fit the shim without damage... I'm inclined to think yes because steel is pretty forgiving, but I also wouldn't want to end up damaging it.

If it doesn't seem viable, I wonder if you might be able to get some tubing or sheet stock to use as a thinner shim? Maybe from McMaster Carr or a metal supplier? Or find some suitable scrap metal, maybe even from a metal can? Just be sure to grease it lightly if you've got steel against aluminum, to prevent galvanic fusion.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-14T04:04:55Z

@SRLevine Hey, that sounds like an excellent dinner party!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-14T20:30:40Z

I've been stuck on the same thing for a while now. For some reason there are some CSS files that aren't in the asset pipeline on my install. My install seems to have the same asset pipeline config as the working install. Anyone know enough about Rails to offer troubleshooting pointers?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-15T05:03:18Z

I contacted the other person who works on this app these days - the one who dockerized it to begin with - and apparently the issue was that I had been running it with the "RAILS_ENV" set to "development." Which seemed like a reasonable choice, since I am in fact trying to do development here... but apparently it only works when set to "production." 😆 🤦‍♀️

Now I can try to figure out how to actually fix things and add features. 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-15T06:45:26Z
re: social thing

@raeaw Yep.

Even just mentioning that you've done something that another person feels guilty about not doing can lead to a defensive reaction.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-16T22:25:00Z

@MzAprilDaniels Mine is definitely Sister Fern, but half the reason for that is because it's a reference to A Psalm for the Wild Built. (The other half is because it's a family name.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-16T22:40:25Z

@Impossible_PhD The original concept: xkcd.com/993/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-18T03:30:04Z

@salad_bar_breath I went to check out the thread and it was one I'd already read and bookmarked for future reference. It's a very good thread!

Genderflux probably describes me better than genderfluid, but I've been calling myself genderfluid for the better part of a decade now and I'm not sure I'm ready to let go of it yet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-18T20:07:14Z

@ai6yr I once built a pannier out of a nice old aluminum briefcase and used it for many years. For a while I had foam padding in it that I custom-fit to my laptop.

I love bucket panniers: Cheap, waterproof, capacious, disinclined to sag into your wheel, and if you have a matching set they make a big platform you can strap things on top of. I do tend to need to replace the buckets every few years, but usually I can get them by asking around for people with cats. Or delis that get stuff in square buckets. I used to have one that smelled deliciously of pickled ginger in spite of thorough washings.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-18T20:10:24Z

@ai6yr Deli buckets tend to be smaller and lack the convenient hinged lids of cat litter buckets, but if you have the hand strength to get the lids on and off they tend to seal really well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-18T21:41:25Z

@meganL As far as I can tell Jitsi can still do a login-less meeting simply by visiting an invented link like meet.jit.si/PutSomeArbitraryWordsHere [EDIT: I was mistaken; it doesn't work any more. Boooooo!]

There's also Jitsi servers that aren't hosted by the jitsi dev team and their backers; see for example support.mayfirst.org/wiki/web-

The other open source videoconference option I know of is BigBlueButton, but I don't know as much about them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-18T21:45:10Z

@RoseRaven What you wrote sounds like a pretty accurate description of the best managers, administrators, and coordinators I've known. I think I may want to reference it in the future.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-18T21:46:05Z

@YouShallNotPass Good luck and best wishes!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-18T21:57:15Z

@meganL Well, crap. I'd been using it that way pretty recently, I thought, but I guess they've changed it since whenever I last had a meeting on there.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-19T00:26:04Z
re: Becoming Christina Chase spoilers

@miriamrobern On the one hand you're right, and on the other hand I think mentioning an answering machine in the second paragraph did the trick for me. XD

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-19T05:50:07Z

@bikemonterey That looks like an awesome book!

And I thought the author's name looked familiar... turns out it's because the author is on fedi: @Nondriver@social.ridetrans.it

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-20T00:38:50Z

@sidepony Uh-oh?

Running tech seems like a good position for starting a riot, though...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-20T17:30:41Z

It's up and running! But now `docker compose exec` isn't doing what I expect. I'm probably missing something obvious here, but also I think the person who fixed my earlier issue may have changed/broken something else? Grr.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-20T17:33:57Z

@Qyriad I think timeanddate.com's event time announcer does this, doesn't it?

timeanddate.com/worldclock/fix

I just tested it and it looks like that's the case.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-20T17:45:07Z
vent; run-on sentences

I'm really tired of dealing with awesome projects that have a lot of potential but insufficient documentation and testing.

I get it! Documentation and testing are really hard and sometimes you want to just release a thing when it's half-finished and maybe it'll be useful to someone anyway.

Ugh. There are so many aspects to this and basically it comes back to "capitalism bad" but right now I have people waiting for me to resolve a tech issue that I don't know how to resolve, because many years ago someone made a cool piece of software and a community grew around it, but the person didn't document things very well and then didn't maintain it beyond the minimum necessary. And now that person is too busy to update it to meet the new needs of the community, and someone else is trying to maintain it a little but *also* isn't documenting things adequately, and I'm fumbling around in the dark trying to fix and improve stuff I don't know anything about.

I guess I'll go work on something else while I wait for the more knowledgeable person to get back to me, because that's a more efficient use of time than me trying to learn Docker from scratch when I don't use it for anything besides this.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-20T22:08:48Z

Fifteen years ago, I wouldn't have predicted that I'd feel more confident working on nonprofit incorporation paperwork than working on software.

Of course, I also wouldn't have predicted that I'd be doing either one while wearing a dress, so go figure!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-20T22:59:58Z

To be clear, I'm not that confident about the nonprofit paperwork, but I do feel like I can figure it out. The Docker issues from this morning have me completely stumped, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-20T23:25:19Z

@ai6yr I usually grab a secondhand Greenfield or similar cast aluminum kickstand from the nearest place that has piles of used bike parts. It seems like there's still plenty around from people taking them off of bikes, and/or shops salvaging them from old, damaged bikes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-20T23:34:22Z

Reviewing the volunteer handbook for an org I used to be a part of and I'm pretty sure one of the rules exists because of the time I tried to build a stick welder using a microwave transformer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-20T23:49:37Z

A6. Gary Hale writes:

I bought an old hand powered drill press from a friend for $15. I was very impressed with how efficiently the machine could remove metal. I needed a way to cut the miters in tubing for bikes. Making bikes with pedal power somehow seemed like the essence of appropriate technology, so I made a ten speed horizontal boring mill with pedals. I sold about ten of these to other frame builders. When the power went out in my shop, I just kept working! This machine was written up in Mother Earth News in the early 80's. Later I converted a few other devices to human power, including making a generator stand for electricity and a 5-gallon ice cream maker.

I believe this is a photo of the boring mill: halebikes.com/pictures/buildin

@ascentale @sam

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-21T01:04:46Z

A6. That reminds me, there used to be a company in Davis, CA with a pedal-powered drum roaster gizmo that they used to roast... I think peppers and coffee?

Ok, just coffee: thepepperpeddler.com/about-us.

@sam @ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-24T22:32:32Z

@forestine Wow, that looks amazing!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-24T22:42:03Z

Oh. It was another thing set via an environment variable (or by a flag when running docker compose). It was even mentioned in a previous email; I just didn't realize that it had to be set anew every session.

Now, why does it seem like it's not talking to the database?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-24T22:50:08Z

...or I was just forgetting the `;` at the end of my SQL statements. It's been a while since I last touched SQL.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-24T22:54:20Z
caps (excited)

I HAVE A FUNCTIONAL DEV ENVIRONMENT!!!!

Now I can get confused by Ruby on Rails, instead of getting confused by Docker.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-25T00:01:15Z

Oh great. I'm all set to help [group 1] announce that they're going to host an in-person conference for the community. And now at the 11th hour I've discovered that some folks who were apparently doing all their organizing on Facebook & Discord, in spite of repeated invitations to communicate with the broader community via the established email lists, are also about ready to announce that they're hosting the conference.

While I was busy trying to solve technical problems, the social problems snuck up and ambushed me. Isn't that always the way of it?

Now I'm probably going to wind up doing mediation-y stuff, or at least trying to connect people who need to talk to each other.

This is not my favorite thing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-25T00:27:41Z

Huh. took a break from trying to coordinate things and listened to a little guided meditation and *wow* I forget sometimes how panicky I can get at the prospect of confrontation/disagreement.

Reminder to self: I don't need to manage this. Even just trying to set the two groups up for productive dialog is really more than I'm obliged to do.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-25T20:08:41Z

@forteller Some quick searching indicates that traditional USB can only deliver 25 watts (5 volts @ 5 amps), which would take 20 hours to charge a 500 watt-hour battery. That's pretty slow.

But! It looks like the latest standards for USB Power Delivery support up to 240W (48V @ 5A), which would charge that same 500Wh battery in a bit more than 2 hours. I think a lot of USB chargers don't support the latest Power Delivery standards, so you'd need to carry a suitable power brick anyway. Still kind of a cool notion, though!

(I think of 500Wh as a fairly standard e-bike battery. I use a 1000Wh battery myself because I want extreme range, but I think most commercial e-bikes are closer to 500Wh?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-27T04:10:38Z
I just binge-read several Haley Cass books and now I have thoughts on the topic of romance novels. In this essay I will... (long; not really spoiler-y) 🧵

Ok, so I've been re-reading a bunch of Haley Cass books (nearly all of them, honestly). Having a bit of a binge-read here.

As with so many books, I love some elements of Cass's work and I'm kinda uncomfortable with other elements.

In the love column:

I'm really intrigued by the way Cass handles the passage of time. Mostly noticed it in Those who Wait:

  • Attaching the events of each chapter to a holiday (kinda US-centric, and even as a USian I can't keep track of when Labor Day and Memorial Day happen, but still interesting)
  • Rapidly recounting a series of meetings that occurred over several months, with each one represented by a single paragraph in the format, "...and [brief snippet of the meeting that is relevant to plot and/or character]"
  • Retrospective narration like, "She opened the door without knocking, as she had been doing for two weeks now" (paraphrased from memory)
  • Parallel construction of key narrative moments, e.g. the POV character periodically justifying her increasingly close relationship and romantic feelings for the other character in an, "Ok I've got feelings for her but really it's no big deal." sort of way, but getting more serious every time.

I like the length. Apparently some people aren't fond of longer books like this, but if I enjoy the plot and the characters then I aboslutely want to keep reading for several thousand more words. Plus! Cass writes followup stories for most of these characters where we get a glimpse into their lives and relationships beyond the end of the main book. It's like post-canon fanfic, but written by the original author! (I say that like I'm into fanfic or something. I'm not actually much of a fanfic reader at this time, somewhat to my dismay.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-27T04:11:39Z
re: I just binge-read several Haley Cass books and now I have thoughts on the topic of romance novels. In this essay I will... (long; not really spoiler-y) 🧵

The other thing about both the length of these books and the way Cass writes the passage of time is I can actually believe in the romance. It's not unusual, in the genre, for characters to meet, have a whirlwind fling over the course of a few weeks or months, say, "I love you!" and then get a brief epilogue indicating that they live happily ever after, or at least happily long enough to get married, move in, or take some other big step in their relationship. That seems kinda fast to me! I much prefer the relationships that Cass's characters develop over the course of years, first as friends and then as romantic partners.

They're just really sweet books. I skipped out on re-reading In the Long Run this time, which IIRC is more of an enemies-to-lovers, but everything else is friends-to-lovers with characters that care about each other so much and I can't help falling for that every time. But that leads into...

The uncomfortable column:

Sweet as these characters and relationships are, I feel like they've got some pretty unhealthy elements. A lot of characters who feel like their partner is completing them, or their life wouldn't be nearly as fulfilling if they lost their partner. A lot of soulmates-ish stuff. A lot of happily-ever-after without the characters experiencing much conflict in their relationships. I'd much rather see characters who are emotionally complete and fulfilled in and of themselves and who also have loving relationships that improve their lives. Characters who might be devestated by the loss of their partner, but who could still pick themselves up and keep going. I want to see relationships that survive hardships and arguments and conflicts, but keep going strong thanks to love and communication and problem-solving. I want relationships that feel real, not like some Disney-movie fantasy.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-27T04:12:32Z
re: I just binge-read several Haley Cass books and now I have thoughts on the topic of romance novels. In this essay I will... (long; not really spoiler-y) 🧵

I don't aspire to feel like my partner is filling a void in my soul, as Gianna apparently feels about Riley. Or as if I'll be devestated if I lose my partner, with a crucial part of my personality gone, as Riley worries she will be if she loses Gianna. Which isn't to say I would be un-impacted, or would want to be! But I think Alison Cochrun approaches it much better in Here we go Again: Yes, it's good to have relationships that are so important that the loss of them would destroy you. But you can be destroyed by that loss, and still get up again and keep living a full and joyful life. Grief and mourning can hurt you, can destroy you, but they don't have to end you. I want to make a comparison to some of Lily Seabrooke's characters here too, even thought I'm not quite sure how to tie it together - Seabrooke just does such a great job, I think, of writing characters that learn and grow from their relationships but are also full and complete people on their own.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-27T04:13:08Z
re: I just binge-read several Haley Cass books and now I have thoughts on the topic of romance novels. In this essay I will... (long; not really spoiler-y) 🧵

I also wish Cass would figure out some more nuance when it comes to attraction. At one point in On the Same Page she clarifies that a character doesn't identify as aromantic, so I know she's aware of a-spec identities... but there are some beautiful opportunities for queerplatonic or alloromantic-but-asexual relationships in her books and we don't get them! Both of the Beckett twins end up with their (female) best friends after not thinking they're attracted to women (that's technically a spoiler but if you're even the slightest bit genre-savvy you'll have seen it coming from the first chapter of their respective books so whatever). It's a perfect setup for a queerplatonic or non-sexual partnership! In Ellie's case it's clear pretty early in the book that there's some latent attraction, but Riley suddenly discovering a sexual attraction to women felt to me like it was coming out of left field. Did we actually need that? Sure, she acknowledges aesthetic appreciation of women right from the start, but aesthetic appreciation is not necessarily the same as sexual or romantic attraction. On the Same Page sets up what could be a beautiful, complex, and challenging exploration of a queerplatonic relationship between two best friends - it's explicitly stated that they fulfill all each others' needs for emotional intimacy, and they only look to other people for sexual relationships. But what we get is a straightforward allo-normative toaster oven romance. Not that I don't enjoy toaster over romances; this just could have been something far more interesting!

Anyway:

No conclusion, sorry. This isn't actually an essay, I've just been thinking about all this stuff and wanted to write it down while it was on my mind. Maybe I'll finish The Next Chapter now; it's really cute!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-27T04:21:49Z

I took apart a pedal that needed the bearings overhauled and let it soak in soapy water for too long.

Not only did it start rusting, but... either the soap scum congealed in really weird ways, or it somehow started fermenting. There were weird lumpy white-ish growths(?) on the aluminum body of the pedal.

I scraped them off, cleaned everything, and set it aside to dry. Now I'm kind of wishing I'd taken photos first.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-27T04:30:16Z

@smellsofbikes Oh, cool! I wondered if it might be some sort of chemical reaction but it's been too long since I studied chem for me to have any notion of what it might be. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-27T04:36:19Z
re: this needs to be expunged from books

@minervissa@toot.lgbt 😬

Thing I was also thinking about in relation to the topic of that thread earlier but forgot when writing it: The stories we tell ourselves shape our understanding of the world. That's why it's so important to tell more and better stories.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-27T04:41:50Z

@minervissa@toot.lgbt If you prick your finger on a spindle, you risk falling into a cursed sleep. What happens when you prick your finger on a multitool?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-09-27T05:09:16Z

@VulcanTourist Oh yeah! I know someone who used to keep a bottle of d-limonene around for precisely that purpose.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-09-29T23:38:43Z

@meganL Oh, neat! I didn't know there was a term for these, but have really liked them on Adventure Cycling and other route-specific bike maps.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-02T04:19:54Z
re: Transition and lesbianism

@faithisleaping Yeah... I'm not closely acquainted with any cis lesbians, but I do read a *lot* of sapphic romance, with all those tropes and in-jokes and coming out stories and traumas and whatnot.

Those books are a weird, inverted mirror-image to my own experience in pretty much exactly the ways you described, and it can be hard to relate sometimes, even as I enjoy the stories so much.

I got into reading those books before I figured out that I wanted to transition, which really amped up the "I'm just a chaser who wants to get in with lesbians" fear for a while.

I wish we had more sapphic trans narratives in fiction... there are a few, but only a very few and they don't tend to delve into the differences between trans and cis lesbianexperiences.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-02T14:04:58Z

@taedryn Yep. It happens to me most often in unfamiliar situations, where I revert to an old version of my self-image and sometimes also older mannerisms. Seems like habits of mind are difficult to reset.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-02T22:43:12Z

@meganL I am not an expert, but IIRC proper co-ops are a different subcategory of 501(c). I suspect they don't have the same tax-advantaged status, since a worker- or member-owned co-op would probably have a hard time with conflict of interest policies when deciding compensation.

The closest thing I know of off the top of my head is actually the Davis Bike Collective. It is a 501(c)3 and we wrote the bylaws such that the board of directors is purely administrative. All decisions are made by consensus of the core volunteers. Not really the same because it doesn't have paid employees, though it can choose to compensate people if those people aren't involved in the vote on compensation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-02T22:49:45Z

@meganL Yeah, but the people making bank in big nonprofits are usually staff (executive directors and suchlike), and the decisions about compensation for high-level staff are made or at least approved by the board, who generally aren't paid by the nonprofit.

I agree that worker-owned co-ops would likely be better about this, but I'm not sure the IRS has figured it out. :eyeroll:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-02T23:10:16Z

@sam @meganL Thanks! Yeah, I'm far from an expert on 501(c) co-ops, and I'm just guessing as to why they might not get the same tax treatment as (c)3s.

I do suspect that conflict of interest laws would likely be a legal barrier to having 501(c)3 employees make decisions that would impact their wages. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-02T23:10:44Z

@sam @meganL Yeah, 501(c) can be a surprisingly interesting read!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-03T04:54:40Z

Simply the Best by Karin Kallmaker

This was an interesting one. The writing style felt a little more... poetic, maybe? than I'm used to in a romance, which was fun.

This book seemed like it was equal parts homage to and critique of the "ice queen" romances that remix The Devil Wears Prada. It's got all the key elements - fashion icon CEO, innocent young assistant, journalism, age-gap romance, weird mentorship dynamics, identity-destroying job. But they're remixed in a different way than usual, and the CEO/assistant dynamic that often gets hand-waved in DWP fic with "true love" is a lot less wholesome here. (It's also not the romantic relationship, which is a nice change.) This book is quite critical of the fashion industry and associated nonsense, which I appreciate.

That said, for me the best and worst part of this book is how it handled COVID. On the one hand, it's the first fiction I've read where a character looks back on the height of the pandemic with a perspective anything like my own. Alice is appalled at the lack of care and compassion, at the way people ignored health and safety in favor of returning to "normal."

On the other hand, Alice is looking back at the pandemic. By the time this book takes place, her daily routine has returned to "normal." I think it's largely a product of it's time: Published in 2021, when the prevailing belief was that a vaccine would end the pandemic. By then I was starting to realize that wouldn't be the case, but it's not so unreasonable that Kallmaker hadn't. (I don't see any evidence that she has figured it out since, sadly.)

The ending felt a bit underdeveloped, too. Only one of the big ethical concerns really gets addressed, and the rest get ignored in favor of a cute, tidy Happily Ever After.

Anyway, it was a fun read and reasonably thought-provoking.

You're standing right here. Every day you save yourself. That is the great leap of faith, after all.

(I seem to have abandoned BookWyrm, at least for now. Going to try posting book thoughts here sometimes instead, because here is better than nowhere.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-03T06:29:46Z

@YouShallNotPass This evening, when I star your post it apparently means "Same."

(In this case, I actually have a note (warning?) in my bio about being bad at conversations. 😬)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-04T00:49:28Z

@wormerama I pronounce fungi with a hard g to ensure a proper setup for "fun guy" jokes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-04T01:15:21Z

Saw this amazing gizmo in the reuse store at the local landfill today. If only I had an excuse to acquire it...

(I really don't, nor do I have the space for it.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-04T01:54:07Z

@MLE_online I know! I was wishing just now I had taken more photos so I went looking for "filer and jointer" online and apparently it's for saw blades. Which makes so much sense, but didn't occur to me at the time. It looks like it's missing the piece to the right of the file that would advance the blade to the next tooth. 😦

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-04T15:12:30Z

@ai6yr See also: Reasons I'm not allowed to own white clothing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-05T03:47:08Z

@nothingfuture I have ridden two different tandem USS recumbents, albeit short wheelbase, and can relate.

The first one was especially terrifying, as it had the captain's seat directly on top of the front wheel. I felt like a figurehead on the prow of a ship, which is a weird position to steer from!

I did eventually get the hang of our second one. Riding it nearly 1000 miles solo with touring gear was decent prep for making the return trip with a stoker.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-05T03:56:45Z

A8.

Uni: Yes. I've picked up secondhand unicycles for free a few times and learned to ride them at least a little.

Bi: Many. Recumbent and upright, single and tandem.

Tri: Several, both recumbent and upright.

Quad: I might have briefly tried one? Oh, and I rode a multi-person gizmo built on a car chassis a few times. That technically had 4 wheels.

Pent: Linked two delta trikes end-to-end for a 5-wheel tandem for a while.

I can't remember riding any cycles with more wheels than that unless you count trailers; certainly not for any length of time.

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-05T04:10:34Z

A5. I wear glasses and like larger lenses, so they keep the water out of my eyes ok. To keep some of the water off my glasses, I make giant visors out of coroplast (corrugated plastic lawn sign material).

I'm past due to make another visor... fortunately, as I'm in the US, lawn signs should be ready to harvest in about a month.

@ascentale @Bilbo_Haggins

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-07T02:15:13Z

@meganL That's a tricky question for me right now. Historically I've mostly ridden 'bents, but the last several months have been predominantly semi-recumbent. Not sure which direction I'm going in the future...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-07T02:24:11Z

@meganL Yeah, the FrankenForward: octodon.social/@kg6gfq/1129273

It looks a bit different now because I swapped a 20" hub motor wheel onto the front and adjusted the frame geometry to give better ground clearance, but same basic idea.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-07T02:25:19Z

@meganL Fair point. I picked "recumbent" because I guess I still think of myself as a recumbent rider, even when I don't own an intact recumbent. XD

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-07T02:30:54Z

@meganL Yeah, Rans and Day 6 geometries both informed the design. The one-and-a-half-bikes construction technique is one that I first encountered (and replicated) as a way of making cheap xtracycle clones from scrap bikes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-08T05:24:26Z

I am going to get up from the computer, put my headphones in, and listen to more of the Dreams Bigger than Heartbreak audiobook by Charlie Jane Anders while I finish some chores before bed.

Posting this so I'll actually do it now instead of wasting time on the internet.

Ok, go!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-08T06:27:01Z

@izaya The impression I got when I was watching a lot of historical sewing stuff on youtube is that a good, properly fitted corset is likely to improve your posture while you're wearing it and might help retrain your habitual stance. On the other hand, if you overuse it you could end up relying on the corset for support instead of your muscles, which is not ideal.

Also a good quality, properly fitted corset is quite expensive. (Or very labor-intensive if you make it yourself. I do still want to make one. One of these days.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-08T06:56:48Z

@SailorDisco There's this list: chaosfem.tw/@JoscelynTransient

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-08T19:55:04Z
re: Tuesday itinerary

@pqqq "Tuesdate" 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-08T20:04:42Z
re: Tuesday itinerary

@pqqq "Izzy mode" can reduce your character count by up to 33% or more!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-08T20:15:16Z

@meganL Oooh, I forgot Utah Trikes posted their custom builds.

Trisled does too, and I always enjoy browsing their blog: trisled.com.au/blog/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-08T20:29:28Z

@Chloe I'm guessing ~/Documents/Music is sheet music?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-08T20:30:36Z

@Chloe ...whoops, posted without checking the replies.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-09T02:11:10Z
genderfluid silliness

I can't even get a reading on this thing today. *smacks side of gender-ometer* What's it trying to say?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-09T02:35:47Z

@gnuntoo I believe it's more like the second paragraph.

Not just a matter of trendiness, though; they were one of the nicest folding bikes you could get for a long time. I suppose they still are, though there's a bit more competition in that space now.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-09T02:52:51Z

@ansate ...I thought the original post was a joke because it was just too spot-on. Was it not?!

(Coincidentally, I'm halfway through the trilogy in audiobook format right now; it's fantastic! I keep being disappointed that I'm listening instead of reading the text because I want to highlight quotes.)

(I didn't know about this short! I am bookmarking it for later. Very exciting!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-09T05:36:58Z
more genderfluid silliness

"Wait, I'm getting a reading - and it's high femme! Oh, now it's blank again. No! We've got a sudden spike in tomboyishness... and back to nothing."

"Captain, the 'phoria levels are fluctuating sporadically as well. They're mostly holding near neutral, but with occasional abrupt swings toward either the eu- or the dis- end of the spectrum. I've never seen anything like it!"

[captain voice] "Ah yes... it is an unusually choppy day on the sea of gender."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-09T05:47:48Z
further genderfluid silliness

[captain voice] "We might be in for some tricky winds, but fear not, crew. I've weathered worse than this. Batten the hatches, reef the sails, and we'll try to get a good nights' sleep."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-10T02:49:58Z

Hypothesis: One of the notable traits of fiction by trans authors is the prevalence of characters with imposter syndrome. Often intense and/or extremely plot-relevant.

(I've noticed this before, but I got to thinking about it again today when listening to Elza weaponize negative self-talk in Dreams Bigger than Heartbreak.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-10T04:02:27Z

@Lana

Dukat: Delicious candy, but a few pieces are poisoned.

Morn: Has the best candy on the station, but nobody thinks to ask him so he doesn't get to give it out. When he tells Quark how sad he is about it, Quark grunts and offers another drink.

The Weyouns: By accepting this candy, you have agreed to join the Dominion. (The candy tastes weird and sticks to the roof of your mouth.)

Keiko O'Brian: Huge basket full of fruit and other healthy treats.

Ensign Nog: What'll you give me in exchange for a piece of candy? Guaranteed poison-free! He shows you some of the delicious candy Dukat was offering, but when you settle on a price he gives you one of the weird sticky ones from The Weyouns. After all, you were negotiating for "a piece of candy" not "that specific piece of candy."

Chancellor Gowron: The candy looks *really* strange to anyone who isn't Klingon, but the few people who try it say it's pretty good.

Lwuxanna Troi: Could give you the perfect candy for your emotional state, but where's the fun in that? Halloween candy should be an adventure!

Conclusion: I'm not sure who gave out the best candy, but I guess DS9 questions like this may be an effective way to nerd-snipe me.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-10T22:17:12Z

@Willow My laser person always asks if I'm on antibiotics at the start of a session, so I'd inquire with the laser person before going?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-10T22:39:12Z

@pqqq IIRC, she once dated the entire fediverse (except me).

@salad_bar_breath

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-10T22:41:38Z

@salad_bar_breath No, I opted out. XD

I was a friend of the omnicule.

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-10T23:01:12Z

@salad_bar_breath Whoops, it was actually just all your followers, not the entire fediverse: todon.nl/@salad_bar_breath/111

It seems I have unintentionally exaggerated your history... is your legend already growing larger-than-life?

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-10T23:13:14Z

Word that very accurately describes my usual preference:

"midding" (noun): the tranquil pleasure of being near a gathering but not quite in it. hovering on the perimeter of a campfire, talking quietly outside the party, resting your eyes in the back seat of a car listening to friends chatting up front, feeling blissfully invisible yet still fully included, safe in the knowledge that everyone is together and everyone is okay, with all the thrill of being there without the burden of having to be.

Found here: froggie.gay/notes/9q407pmlxvcl

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-11T06:09:51Z

@salad_bar_breath Dang, Rayne. I'm not sure what exactly to say, but imagine relevant positive words here.

(I keep trying to describe how it felt to me and making unintentional puns - "impactful" or "hits hard." 😬)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-11T19:34:47Z

@meganL Huh, I haven't seen that one!

In case you want more maps: Sonoma County Bicycle Coalition also publishes a bike map (costs like $10, I think). The City of Santa Rosa puts out a free "Creek Trails" map that shows a lot of bike infrastructure in and immediately around the city.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-11T20:45:20Z
re: Question about HRT and children

@Chloe I saw something a while back which suggested that going off estrogenic HRT may have much better odds of restoring the ability to procreate than was previously thought, but IIRC the sample size was quite small so I wouldn't count on it.

I believe the usual approach people take is to freeze some sperm, but I get the impression it's expensive to have that done.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-11T22:37:23Z

@rachel Ooh, what's the questionable bike project?!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-12T00:38:25Z

A3. In the recumbent world, DF = Diamond Frame (a conventional, non-recumbent bike).

There's also a lot of acronyms to describe different types of recumbent:

SWB = Short Wheelbase (pedals in front of the front wheel)
LWB = Long Wheelbase (pedals behind the front wheel)
CLWB = Compact Long Wheelbase (pedals tucked in close behind the front wheel)
USS / OSS = Under- / Over-seat steering (describes handlebar placement)

My personal obsession is MBB/FWD = Moving Bottom Bracket / Front Wheel Drive (the cranks are attached to the part of the frame that moves when you steer, so your legs move side-to-side when steering)

@ascentale

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-12T01:19:45Z

A8. Line it with mesh and use it as a hanging plant pot.

I cut the straps off old helmets and use the straps & buckles in sewing projects.

@ascentale @rasterweb

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-13T02:59:08Z

@EverBeyondReach Huh. I usually do 1.5X for fiction audiobooks, but I prefer 2X for most YouTube videos unless they're very information-dense or in an unfamiliar accent.

Multiple simultaneous videos of any sort sounds absolutely impossible to me, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-13T04:03:45Z

@EverBeyondReach *video cuts to Estel staring at a fossil, looking inspired*

...wait, was that not what you meant? /j

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-13T04:06:40Z

@amin One of my favorite minor features of Spanish is the word "estadounidense" for US-ians.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-13T05:29:51Z
casual transmisia in a web form

I went to fill out the survey because I technically participated (not that I drive the rest of the time anyway, but still).

The "gender" field for the survey is a dropdown menu. "Transgender," "Man," and "Woman" are all separate options. No way to indicate that I'm a trans woman. I was required to choose one half of who I am.

Anyway, I sent them a message asking them to fix it please and thank you, if not for me then for the other trans folks who might want to respond. I don't know if it'll go anywhere, but at least now they've been notified. If they let me know when they've fixed it, maybe I'll go back and finish the survey.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-13T05:42:57Z
re: casual transmisia in a web form

@iris Yeah!

I picked up the habit from someone else and now I feel like it's a helpful and courteous thing to say, "Hey, you're probably missing out on data because you didn't think of this thing when doing your form design."

Warm take: Anyone who doesn't think of it that way probably shouldn't be designing surveys. 🙃

I've been meaning to do it for the local hospital but I think that'll have to be a phone call during business hours, so I've been putting it off.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-13T19:57:33Z

@Chloe Well obviously! Who wouldn't want a cargo bike? /hj

I am curious, though: What inspired this?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-13T20:05:06Z

@Chloe I had to look up J-1772 but it would be really nice to have some kind of public e-bike charging infrastructure. I don't think J-1772 would be practical for directly charging most e-bike batteries, but it looks like you could adapt a regular 120VAC charging brick to plug in and request AC Level 1 output. That is pretty cool and not what I expected.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-14T02:48:13Z

@Chloe Back before I decommissioned the SolarTrike I sometimes considered parking in "EV Charging Only" spaces. As long as there was some sun on it I would technically be using the space to charge an EV! 😇

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-14T14:59:37Z

@socketwench I'm really hoping I don't have to stand up any sites in 2024, but if I do I might read something like that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-14T17:02:25Z

@SymTrkl Narbonic! I was just mentioning that comic to a friend yesterday.

...and now I'm trying to remember if Garrity handled the various body- and gender-swap storylines in ways that wouldn't make me wince nowadays. I can't imagine they were too bad...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-14T18:00:59Z

@SymTrkl Phew! *wipes brow*

That's about what I expected, but it's nice to have confirmation.

Huh. I think I might have seen a conversation like that about Nick, maybe in the comments or mentioned in the commentary somewhere.

(We have a resident Narbonic historian? Nifty!)

@theogrin

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-15T04:26:47Z

@betanianne Drat! This is why I don't normally read reviews of ARCs. I want to read it now!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-15T16:43:26Z

Aaaah the person on the phone from the bank tried shortening "Darin April" to "Darin" so I told them to please call me "April" if they were going to shorten my name.

They proceeded to work "April" into every. single. sentence.

I don't know, maybe they always use people's names way more often than is normal in conversation? Certainly could have been worse!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-15T18:53:06Z

@smallsolar Eek! That's no good.

That wasn't how I read it in the above situation, though - I felt like the person was genuinely trying to do the right thing and was so hyper-aware of it that they were overcompensating.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-15T20:05:33Z

@sinituulia I quoted three different squares from this grid during therapy today. It is a handy reference!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-15T22:55:23Z

@smallsolar No worries!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-17T02:22:56Z

@elana @tunguska I'd read that!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-17T16:15:14Z

@jepyang Oooh, I didn't know McQuiston had a new book out. That's definitely going on my to-read list. Thanks!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-17T16:22:12Z

@jepyang ("slutty wine tour" would not normally be my cup of tea, but if it's trans and written by McQuiston, it's very much worth a try)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-17T17:26:24Z

Today in "What?":

zip file containing a ReadMe file with instructions for opening the zip file

(it did, somewhat to my surprise, include instructions for opening the zip file on linux (assuming you're running Ubuntu or similar (I am running Ubuntu (I didn't need the instructions; Ubuntu just opened it for me))))

Now I kind of want to make an origami puzzle box and write the instructions for opening it on the inside, in honor of this odd ReadMe.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-17T17:34:12Z

@jepyang Yes!!

I need to finish Red, White & Royal Blue; I got distracted halfway through the audiobook. Maybe I should check out the movie...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-18T03:33:59Z

Me while doing things during the day: "And I should post this to fedi, and I should post that to fedi, and..."

Me in front of the computer later: "..."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-18T03:51:02Z

@salad_bar_breath Based on the moderately high number of ⭐s and boosts, I'm thinking it might not even just be the two of us.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-18T04:16:13Z

@smn Statistically speaking, it was almost certainly bikes, books, or gender.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-18T04:18:59Z

Right now my one pair of functional heels are the easiest shoes to slip on and off, so I keep wearing heels to walk the dog or take the trash out.

Which is kind of strange, especially since I hardly ever wear heels for anything else.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-18T13:50:12Z

@julie If you're working toward a wordcount goal, I bet there's some people out there who might be on the same page.

(I'm currently in the early stages of revision on the first long fiction that I've written in many years. Maybe I should post about that more; might be good for motivation.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-19T00:05:29Z

@lgsp @ai6yr Haul cargo with a trailer!
-

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-19T00:14:33Z

A6. I'd say XYZ Cargo is the ultimate in repairabilty. You can replace pretty much any part of the frame if you've got access to aluminum square tubing and some fairly basic tools.

@ascentale @meganL

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-20T02:43:59Z

@DelilahTech That looks to me like a really good message. I particularly like that you set expectations for how it might affect them and what they can expect from you in the future.

As far as resources, when I came out to my parents I sent links to some of @Impossible_PhD's Stained Glass Woman posts. Now she has the trans-torials, which seem like they might be just the right sort of basic resource for siblings.

Good luck!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-22T17:44:01Z
re: MH update; here be drained

@SleepyCatten You don't have to apologize. You don't have to help anyone. You don't owe anyone your strength.

And also I know that it sucks to want to be able to offer those things to others and not have the capacity.

:heart_trans:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-22T23:49:04Z

@rainbow_phoenix I believe there's a Plural Plugin for (some of?) the MissKey variants that allows easy switching of both the signature at the end of the post and the name listed in parentheses at the end of the display name...

Yeah, here it is: woem.men/@ChaosKitsune/pages/1

You have to be on a *key instance to use it though, and I don't know enough about the *key instances that are currently available to offer a recommendation.

If you want more info I could probably tag a few folks who use the plugin...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-24T00:41:24Z

@t54r4n1 Yes!

Biking I'm mostly only putting my own life and health at risk. Driving would entail putting other peoples' lives and health at risk. I do not want that responsibility. No thank you.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-24T03:11:05Z

Trying to think about how I'll translate something while I'm drafting it and then stopping myself from switching languages mid-sentence.

(This wouldn't be an issue if my Spanish was better, but as it stands I have to write in terms/phrases I know how to translate. I should probably write Spanish-first more often and then translate back to English.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-24T03:38:42Z

I'm listening to the audiobook of If It's Meant to Be by Lily Seabrook! (Turns out it's available from my library through hoopla.)

I've read this book a few times and generally love the Bayview series, so it is no surprise I'm enjoying it.

But! Also! I'm quite enjoying the narration in this one. Sufficient variety in the voices while still being pretty subtle about it, they match the written descriptions wherever I've noticed them, and they feel pretty right for what I'd expect from the characters.

I am looking forward to the audio versions of the sequels.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-24T14:02:34Z

Audiobooks: Reminding me that a lot of the books I like are remarkably spicy when I can't skim past certain sections.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-24T15:24:33Z

Current mood: Feeling like my writing is garbage at the moment, so I guess I'd better write more.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-24T19:02:42Z

@Willow I can sleep now.

Estrogen helped a bit, but progesterone especially has quieted the mental noise that used to keep me up at night (plus it makes me somewhat drowsy).

Emotions have already been mentioned. It's amazing to have them again after so long. To be able to cry.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-24T19:57:56Z

@JoscelynTransient Because it's really difficult for most of us to make it to the Isle of Lesbos.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-24T21:39:52Z

Upgraded my failing purse strap; now it's hot-swappable!

(Attached with a carabiner at each end so I can switch straps easily.)

Black purse hanging from a black strap diagonally across a torso clad in yellow-and-black plaid. The purse strap is attached with a carabiner and there's a round pin on the strap (it's a she/her pronoun pin, but not readable due to the lighting). Black purse hanging from a strap in the trans flag colors (longitudinal blue/pink/white/pink/blue stripes) diagonally across a torso clad in yellow-and-black plaid. The purse strap is attached with a carabiner.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-24T21:42:27Z

@Jaytee Oh yeah! My partner has pointed out that I laugh more and my sense of humor is more present.

@Willow

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-25T01:58:21Z

Conclusion: I still really enjoy the Paisley-- I mean, the Bayview books but now I'm stuck waiting for like a whole month before the next one comes out on audio.

pouts impatiently

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-25T03:13:05Z

@Karstan I haven't tried either of these but they were both posted here on fedi a while back:

refreshconnections.com/

covid-chemistry.org/

(I think one of them is for seeking friends, too. Maybe I should try that. It would be nice to have some in-person friends again...)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-25T03:28:05Z

@fredy Not Headphone Jacqueline?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-25T05:26:34Z

@syoeminenjapjoeraeily I think I know someone else who tried Covid Meetups and had a similar experience. 😞

@Karstan It occurs to me that there's a running joke in some fedi circles that fedi is a dating app... but those also tend to be the people complaining that their partners are at least 5 time zones away.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-25T05:28:27Z

@DelilahTech Modern Times (Charlie Chaplin)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-25T14:21:24Z
re: transition voice stuff

@PurpleStephyr I also played brass in high school! I didn't feel like that experience was useful to me for the physical part of voice work, but I did think it was really helpful to have an understanding of the theoretical side - the harmonic series and resonance and whatnot. I understood what I was supposed to be doing and how it was supposed to work.

@Jaytee

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-26T04:31:26Z
re: transition voice stuff

@Jaytee Nice! I first started watching trans voice tutorials and playing with resonance and whatnot when reading aloud to my partner, months before I considered transition as something that I might want to pursue. I still think playing with voice stuff is fun, and I keep meaning to practice more because I've got a fem voice that I like ok (and isn't too exceedingly fem for my preference) but I want more control over all the different factors that go into it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-28T16:18:00Z

I need the Tab Stash browser extension but for my text editor.

(Yes, I know, it comes with the OS and it's called "folders")

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-30T03:22:09Z

@rooster@chaosfem.tw
Common: hair ribbon, bike lights, a quality spoon

Uncommon: e-reader, multitool

Rare: a very strange bicycle

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-30T03:22:35Z

@Unixbigot ...why?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-30T15:57:40Z

@exelia_antonov I'm mostly seeing WritingMonth

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-30T16:40:08Z

@Unixbigot Ah, that makes sense. Thanks for explaining!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-10-31T04:44:54Z

3 hour bilingual meeting with sequential interpretation, since we couldn't get simultaneous interpretation working. I took the (english) notes for much of it. I may also have said one or two inadvisable things? IDK.

Anyway, I think itś time for me to fall over and sleep now.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-10-31T04:47:30Z

Wait no I mis-counted it was four hours. collapses

edit: "four hours" not "for hours"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-02T03:31:17Z

@Chloe Aroace-spec guarantees minimum standards of compliance regardless of sexual or romantic attraction?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-02T04:00:55Z

Kicked off my with a whopping 26 words today in the ongoing revision/rewrite of last year's project (working title: Plot Rescue).

I've set my goal at 5k for the month because rewriting is slow and I've got more going on than I did this time last year. Really I just want to get into a habit of writing something most days. If I can keep up that pace, maybe I'll have this revision done in a year so I can start on book 2 of 3 (tentative title: Uncontrolled Burn) next November.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-02T06:42:24Z

@EverydayMoggie For me the goal-setting is only half of it. I get at least as much benefit from working on it at the same time as a bunch of other people.

Last year when I had more schedule flexibility and was aiming for 50k words I did a lot of writing sprints with other people - some fedi friends and some folks on a regional discord server - and there's no way I would have gotten so much done otherwise.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-03T00:28:51Z

I have only skimmed it, but this Covid Cautious Queers Zine is incredibly beautiful so far: ko-fi.com/s/95db0202f3

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-03T00:31:40Z

@Tattie I love the low pitch / bright resonance combination! It is something I aim for myself, though I haven't been actively working on it much lately. You seem to be doing it quite well, and I think it sounds lovely!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-03T06:44:34Z

Day 2: 438 words! Good progress!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-05T06:20:43Z

Day 3 (yesterday): 0 words!

Day 4: 177 words!

Total for the month so far is 641 words, expected for 5k goal is 666 (ha) so I'm only slightly behind.

So far I've mostly been writing new scenes wherever I feel like it to fill gaps in the plot, but I need to start organizing what I've got into the overall structure of the narrative ASAP before I cause any new complications.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-06T05:08:41Z

Day 5: Haven't written any words today and I don't expect to, but I finally pulled the "snippets" file of miscellaneous scenes and notes from the e-reader onto the computer and reorganized it. It's been a good distraction from other things, and I discovered that I accidentally started to write a loop into the plot. Whoops! Better fix that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-07T07:21:17Z

Day 6: Still no words, but I did a back of the envelope outline of the revised plot for the whole thing. (Literally, some of it is on the back of an envelope.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-07T20:36:24Z

@taedryn If it's sufficiently ideologically aligned, there's riseup: riseup.net/en/lists/list-admin

I'm also on a low-volume list for niche bicycle hobbyists that is hosted on freelists.org and it seems to work ok from an end-user perspective.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-07T20:47:40Z

@salad_bar_breath

Step 1: Slide into their DMs.
Step 2: ???
Step 3: Lysistrata

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-07T21:06:30Z

@salad_bar_breath Oh, I figured the idea would be to convince the politicians' wives to enact Lysistrata.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-07T21:09:52Z

@salad_bar_breath Ah, ok. I suppose you may have a point there.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-08T03:45:30Z

When you have multiple slow leaks that need topping off every day or so, that's procrastination.

When they start needing to be "topped off" multiple times a day, they're not slow leaks any more.

Anyway, I need to fix a couple more flats tomorrow but I think I got the worst of them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-08T04:03:14Z

@rolandelli I'm not personally familiar with a brand that would be especially suited to that, but maybe this suggestion/evaluation tool would help if you haven't seen it already? cleanairstars.com/filters

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-08T06:24:49Z

Challenge for romance authors writing trans main characters: Don't give the character bottom surgery before (or at the very start of) the book.

It's more statistically plausible, and it is much-needed representation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-08T06:25:03Z

Authors I know of who have already succeeded at this challenge:

  • Zoe Storm
  • Alyson Greaves
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-08T06:28:15Z

@redrummy Nah, if I'm talking about cars I'll be much more angry/complain-y. 😁

Sadly, I don't have a garage so I was working outside and wearing multiple layers. (Not that the climate here in Northern California is so bad, but.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-08T07:03:02Z

Day 7: 287 words today!

I'm not done sorting out the outline so it's hard to do rewrite or infill stuff, but I had an idea for a different approach to the resolution of the non-romance part of the plot while sitting in a parking lot so I started drafting it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-09T06:34:10Z

A6. Keep volunteering at that cycle kitchen!

I started doing that ~15 years ago and continued to be involved in community bike shops for most of a decade. I was hired as a paid mechanic in a shop at one point based on that experience.

I've talked a fair bit with people who have done e.g. UBI trainings. Formal training programs get you solid basics, but they can't compare with the experience of solving lots of different problems on lots of different bikes.

@ascentale @max_in_somer

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-09T06:50:39Z

@trouble Don't know if I'll catch this next week, so:

Front lights - Beam shaping as found in B&M lights, to project less light close up and more further out, with a hard cutoff at the top so it doesn't blind oncoming traffic. Some light directed to the sides as well.

Rear lights - I've built a couple dynamo taillights and my priority for the future will be maximizing my lit surface area on the back of the bike. Lots of little, moderately-powerful COB LEDs strike me as more visible than any of the small optics I've tried, or any flash pattern. Maybe a big fresnel lens would work too; but I haven't had one to test at the times I've played with it.

I dislike intense strobe patterns, but I guess if it's programmable that's up to the individual.

I won't use a dyno light unless it has a standlight.

Possibly my favorite USB-rechargeable light is one that has both red and white LEDs so you can carry it as an emergency spare and use it in place of any light that dies unexpectedly.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-10T03:18:40Z

@SRLevine @Andres4NY Yeah, I would probably brave the streets of heterosexual romance to read that. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-10T03:45:05Z

@hollie My inclination is usually to stay and try to influence people, but I've seen more than one instance in which someone's departure was the kick in the pants that a group needed to start taking things seriously. So there's a case to be made for it as a strategic decision, in addition to being a valid way to take care of yourself.

It can still be sad to leave a group, but not feeling guilty or uncomfortable about it sounds fantastic!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-10T06:01:17Z
re: Asexual musings

@faithisleaping @caroline (1) Which book?!

(2) Same for me w/r/t steamy scenes. I normally skim to see if there's any interesting plot or character development happening in them but otherwise... 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-10T06:04:00Z

@SRLevine Oooh, nifty! Thanks for the suggestions!

(Sadly, I'm still avoiding masc protagonists for the most part because if I identify strongly with them - and I tend to identify strongly with protagonists - I sometimes get weird dysphoria dreams. Not excessively unpleasant, but not exactly pleasant either.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-10T06:07:05Z
re: Asexual musings

@faithisleaping Yes! McQuiston is great! Not one of my all-time favorites but a fantastic writer with a good sense of humor and a tendency to include interesting secondary plots alongside the romance, which is often nice.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-10T17:24:06Z

@SRLevine I'm not keeping a list so much as this is what I came up with off the top of my head when I thought of it. 🙃

I do always appreciate book recommendations, though!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-12T17:00:55Z

It's a good thing I decided to try clip-on earrings instead of getting my ears pierced. Between the mask straps, glasses, helmet straps, and long hair, I have way too many things that can yank on them. 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-12T17:43:29Z

@LinuxAndYarn Yeah, I don't know if I actually want to go for a piercing.

The mask is fine... as long as I remember to take it off the earring-safe way (bottom strap pulled way out and over the head) instead of the way I'm used to.

I haven't had one fall off yet, but thanks for the warning! I should probably do that...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-12T18:45:08Z
question/musing about changing gender markers; slightly uspol-adjacent

So... I didn't change my gender marker when I changed my name. I'm genderflux and wasn't sure if I'd always want to present fem full-time. I didn't expect to get any sort of transition-related surgery, so a pat-down or scan will out me if I'm presenting fem while traveling. I figured if I was worried for my safety, I'd be best off boy-moding.

Now I've been presenting fem full-time for nearly two years, I rarely get misgendered, and I've been reading more "get your documents in order while you can" warnings.

Not sure what to do now, but I'm curious if anyone has thoughts...

(Whatever I do, I don't expect it to be an immediate issue here in California.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-12T19:14:00Z
re: question/musing about changing gender markers; slightly uspol-adjacent

I guess mostly I'm trying to figure out if it's more useful to:

1) be able to plausibly boy-mode (See? It says "M" on my passport. I'm *cough* definitely not trans.)

or

2) be able to say that I'm officially/legally female (See? It says "F" on my passport. You can't deny my estrogen prescription.)

It seems like they're useful in different situations, and I don't have a good grasp on what's more likely to occur.

Huh. When I put it that way, I think I'd rather have (2). Things are going to have to get a lot worse before I want to be able to do (1), and a cursory internet search will reveal that it's a lie.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-12T22:53:48Z

My desire for socializing often far exceeds my capacity for socializing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-13T05:18:15Z

@SRLevine Me, skimming this and thinking it was about a fountain pen message board or something: 🤔 🤨 💡 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-13T05:45:18Z

@NilaJones Looks right to me. 1100Wh / 120V = 9.2Ah

Seems about right for something meant to be easily portable. I use 1kWh LiFePO4 batteries for ebike stuff and they're a reasonable thing for me to lug around one-handed if I've got a good grip.

@ai6yr @ShaulaEvans @Cristobalm

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-13T15:27:17Z

@NilaJones "a cargo ebike that has 150 aH (12.4 kWh) of batteries" 👀 Woah. I'm used to 1kWh being a lot for bike purposes!

@ai6yr @ShaulaEvans @Cristobalm

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-14T01:14:30Z

Oh no I think they're giving the wrong instructions for simultaneous interpretation in this meeting. Again. 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-14T04:06:26Z

Ok, the instructions they gave were possibly not the optimal ones but still basically worked. Also a 2.5 hour meeting is ever so much more manageable than a 4 hour meeting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-14T04:10:00Z

Can anyone recommend a FLOSS video conference platform that supports simultaneous interpretation?

Strong preference for a hosted instance of something, though I'd also be interested to hear about things that require self-hosting.

:boostRequest:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-14T04:12:29Z

I've used i.meet.mayfirst.org/ and it works but is sometimes buggy.

I know BigBlueButton can support simultaneous interpretation, but I don't know of a hosted instance with that feature.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-14T04:59:33Z

@KarlHeinzHasliP Some software has effectively the feature you describe built into it in a relatively streamlined way: Participants select their preferred language, interpreters select the language they'll be translating to, and everything just works.

The solution you described can work (I believe MayFirst uses Mumble for audio conferencing), but gets complicated when you've got 30+ people, many of whom aren't especially tech savvy, who need instructions for using the software and at least some of whom have a strong preference for something browser-based.

Other complications:
- These meetings aren't occurring in one language and being interpreted into a second; people are speaking in both languages and being interpreted into the other. This is actually an issue with the way MayFirst handles interpretation in both Mumble and their Jitsi instance - it works ok for a meeting that is primarily in one language, but in a fully bilingual meeting having a primary and secondary channel tends to put one language above the other or require that participants switch channels depending on the language of the current speaker.
- At least some participants are joining from mobile devices, which don't necessarily have good support for keeping two windows(/apps) open - and anyone listening to the second audio channel needs both to get audio & video.

That's probably more of an explanation/response than you wanted or needed, but it did help me articulate some of the specific needs of this type of meeting so thanks for that!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-14T19:13:58Z

@storybead They should also demand better healthcare.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-15T19:26:14Z

@SRLevine I'd figured it was dinosaur poop. Glad I'm not the only one who noticed it. XD

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-15T19:39:20Z

@SRLevine That was my assumption. It's hard to imagine Munroe not intentionally incorporating that sort of gag given the opportunity.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-22T05:56:10Z

@RoseRaven These days I pretty consistently read FFS whichever way it wasn't intended.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-22T07:37:37Z

@smolcasm I don't know about pitch range - it's not something I've worked on much - but the conceptual framework I got from voice training has, if anything, increased my range of resonance in both directions.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-24T05:17:12Z

Not enough (not any) works on AO3 tagged bicycle/pedestrian.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-24T05:18:13Z

I mean, really! You could play it as friends-to-lovers, enemies-to-lovers, enemies-to-friends-to-lovers. There are so many possibilities.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-24T06:45:43Z

@rachel If YA graphic novels will do, I really like Cheer Up: Love and Pompoms by Crystal Frasier and The Prince and the Dressmaker by Jen Wang.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-25T08:37:18Z

I'm only a couple chapters into Make Room for Love, but between that and Not Just Best Friends I think Darcy Liao is going to be a new favorite author.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-26T08:32:23Z

A Brief and Informal Review of Contemporary Sapphic Romance Novels with Trans Main Characters

  • Lily Seabrooke has written two books with canonically trans MCs. Fake It is one of my favorite examples of casual representation - the character doesn't mention that she's trans until a third of the way through the book, and the fact that she is trans is largely tangential to the plot. I love it! Trans women can have wonderful gay love stories just like anyone else. I'm not quite so fond of Not Like Before, where the trans MC is a celebrity trying to hide her transness.

  • Darcy Liao is a relative newcomer, but so far all of their published work seems to feature trans women! I love that Make Room for Love features a trans woman realizing for the first time that she's attracted to women. I would never have thought to expect a trans toaster-oven romance.

  • Alyson Greaves is... controversial. Dorley Hall features forced transition, which is morally yikes!, and I've seen some very valid criticisms of the way Greaves handles that. Show Girl isn't quite so bad, but it does involve someone being pressured to investigate her gender identity in some ways that are not ideal. I do love that Greaves is one of the only authors on this list to write about trans women who are at varying points in their transition. She gives one of the best views of all the different medical(-ish) components of transition, from hormones to surgeries to electrolysis to voice training.

  • Zoe Storm is the only author I know of besides Greaves who has written characters who are in the process of transitioning - usually including figuring out that they're trans. In fact, I think Storm is the only author on this list who really centers the process of gender questioning. That comes up more in YA books, but it's really valuable for adults too! There are a lot of adults who can benefit from examining their gender identity a bit (ask me how I know XD).

  • Vanessa North's Roller Girl is a book that I can't really speak to right now because I haven't read it in a while! But I do recall finding it enjoyable. I'll have to re-read it sometime soon.

(cont'd)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-26T08:33:21Z

(cont'd)

My biggest gripe about Seabrooke and Liao is that they tuck most of the logistics of transition into a character's backstory. I understand the value in showing characters living ordinary lives post-transition, but I do think it's rather telling that Greaves and Storm come from less-conventional publishing (AO3 and itch.io, I think? more fanfic-ish, basically) whereas Seabrook and Liao are published through Amazon (which I personally think is worse, but it's more mainstream).

My biggest gripe about all of these is the dearth of visibly trans women. Some of Greaves's and Storm's characters are visibly trans for a while during the course of social and medical transition, but the implication is that they'll be less visible in time. That is an experience many people have, but it would be neat to see a few more characters being visibly trans for the long haul.

I stuck to contemporary sapphic romance for this list because it's the subgenre I know best, and also because I've been thinking a lot about the way transition is represented in these books. Adding historical and SF/F books to the list complicates that analysis because the process of transition is usually quite different. There's also literary fiction-ish stuff out there which is valuable in it's own way, but it's not really my cup of tea.

I think these are all the authors of contemporary sapphic romance featuring trans women that I know of. If there's others, I'd be quite interested to hear about them!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-26T22:15:56Z

I suppose I should clarify that, for all I've critiqued and griped about them, Seabrooke and Liao are among my favorite authors at the moment. Same goes for Greaves and Storm.

Oh, and I think Liao is the only one on this list writing MCs who are trans people of color, and so far as I know they're the only person on the list who isn't white. (Greaves has a racially & ethnically diverse cast in Dorley, which makes sense given the sheer number of trans girls in that story, though most of the main/central/POV characters are white if I remember correctly.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-26T23:10:50Z

I nearly forgot! It looks like there's at least one book on this list that I haven't read yet which would fit the criteria for my list.

Speaking of @JaeAuthor and trans protagonists - when are we going to get a book about Heather from Portland? 🤨 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-11-27T01:09:43Z

Can we just go back to cable actuated rim brakes, please?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-27T01:10:15Z

I'd be fine with an old set of cantis, even! At least they have a lot of adjustment range.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-27T01:10:35Z

(Actually, I quite like cantilever brakes.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-27T01:11:32Z

@SarraceniaWilds 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-27T05:24:39Z

@julie 😮

Yeah, I can understand why they might want to acknowledge that before Glinda comes on singing "Good news! She's dead!" at the top of her lungs.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-27T05:27:22Z
re: cat sitting, praise me

@RomanceReviews Good job; well done! 🍵

Pilling cats very definitely takes some work.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-11-29T06:55:43Z

@JaeAuthor Wonderful! I hope to read it someday.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-03T17:48:07Z
re: The Quest for Gender Affirmation

@miriamrobern @aparna Seconding this; knitted knockers worked great for me.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-03T20:40:46Z
re: body image stuff +, HRT+, no direct mention of weight but very much about fat and body shape

@Jaytee Yes! It is incredibly weird to me that I have more padding on my belly and I actually like the look of it now, just because it's shaped a bit differently. I would never have anticipated that a year ago.

Brains are baffling, and HRT is definitely magic.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-04T02:21:46Z

@julie Truly, you are well-versed in the ways of community-run nonprofits.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-04T03:01:31Z
re: body image stuff +, HRT+, no direct mention of weight but very much about fat and body shape

@Jaytee Oh, measurements! I think I have a few from sewing projects but I always forget they exist. Maybe I'll re-measure for comparison next time I find them. XD

Even so, I think it's a matter of shape as much as anything? 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-04T05:54:59Z
re: The Quest for Gender Affirmation

@miriamrobern @aparna Yeah, I knitted my own.

I though the knittedknockers.org people were less emphatic about the whole "these are for breast cancer survivors" messaging, but they do lay it on pretty thick. 😦 I do still think that trans people deserve gender affirmation just as much as cis people (obviously) and the org has no business gatekeeping it like that, but 🤷‍♀️.

It does look like there are some on etsy that run $25-$50 per pair depending on size. I'm not sure how that compares with other types of prosthetics.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-04T18:05:21Z

Anyone know where to get one of these in the US?

I'd rather not spend three times the cost of the part to have a fancy rubber block shipped from NL.

A black rubber steering damper in a wide, stubby hourglass shape with M8 threaded stubs coming out of each end.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-04T18:12:39Z

@nothingfuture I'm pretty sure I checked mcmaster last time I needed to replace this thing and they didn't have any with the hourglass shape, but I guess I should look again... Thanks for the reminder!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-04T18:23:25Z

@taedryn Yeah, I just checked McMaster-Carr again and could only find cylindrical ones, which I'm pretty sure won't have enough stretch/flex for this purpose.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-04T19:47:09Z

@sam I saw Wicked more than 15 years ago and the soundtrack has been (intermittently) stuck in my head ever since. 🙃

(Ok, so I've also had some times when I listened to the soundtrack recordings a lot, but still!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-05T03:26:31Z

@isol Thank you!

I had searched for "diabolo" because I noticed it on the ligfiets.shop page but only saw the quasi-juggling gizmos. "Diabolo rubber mount" does in fact give the results I'm after. That's perfect!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-06T21:05:01Z

Crossover fic idea: Robin Hood and Marian the Librarian

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-08T07:50:58Z

This ⬆️ is a joke but also a real internal conflict: Balancing the Glinda impulse (avoid conflict so I can continue to have a social life and maybe influence people) against the Elphaba impulse ("they're wrong and I'm having none of it" exits society).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-10T03:35:44Z

Turns out I don't get much done the day after I do ~9 hours of continuous light physical labor without breaks, ending at midnight and finally going to bed at 2am.

I shouldn't be surprised by this. And yet...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-10T03:42:48Z

Asbestos remediation info will say something like

Asbestos lasts a long time, doesn't biodegrade and is basically kind of indestructible. That's why it was so widely used, and why it is so difficult to remediate or properly dispose of.

and then a few paragraphs later it lists all the plastic stuff that is necessary for suitable remediation/removal.

I get that it's a lesser of two evils situation, but I also wonder if the people writing these documents see the irony.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-18T04:30:30Z
re: trans- poll

@miriamrobern

I'm not *actually* trans like [other people I know]
I don't experience dysphoria. (later: "Wait, [thing] counts as dysphoria?")
I am generally fine with my AGAB.
It sounds like a lot of work, and how much is it really going to benefit me? I'm happy enough as I am.
Or, variant of the above: I don't think I would benefit that much from transitioning, and there's other things I could spend that time/effort on that are more valuable/important.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-19T03:04:55Z
re: silly

@ielenia Does it instead deliver 1.2-1.5 volts from a small, cylindrical package?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-20T03:55:36Z
my thoughts on Last ExMas (the latest sapphic holiday rom-com) are... mixed at best

Mostly I would not recommend it, but it had a few very funny moments.

The romantic plot was thin, and Maggie's redemption arc was about as unconvincing as (and oddly reminiscent of) Harper's in Happiest Season. The secondary characters didn't have much depth, and some of the portrayals and jokes about them weren't exactly kind.

I think my favorite parts were the chase scene (they set up the little inside joke pretty nicely; I won't spoil it) and the pouring-things-at-the-diner-counter gag.

Otherwise... 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-20T04:57:28Z

My general advice on watching sapphic holiday rom-coms is: The book is better than the movie.

"But April," you ask, "which book? There are so many sapphic holiday romance novels, and none of them seem to be directly associated with any of the movies."

To which I say: Any of those books, probably. I've read a lot of them, and they're almost all better than any of the comparable movies that I've seen.

(Yes, I know books and movies are very different media experiences and cannot always substitute for one another. I wish I had at least one good movie to recommend, but right now I think they're all "meh" at best.)

(I should write up an actual list of book recommendations so this thread has something concrete and positive in it instead of just griping. Maybe later. Or tomorrow.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-20T05:44:11Z

@Jaytee Hmm, maybe I should revisit Merry and Gay. It's been a while since I watched that. And I don't think I've seen Under the Christmas Tree at all! I don't mind some hallmark vibes; I'll have to check it out!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-21T05:50:57Z

@ai6yr I've heard these called a ha'penny farthing.

It's also pretty close to a unicycle with a training wheel, but not quite because those should properly have steering on the rear (non-drive) wheel, while the seat is fixed relative to the larger drive wheel.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-22T06:45:57Z

Ok, some sapphic holiday romance novel recommendations. I'm going to try not to overthink this too much and just list some books.

A Break in Communications by Lily Seabrooke - First on the list because I just read it. It is, as I told a friend, a funny book in both senses of the word: sometimes hilarious, sometimes weird. I love the humor of the premise that Anna is desperately fighting Lucy for a big promotion... while Lucy is desperately in love with Anna. (Then circumstances require that they fake-date. We all know how that's going to go.) On the negative side: Lucy is a little too besotted for my taste, Anna is kinda mean to her family and coworkers, and the way they resolve the conflict of interest at work is morally sketchy. Still a fun and entertaining book, though! I would generally recommend it. (This isn't Seabrooke's only holiday book, but I haven't read any of the others recently.)

Under a Falling Star by Jae - I read this a while ago and recently listened to the audiobook. It's another Christmas workplace romance (I swear that wasn't intentional) but it's otherwise got kind of the opposite dynamic of the previous entry: The new admin assistant feels pretty good about her clever decorations for the company Christmas tree, until the star on top falls and hits another woman. (minor) Spoiler: That woman is the famously icy COO that everyone hates - except she's turning out to be much more pleasant company than the gossip would have you believe. Jae's books are consistently cute, sweet, and well-written, and this is no exception.

(cont'd)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-22T06:47:14Z

Sapphic holiday romance novel recommendations, continued:

Never Just Friends by Lily Craig - another recent audiobook. Georgie was silently in love with her straight best friend for a long time. When Madelyn came out but said she wouldn't want to be more than friends, Georgie moved away in a bid to finally get over her. Except now, a year later, the two of them are snowed in at a remote cabin together and Madelyn is excited to confess her newly-realized love to Georgie. If I remember correctly, Madelyn narrates current happenings in the cabin while Georgie narrates flashbacks, which I thought was interesting. Not sure if there's technically any holiday stuff, but it's very winter-y.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-22T06:55:55Z

More sapphic holiday romance novel recommendations:

I just started Make the Season Bright by Ashley Herring-Blake so I can't comment on the book as a whole, but Herring-Blake's work is pretty consistently enjoyable, so I have high hopes. I was complaining about the weak redemption arcs in Last ExMas and Happiest Season, and this is shaping up to require a really enormous redemption arc. (It's a second-chance romance, after all.) I'm curious to see how Herring-Blake handles it! Also it's about musicians! I can take or leave the cutesy small town holiday celebration thing that H-B seems to be setting up here, but overall I expect it to be a fun read.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-22T06:57:22Z

(past bedtime now, maybe more updates to this thread another time)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-22T19:17:36Z

Still more sapphic holiday romance novels:

How could I have forgotten Kiss Her Once for Me by Alison Cochrun? It's about falling in love on a snow day, fake-dating the wrong sibling, living with anxiety, and choosing to follow your heart even when you're terrified to. Cochrun has a knack for weaving silly humor together with big, intense emotions - both of her books that I've read have resulted in uncontrollable laughter, a significant amount of sobbing, and some processing time with my journal.

I read Kiss Her Once for Me two years ago, when it gave me the shove I needed to really start questioning my gender. I think it's time I read it again. (As soon as I'm done with Make the Season Bright, which continues to be enjoyable.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-24T06:13:35Z

@Chloe Hmm. I looked it up out of curiosity; I assume it's Keybrick? About halfway through the page I started thinking "maybe a USB power bank and a boost converter..." and then I read the description of the Keybrick One Lite, which seems to be almost exactly that.

(My first thought was that you could have a really janky solution with two USB power banks and a resistor, all in series. This is why I'm not allowed to fix other peoples' electronics.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-24T06:16:42Z

@Chloe Oh, taking full advantage of the USB-C spec! That would be a very elegant solution.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-24T06:28:05Z

@Chloe Slightly cursed thought: If you can find 2 or 3 discarded vapes of the type that have a built-in USB charging port, you could scavenge the batteries and charging circuits and hook them up in series. You'd just need 2 or 3 USB cords to charge the resulting "pack." 🙃 Also the batteries are pretty small.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-25T08:39:24Z

@SarraceniaWilds I bet they play a lot of pop music.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-27T18:04:13Z

@Reborn_Cat_Mom My top three favorites for the year (been meaning to make a proper post about this) are probably:

Every Little Thing by Lily Seabrooke, a trans author who gives the cis characters in this book some very trans-y story arcs. Features one of the most dramatic last-minute twists I've ever read in a romance novel. There's two prequels that are fun and maybe helpful to read but probably not absolutely necessary.

Here We Go Again by Alison Cochrun. It's friends-to-enemies-to-lovers, about grief and healing and letting yourself connect with other people. This book made me laugh and cry so much.

Make Room for Love by Darcy Liao is amazing. If I had to pick a single fundamental topic of this book I'd say "interdependence," on both a personal and social level. It's about two characters learning to lean on each other while doing union organizing. Bonus: One of the main characters is trans!

I can recommend romance novels all day, but figured I shouldn't go overboard. 😁 Might be able to recommend specific books if there are topics or tropes you're looking for.

Also, if you liked One Last Stop, pretty much all of McQuiston's work is great!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-29T06:56:43Z

Today in Habitual Verbosity: I just wrote a phrase, then revised it to be 3 words instead of 9.

I'm not sure how much of that to blame on society & schooling (using more words makes you sound smart, right?), on doing NaNoWriMo as a teen, and on just my own tendencies.

(Meanwhile, I'm carefully not editing this post down because I want to break the habit of thinking so much about everything I say.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-29T06:59:23Z

Today in Overthinking: Edited the post to remove an arguably ambiguous percentage.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-30T02:55:16Z

The RickSycle sociable tandem is 48" wide, and it has the rear wheels slightly outboard of the seat.

A standard rear wheel is 135mm wide at the axle, or about 5 inches. If I built something RickSycle-esque but with smaller wheels tucked under/behind the seat, I could probably get it down to 40". Still wider than I'd like for bike lanes, fitting through bollards, etc., but maybe viable? Usually I aim for 30" maximum and tadpole 'bents seem to be 30-36", so it feels like a bit of a stretch.

sigh

A sociable seems like so much fun, though...

Not that I'm in any position for a new bike build right now - I'm behind on basic maintenance of currently active bikes - but I think my next project, when I get to it, might be either a sociable tandem 'bent or a sidecar for the FrankenForward. I guess I'm in a side-by-side sort of mood this evening?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-30T03:12:11Z

@meganL It came up this evening because I saw one while browsing the build gallery of Nomad Cycles in PDX, but I've seen photos of them online before, possibly while researching sociable tandems. They're definitely a little outside the recumbent mainstream (such as it is).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T03:16:26Z

@younata Yeah, it seems like it'd be a challenge to do a sidecar well...

I'd be tempted to work some tilt range into the design by hinging the sidecar-to-bike joint. I believe I've seen that on a few of them.

I think the FrankenForward might have fewer clearance issues than most bikes due to the stretched frame, but I'm not sure.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T03:40:34Z

@younata The difference in handling between tilting and non-tilting trikes is remarkable, and I suspect that would carry over to sidecars.

I continue to love your rig!

I have also been meaning to put an extended, heavy-duty rack on the FrankenForward. That could address a lot of my immediate cargo needs, but every so often I'm out and about without a trailer and find something like a free bookshelf.

I particularly like the XtraCycle Sidecar design, which I learned about when someone - I think @meganL - mentioned it here on fedi a while back. I'd love to replicate that!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T03:54:15Z

@younata Ah, yeah, that makes sense. Hmm. Might try it anyway, someday. 😁

@meganL

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T03:59:41Z

@younata @meganL Oh yeah! for a while I had the cargo bed cover on the SolarTrike set up so that it folded back into a low table, which I used occasionally for cooking. It was pretty nice, even if the construction was very janky.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T04:52:37Z

Ok. Wait. Hear me out. I've got it.

Inspired by the Toxy Trimobil - a trike design I'm slightly obsessed with - in tandem configuration: A sidecar with an optional seat and drivetrain for a stoker. Attach it to the main bike with a parallelogram linkage so both riders get the benefit of tilting. There are a couple different ways it could detach or fold up against the main bike when not in use.

I know the tilt range is going to be limited by the width of the thing, with the riders bumping up against each other (or the stoker bumping up against the rear part of the bike frame? depends on the design details) at maximum tilt, but even 20 or 30 degrees of tilt is very worthwhile.

I might be going full-on Mad Bike Mechanic here, but I absolutely want to try it sometime.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T04:54:26Z

@smellsofbikes Tilting sidecar, eh? Whyever would that be on your mind this evening? 😁

@MLE_online @vertigo

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-30T05:07:47Z
re: New Year's Lilith goals, food (vegan, no pic)

@pqqq

Me: "Lilith?"
...
...
...
🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T05:13:02Z
re: New Year's Lilith goals, food (vegan, no pic)

@salad_bar_breath I had to look it up to be certain; initially I just had a vague notion of what the joke was. Apparently she is sometimes referred to as the first wife of Adam.

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-30T05:16:56Z
re: New Year's Lilith goals, food (vegan, no pic)

@salad_bar_breath Hint: It's about which day the checklist is for.

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-31T23:14:20Z

@EveOfTheFuture Happy New Year's You!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2024-12-31T23:15:09Z

@pqqq Nonsense! I'm much warmer than that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-31T23:23:43Z
re: longpost; asexuality; coming out as various things

@taedryn Ace-ness is a tricky one to process, especially when trans. (Not that any of the rest of those aren't, but.) :asexual_flag: ❤️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2024-12-31T23:26:05Z

@julie Darn, for a minute there I thought maybe you actually had X-ray vision!

@OctaviaConAmore

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-01T00:13:30Z

@pqqq XD

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-01T00:24:36Z
re: song lyrics, caps, mh-~

@EveOfTheFuture "need to get to a place I can put down proper roots instead of feeling like I'm always on the verge of moving away, I need someplace that feels like home" <- I don't know if I'd have understood that a few years ago, but I've spent a lot of time in that state lately and gosh it is frustrating and exhausting. I hope you find somewhere suitably homelike soon. And, you know, generally make it out the other side of this coming year.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-01T05:17:13Z

Me: I should try writing shorter fiction again.

Also me: I have an idea! The outline spans five years, touching on transportation planning, COVID response, mutual aid, long COVID, and accessibility.

Me: ...

Also me: Ok, but at least I can write it in short vignettes that aren't very connected to each other?

(I am genuinely pretty excited about this concept. I think it might have legs. And wheels!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-01T05:31:41Z

@tryst Yes! Such a neat concept.

This project is only two perspectives, though. My longer writing thing is meant to alternate between six POVs by the end (starting with two and adding two more with each subsequent book). It's perhaps a bit ambitious, but 🤷‍♀️. It seemed like a good idea!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-01T20:36:51Z

@clew 🤣

It does also involve rails, but mostly in the sense of getting your bike wheel caught in the streetcar tracks.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-02T02:13:43Z

There are characters doing things in my head right now and I want to take advantage of the inspiration while it's here but I have other things to do this week, dangit!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-02T05:57:40Z

@moira Wow. I was already appreciating that conversation but I am now exceedingly impressed with where Willis has taken it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-02T20:24:42Z

@iris @IanDSmith

Athenian task: The final product must be presented in complete, full, and perfect form, with no rough drafts or discernible development process.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-03T04:48:29Z

@SRLevine Oooh, that's roughly the same vintage as the one I had access to many years ago, before we got our current one.

Wish I were closer; I'd lend you ours but if 60 miles is too far then I don't think 600 miles is going to work for you. 🙃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-03T06:09:05Z

@CovidSafeScouts That's good to know!

Not practical with my usual braid or the frequency with which I put on / take off my mask when leaving & entering home, but maybe I'll try it next time I'm wearing my hair loose and expect to wear the same mask for several consecutive hours.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-03T19:33:36Z

@t54r4n1 Tom Justice!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-04T05:16:04Z

A6. Slightly, yes. Most of my international bike connections are via Bike!Bike!, a conference for community bike shops and related orgs that we took online for a couple of years. The focus is more on DIY repair & education, but I did wind up connected with folks in Mexico and Argentina who do advocacy work. We had a few conference presenters with advocacy-oriented topics.

I wasn't directly involved in this, but there was a project where they tested urban travel times by different modes of transportation that I think started in Argentina and found connections in Mexico and the US via Bike!Bike! communications.

I also know someone through that community who is very involved in bike advocacy in both the Americas and parts of Europe - it's the subject of his academic research, I believe - and he's connected to the Foro Munidal de la Bici, which I guess is an international advocacy conference mostly centered in LatAm.

@ascentale @meganL

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-04T05:40:56Z

@meganL @bikenite The folks who were organizing Bike!Bike! online conferences (myself included) got kinda burnt out. There's been some more serious talk of an in-person conference, but I don't know how it's going. I (and others) have encouraged people to at least maintain a hybrid option... I can let you know if I hear about more definite plans, if you want.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-05T19:46:42Z

So I'm supposed to Do A Thing today, and I had spent a bunch of the morning avoiding it, and finally got to the point where I was ready to Do The Thing, except then I had to wait. That waiting period was when I got panic-y and started crying. Got some flashes of dysphoria, all that fun stuff.

I have a theory: The waiting was bad due to a lack of dopamine and/or stimulation. I think even a short lull like that between one engaging activity and another can make task switching hard.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-06T06:48:33Z

@aronow Thanks! I did get The Thing done today, so that was nice.

I'm not exactly sure what flavor my brain is but I suspect it's heavy on the ADHD.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-06T06:57:15Z

@YouShallNotPass Personally I'm more of a hand tool lesbian, but otherwise YES to all of this.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-06T14:38:02Z

@YouShallNotPass Oh yeah, I just don't do much heavy stuff. Bicycle mechanics don't have a lot of call for heavy-duty power tools, and I do relatively little carpentry & construction-type stuff. XD

Was thinking about this more last night and several of the people who taught/mentored me when I was first getting into bike repair were women too. I got pretty lucky in that regard.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-06T18:21:46Z

SSL (Secure ShoeLaces)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-06T18:25:09Z

@wmd 🎵 "When I'm gone..." 🎵

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-06T18:39:45Z

@wmd 🎵 You're gonna miss me by my walk; you're gonna miss me by my talk... 🎵

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-06T18:50:24Z

@wmd 🎵 You're gonna miss me by my hair; you're gonna miss me everywhere... 🎵

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-06T20:07:21Z

@jasmine Depends on frame of reference for the "average cis person." I've spent most of my life in pretty lefty/liberal places and internalized that. In any given social group I might not have been the most proactive about educating myself and becoming a Good Ally (and I didn't always do it in the best way), but I was probably trying a bit harder than the average person in most of those social groups.

On the other hand, I can think of a couple instances where in retrospect I was weird and awkward around transfem folks because I was projecting/externalizing my own unacknowledged dysphoria. Not in a performatively anti-trans way, just acting a bit more awkward than I think I ever did with transmasc folks.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-06T20:58:28Z

The characters in my current writing project seem like they're veering toward friendship or queerplatonic partnership right now.

Normally I'd love that, but the whole point/inspiration for this was a pun about slashfic. Not that I was planning to get explicit - that's not really my cup of tea - but I at least intended to be implicit about it.

I guess we'll see where it goes...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-08T15:04:07Z

@Chloe Bit of a different situation because it was university-run, but I believe the bus system in Davis, CA routinely hired students when I was there. I think part of the rationale was that it was good for students to have a variety of work-experience opportunities.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-08T18:41:37Z
re: AI/LLM defence question

@EveOfTheFuture I know I read a thread some time ago where webdev folks were discussing ways to redirect known scrapers to enormous quantities of nonsense text. Not sure if I'd be able to find it again, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-12T19:36:43Z

@Chloe Yay, stroad! /s (Is there a way to put more emphasis on /s?)

"bike route sign" AKA "we couldn't be bothered to install even the most minimal bike infrastructure, but we still want credit"

I enjoyed the car noise captions. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-12T19:46:59Z

@Chloe Yeah, captioning takes a lot of time! It's really helpful to have good and accurate captions, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-13T20:22:54Z

@DelilahTech @TheBreadmonkey I don't know what we're assembling, but I've got multitools!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T04:07:40Z

Every so often I feel the urge to criticize a fellow cyclist or pedestrian for doing something "wrong" and I try real hard to quash that impulse, even in my head.

I try to quash it because I know that in most cases motornormative street design and social norms make it impractical or even unsafe to do the "right" thing. And because when we try to police each other, we're buying into the notion that streets belong to cars and everyone else should make do with whatever is left. I don't think that benefits anyone - not even drivers.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T04:11:48Z

I had that post mostly pre-written in my head last night, and then this afternoon I was riding along a narrow, low-traffic residential street when someone got out of a car and said "I bike a lot, and people like you who get in the way are the reason people hate us."

And I get it. I understand the narrative there because I've heard it a lot, mostly from drivers but also from plenty of other cyclists. Keep to the edges, stay out of the way, don't slow down [car] traffic, don't inconvenience anyone, and the drivers will tolerate your presence and let you live.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T04:17:16Z

What I wanted to say to that person was, "I probably ride my bike more than you do, and people trying to avoid ever inconveniencing cars are part of the reason drivers think it's ok to run us off the road, to threaten us any time it suits them."

There's a lot of other causes, and a lot of people pushing that narrative from outside the active transportation community too, but we at least don't need to adopt it ourselves.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T04:24:46Z

And yes, this applies to so much more than just transportation.

I'm not always great at doing this sort of thing in other spheres. I've spent years developing confidence in my ability to take the lane - literally and figuratively - when biking and walking, even if it makes some people uncomfortable. I don't necessarily have that confidence in other contexts.

I think the best call to action I've heard on this theme recently was, "In an unhinged world, be an irritant.", so one way or another I'm going to keep trying.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T04:25:29Z

looks down

Hey, where did this soapbox come from and why am I standing on it?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T04:27:58Z

@SarraceniaWilds You're absolutely right, and that's an excellent point. My train of thought took a different track, but yes! If they hate me for it, that's on them.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T04:33:24Z

@meganL Yep. The whole notion that any inconvenience is unacceptable and life should be smooth and seamless and... ok, no, I'm going to stop myself before I expand into a tangentially different rant. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T04:37:00Z

@megmac Motornormativity, same thing that's wrong with an enormous swath of society. Well, one of the things. It's a hard set of mental habits to break, I think.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T04:50:46Z

@HayiWena Augh!

I'm just starting to find myself on the receiving end of that ✨ lovely ✨ experience of mansplaining lately. Could do without that particular type of gender affirmation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T05:01:43Z

My top 3 favorite sapphic romance novels from 2024:

Every Little Thing by Lily Seabrooke. Features a hilariously chaotic main character with a surprisingly serious personal growth arc, and one of the most dramatic last-minute twists I've ever read in a romance novel. The MCs in this book are presumably both cis, but Seabrooke is trans and I think it really shows in the ways these characters grow throughout the book. There's two prequels that I'd recommend; they are fun and may be helpful to read first but probably not absolutely necessary.

Here We Go Again by Alison Cochrun. It's friends-to-enemies-to-lovers, about grief and healing and letting yourself connect with other people. There are not a whole lot of books that have made me both laugh and cry as much as this one did. Also Cochrun is great at including appropriate song references in stories.

Make Room for Love by Darcy Liao is amazing. If I had to pick a single fundamental topic of this book I'd say "interdependence," on both a personal and social level. It's about two characters learning to lean on each other while doing union organizing. Also they're roommates and trying really hard not to fall for each other (we all know how well that's going to work). Bonus: One of the main characters is trans!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T05:05:36Z

@izaya Yes! There's only the one book, but YES! I'm hoping Liao will prove to be a prolific writer, because everything they've released so far (that book plus a short prequel and a bonus chapter) is fantastic.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T05:31:05Z

@izaya Awesome! I very much hope you write it because I want to read it. I haven't been reading enough sci-fi lately; I should rectify that.

I've been re-drafting something sapphic with a trans main character that's supposed to head toward member-owned co-ops in the second book, but have recently been distracted by a different writing project. I'll get back to it, though.

Also, @pqqq has been working on a lovely anticapitalist sapphic romance.

One of these days maybe we'll take over the subgenre!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T05:40:30Z

@raeaw As is right and correct! And frustratingly necessary.

"They'll give you more room if you get out of the way." No they won't; lots of personal experience says they'll give me more room if I get in "their" space and force them to actually move to the next lane like they ought to.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T05:56:09Z

@izaya Fantastic! I have not read too much het romance; I realized I liked romance only shortly before discovering the sapphic subgenre.

Seems like impure intentions are a good way to approach it, though! And I'd say the spite is good if it results in writing.

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T06:02:12Z

Charged up my posting capacity with over a week of silence; I'm just about out again. 🙃

Maybe one more thing before I go...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T06:08:39Z

Found a new sapphic romance novel with an ace main character! Finally Loved by Jacqueline Ramsden was a great book and the ace representation gave me some definite feels.

I've been re-reading a couple of Ramsden's other books that I'd tried a while back and she's really quite a good writer! I very much look forward to checking out their other work. Also they seem to be pretty consistent about CWing on-page sex scenes, which I really appreciate.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T06:30:06Z

@SRLevine Nah, I'll be moving this account somewhere but not to corteximplant. That one is intentionally quieter (way fewer follows & followers).

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T06:30:31Z

@SRLevine No! I'll check that out; I hadn't heard of it before. Thanks for the recommendation.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T06:49:03Z

@izaya This is my appalled face.

(Plus I'm too ace for smut percentages exceeding 25%.)

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T07:08:24Z

@izaya That sounds like an excellent rug pull!

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T17:32:58Z

@izaya No, not a love triangle!

Will it at least resolve into a polycule?

@pqqq

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T17:47:56Z

@forteller I think I've read some fantasy that's not entirely dissimilar to this in a "magic is a gift from the gods and humans occasionally learn more by talking with or learning about the gods" sort of way (e.g. Tamora Pierce, maybe some Pratchett) but I can't remember anything more like what you're describing.

It feels like something I ought to have read, though. Certainly sounds like a neat concept!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T20:18:17Z

@izaya @pqqq Ouch!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-16T20:22:34Z

@ai6yr

Step 1: Do as you describe.
Step 2: Come back in 6 weeks and figure out how to inform Management that their bicycle racks are old, insecure, and inaccessible and they ought to upgrade to proper bike staples.
Step 3: They probably ignore you and do nothing about it ever, but it was worth a try?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-16T20:57:23Z

Sometimes looking at public maintenance requests on the city website reveals a depressing amount of NIMBYism, and other times it reveals random people requesting new streetlamp bulbs with specific wattage specifications to replace burnt-out ones, which I think is pretty cool.

Also now I've left several more requests for crosswalk and bike route safety improvements. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-17T01:12:02Z

While I'm fangirling over representation in Jacqueline Ramsden's books... I love Polly from Growing Together, who presents in a way that many characters perceive as femme but who is nonbinary and uses she/they pronouns.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-17T03:18:16Z

Hey, I found another one! It's a bit late, but whatever.

Mistletoe and Ivy by Jacqueline Ramsden is an absolutely adorable Christmas romance between an author and a fan who doesn't realize this is her favorite author she's crushing on. It's cutesy and relatively low-drama and one of the main characters teaches elementary school while the other one is a student's aunt. Also lots of family, friends, and an adorable kid all trying to set the main characters up.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-17T03:32:29Z

@itzyg @jepyang @forestine It feels like a real, working, and frustratingly capitalist version of the fantasy concept where all spaces of a particular type are secretly connected by a parallel dimension. Like Pratchett's L-space.

All of the Union Stations are actually manifestations of one single trans-dimensional Union Station and if you know the right trick you can walk into a Union Station in one city and walk out later in a completely different city.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-17T06:31:27Z

@izzy Sometimes, but then other times water will not satisfy the craving and I require electrolytes as well.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-21T06:40:51Z

@Sarah I think pretty much anything by Alyson Greaves or Zoe Storm might be worth checking out? Also Chef's Choice by T.J. Alexander? Make Room for Love by Darcy Liao leans more into the sapphic than the trans side of things, but trans issues and associated personal development are certainly present.

(I'm also writing something with a trans MC, so this is a topic of interest to me as well.)

@taedryn

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-21T06:44:20Z

@taedryn Thank you for posting about this! It sounds fantastic; I just put it on hold at the library.

"about a part of my life I didn't get to live the right way around, and it was nice to kind of live vicariously"

Oof, yes. Well put. That sounds like how I feel about Cheer Up. I'm looking forward to another book in the same category.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-21T07:02:58Z

@meganL I mean, the big obvious one for me is :transgender_flag:. I suspect I'd have reached that realization regardless, but the trans community here really helped it along.

Generally, I've found this to be more of a home and a place to connect with people than anywhere else I've been online, and at a time when I've very much needed it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-21T14:20:27Z

@taedryn Oh! Cheer Up: Love and Pompoms is a graphic novel by Crystal Frasier. Similar CWs to what you listed for Girlmode, but with a bit of homophobia too.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-23T01:45:15Z

@pqqq @jvw I haven't used FediLab much recently, but last I checked on Android it had a "Show boosts" checkbox when I long-press the Home Timeline button (house symbol) at the bottom left.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-23T14:34:52Z

@Athena They did that to me as well. When I called about it, they said it's because the jury lists are made years in advance.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-24T04:25:55Z

@enobacon When in PDX I had some insulated work boots with anti-slip soles for ice and used a beeswax & flax oil mix to keep them water resistant.

I think I found mine on the side of the road so I'm not sure where you get them, but they were steel toe so probably wherever sells work boots. The "work boot" aspect also makes me think they might be available in larger sizes. Mine were probably about a "men's" 9 and the toeboxes were roomy enough for my relatively wide feet.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-25T00:31:17Z

A3. I was hoping for an effect sort of like what you describe when I built this taillight into an old Union dynamo light housing, but wasn't really pleased with the result.

After playing around with some other designs I'm now a proponent of "maximum lit surface area = maximum visibility". My ideal be-seen light, whether on the front or the rear, would be reasonably bright and absolutely enormous.

@ascentale @trouble

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-25T19:57:50Z

@Chloe I've had some success calling a grocery store - works better with smaller/independent stores than big chains, I think - and asking if they can set aside a pile of boxes for me to pick up at the end of the day.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-26T03:15:05Z

@ansate I've really wanted to use it but last I checked it didn't seem great at handling time zones, and almost everything I've organized for the past 5 years has involved at least two time zones. Otherwise it looked pretty neat when I tried it!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-26T06:55:25Z

@enobacon I've seen a lot of renders of bikes that were done by people who knew more about CAD than they did about bicycles. Kind of interesting to learn what happens when someone tries to actually produce one of those... 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-26T18:48:29Z

Is this dress the most practical outfit for carpentry and plumbing? Not really.

Am I wearing it anyway? Probably, yeah.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-26T20:24:17Z

Joke's on me! Wearing an apron over the dress took care of sawdust problems, but it was still too warm out today. Switched to a tank top and skort instead.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-27T05:18:02Z

@izzy "Hey, what's that book on display up there? ...ohhh. Nice."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-27T17:26:58Z

The outfits from yesterday. (selfies with eye contact)

White woman pictured from the waist up in a double-breasted sleeveless black dress with big shiny buttons over a lightweight longsleeve pastel blue/orange/white plaid buttondown. She's also wearing an N95 mask and large cateye sunglasses. Blonde hair is braided forward over her shoulder and tied off with a purple bow a few inches above the end. I've been told the outfit looks "preppy" and "dapper." Background is a white wall with shadows cast by tree branches.White woman pictured from the waist up wearing a rainbow-ish apron (red straps, yellow/green/blue/purple/pink vertical stripes, decorative orange stitching) over a black spaghetti-strap tank top. She's also wearing an N95 mask, large cateye glasses that are partially tinted from sun exposure, and earmuffs over wireless earbuds. Blonde hair is braided forward over her shoulder and tied off with a purple bow a few inches above the end. ackground is a white wall with shadows cast by tree branches.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-27T20:01:39Z

@t54r4n1

My first though: "Ooh, are you getting a good one?"

Upon reading the alt text: "Yes, you are!"

Congratulations and a happy new traffic signal to you!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-27T20:02:42Z

space sci-fi writers 🤝 people who work with traffic signals

measuring time in "cycles"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-28T01:20:32Z

"We have less than a cycle before [the aliens arrive | northbound traffic can make a left turn]."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-28T01:24:55Z

"It'll be another cycle before we [have a clear shot at the comet | can cross the street safely]."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-29T05:57:44Z

@miriamrobern I think I might have actually read this but can't remember which book it was.

The concept is just too hilarious to pass up...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-30T04:34:22Z

@iris I'm laughing at this notion, but also thinking that some people did schedule at least the broad strokes of it pretty intentionally.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-30T05:50:01Z

@ielenia

Investor & entrepreneur visas for Canada look to be very expensive for either you or someone willing to support your business.

It looks like Canada does working holiday visas for USians via an organization called SWAP but they're very popular so it's on a lottery system. Also working holiday will only get you 1-2 years, but I knew people in Australia who were using that as an opportunity to get a foot in the door with employers who would then sponsor a proper residency visa.

There's probably other visa routes, but those are the ones I'm most familiar with off the top of my head.

Caveat: I am not an expert on immigration or Canada; this is just the result of some quick searching based on past research into visa stuff.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-30T06:29:55Z

@izzy Apron with pocket was my answer to that... but mostly I've gone over to bluetooth audio anyway, frustrating though it is.

People talk about tucking a device into a bra or under a (sports) bra strap on their shoulder, but I haven't found it comfortable.

@wizard

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-30T19:49:31Z

Putting a finger on either side of my jaw and turning them counterclockwise to loosen my TMJ.

Because that's definitely how musculoskeletal joints work.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-30T20:01:51Z

@clew Good point. I'll have to try different directions and see what works best. Carefully, though - I wouldn't want the bolts to fall out; I can't imagine it's easy to put back together.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-30T20:23:31Z

@EveOfTheFuture Not a bad idea, but I don't know if I'd like the taste... maybe I'll try some tri-flow, it at least smells like artificial bananas. Or the cutting oil that smells like roast turkey.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-31T06:29:00Z

update - Spent 2 hours on a call with the person who actually knows the docker config I'm trying to work with.

I got back to a functional dev environment, re-learned the workaround for when login is broken, probably figured out why login was broken, fixed a bug, found and fixed a second bug, committed the changes, reviewed what I'll need to do to implement the changes in production, and made some notes that should help for next time.

Now I can finally try to hack that new feature in... sometime after I sleep, and maybe after I incorporate my notes into the README for anyone (e.g. Future April) who has to deal with this nonsense down the line.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-31T19:51:34Z

I picked up Girlmode by Magdalene Visaggio, illustrated by Paulina Ganucheau, from the library last night and promptly read the whole thing.

It's a lovely graphic novel about a trans girl in high school. I will probably read it another time or two before I return it.

Thank you @taedryn for the recommendation! (See her post for CWs and more info.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-31T19:52:06Z

@izzy 👀 Guess I'd better go read that soon...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-31T20:13:46Z
re: Friday goals, food (vegan, no pic)

@EveOfTheFuture @pqqq Inquiring minds want to know!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-31T20:44:06Z

It was a really interesting read for me in part because the main character is straight, and approaching femininity from a perspective that's largely informed by heterosexuality. I came at femininity and transness by way of being on the periphery of more queer feminist culture, and there's stuff that Phoebe has to grapple with that I mostly just bypassed.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-31T20:53:42Z

Somebody built another bike with a tilting sidecar! It's a student project/prototype so I don't really expect it to go into production, but it's still really cool!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-31T20:59:05Z

It's not a sociable tandem, but still very interesting to me...

The main difference between this and the XtraCycle-inspired design I had in mind is that I was planning to use a parallelogram tilt linkage, and they used a swingarm. I think the swingarm is a neat idea, since the cargo area and tilt range won't be in conflict, but it has a couple disadvantages compared to the parallelogram:

  • needs a really beefy tilt pivot because it's the only point of connection (parallelogram linkage has 2-4 points) and it's under a lot of stress
  • a certain amount of tire scrub happens when you tilt

Now I really want to build my version!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-01-31T21:36:04Z

The desire to build an entirely new bike vs. the desire to do maintenance and upgrades on the FrankenForward. Which will win?

(Right now the answer is: Neither, I don't have time!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-01-31T21:50:43Z

@MLE_online 1.5 bikes and some scrap wood

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-01T05:42:42Z

@metaning Oh yeah! Those are nice. Classic tilting tadpole design; seems like a very good cargo capacity.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-01T06:07:25Z

@MLE_online I'm not going to join reddit so I can post it, but I am going to spend way too much time scrolling that subreddit now that I know about it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-01T06:15:05Z

@metaning You could probably build something like that from aluminum, but I think past a certain point it's impractical to pursue weight savings on a cargo bike. 🙃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-01T06:20:01Z

@Athena AshLG

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-02T01:34:59Z

@oddline Yeah... I've picked up a few different elastomerics since posting that. I've only worn the 3M 6000 with the exhale valve for an extended period a few times. It was surprisingly comfy, and someone did compliment me on the bright pink filters - probably because they matched the orange coat I was wearing.

Maybe I should wear that one more often... I could probably make some nice cloth covers for it. It is difficult to make myself heard through it, though.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-02T02:43:10Z

@willaful Currently my "read new releases ASAP list" probably contains Lily Seabrooke, Jacqueline Ramsden (still catching up on their backlog, though), Alison Cochrun, and Darcy Liao.

@romancebooks @romancelandia

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-02T02:47:38Z

@wendypalmer "when you wish Patricia McKillip wrote gay fantasy romance"?!

It's been a while since I've read McKillip, but I might have to check that out sometime.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-02T03:17:27Z

@ireneista If it has pointy ends you could try walking around barefoot. (Might also work if non-pointy, but then you won't have Murphy's law on your side.)

A big magnet if it's ferrous?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-02T06:34:25Z

@astrid I have a 7.8" Onyx Boox. It would probably be too small for your docs, but Onyx does make larger models.

The built-in NeoReader app is pretty good for marking up documents with handwritten and typed notes and adequate for navigation. It can bookmark things and then open up a list of your bookmarks, your highlights & typed annotations (with option to filter by style of highlight), or your handwritten notes.

Flipping between locations gets somewhat inconvenient because it's two taps to open the bookmarks panel and another to select the bookmark you want.

Lately I've been using the koreader app which has more extensive navigation features & gesture support that might make some things easier, but it doesn't support handwritten input.

Not sure if any of that would really work for you, but maybe it's helpful info?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-02T06:50:16Z

@astrid The longest PDF I've got on it at the moment is ~300 pages. It's slower than an epub, but very reasonable. A ~100 page PDF with pages that have grey backgrounds is much slower.

I just pasted a whole bunch of lorem ipsum into a doc and I'm waiting for it to export as PDF, then maybe I can tell you how a ~10k page document handles. LibreOffice is going to need to think about this for a minute. 😆

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-02T07:06:52Z

@astrid NeoReader is again slightly laggier with the 10k page PDF than with an epub, I think, but comfortably handles a sustained rate of one page turn per second. It doesn't seem to render any slower when jumping to locations via progressbar or bookmarks. Something more complicated than plain pages of text might be a little slower, but I think as long as you don't have a ton of images you're probably fine?

I only have a couple of handwritten notes, a few highlights, and a few bookmarks in this doc for testing. I don't think I've encountered issues with large quantities of handwritten notes in documents, but I haven't stress-tested it much. I don't have any particular reason to worry about that, except the Onyx text notes app gets laggy after about 5k words. I don't think I've encountered that issue in the handwritten notes app, so it's probably fine?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-03T20:56:27Z

Sending much gratitude and appreciation to everyone who cws or tags politics posts. My TMJ appreciates it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-03T21:07:02Z

@YouShallNotPass Transition didn't fix me, but it gave me some new tools to work on myself (e.g. emotional range, increased self-awareness) and helped me start developing more tools that are helping (e.g. self-acceptance, boundaries, vulnerability).

Being the person I want to be is still very much a work in progress. Most of that work is tangential to transition, but transition helped make that work possible.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-04T03:10:32Z
re: dorleyposting?

@izzy Ok, but that's kind of long to write on a mug.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-04T03:12:14Z
re: dorleyposting?

@izzy 🤷‍♀️ The text of Dorley is also too long to practically fit on a mug, so clearly that metric doesn't apply to everything.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-04T03:15:38Z
re: dorleyposting?

@izzy Yes, that could be good.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-05T02:22:07Z

@socketwench Now that's a superpower I want for myself.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-05T18:27:31Z

@meganL fediverse.observer/

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-05T21:10:53Z

@bumpus Hey, I used to ride through that intersection all the time!

Had no idea back then how relevant it was to me.

@JoscelynTransient

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-05T23:42:01Z

@MLE_online Oh geez, that's appalling! Very glad you're uninjured, and very sorry about your bike. It looks like it was a good bike.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-06T19:08:45Z

"Drip," says the dishwasher supply hose. "Drip. Drip."

I stare back at it, silently plotting my revenge. I'll replace the whole connector, if that's what it takes.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-07T01:17:59Z

@RomanceReviews Swordheart sequel?!?! Yay!! Very exciting.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-07T15:43:24Z

@jvw Nope, that seems entirely reasonable. I've heard of libraries disabling lending history on the systems they own/control for exactly that reason.

Bonus: The company seems to have bad ethics in general.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-07T22:00:16Z

@amberage I don't know the stapler-shaped ones, but when I was tinkering with a different style of cheap chain stitch machine it kept having issues with the plastic gears slipping, which left the top and bottom parts of the mechanism in the wrong timing.

Are you able to watch it with the fabric out to see if the little hook on the bottom is coming around to snag the thread at the right point?

Other than that, I'm not sure...

Good luck with it! Chain stitchers are pretty neat.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-08T03:26:14Z
mention of fantasy novel gore

@RomanceReviews That universe has such a brilliant premise, and Kingfisher is an amazing writer. I can't handle her more flat-out horror stuff, but I love her fantasy books.

Kingfisher saying, "I am told that there are generally fewer severed heads and rotting corpse golems in fluffy romance," in the acknowledgments of Paladin's Grace is one of my favorite things.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-08T04:03:48Z

I just tried to do a brief guided meditation and wow my focus is all over the place right now. I should probably do some more meditation practice for that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-08T19:25:33Z

@RomanceReviews Hah, yes. It does feel that way sometimes. Or maybe like you have to open the first box with your bare hands to get the screwdriver that you can use to pry open the next box, which has a little crowbar...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-08T19:30:25Z

@RomanceReviews I tried reading The Hollow Places a while back and noped right out of there real quick. Still such good writing, of course, but she just turns the creepiness up to like 18/10 and I really can't do it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T00:09:41Z

@majesty I've heard of temporary boots, but never sewing a sidewall back together! I hope you will report back on the results.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-09T01:01:27Z

One of my very favorite romance writers (Lily Seabrooke) was featured on IHeartSapphFic's patreon page this week and this is quite possibly the most intensely parasocial I have ever been about someone celebrity-ish.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T01:02:54Z

@sam :heart_trans: :sparkling_trans_heart: :heart_trans:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T01:03:52Z

@sam Would you say you might get a little... Surly... about it? 😉

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T01:05:04Z

@sam Yeah, I recognized the design. XD

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T01:19:07Z

@sam Someone in Surly's marketing department should pick this up and pull a Subarus-are-for-lesbians type of ad campaign.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T01:31:48Z

@gin Hence the (lack of the) common saying, "exit through the teal door."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T01:51:56Z

@gin ...is the fire exit the door you usually take when you get bored of a long meeting? 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T05:14:10Z

@miriamrobern I have a pair of jeans like that. I wear them regularly, though, and I also have a specific loose shirt & cargo pants outfit that's been hanging in the closet, unused, for about two years now. I'm starting to worry that I'll have to add a binder to the kit. I should probably try it on sometime soon...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-09T06:23:30Z

I am not loading the latest Seabrooke novel onto my e-reader tonight, because I need to be awake tomorrow.

This is requiring a great deal of restraint.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T06:24:13Z

@evdas This is amazing and I'm so glad it exists and I'm also so disappointed that I don't live in PDX anymore.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T16:53:39Z

@RomanceReviews I haven't! I'll have to add that to the queue...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-09T19:17:39Z

@iliana MUTCD shitposts? Yes please! Somehow I seem to have missed these.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-09T21:29:24Z
re: i didn’t even notice who it’s a commercial for

@Binder Maybe they're advertising anticapitalism?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-10T05:58:00Z

@Karstan Oooh, exciting! I always wanted to make a set of studded tires but never managed to plan far enough in advance of the rare PDX snows when I was up there. I have no idea how many layers of tube to use, but I hope it works for you!

Also: Bike Farm! I used to spend a lot of time there. Glad the place is still going!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-11T22:56:36Z

@salad_bar_breath My current workplace is whichever crosswalk I get assigned to and I have yet to work at a crosswalk with a bathroom. I wouldn't mind someone crying on the street near me, though. And I think it would've been fine in any previous workplace I've had that was equipped with a public bathroom.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-12T00:15:59Z

This afternoon's cycle:
1 Do a thing on the computer.
2 Check fedi.
3 Realize I'm on fedi instead of doing what I mean to be doing.
4 Close computer.
5 Walk around house figuring out what I need to do next.
6 Remember that the next thing I have to do is also on the computer.
7 GoTo 1

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-12T00:38:52Z

@salad_bar_breath Nope! I'd better add "spy on Rayne" to my computer chore to-do list.

(Don't worry, the list is so long I'll never reach the end of it. Also, I am nowhere near that good a hacker.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-12T01:00:31Z

@salad_bar_breath Rayne, I thought you had better InfoSec than that! At the very least you should insist that the eye-bats be delivered via an encrypted channel.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-12T02:41:32Z

@malcircuit "A skill anyone can easily master"

But it also has a lot of room for growth! I listen to guided meditations on doing nothing with some regularity, and there's always more to learn.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-12T06:57:57Z

@izzy Me, reading this list: "Brocade FastIron? Is that some kind of decorative iron-on patch material? I didn't know Izzy did fabric-type crafts... oh, never mind."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-12T07:10:54Z

@izzy Is this from your networking shenanigans?

I don't think I've seen anything quite like that before; closest I'm coming up with is a half-round or half-moon nut. Seems like half-round is used with T-slot extrusions and half-moon is used in furniture assembly.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-12T07:47:00Z

Me: "I'd like to just buckle down and finish writing this story in a week of intense work."

Also me: "Yay! I wrote for 15 minutes tonight!"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-12T07:50:48Z

To be fair, I have plenty else going on at the moment. Also, it's a lot easier to dive into a project like that when I know I can get into the right headspace and stay there without much interruption. Trying to pick up my awareness of plot and voice and pacing only to let it go again after a few paragraphs is very inefficient and somewhat frustrating.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-12T08:02:33Z

@izzy Oh, interesting. I'm pretty sure I can visualize that, and I've never encountered a design quite like it.

I hope you can figure it out! (only partly because I'm curious now 🙃)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-13T15:34:01Z

@SarraceniaWilds That thing is a marvelous disaster!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-13T15:41:49Z

@SarraceniaWilds How rideable would it even be, if all the engineering problems were resolved? Wouldn't the spherical front wheel eliminate any caster effect? That results in significantly different steering dynamics from anything I'm familiar with.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-13T16:49:59Z

@SarraceniaWilds They're metal?!?! That's... really something.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-13T18:37:03Z

@kamikat I have, but thanks for checking! Hmm, but where did my water bottle go? 😄

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-14T23:55:17Z

@Scatterseed @susannah @ai6yr Yep! I routinely ride in heels these days and it's fine, though those wedges would be a little tall for my preference.

I used to know someone who preferred to always ride in chunky heels, since the heel can hook nicely over the back of a platform pedal. I think she must've had smaller feet than I do, because that puts the pedal right under my arch when I want it under the ball of my foot. Come to think of it, neither of those riders is using a foot position that I would find comfortable.

The flip-flops, though, are certainly not cycling footwear I would enjoy!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-15T01:50:08Z

@meganL Er, I just caught the "doesn't take significantly more time to type up" bit on re-read. So perhaps the following isn't terribly helpful; sorry. I hope other folks have better answers; I'm curious!

Following on what others have said, and with the caveat that I'm not involved enough in the sewing world to know the conventions here:

I'm inclined to favor body shape descriptions when talking about pattern fitting (e.g. "designed for a flat chest" or "designed to fit people with breasts").

Masc & femme are terms that I personally am more inclined to associate with style than body shape. I sometimes wore femme-coded clothes when I had neither hips nor breasts. These days I've got some curves, but I sometimes wear masc-coded clothing.

That said, if I were listing patterns for sale I might throw in as many descriptors as possible to optimize for searching, so I could imagine saying that a pants pattern was "labelled Men's" and also "designed for narrow hips" and also "masc cut".

I think I also sometimes refer to garments as "being [cut/designed/tailored] for a stereotypical [masculine/feminine] shape" which I don't love because it relies heavily on binary stereotypes, but at least it acknowledges that.

Also - not that it surprises me, coming from you, but - thank you for the care and consideration you're putting into this!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-15T05:26:37Z

@ai6yr @NilaJones Oh no! That's my route to/from Davis. I don't know if I'd be going that way any time soon, but I don't like having it closed.

It's actually a pretty nice route once it climbs the hill above the highway. You can see paragliders over the hills sometimes, and people riding horses up there. The connections to it are pretty awful, though, especially at the south/Vallejo end. The north end is much more manageable; you can get to the southernmost extension of the Fairfield Linear Park trail without too much trouble.

I really hope they fix it soon; I don't think I like any of the alternate routes. I'm not too hopeful, though. It's taken them forever to fix the mudslide on the path between Petaluma and Novato, and even longer to fix the stretch of SF Bay Trail that is/was out somewhere northeast of Richmond.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-15T05:33:52Z

@ai6yr Yeah, I imagine it's one of those ones that's supposed to be part of a bigger network and they, "haven't finalized the connections at the ends" yet because it would inconvenience drivers, businesses, and wealthy property owners.

So instead it's useless for the majority of cyclists, but car-brained people can point at it and say, "Look, we built you infrastructure and you're not using it. Why should we build you more?" grumble grumble

@NilaJones

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-15T05:36:35Z

@NilaJones @ai6yr @USelaine I have ridden that route and can confirm that it is, in fact, quite scary. 😬

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-16T05:34:52Z

Visited an art supply store today and it seemed like the majority of employees were wearing KN95 masks! It was so nice! I wish I needed more art supplies so I had an excuse to shop there often.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-17T06:42:23Z

@rachel May you have a safe ride through all the storms!

🚲 :heart_trans:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-17T06:48:14Z

I'm finally (finally!) listening to "Well There's Your Problem" and it is the best combination of fascinating, hilarious, and heartwarming.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-17T19:01:34Z

@EveOfTheFuture Yeah, I'm technically watching the videos while paying attention to something else and just glancing over at them occasionally.

I haven't met Devon yet... I guess that's something else to look forward to!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-17T19:25:26Z

@salad_bar_breath Birthday book! Reading is a fantastic thing to do for a birthday.

On a related note: Happy birthday!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-17T19:53:46Z

@wmd (1) Relatable. (2) Editing a post as time-based art? Color me impressed!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-18T00:33:25Z

@wmd ...delirious doesn't sound like a fun state, necessarily? I hope you feel better soon!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-18T01:04:40Z

I just read the introduction to Never Say you Can't Survive by Charlie Jane Anders and I can already tell this book is going to:

1) push me to dramatically improve my writing
2) expand my mind
3) be full of things I want to highlight and revisit later
4) make me cry at least a few (more) times.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-18T05:37:36Z
re: Dysphoria, selfie, help wanted

@paleblueyedot Do you actually want advice? I'm not confident in my reading of request vs. rhetorical here.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-18T05:40:46Z

@rachel It took around a year for me to notice changes in cold tolerance, so I suspect you'll be ok on that front?

I hope the trip is fun!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-18T05:42:17Z

Remembering, as I occasionally do, the time in PDX when it was so cold I had to wear *all* my warm layers to work. Including a wool skirt over my wool pants. Including that coat I really liked that had a distinctly femme cut, nipped in at the waist. Including a scarf that covered nearly all of my face and facial hair.

I think that day, working at the bike valet lot for the OHSU aerial tram, was the first time I attempted to do a fem voice in conversation with other people. I have no idea what I sounded like and I doubt it had the effect I wanted, but I was *really* excited at the notion that people might "mistake" me for a woman.

Just normal slightly-genderfluid-but-basically-a-cis-guy things...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-18T05:51:40Z
wrong, facetious colonialist badness

@Athena It has been much improved by comparison with the crude originals. When thrown properly, instead of returning it will embed itself with one end in the target, while the other extends a small flagpole, thus claiming the target in the name of the empire.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T03:55:13Z

@andymoose Would that be gastric magna-ocularism?

Because it sounds like your eyes were bigger than your stomach.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-19T16:01:48Z

I just extracted a slug from the dog's armpit hair.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-19T18:11:09Z

I have three requirements for a new instance:

- High character count (at least 2k)
- Reasonable rules and moderation
- Better hug emojis

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T18:15:04Z

The common hug emoji with two hands next to a face just doesn't look like a hug to me.

There are many things I appreciate about octodon, but the emoji selection isn't one of them. I guess nowhere's perfect.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T18:31:57Z

@SRLevine Ok, I was uncertain about neuromatch because I'm not sure I want to commit to a co-op governance model right now, but you're starting to win me over. Glitch is nice!

Thanks for the emojos.in link! I thought there was a thing like that but I couldn't remember what.

sunny.garden was already on my list of possibles, but I hadn't considered the other two.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T18:33:51Z

I wasn't really intending to solicit instance recommendations here - mostly I just thought it was kind of amusing in a silly-but-not-really sort of way. That said, I'm not not soliciting instance recs.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T19:01:01Z

@faithisleaping Thank you!

And I'll leave these: ((hug)) ((hug)) ((hug))

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T21:11:06Z

@Jaytee I mean, my quiet alt is on the corteximplant akkoma instance. The emojis are better than many other instances.

I don't think I want main and alt hosted in basically the same place, though. Redundancy!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T21:19:22Z

@Chloe Thanks! It is a half-tempting offer, but last time I tried the *key UX it didn't really suit me. There's a lot I would change about mastodon if I could, but I still parse it better than I do *key.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T22:01:30Z

@t54r4n1 or is it state-running media?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T22:03:07Z

@ielenia Have fun! And watch out for ice!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T22:21:24Z

@SymTrkl @PurpleStephyr I've been using Porkbun for a while and the only issue I've had with them is they don't handle one person having multiple accounts well, especially if they're paid with the same card. Not a problem for most folks, probably, but I want to be able to keep personal registrations separate from registrations I'm doing for e.g. volunteer orgs. They cope ok, but sometimes it requires phoning them to get things sorted out, which I guess speaks well to their customer service.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-19T22:24:44Z

@mir Don't know, I can't remember far enough back to answer that.

I may also be reluctant to consider an answer because of *points at first post in thread*

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-20T05:31:04Z

@mir Yeah, I guess that's kind of what I was thinking?

If I develop an answer then I'd be tempted to answer honestly if a cis person ever asked me, but if a cis person is asking me then I probably want to answer more along the lines of, "I don't know and it shouldn't matter to you because..." so they have to engage with the reason it's most often a bad-faith question in that context instead of feeling like they got their answer and moving on.

I suppose even if I had an answer I could just omit it... but on further consideration I still don't know. I can point to some "there were no signs"-type recollections from my early childhood, but there's few enough that it could easily be confirmation bias. I know there are many things about me that have changed over time and many that have stayed largely the same. I could make a case for gender being in either category, but not a sufficiently compelling one either way. 🤷‍♀️

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-20T05:58:01Z

@mir [Insert the "talking about gender with trans people vs. talking about gender with cis people" meme here.]

Sometimes I think about it in terms of a number of choices: The choice to consider that I might want to transition. The choice to transition. All the different aspects of my personal transition that I have chosen to pursue.

I sometimes feel like I could have made different choices in a lot of those categories and been fine with them. A certain amount of genderfluidity means that the degree to which I feel that varies. I don't know for sure what was right, and a lot of them were leaps of faith that seem, in hindsight, to have worked out well.

Lately I've been thinking that the most important part of transition for me is choosing to trust myself and try doing things that I think I might want. I think it's serving me pretty well so far.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-20T05:59:18Z

Am I due for Emotions Week? Because I've been writing more long, pondering replies than usual the past couple days.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-20T06:00:42Z

The calendar says: Probably Yes.

Maybe I should try to fit in some fiction writing, if I can make time for it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-20T15:31:04Z
re: talking about romance novel & fic sex scenes (not explicit)

@SRLevine 😬

Yeah, that should be CWed, even though it's a relatively new norm in the romance writing world.

I don't read much fic, where there's a stronger CW culture, but published authors who include CWs (in the front of the book, ideally, instead of "check my website for CWs") get automatic bonus points from me.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-20T20:07:31Z

Reminding myself that sometimes, in a first draft, it's best to choose chaos.

This'll keep things interesting, and if it doesn't work I can delete it later.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-20T20:11:58Z

This is only minor chaos right now, but even so.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-20T20:14:27Z

@pqqq 🤣

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-21T00:43:52Z

That was an interesting shift.

The soles fell off my shoes in the middle of the first half. I didn't even notice the first one until I walked past it and thought, "Oh, whose shoe lost a sole?" and then realized it was MY shoe. So I strapped it back on quickly with a bungee cord, and then the other sole fell off. I strapped that one back on and made do until the break, at which point I tied them more securely with material cut from an old inner tube. That got me through the shift and most of the way home.

And if that wasn't enough...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T00:55:02Z
anecdote about a confused cis person unintentionally misgendering me; contains my Deprecated Name

...I then saw one of my middle school music teachers. Shouted after him, caught up with him, and introduced myself as "April Wick, formerly Darin Wick. Um, she/her pronouns now." He looked confused. "I'm [Mom] Wick's kid?" (He and my mom worked together for a while, so he probably knows her better than he knows me.)

He looked baffled, but made friendly noises and seemed like he had to go teach a class so I didn't bother explaining more. But then as we were walking away he said, "Tell Darin I said 'Hi!'"

I just laughed at the weird mix-up, but a minute later he came back and said, "Wait, Darin?"

"It's April now, but yes."

"Oh! I'm sorry, I thought you were your mom. I see parents more often than former students. Hey, good to see you!"

And that was it. I'm still not sure if he understood that I'm trans or even really remembered me much. But he thought I was my mom, so I'll take it.

(Not that I'm terribly recognizable or have a lot of obvious gender markers besides a skirt at work, where I'm wearing an N95 mask, a big hat, sunglasses, and an oversized hi-vis vest, but whatever.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T00:56:30Z

@TicklishHoneyBee Yikes! I've had pants tear like that, but I don't think it happened at work.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T04:19:48Z

Made an account on kind.social and it seems fine but then I read the local timeline and it just felt *wrong*. Not bad, but not what I'm after.

Not that I look at octodon's local timeline basically ever, but I do feel like there's a flavor to this instance that is very different from kind.social. I checked octodon's local timeline for comparison and it's more lowercase and shitpost-y and just generally more varied. Kind just felt a little too tidy and proper, which is perhaps a bit strange coming from me with my capitalization and punctuation and whatnot, but I like the variety here. Kind seemed a little too one-note, for all that it's a reasonably large server. Maybe most people just post unlisted? I don't know.

I'll give it some thought. Might stick with kind, might go somewhere else entirely. I guess I have to check vibes, in addition to rules and emoji offerings and... oh yeah, character limit. Kind is only 500. I guess that's out, then!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T04:21:17Z
re: anecdote about a confused cis person unintentionally misgendering me; contains my Deprecated Name

@paleblueyedot Thanks! I think those shoes are toast - I wore them today in part to decide if I wanted to keep them, and this seems inauspicious - but I came out of it feeling fine.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T04:22:23Z

@izzy Gotta be able to write pseudo-essays without breaking them up into *too* many posts.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T04:36:58Z

✅ Export "following" list as CSV
✅ Open in spreadsheet software
✅ Extract instance domains from usernames with a regex
✅ Tally number of users on each instance using a pivot table
✅ Post about it on fedi
🔲 Investigate various instances from the list that I haven't already considered and choose one to migrate to

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T04:39:19Z

@SRLevine Tried that and it wasn't working for me. Good ol' spreadsheets, on the other hand... we'll see!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T04:40:39Z

@alienghic GTS seems really interesting! I just don't know where to find a GTS instance that I'd like right now. The only one I know is polymaths and they seem pretty good but I want several options to consider.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T05:05:32Z

@alienghic Maybe someday I'll be settled enough again that I can self-host from an old laptop or something. I don't feel like dealing with moderation, blocking, spam, fedi meta, etc. (even just a single user's worth of it) unless I'm getting the benefit of running on my own hardware and probably powering it with a solar panel. Though that does have the downside of also doing my own sysadmin, which I am terrifyingly underqualified for.

Maybe I'll check fediverse.observer next and see if they list any GTS instances that look promising.

Edit: Said fedi.garden, meant fediverse.observer.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T05:11:29Z

sunny.garden has acceptable rules, an adequate character limit (I guess) (1500) and a reasonable-looking local timeline. The hug emoji situation isn't good, though. I'll consider it a backup option.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T05:19:13Z

@alienghic Yeah, I saw that. I do sometimes feel like I'm not quite vocally radical enough in some ways to fit in on octodon. Also timeloop doesn't have a hug emoji I like, which has become more of a serious criterion than I expected.

I'm very pleased that timeloop is continuing octodon's legacy, though! I love the name too; that's brilliant.

@SRLevine @wohali

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T05:31:40Z

@alienghic Ha. I said fedi.garden and meant fediverse.observer, but it's fedidb.org that actually has GTS instances in the database.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T05:42:19Z

@alienghic Thanks! That might have been at least partly imposter syndrome talking. 🙃

@SRLevine @wohali

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T05:48:10Z

@wohali Well, the one I usually consider adequate is the two-blue-people-hugging one, but I just looked it up and learned that it is a standard unicode emoji and I can insert it wherever. 🤦‍♀️ I guess that simplifies things rather a lot!

I think I've seen some others around that I liked but I can't remember them now.

@alienghic @SRLevine

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T23:29:12Z

@izzy The joys of open source software! 🙃

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-21T23:32:29Z

@SymTrkl Trouble! That starts with T and that rhymes with... T... and that stands for... Transit?

Hmm. Maybe I need to work on that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-22T02:14:37Z
regarding covid precautions and differing levels thereof

Me: Hey, [local people], want to have a covid-conscious meetup? I'm thinking outdoors w/ masks, and [more details].

Local person: How about the patio of the cafe & brewpub?

Me: 💀

Me: 😷❗

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-22T02:15:49Z

@moira I think the stoker's crankset is behind the curve of the D, but where's the captain's seat?

In all seriousness, though, this is amazing and I love the design.

@ascentale @genex @bikenite

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-22T02:19:15Z

@moira Yeah, I figured that's what happened, but my first thought on seeing it was, "tandem?!"

@ascentale @genex @bikenite

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-22T02:20:47Z

@moira

🤝 Tandems:
Doing bikey things together!

@ascentale @genex @bikenite

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-22T18:04:51Z

@mir I'm thinking this is the kind of parent who makes all the staff at the school want to hide?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-22T21:15:47Z

The shoes in question, post-repair.

My feet, viewed from the top. I'm wearing a pair of old leather shoes with pseudo-goodyear-welted soles. There are strips of bicycle inner tube wrapped in a crossing pattern around each shoe. 

I'm also wearing pink/purple socks and black leggings. Background is asphalt.
April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-22T21:27:08Z

What makes you feel cared for?

I need to identify my own answers to this, and I'm rather hoping that other peoples' thoughts might give me some starting points for figuring it out.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-22T21:27:29Z

@SRLevine Eep! 😬

@TicklishHoneyBee

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-22T21:30:44Z

@meganL 😆 Well played!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T03:03:59Z

@nix The way I've seen follow rec lists done without tagging in all the recommended people is to leave of the first @ in the username. Of course, that means they have to copy-paste all the usernames into the search field, so it's still not ideal.

If they want maximum convenience and don't want to vet your recommendations I guess you could send a CSV via a non-Mastodon channel that mimics the format for importing/exporting follows and they could import it.

I think the functionality you want might exist on non-Mastodon fedi platforms - I'm pretty sure I've seen it in *Key - but I don't think Mastodon has it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T03:29:40Z

@Karstan :blobheartcat:

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-23T04:12:53Z

A while back I dropped my old double-edge safety razor - a Gillette Travel Tech - and broke off the threaded stud that connects the head to the handle. I've been using a 3-blade razor that at least has replaceable heads and I don't like it because the heads are made of plastic and are more expensive than DE blades, but also I don't seem to be putting small nicks and cuts in my skin any more. I haven't been shaving my limbs much lately, but it was doing a cleaner job of that too.

I'd really like to switch back to the DE razor, but it feels like the wrong thing to do unless I can improve my technique enough to stop damaging my skin and I don't know what I need to do to improve.

Blargh. Advice welcome, I guess?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T04:25:42Z

@Dawn Huh. I might have been getting close to 2 weeks per blade when I broke the razor, after more than a year of laser. They definitely didn't originally last that long.

Hmm. Apart from costing ~$15 on ebay, I just liked the style of the dinky little Travel Tech. Maybe I should try something different, though.

Either way, I suppose I should try changing blades more often. I fall into a scarcity mindset with them too easily, which doesn't make sense when they cost so little and I get them by the hundred.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T04:30:02Z

@moss Good grief, yes!

Though I think I only have two or three at the moment; one of my old profiles got folded into a new one (without my consent 😬 ) during a system changeover.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T04:48:11Z

@Dawn Yeah, I do approximately that same routine... depending on how much of a hurry I'm in.

I might give the Henson a shot. Maybe I can justify the cost since it's about the same as a year-ish of plastic razor heads. Less if I can snag one secondhand.

I had just gotten a new pack of blades when I broke the old razor, too!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T04:52:13Z

@Dawn Ok, I hadn't noticed the trial period deal. That's worth considering.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T07:00:05Z

@SRLevine 😆

You know, I've been wanting to ask you about AO3/fanfic. It is a realm of fiction that I'd like to get into reading and there is Just So Much Of It. Do you have recommendations/advice/thoughts? You seem to know the scene...

I've read a bit of fic in a couple of different fandoms, but never really gotten hooked.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T09:24:22Z
re: long post, very wordy (tldr: it is big and overwhelming)

@SRLevine

"(surprisingly, they always say surprisingly)" 😆

Ah, yeah. A time or two I've found authors I like; I should maybe try checking on their work in other fandoms even though I don't know the source material.

"And you can sometimes watch them evolve over time if you read things written 10 years apart, which is pretty cool." That sounds so neat!

Thank you for the pointers & insight. Every so often I read or watch something, want more of it, and remember that fanfic exists. Then I find a handful of works, read them, and go, "whoops, out of fic, guess I'm done here. 😦." I feel like next time that happens I'll have a better sense of how to maybe use it as a beachhead from which to launch a longer journey into the world of fandoms.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-23T21:16:12Z

@socketwench

✨ Schiiiiing! ✨

saw saw saw saw saw saw

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-24T04:28:51Z

Huh. I'm trying to go back into my current writing project and insert a detail that I need to establish earlier, but I'm having a hard time finding a place to fit it.

On the one hand, it's frustrating that I can't work it in easily. On the other hand, maybe this means the writing is tighter than I thought it was?

Here's hoping!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-24T06:24:43Z

First draft of Part 1 is complete!

Part 1 is basically a standalone short (~7k word) romance that starts with a bicycle crash, but the later parts are where it ought to get interesting.

I originally guessed that it would be around 20k words in total. If, as I currently anticipate, there are 2 more parts of similar length, that means my estimate was spot on!

Current plan is to write part 2, come back and revise part 1, and then maybe I can start posting it somewhere bit by bit. I feel like I could actually pull off serial fiction if I've got enough of a buffer and enough of a plan.

I guess I'll find something else to do for the next few days (ha! As if I'm short on other tasks.) and then re-read it and see if I still think it's half decent. 😁

I'm pretty pleased that I've apparently written this in less than 2 months without going full WriMo on it. I feel like I'm hitting a good balance between "fast enough to not get bored" and "slow enough to produce a first draft that I don't hate too much."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-24T06:28:06Z

Also really pleased with the way one particular scene came together. The friend I was on video-call with got to watch me dancing in my seat when I figured out that I could use a previously-established character trait to (1) create the dramatic tension it needed and (2) resolve it in a really cute and romantic way.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-24T19:32:34Z

@carbonated_estrogen I get those sometimes. They're going to impound my bicycle? Unlikely. Suspend my ham radio license? Eh, I haven't used it in a couple of years.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-24T23:37:01Z

Glad I'm able to mostly do low-thought physical work today, because I have been very much in the mood for binging a cozy romance audiobook that I've read multiple times before, and those two things go together nicely.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-25T19:36:08Z

@mir So... your computer had a gay panic?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-25T20:56:53Z

@Chloe Yep. I think it might be more general style guidance than MLA, even. I should probably find myself a copy of Strunk & White to reference for this sort of thing...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-26T06:26:29Z

Once again wanting to rewrite Haley Cass's On The Same Page but with Gianna being aromantic & allosexual while Riley is really actually straight. (As I do every time I read (or listen to) this book.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T06:27:40Z

Don't get me wrong, I still love the romance. But the missed opportunity for an a-spec and queerplatonic story!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T06:31:11Z

I'm going to have to write more a-spec romance & queerplatonic stuff one of these days. Current project is back to being a pretty allo-coded romance, though, which feels appropriate for something inspired by a joke about slashfic. 😁

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T06:36:56Z

@izzy Yes! Do it!!!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T06:39:45Z

@izzy SAME.

There are just too many interesting things to do! It would be nice if I could focus on one for more than a few days.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T06:41:01Z

@izzy Well, maybe not quite the same because I don't aspire to destroy genres quite the way you do, but still.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T16:17:03Z

@izzy Well, yes! That's why someone has to do it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T20:30:17Z

@pqqq I really should have seen that coming, shouldn't I?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T20:47:24Z

@ames Hello and welcome!

A belated welcome to @thatabortiongal as well!

It's always good to see more friends of
@pqqq.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T21:10:25Z

@pqqq I recognize that the audio quality isn't fantastic but that still sounds SO PRETTY.

heart-ears emoji (A typically yellow smiley-face with two red hearts sticking up from the top of it's head approximately where a pair of cat ears would go.)
April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-26T23:59:40Z

@amin 😬 Guess I'm going to try LibreWolf?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-27T00:11:50Z

*looks at camera* Hello, Mozilla Foundation!

re: polymaths.social/@amin/statuse

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T00:50:04Z

In good news, LibreWolf is working for me so far. The Tab Stash extension works, and when I imported my bookmarks all the stashed tabs came along too!

Had to go into settings to enable autocomplete for usernames and passwords, but it's been pretty painless otherwise. (knock on wood)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T04:04:00Z

@NilaJones I haven't used it much (should probably start) but I just used Stract's "Indieweb & blogroll" optic to find this page on alternative search engines which is probably where I first learned about Stract. That seems to me like a pretty good recommendation for it - it worked when DuckDuckGo wasn't helpful.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T04:20:49Z

@NilaJones Yeah, I later tried searching for my own site. Couldn't find it - presumably it's not indexed - and I don't see any way to submit/suggest sites for indexing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T06:52:54Z

@scroeser That's a very neat trike! Looks like it would be a lot of fun, and a pretty slick design, too!

(I haven't personally dealt with the aging relatives thing but I've been sufficiently adjacent to see how hard it is. I'm sorry you're going through it, and best of luck with it all!)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T15:10:31Z
re: video ec

@izzy 😬 Was the genre like that back when I was reading more of it?

...yeah, probably a good chunk of it was. I think I just managed to read a fair few books that were the exception to the rule.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T15:41:25Z

@rachel I've been using Boox devices for a while and liking them pretty well. Their customer support used to be fantastic but seems like it's gotten more average. I've read that the devices do a lot of communication with Onyx's servers, so privacy is maybe not the best, but I know people sometimes install firewalls to prevent that. They're basically Android tablets, so you've got a lot of flexibility in terms of installing apps (reader apps and whatever else you might want).

I don't read Manga, really, but graphic novels seem to be hit-or-miss on ~8" devices depending on the original page size. About half the time when I try, they're too tiny to read. I do find that 8" is about the largest I can comfortably hold in one hand, so between that and the added cost of the 10" I've stuck to the smaller ones.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T15:45:15Z

@belehaa I've got a little bit here; you're welcome to it: ⚫

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T15:50:32Z

@t54r4n1 Interesting... A pattern that happens over time? Often with repetitive elements?

Maybe not 6yo vocab, but it's the closest I've got right now.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-27T16:38:20Z
self-therapy on main? (ultimately positive)

I'm starting to see how much of my life has been shaped by the assumption that people won't like me or want me around unless I'm useful.

Implications of that include:
1. Assuming that people won't want to talk to or hear from me unless I'm providing useful or entertaining information that they may not already know which is relevant to their interests (there's a few exceptions - people who have convinced me (or, perhaps more accurately, I have convinced myself) that they really actually just want to talk to me)
2. Defining my self worth in terms of what I can accomplish, and feeling devastated when I don't accomplish "enough"
3. Constructing my self-image around competence and capability and then when I don't know or can't do something, forcing myself to choose between (a) acting competent when I'm not, (b) working myself into burnout to compensate, and/or (c) meltdown.

I know it's coming from a whole mix of stuff. Being trans and not knowing it (not letting myself know it) for decades. Probably being some variety of neurodivergent. Stuff in my childhood that wasn't overtly bad or problematic, but I can see now that it contributed to all this and that it goes back at least another generation.

It's a lot to unpack and I bet there's more of it I haven't dug out yet. I only really figured out #1 like a week ago and now I'm actively working to communicate more and it's been good! Hard, but good.

I might have figured some of this stuff out anyway, but for me these realizations have been pretty strongly tied to transition. Realizing that I'm valid in one way (gender) has inspired some realizations that I'm valid in other ways too. I think that's pretty neat!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T16:43:18Z
re: self-therapy on main? (ultimately positive)

The trick now is figuring out how to balance "I don't have to be useful to be valid or worthy" against "there's a lot of stuff that has to be done to ensure the continued survival of myself and people I care about right now, especially given the current state of the world."

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T17:31:09Z
re: self-therapy on main? (ultimately positive)

@pqqq Thank you! The way you've always been clear about that is one of the things that's been helping me work through this. I don't know if I can overstate how much I appreciate it. <3 <3 <3

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T17:31:56Z

@taedryn Huh. I should probably re-read that. I first looked at it at least five years and one gender ago...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T17:46:23Z
re: self-therapy on main? (ultimately positive)

@tati <3 Yes, very true.

re: disclaimer: I don't know if any of us are there? It seems like one of those things that is asymptotic, one of those paths that never ends, and the point is to be on the path.

Also: Is the emergency responders' class as interesting as it sounds? Because that sounds like it would be really neat.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T18:34:34Z

@elana 👀 What company is this?

(Also, I find the "weirdest possible niche" thing very relatable.)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T19:36:50Z

@elana Oh, that is a beautifully weird design! I'm not sure if I actually like it, but it's got some really interesting features.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-02-27T20:58:38Z

Do I know anyone who lives in Portugal and would be willing to be my mailing address for paperwork purposes?

(It's a long shot, I know, but seemed worth a try...)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-27T21:34:19Z

@ielenia 👀 ...why would one need to be particularly concerned with that?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-28T03:01:54Z

@cestfleuve I've definitely seen (and ridden on) some beautifully designed and built cycling infrastructure that is useless to most people because it didn't account for some important detail like connectivity at the ends, or a single awful intersection in the middle.

It's still a weird contrast.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-28T03:28:41Z

@moira Congratulations!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-28T03:33:11Z

@SRLevine 👏 👏 👏

Nice find! (Cramming in too many bungee cords is too relatable. 😬 Good job not cramming another one.)

Just have to manifest the trailer now...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-28T03:42:17Z

@SRLevine Oooh, do you have language/designs in mind for the sign?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-28T03:56:08Z

@mir@ice.ch3.st @mir@app.wafrn.net Following because I don't want to miss out on knitting if you end up doing that.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-28T04:51:04Z

@crosswalk It looks like it has a mid-drive motor?

@elana

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-02-28T04:55:50Z

@crosswalk @elana Yeah, it's consistent with the way recumbent tadpole (two-wheels-in-front) trikes are usually designed. It still looks weird to me on an upright.

I think older upright tadpoles (e.g. old British racing trikes) tend to have a centered handlebar & steer tube and then split out two forks down below for the wheels, but I've seen this fully split layout a few times on modern upright trikes, especially when they're designed to have cargo space in the middle like this one.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-01T17:34:54Z

@ai6yr I've been meaning to make myself a nice wool cape. Maybe for next winter...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-03-01T18:48:00Z

Headline: The Chilling Effects of Estrogenic Hormone Therapy

Article summary: It's 62°F (~17°C) in here but I'm wearing silk pants over leggings and a down coat over a long-sleeve shirt. I used to be so much warmer!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-01T22:36:04Z

@elana If they mean tilting trikes, it's a thing but a rare one in the anglosphere, mostly in the purview of DIY bike builders. Got examples? 👀

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-01T22:45:56Z

@elana ...they don't look like tilting trikes, I don't think? They certainly aren't advertising that kind of feature in the photos. I don't know what else one would describe that way, though. Baffling!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-02T01:07:34Z

@elana What?! That's amazing! I am going to have to find videos later. So fascinating! Thank you!

I love tilting trikes and have built several of my own because they're so hard to get commercially in the US, and I think only slightly easier to find in Europe.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-03-02T02:55:33Z

I saw a treadle sewing machine out on the curb in a free pile today and I am *so* disappointed that I didn't pick it up. It was branded "Bluebird" and had a mechanical forward-reverse switch, which seems like a really lovely feature.

The drive belt was missing and the machine head was jammed. I'm not sure if it needed cleaning or a timing adjustment.

I don't have the time to fix it right now and wouldn't be able to keep it long anyway. Still disappointed, though. I hope it finds a good home with someone else who loves and appreciates it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-03-02T04:55:27Z

I put on a Haley Cass audiobook so I would do the dishes instead of scrolling fedi and it is breaking my heart in the best way.

Also, the dishes have been getting done.

10/10 would recommend.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-02T04:56:12Z

(I seem to be having yet another Cass phase right now. My last big Cass binge was in September, so I guess I'll be due again around Aug/Sept of this year?)

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-02T04:59:55Z

Cass isn't even that fantastic of a writer - she's good, but not amazing. Her books just seem to resonate with me. Tuned to the correct frequency of yearning or something.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-02T05:07:18Z

I should probably examine that tendency in myself at some point, because I think part of what appeals to me about Cass's work is that it's often close to a "one true love" or "soulmates" narrative. I'm leering of how much I feel drawn to it.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-02T05:08:11Z

Ok, romance-novel-posting has turned into more self-therapy on main. I think that means it's time for more dishes!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-02T05:49:34Z

@socketwench Ugh, yes.

Every few months lately I find myself sorting through my projects and paring them down into a smaller container. The only things I still have a fair bit of supplies for are sewing, bikes, and general household maintenance. Those categories are going to get the axe soon too.

It breaks my heart a little to let them go when each one represents a dream or an inspiration or a plan. I keep reassuring myself that there are always more projects out there, and I would never have finished all the ones I had in mind. This culling makes room for more new ideas in the future... I hope.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-03-04T04:47:20Z

Has anyone ever written a double Cyrano? That is to say, a romance novel in which two characters *both* have friends helping them court each other and it turns into a terribly complicated love quadrangle?

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-04T05:03:39Z

@suzisteffen Ha! I'm not putting it on my todo list right now. Not sure where I'd go with it, even. Maybe I'll let it percolate and see if it develops into something.

I'm just reading something right now where it seems like the Cyrano has a crush on the Christian instead of the Roxane, and something is making me think the Roxane might have their own Cyrano. It just seems like a fun notion.

You could end up with Cyrano1/Cyrano2 and Christian/Roxane, or Cyrano1/Christian and Cyrano2/Roxane, or a polycule, or a tragedy...

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-04T18:06:56Z
re: Mh-

@wmd 🫂

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-04T19:34:14Z

@Emmacox Too relatable.

But also, I just read Never Say You Can't Survive by Charlie Jane Anders and this really struck me: "Visualizing a happier, more just world is a direct assault on the forces that are trying to break your heart. As Le Guin says elsewhere, the most powerful thing you can do is imagine how things could be different ... What if?"

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-05T02:45:55Z
re: food, going "Izzy mode"

@pqqq How tidy! I also prefer shoveling popcorn but don't usually bother with a utensil.

@t54r4n1

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-05T02:47:21Z
re: food, going "Izzy mode"

@pqqq @t54r4n1 Oh right, I've never yet tried liveposting; I can see why that would be an issue.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-05T02:48:31Z

@pqqq I have yet to see you look otherwise!

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-05T16:01:35Z

@lesbianhairwitch Fixes issues with "sleep" functionality on some hardware

April Wick
@kg6gfq
2025-03-05T20:28:22Z

I continue to occasionally misread "fiber" (internet) as "fiber" (crafts) which makes some posts on here extra-bonus amusing.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-05T20:29:23Z

@EveOfTheFuture Oh yeah, they need to write better docs for the Deb/Ian setting.

@Willow

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-05T20:31:29Z

@Willow I read too many romance novels and my masculinity got revoked.

April Wick
@kg6gfq
⬆️ 2025-03-05T20:32:54Z

@Willow I tripped and somehow sloshed my gender fluid around into a new configuration. 🤷‍♀️